Suicide? - what do you think?

raeshad

it's not a good thing to commit. yes. but it's also humane to have emotions. sometimes we feel like this. because of problems maybe. sometimes it's just there.

rae buat poll ni bukanler untuk menggalakkan yer. maybe boleh kalau ader sesetengah orang yang 'pernah' rasa cam nih leh bg some info or 'counselling' you might say, how to fight it.

since rae yang buat poll nih, i'll admit to the vote above. lemme be the first.

WHO - "Globally, suicide takes more lives than MURDER and WAR COMBINED!"

p/s: rae dah search and check - takder lg topics/poll like this before. tapi, kalau mod rase tak sesuai, delete jerla.....sbb it's a bit sensitive right?

sayang_mulut

very good poll....

iscol_klang

commit suicide tak bestla...penat2 mak kite lahirkan kite, senang2 je nak bunuh diri...punyela banyak benda best kat muka bumi ni Allah cipta utk manusia, nak bunuh diri gak ke...
seteruk mane pun penderitaan hidup, tu bukanla justification utk bunuh diri...
life is great...jgn sia2kan...

raeshad

wa....tenkiu very much mod!!! [both for the credit, and for not deleting it

i mean, this is the personal problem nyer bod kan? certainly, there are some ppl out there that have thought about this, but thought otherwise. yes, a good thing.

tapi, ade sesetengah tu, tak dpt support yang derang patut dapat.....

bukannyer nk kata this poll is a support thingy, but just tgk, baper ramai yang raser 'personal problem' derang ni sampai ke tahap camnih......

raeshad

he he....suicide tak best ek?

statistics show that - death toll from suicide amounts to almost 1 million per year! staggering aint it?

Allah decreed -

...nor kill (or destroy) yourselves, for GOD hath been to you the MOST MERCIFUL"
[4,29]

w'pun ader ayat camnih, itu tak menghalang Muslims themselves from committing it.

hmm....rae teringat plak kat citer John Constantine, he's supposed to go to HELL even though he risked his life to send back all the evil half-breed to hell, BECAUSE he committed suicide. that just show how BAD and heavy is the consequences of suicide even in Christianity.

raeshad

[quote]

From: Vunderworld:Online community for asians abroad....

http://www.vunderworld.com/index ... id=14&Itemid=59

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Natalie

biasa orang nak commit suicide ni adalah orang yang tak sanggup hadapi masalah

pernah terbaca dialog ni sumwer, lebih kurang gini "kalau kau sanggup hadapi kematian (iaitu suicide) then kenapa kau tak sanggup hadapi problem kau sekarang sedangkan problem tu lebih ringan dari kematian?"

:bgrin: membunuh diri adalah tindakan si pengecut

raeshad

agree....kita ni cume meminjam jer badan kiter! sumernyer milik DIA


[ Last edited by  raeshad at 7-5-2006 10:01 AM ]

cyra

nih my own experience... camna rasa depressed sampai membawa kepada rasa nak membunuh diri..

dah crita pasal nih kat thread 'putus harap', meh nak crita lagik..

aku sendrik tak pernah budget yg one day aku akan betol2 rasa nak bunuh diri... selalu yg rasa nak bunuh diri biasa2 tuh adalaa... yg cam terlintas jer... tapi tak seriously thought...

benda nih jadik masa aku kat oversea... masa second semester, first year. Masa tuh dah tgh2 sem... dah abih all the mid term exams kot... tinggal final jer.. and mid terms aku sumer cam ampeh.. buruk2... aku sampai gi merayu kat professor, kena hina lagik ngan prof sampai nak menitis air mata, tapi aku tahan, ego punya pasal.

Masa tuh.. aku rasa malaysians kat situ smua gempak2.. semua result sure pauwer2.. semua paling2 terok pon still lepas 3 laa... aku lak.. mmg takda harapan dah nak lepas 3... masa tuh aku bukan jer terasa amat bangang.. tapi malu sgt.. takot gila kalau2 org tau result aku.. aku tatau nak sorok muka katner.. sbb kitorang small community...

dan paling aku takot... kalau aku sangkot tros... kena tarik scholarship and hantar balek mesia.. sure parents aku frust...

yg bt aku depressed... aku bknnya main2 pon.. aku study nak mati.. pulun abis...homework aku okieh jer.. bila amik exam jer hancos giler... ada time tuh plak.. lepas amik exam rasa cam okieh jer... bila dpt result amik ko.. rasa hilang jantung sekejap..

so... akhirnya.. bila dah nak final.. aku dah tatau nak bt apa.. aku rasa hopeless sgt.. and prasaan takot nak menghadapi exam dan result dia tuh sgtlaaa kuat.. smpi membuatkan aku rasa nak mati jer supaya aku tak payah nak menghadapi semua tuh. Tuhlaa kali pertama n terakhir yg aku rasa takot nak amat.. tak reti aku nak eksplain.. takot terhadap segala kemungkinan... kemungkinan menghadapi kegagalan.. kemungkinan terpaksa berdepan ngan perasaan malu .. kemungkinan rasa diri sbg big loser... semua2 laa...

tapi dlm aku pk2 tuh.. aku ingat Allah... and aku pk.. kalau aku bunuh diri... aku akan lagi mengaibkan nama ibu bapa... org akan kata aku bodoh... dan bermacam2 lagik... yg mana akhirnya kematian aku bukan saja sesia... tapi juga menempah tiket gi neraka... tros aku tak jadik nak commit suicide....

