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Post time 7-6-2009 07:46 PM | Show all posts

Balas #657 Eisya\ catat

sejak sy posted aritu sy prektis hari2 pakai eyeliner....menjadi! klu nak seribu daya kan..tp my hb lgsg x puji atau tegur atau komen pape.....hero cilik i je yg kata, "mata mama cekci laaaa...."

bab badan naik sbb percampuran hormon tu penah dgr jugak....kan ada artikel yg menyatakan seks boleh menghilangkan stress kan..so bila dh tak stress hati gembira je badan pon naik la....
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 Author| Post time 7-6-2009 10:06 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by 220796 at 7-6-2009 19:46
sejak sy posted aritu sy prektis hari2 pakai eyeliner....menjadi! klu nak seribu daya kan..tp my hb lgsg x puji atau tegur atau komen pape.....hero cilik i je yg kata, "mata mama cekci laaaa...." ...


  wahhh bagus...apa yang kita nak...apa yang kita impikan sebenarnya ada kat tangan kita sendiri...antara nak ngan tak nak je...

Ala sebenarnya hubby u tu rasa tergugat la...

Alhamdullilah berat badan eisya makin lama makin turun...semalam g shopping baju kerja...saiz 'S' dah muat...tapi ambik lah saiz 'M'...sukee sangat tau ...selamat tinggal saiz 'L' n 'XL'...

Eisya sekarang ambik nasi 1 kali je seminggu...tambah makan DR DIET, produk Elken
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Post time 8-6-2009 12:15 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Eisya at 7-6-2009 22:06


  wahhh bagus...apa yang kita nak...apa yang kita impikan sebenarnya ada kat tangan kita sendiri...antara nak ngan tak nak je...

Ala sebenarnya hubby u tu rasa tergugat la...
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seronok dengar cerita org....bila berat badan mudah ajer turun,
hani ni kekadang nak turunkan sekilo seminggu pun payah,minggu ni turun sekilo, minggu depan naik 2 kilo....
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Post time 8-6-2009 01:56 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Eisya at 7-6-2009 15:05


hi...kalau nak slim n cantik...rajin2 la jenguk blog eisya ye...Insya Allah nanti eisya bagi banyak panduan lagi kat situ...

www.lestary-chinta-studio.blogspot.com


noted..dh pergi jenguk
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Post time 8-6-2009 02:00 PM | Show all posts

Balas #662 Eisya\ catat

wah...tahniah.....
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Post time 9-6-2009 10:22 AM | Show all posts
eh baru prasan ade topic nih..cam best jek...nk khatam blakang dulu laaa
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Post time 9-6-2009 10:46 AM | Show all posts
lepas aku kahwin...

aku overhaul baju2 tido aku..dan baju2 dalam.....buang le underwear2 yg dah se gaya Tarzan....tukar kan dgn something yg lebih...seksi ...baju tido pun tukar...baju2 santai kat umah pun...kemaskini..

start mekap...

jaga badan....
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Post time 9-6-2009 11:31 AM | Show all posts

Balas #667 ladsyoul\ catat

ok arr tuh.....semangat tu kena berterusan...nanti ada anak...pun kena maintain kan jugak...

tapi laa ni ..kekdg para suami ni....isteri melawa dia cam buat tak hairan ajer...lepas kawin jadi berat mulut nak memuji isteri...belum kawin bukan main lagi....
bukan si isteri tak menjaga badan dan muka tapi sekeling suasana banyak mempengaruhi kehidupan selepas berumah tangga ni...

pernah terbaca mingguan wanita....katanya " tetap hangat dan teruskan berhias walaupun suami  tak peduli"
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Post time 9-6-2009 04:53 PM | Show all posts

Balas #668 hani2103\ catat

setuju sgt bab lepas kwen suami berat mulut utk memuji tu....don't know why....sblm kwen pakai apepon dia puji lawa, cantik, sweet, comel. seksi dll....dah kwen lgsg xde bunyi mulutnye...bila ditnye jawapannye cuma "ok".....papepon jgn patah semangat...teruskan perjuangan tuk jaga kecantikan luaran & dalaman.

