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Wanita Melayu Dikecam Nitizen, Kahwin Ikut Adat Barat

20-8-2015 11:39 AM| Diterbitkan: CARI-HBZ| Dilihat: 86807| Komen: 344

Description: Beberapa keping gambar resepsi perkahwinan seorang gadis Melayu bernama Haida Yusof yang berkahwin mengikut adat barat mula menjadi viral di laman sosial.

Oleh : Dean BZ

Beberapa keping gambar resepsi perkahwinan seorang gadis Melayu bernama Haida Yusof yang berkahwin mengikut adat barat mula menjadi viral di laman sosial.

Gambar perkahwinan yang di muat naik di laman Instagram miliknya itu mendapat perhatian ramai khususnya masyarakat Melayu yang mempersoalkan tentang acara majlis itu.

Majlis itu dikatakan tidak mengikut adat-adat orang Melayu yang mana penuh dengan adab sopan, sebaliknya mengikut budaya barat seperti bercium dikhalayak ramai selepas upacara memotong kek.Tidak kurang juga yang memberi komen bahawa upacara perkahwinan ini jauh bertentangan dengan ajaran agama Islam.


Sumber foto : tambahkejuu.blogspot.com

Sumber foto : tambahkejuu.blogspot.com


Berikutan banyak kritikan diterima, Haida Yusof tersentap dan mula meluahkan perasaan di Instagramnya :

LUAHAN HATI HAIDA YUSOF MENERUSI AKAUN INSTAGRAM BELIAU:-

"Sorry @tia_hash ini hidup saya and awak tak berhak nk advice saya. Awak tak kenal saya, tak berhak nak kata apa2 tentang keislaman saya. Lain cerita kalau awak sendiri faham who am I, mungkin itu ada sense to advice but even then, its not nice to sibuk dengan hal saya. Saya sayang tuhan saya sendiri and budaya melayu tak ada kaitan dengan lifestyle Islam. Cuba kaji apa orang Islam lain di luar negara buat dan buka minda ☺ saya ni tak la baik sangat to tak bermakna awak pun sama. Kita semua sama je, jadi kalau awak nak follow saya semata2 nak join in the fitnah group, saya advice untuk leave sbb buat tmbah dosa saja. Jangan buat assumptions kalau tak tahu apa2. But saya respect yout opinion, and I shall keep mine. Any insults will be deleted. Please spread the love

Menurut sumber, Haida Yusof merupakan seorang editor majalah dan juga seorang model. - CARI Infonet.


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Quote pearl.silver 19-8-2015 10:09 PM
Siapa beliau ni ye..
Quote MissNigga 19-8-2015 10:09 PM





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Quote MissNigga 19-8-2015 10:10 PM
LUAHAN HATI HAIDA YUSOF MENERUSI AKAUN INSTAGRAM BELIAU:-


"So I got back to my hotel room to hoards of hate mails and 'kepoh' comments from people who think they have a clue about what my life is all about. People ask me if I am malay, (pakistan/chinese/indian to be exact) Because that automatically means Islam is budaya Melayu only. First of all, Melayu tak wujud-bangsa tak wujud. (Yang fail sejarah tu please baca balik tgk mana the roots of 'Melayu') Islam never teaches us to differentiate your saudara from skin color, status, blood, etc. Secondly, I had two ceremonies, one to honor my culture, one his. For my muslim ceremony, he honored my culture and rites, so why cant I, too? Islam tak haramkan tolerance with other religion and culture asalkan tk bercanggah dengan Islam. That is NOT a priest officiating us (this is hillarious) he did it out of symbolic cultural references which I found no harm done (its my way of respecting & honoring my inlaws). There was only love and unity in that ceremony ❤️ . Intercultural marriage is one of the most encouraged things to do in Islam, and we compromised to fit both cultural demands and I find that absolutely beautiful. what is wrong on embracing cultures? You Malays do many things that are haram in Islam but tutup sebelah mata; bersanding, tepung tawar, hantaran mahal2, cukur kening, fitnah, bukak aib orang tu tak haram? People say if u have nothing nice to say than shut up, you do not live in my shoes and you have no right to play God in my case and you go about worrying abt your own live. I swear extreme mentality like this is the cause for the downfall of this nation. Calm your tits down, Malays and start being kind to your neighbours and stop being overanalytical creeps. Islam tu indah and senang, I married a mualaf and he isnt perfect, neither do I and all of you Got time summore to put my pics in collage ��. Be kind to your neighbours and love all and learn and embrace the good. ❤️���� here's to a better, accomodating Malaysia.
P/s: leave your goodie-goodie abusive comments out the door, nak tnya can ask elok2, where's your manners, buat malu mak bapak je."
Quote MissNigga 19-8-2015 10:11 PM