so akhirnya.. sbb aku pon dah tatau nak bt apa.. aku call jer mak aku, mintak dia doakan aku pas.. aku tak cover abis pon syllabus sbb otak aku dah bercelaru sgt n hati aku berdebar sgt campor cuak yg maximum smpi aku dah takleh focus... so mak aku suruh aku gi tido, and bertawakal jer masa nak gi amik exam...

aku btlaa cam mak aku suruh tuh.. bertawakal jalaa... and alhamdulillah... aku pas semua paper sem tuh.. walaupon cgpa aku utk sem tuh amatlaa buruk skali dan yg paling buruk pernah aku dpt...

mmg kalau korang tgk situasi aku nih.. cam over jer ek.. pasal study pon yo yo smpi nak bunuh diri... ntahlaa.. aku pon tak reti nak eksplain camna prasaan takot aku masa tuh... yg pastinya lepas2 tuh pon result aku takdalaa cun sgt.. depressed still depressed tapi dah takda membawa smpi ke rasa nak bunuh diri... sbb dah immune kot.. hehehe

raeshad

thank you cyra for sharing it! i can understand what you mean....isu study nih bukannyer isu yang 'enteng'...eventhough ader org anggap cenggituh. tgkjerla news kat atas...even isu camtuh pn leh dijadikan alasan...

interesting to note that the first thing that held u back was GOD=ALLAH.

got this article. in it stated:

Is there a differece in its[suicide] trend for Muslims and non-Muslims?Interestingly, data from WHO revealed that in countries with Muslims majority, the number of suicide reported are extremely low compared to other developed countries.

The highest suicide rates are found in Eastern Europe, whereas people in Latin America, Muslim countries, and a few Asian nations are least likely to die by their own hands.

Source:Australasian Psychiatric Journal

The common Islamic culture shared by Muslims all around the world provides a stable and supportive living environment for each member of community

sbnrnyer ader data yg confirmkan Hinduism pun buat perkara yang sama, tapi tak larat nk taip [read:klas nk start dh ni :lol]

tapi, it's interesting to note that having a religion, regardless what that is, will decrease ur chance of committing it....

alhamdulillah, rae rase bersyukur untuk cyra sbb dapat go through the experience, and overcame it :hatdown:



[ Last edited by  raeshad at 8-5-2006 12:20 PM ]

FaRiShAsYaHaNaZ

ermssss .... aku x pnh lak terpk suicide ni ... psl aku mmg x tahan kesakitan ... paling pon aku rase nak lari dr umah je

kads

aku kekadang terpikir gak tapi aku takut Allah, laknat aku kalau bunuh diri.....skang ni kalau depress aku solat, baca alQuran ke, makan sampai gemuk ke

raeshad

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PregnantGurl

saya pernah rasa nak bunuh diri ari tu sbb mengandung... saya rasa dunia nie tak adil dgn saya.. :cry::cry:

kenapa plak nih...
citer lah..........

kudajantan77

jangan ler bunuh diri .. saye dulu pun kecewa sngt smpai asik fikir nk mati jer .. tapi bila kite berjaya mengawal kembali fikiran kite sebenarnya masih banyak keindahan dunia yang boleh kite nikmati...

saye bagi satu tip .. kalo rase kecewa jgn asik bertanya kenapa atau mengapa semua nih terjadi .. sbb kite takkan dpt jawapan yg kite nak, kalau dapat pun jawapannya dah takde guna dan tk dpt mengubah ape yg dah jadi .. benda yg dh terjadi biarkanlah saja berlalu jgn dikenang lagi.

kads

Originally posted by raeshad at 10-5-2006 01:56 AM



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[ Last edited by  kads at 11-5-2006 01:50 PM ]

yipun78

Originally posted by PregnantGurl at 10/5/06 06:42 PM
saya pernah rasa nak bunuh diri ari tu sbb mengandung... saya rasa dunia nie tak adil dgn saya.. :cry::cry:

PG, awat sampai lagu tu?

yipun78

Originally posted by kudajantan77 at 11/5/06 11:35 AM
jangan ler bunuh diri .. saye dulu pun kecewa sngt smpai asik fikir nk mati jer .. tapi bila kite berjaya mengawal kembali fikiran kite sebenarnya masih banyak keindahan dunia yang boleh kite nikma ...

Betul tu Abg Kud, Tuhan xkan duga kita lebih dari kemampuan kita, lagipun kalau rasa kita ni punya masalah yg teruk ada org lagi susah masalah dia dari kita, atleast kita masih ada pertimbangan nak berpikir.

[sicness]

If only suicide to death will wash away all my sins that I had commited,will I still have the chance to seek for 'His' forgiveness?Thou I don't have to worry about becoming someone's burden.There will be no more tears, and so there will be no more hatred.There's been too much pressure.It would be better if I don't have to carry all these guilty feelings any longer.





From years to years,these thought had been playing in the box of my mind.How I wish I could toss it away as far as I could but it remains there still.Too much mistakes I had made,so much sins.



Ni apa yang aku tulis kat blog aku.Nak diikutkan hati,memang nak saja aku buat camni kalau ni je penyelesaian aku untuk masalah yang aku tanggung tp aku TAKUT.Takut sakit,takut dosa.