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Post time 10-6-2009 11:53 AM | Show all posts

Balas #669 220796\ catat

betul tu. Buat je. Kita kan pompuan ..suka berhias .....tapi kengkadang...lama2...laki aku...kena se-das jugak sbb buat dek...

but maybe...it's a sign, petanda yg...kita dah mcm 'biasa'...

pendapat aku..org2 laki suka perubahan....tu yg aku takut buka 'cawangan2' tu ...
so...

kita buat lah apa2 yg patut....

mcm...kalau dulu montel....kita berusahalah jadi selim sikit...barulah dgr..

'waaaaaaaaaaaaa...lamanya tak tgk bibi pakai baju tu.....bibi dah kurus'..

...kalau dulu tak pakai mekap....berusahalah pakai mekap....
nanti terdengar lah...kata2 hikmah

'waaa....lawanya mata bibi dlm gambar ni....' (ni betul2 terjadi kat kita minggu lepas ya'...sejak berjinak2 dan invest dlm produk2 mekap ni)..terus..

..lalu gambar tu....dia buat wallpaper henpon dia ...

kalau amik jamu....rajin2lah makan...nanti terdengarlah dia kata...

'..bibi...jgn lupa makan jamu yaaaaa....(dgn sengih yg sinis)...'

men will always be quiet. they will say things yang KITA NAK dengar...but men WILL talk when they see changes yg obvious. Lepas berumahtangga...'self maintenance' kena naik 2-3 level aaa kalau nak dgr dia buka mulut...

Perubahan diri (mental/physical) kita penting..penting tuk masa depan...dan jugak..win-win untuk kedua belah pihak.

remember ladies....there are no ugly women, only lazy ones (quote dr Helen Ruebenstein)
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Post time 10-6-2009 12:52 PM | Show all posts
satu lagi ...

men ni..kadang..kena 'gertak' mind dia...

kita ada beli set bra dgn panties dr marks & spencer...yg dr range Ceriso...ada rasa mcm Pussycat doll la kalau pakai...nampak mcm fesyen 'cabaret' tp...amatlah classy dan tak 'terang mcm murah semacam'....

kita pakai pi opis...bila pakai pg tadi...mata dia tak putus2 tengok..pas tu...dia tanya..

'napa pakai  pi opis?...'

kita..'napa...?'

dia ckp dgn serius '...pakai la malam kang....'

kita..'ok..but let me wear it now..dlm baju ...dan hanya you sorang je akan tau apa i pakai dlm baju ni... it makes me feel sexy anyway'...

...dia dtg kat kita...rapatkan butang baju kita dgn betul...'..jgn bg org nampak...pi butangkan baju kita sampai ke leher )' dgn senyuman

..i know....this image will play in his head the whole day ...



SCORE!!!! 1-0 ))....

it's like...why do men marry 4?...because they like variety. Hakikat yg sebenar ...so..it's up to us to do some 'role-playing' and show them....HEY...I can do what she can tauuuu....
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Post time 10-6-2009 01:29 PM | Show all posts

Balas #671 ladsyoul\ catat

betul la hb susah nak puji directly mgkin sbb kite dah jadi 'biasa' di pandangan dia even kite buat or pakai yg agak luar biasa.

mmg sejak awal taun lepas sy byk beli baju jenis kain chiffon jarang. so kene pakai inner lengan pjg kat dlm....sbb xmau nmpk tgn sbb pakai tudung even ada org selamba je....sblm ni mmg x beli baju jarang2....pg2 bersiap nak gi ofis pakai inner dulu. baju kain chiffon tu gantung dlm almari. pakai skirt or pants dgn inner tu je. dah siapkan anak, mekap & smua yg lain baru pakai baju & tudung. mmg my hb x penah puji.

then tetiba balik kg dia sound direct bila sy pakai inner tu kat dlm umah kat depan adik2 & mak ayah sy ckp skrg ni sy dh seksi...pakai baju tu je gi keje....apa lg sy gelak ngekek2...igt dia tak kisah. rupenye dia pandang even tak tgk. sy pon ckp dia kuar umah sblm sy so dia x nmpk ape yg sy pakai sepenuhnye....sy pakai inner tu bila pakai baju jarang je....

pstu klu pakai skirt dia ckup pantang klu tak pakai girdle sbb nnti nmpk line panties katanya. fikir2 balik benarnye mmg dorg peratikan ape yg wife pakai cuma berat mulut tuk memuji....