LUAHAN HATI HAIDA YUSOF MENERUSI AKAUN INSTAGRAM BELIAU:-

"Sorry @tia_hash ini hidup saya and awak tak berhak nk advice saya. Awak tak kenal saya, tak berhak nak kata apa2 tentang keislaman saya. Lain cerita kalau awak sendiri faham who am I, mungkin itu ada sense to advice but even then, its not nice to sibuk dengan hal saya. Saya sayang tuhan saya sendiri and budaya melayu tak ada kaitan dengan lifestyle Islam. Cuba kaji apa orang Islam lain di luar negara buat dan buka minda ☺️ saya ni tak la baik sangat to tak bermakna awak pun sama. Kita semua sama je, jadi kalau awak nak follow saya semata2 nak join in the fitnah group, saya advice untuk leave sbb buat tmbah dosa saja. Jangan buat assumptions kalau tak tahu apa2. But saya respect yout opinion, and I shall keep mine. Any insults will be deleted. Please spread the love ��
haidayusofSemua pengecut, comment guna fake accounts and siap bagi ceramah panjang pasal agama. Takbur betul. @adamizz96 hohoho "" KREDIT HAIDA YUSOF
Quote MissNigga 19-8-2015 10:14 PM
Ni dia Haida Yusof, seorang editor majalah dan juga seorang model. Apa apa pun, semoga ALLAH beri hidayah pada dia dan suami. Aamiin



Quote batmana 19-8-2015 10:14 PM
takde isu pun,
sendiri kecoh kn nk viral ka?
konfuse gua.
Quote slavehunter 19-8-2015 10:15 PM
Aku pun dulu ada kawan melayu islam yang kawin camni......im not judging her. Kubur lain2. Yang penting aku jaga akhlak aku and iman aku. Kbai....
Quote Mary_jane 19-8-2015 10:16 PM
Konsep kubur masing2 ka cik kak?
Quote AbukRokok 19-8-2015 10:17 PM
bosanlah ikut adat melayu
kne jemput beratus ratus org
habis beribu ribu

ikut adat org jemput berpuluh puluh je
belanja pun murah
Quote shamsadis 19-8-2015 10:17 PM
dah kahwin jangan balik Malaysia duduk la kat luar sana
Quote dubuk 19-8-2015 10:19 PM
cantik manis rupa paras
Quote MissNigga 19-8-2015 10:19 PM

Quote krustykrab 19-8-2015 10:20 PM
Aku rasa ramai je yg kawin dgn mat salleh buat ceremonies mcm ni...cuma tak di viralkn je oleh penggosip2 maybe sbb diorg x tau...
Sedihkn...buat bersanding pelamin bagai ikut adat hindu ok pulak...bila nampak je yg  adat lain sikit dr budaya nenek moyang kita trus tersentak
Quote enchikfitz 19-8-2015 10:21 PM
As usual, Melayu perasan urban dpt kawen mat saleh dan frasa "Don't Judge Me' .  So, how should we judge you?
Quote naina 19-8-2015 10:24 PM
Cantik orgnya..igt mcm mix India ke
Rupanya pure melayu
Quote white_musk 19-8-2015 10:24 PM
tahniah dik haida...
Quote naina 19-8-2015 10:31 PM
Apsal tgk laki dia mcm selekeh he
Xmcm kokushen.lain smart asben2 retis
Quote #h$=== 19-8-2015 10:34 PM
naina replied at 19-8-2015 10:24 PM
Cantik orgnya..igt mcm mix India ke
Rupanya pure melayu

Pure non malay la. Keturunan pakistan, cina,india
Quote dani-rox 19-8-2015 10:35 PM

konfiden jah kata stag party tu amalan kristian. sama la dgn baby shower... semua tu budaya barat, takda kaitan dgn agama.

tak menahan dialog dlm hati tu; mcm tau2 niat dan isi hati org. hahaha

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