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Post time 10-6-2009 02:16 PM | Show all posts

Balas #672 220796\ catat

yup...memang dia perati...they just tak paham yang kita ni pompuan...suka dengar puji2 nih..sikit pun takpa ..pada kita..benda2 ni kata dorongan tuk diri kita sniri...

we just have to remind them....'..ingatkan tak suka..sbb diam je...'

bila nampak 'terlebih quota mata' dia....mula ia bersuara...

kalau nak dgr mulut dia berkata2....kita kenalah 'main' dgn fikiran dia ...provoke sikit je...mcm mana Conquere buat...

reverse-psycho is one way to get him to compliment you...

'...handsome la 'yang pakai tie tu....meh...i bagi nampak seri lagi...*muah*...' kasi cium sedas ...haaaa....jgn sound2 atau perli ...kita kena...'tanamkan sifat puji-muji' sbb men are just like that....amalkan selalu...nanti you akan dgr compliment2 yg rasa macam bonus dr dia

tip2 lagi...
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Marriage Advice from a Donkey & His Wife
Author: Cory H.

2 May

This is the fourth post in a series of guest posts from different female bloggers around the net. The ideas for these posts sprang from the question, 揥hat do wives wish good husbands knew?擳he Donkey (he抯 a bit clueless) and The Wife (she抯 pretty patient) share funny stories from their marriage at WifeAdvice.com

He Said

Can a husband ever be too busy to compliment his wife? I like to hope so since I am terrible at complimenting my wife, but the fact is no one is that busy. Women need and love to be complimented. It抯 a simple truth that wives need encouragement and praise because they have one of the hardest jobs: dealing with us husbands. Wives are sweet people by nature and need to be nurtured by their husbands. They look to their husbands for that support and thrive on that special complimenting whisper from the ones they love the most. So what can husbands like us do? What do our wives need? Allow me to shed some light on the situation.

Getting out of the compliment-less frame of mind

For those of you who just can抰 seem to turn the compliment corner, I have a solution: make it a habit. Some husbands may have forgotten how to compliment their wives while others may have never regularly complimented them. If you fall within these categories, then you will benefit from a compliment checklist. Simply create a checklist that will be easy to access (paper based or electronic). Start out with a goal to make 2-3 compliments per day. Don抰 get crazy and make a goal for 10 right off the bat. You want to be slick about this, not overtly obvious that you are forcing the compliments. After several days of success, you can turn it up a notch and go for 3-5 complimentary statements. Experts claim that habits take 2 weeks to form, so you should begin to see some automatic behavior by day 7. After 2 weeks you can throw your reminder cards away and enjoy a natural approach to complimenting your wife.

If you are really clueless you can use some of my favorite compliments. I have provided some starter compliments and some expert ones once you get the hang of it. Again, you don抰 want to be too obvious in the beginning

Starter Compliments:

    * The house looks great today. Maybe tomorrow you can make it two in a row.
    * It抯 been great to have you in such a good mood recently. I haven抰 heard any yelling all day.
    * I never knew you could cook?? What a delicious dinner!
    * What a nice dress! I can抰 believe you can fit into that again.

Expert Compliments:

    * You looked so nice when I left this morning that I couldn抰 wait to see you again after work.
    * I appreciate the time and effort you put into raising our children. The work you do will influence generations to come.
    * How did I get so lucky to marry such a great woman?
    * Why should we ever go out to eat when you make great food like this?

She Said

Wow. I抦 so excited for my husband to start complimenting me now! It抯 true, we love and need compliments. I think it抯 even broader than that, though; it may be a bit more accurate to say that we want positive feedback. Instead of just being complimented, I love any kind of good feedback that I can get from my husband.
Examples of positive feedback:

    * Compliments: See The Donkey抯 list above, or come up with your own
    * Validation: Listen to your wife抯 concerns and feelings and show that you understand
    * Encouragement: Let your wife know that you believe in her, and encourage her in areas where she may be unsure.
    * Affection: A quick pat on the knee, a kiss on the cheek, or a hug are great ways to give your wife positive feedback.

Sometimes husbands aren抰 perfect at doing this type of stuff. My husband couldn抰 understand why I didn抰 take it as a compliment when he rated my looks a 6 out of 10 (while we were on our honeymoon!). So you may need to be a bit patient with them, and model some positive feedback yourself. But, if I can love a donkey, anyone can.
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Post time 10-6-2009 02:20 PM | Show all posts
kata2 dorongan ni...are just one of those factor yg boleh mencantikkan kita lagi dr segi mental dan fizikal lepas kahwin....because it makes both of Us happy..and the happier you are....naik lah seri rumahtangga

remember....it's not just about Make-up....slim-melim....baju kaftan...lingerie.....jamu etc....

COMMUNICATION will always be #1...and BE CREATIVE about it.
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Post time 10-6-2009 03:42 PM | Show all posts
nk tanya je ni
baru pandai pakai korset ngan girdle yg wat kita menegak dan bub menonjol tu
betul ke x elok?
dh pakai ni rasa sedap je plak
esp tang bub yg cam push up tu
tapi kan
bila bokak semua
dia jatoh balek arrr
mmg cemtu ke?
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Post time 10-6-2009 03:43 PM | Show all posts
ke sbb still baru lagik pakai
lama2 ok kot
supplement mkn pon leh tahan menggebus n memontox
share ye
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Post time 10-6-2009 04:15 PM | Show all posts
hai....letihnya nak khatam thread ni..tapi untuk kebaikan..khatam juga....
actually saya tgh ngandung anak kedua...berat 85kg...insyaallah akan deliver baby awal bulan 11 ni...
anak pertama lahir czer...so pepaham le..perut mesti menggeleber...
so bila dah deliver anak kedua ni..mmg azam nak jaga betul2 luar n dalam....
any advise?
1. kalau anak kedua ni lahir czer jugak....girdle n corset boleh pakai masa bila?
2. set bersalin aper yang bagus n memudahkan untuk ke toilet...(waktu 1sr baby ambik sendayu     
    tinggi) masyaAllag punyala susah nak membuang...n susu kering..sian baby
3. ingat nak ambik jamu maajun bonda dari kak lana...boleh ke campur dgn set bersalin yang lain

tolong yee kwn2 yang ada kat sini...pandangan dan cadangan dari semua amat diharap...dan dihargai...

saya ni takla tinggi sgt..dlm 153cm..berat anak dara dalam 75 so mmg tembam la kan....
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Post time 10-6-2009 04:18 PM | Show all posts
untuk muka..saya guna produk natasya..setakat ni alhamdulillah..pores pun semakin mengecil..n muka makin cerah..itula hrp2 leh deliver secara normal kali ni...boleh pakai bengkung or corset....kali ni nak jaga betul2...rasa bersemangat bila baca forum ni....
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Post time 10-6-2009 04:33 PM | Show all posts

Balas #675 immi\ catat

ye ke tak elok? brand ape tu? ada teknology nano, infra red bagai ke? mmg sedap pakai girdle & korset lebih2 lg klu duk dlm ekon....sedap je rase badan....bukan org berisi je pakai. sy yg sais XS dgn ukuran pinggang 24" pon kdg2 pakai tp had jenama cosway. xde sebarang formula tambahan selain dari material dia yg selesa....mmg mula2 bila bukak dia back to normal. klu rajin pakai hari2 lama2 nnti badan jadi firm....

[ Last edited by  220796 at 10-6-2009 22:02 ]
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 Author| Post time 10-6-2009 08:33 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by hani2103 at 9-6-2009 11:31
ok arr tuh.....semangat tu kena berterusan...nanti ada anak...pun kena maintain kan jugak...

tapi laa ni ..kekdg para suami ni....isteri melawa dia cam buat tak hairan ajer...lepas kawin jadi  ...


mmm setuju...tapi tetap jugak nak melawa...sebab dalam hati sapa yang tak suka bini cantik di mata kan...maklum la kaum lelaki suka yang indah2 je...hehehehehe
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