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ahaks....hobi menambahkan kenalan.......
aii bukan nak memilih ensem pun....y sedang2 aje ...
Syik_Gojet Post at 31-8-2010 05:10 
Fuh ayat... yang berkarisma cewah hahahaa |
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Reply ebie
Dude, get a hold of yourself la...., you said you did stupid things during the ...
unforseeable Post at 29-8-2010 16:47
waahh.. pretty good advise. me, i do think i'm sufferin a middle child syndrome too. |
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hohoho...bukan ayat berkarisma kapoor....
sekadar y terisirat di celah2 hati sanubari... ...
Syik_Gojet Post at 31-8-2010 05:22
Belasah je cik syik... haha sementara tunggu subuh hehe... whats your story macam heavy je... one year single tu... mesti u ni jenis ramai peminat ye tak? hehe |
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waahh.. pretty good advise. me, i do think i'm sufferin a middle child syndrome too.
cursebreaker Post at 31-8-2010 05:22
Thanks bro, really glad there's someone like me out there... People like us are the most misunderstood by our own family compared to our siblings... it tooks me years just to convince my parents that i'm not just a dead weight in the family if you know what i mean.... |
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waahh.. pretty good advise. me, i do think i'm sufferin a middle child syndrome too.
cursebreaker Post at 31-8-2010 05:22
me also a middle child...we r in a same boat.. |
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Post Last Edit by cursebreaker at 31-8-2010 06:11
bro,
i do really understand how does it feel being the middle child. btw, i'm 28 & still finding my career doesnt speak out loud on my presence. and i dont earn taht big too. hehe. good that u've found the potential which has brought u to what u've become now. congratz & kudos to u. so, are u in engineering field? just curious. |
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me also a middle child...we r in a same boat..
Syik_Gojet Post at 31-8-2010 05:45 
fuh ramai gak middle child kat sini ek... hehe, teruk woo dapat perasaan camni, rase macam kita ni not belong to our family jer... kita sampai hr ni tak rapat sangat dengan mak ayah ngan adik beradik, bayangkan dalam family sendiri kita selalu kene reject and jadi black sheep of the family... mana lah sangat nak terima kasih sayang org luar... dalam kepala asyik terbayang kene rejek memanjang jer... ye tak...huhuhu |
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Adoi dah azan dah.... lupa korek hidung.... |
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Reply 191# unforseeable
Just sharing what MCS is all about...
Middle child is the second born child in a family of more than two children. As much as our parents impact the shaping of our over-all personality, so do our siblings. Sometimes, the middle child suffers from a lack of belonging and constantly strives to get his/her parent’s attention. There is a feeling of insecurity in the middle child, because he/she feels ignored between the eldest and youngest sibling and this is called the Middle Child Syndrome. The birth order does make a difference to the parent’s psychology, as a lot of importance is attached with the birth of the first and the last child. The article explores what exactly is a Middle Child Syndrome, apart from the symptoms that a child suffering from it exhibits.
Symptoms Of Middle Child Syndrome
Lack Of Belonging
The middle child may not feel a sense of belonging to the family in the same way as other children. He/she struggles to be close to the family because of feeling ignored and ‘unwanted’. Sometimes, the middle child also feels sandwiched between the other siblings. It is important as a parent, to not let such feelings overcome their middle child.
Low Self-Esteem
Since a middle child feels that he/she is basically unwanted, he/she may have a very low self-esteem. There is nothing worse than to feel not needed and it can badly affect even an adult. For a child, it has a serious bearing on his/her overall development. Such a child will continue to suffer from a lack of self-belief on growing up. A middle child’s confidence may be shaky due to the feeling of being overlooked upon, by his/her parents.
Reclusion
It is, usually, seen that a child suffering from middle child syndrome is not too extrovert or social. There is a tendency among such children to become loners in life. They feel like an outsider in the family and therefore, become a recluse in other areas of life as well. Such a child believes in spending time with him/her self rather than others, because he/she feels uncared for. And so, he/she tries to create a world of his/her own and lean on his/her own self for support.
No Sense Of Direction
The children suffering from middle child syndrome also lack a sense of direction. There is certain disillusionment among them and they struggle to find the real direction of their life. They are not comfortable confiding in their parents, not even in their brothers or sisters. This is not to say that all middle children turn out to be failures in their life. Only those suffering from this syndrome have a tendency to lack any direction in life.
Trust Issues
A middle child, on feeling ignored and un-loved, may have trust issues. As a child, we first lean to trust and completely rely on our parents, but a middle child fails to do that and consequentially, faces such issues. Such a child has difficulty in opening up and confiding in anyone. However, not every child suffering from middle child syndrome has a distrusting attitude. Sometimes, such a child is pining to trust and lean on someone. |
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Adoi dah azan dah.... lupa korek hidung....
unforseeable Post at 31-8-2010 06:08
hohoho...rugi la..patutnya lupa, terminum or mkn..hehe |
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kalo pikir soal hati dan perasaan ni bukan setakat 2 bulan
2 hari pun boleh sakit jiwa
cuma kalau 2 hari mungkin kesan dia 2 hari je
2 tahun kesan dia 2 tahun
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Reply 193# cursebreaker
Dead on brother... my case of 4 siblings, the eldest the achiever, Im the second the black sheep and the hand-me-down ones, the third is the smartest, jewel of the family, the fourth the most loved and get-away-with-things ones... i always got scolded not to lived up to my parents expectation and get compared to my brothers all the time... when comes to family reunion i'm always felt left out... even though i kinda doing ok right now... seriously |
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korek idung x batal pose
ko keje oil n gas ke?
ada kosong tak?
bronok Post at 31-8-2010 06:17
hahaha pandai la nko...
takde la bro aku keje kat bidang len... tapi membe aku cakap kalo nko nak keje oil and gas jangan anta resume pakai pos... nko pegi sendiri kat kerteh ke dungun ker mintak trus kat sana... tak pun cari vendor yang supply manpower untuk oil and gas... |
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huhu...tapi tu la...i start kenal erti cintan ni start 23..time tu memang budget 1st luv is ...
Syik_Gojet Post at 31-8-2010 06:19
sama la kita, start terluka tu pon umor dalam lingkungan tu gak... trus fobia sampai la skang ni....
of course, bila kita ni memebesar sebagai middle child, hati tu rasa nak create the most perfect family yang ada kat dalam dunia ni... nak make up balik on what i missed during growing up kat anak2 tu nanti...tapi tu la isu hati terluka ni bukan kes kecik wooo efek dia lama beb... bole makan tahun-tahun tu...
betul no pain no gain... tapi kalo boleh nak cari orang yang dah merasa ape yang kita rasa ni... kenkadang tu cakap macam2 kata paham yang kita lalui la apa la... tp takat paham takan dapat compared to actual life experience kita tu....
betul cinta tu ada utuk suma orang... skang ni dok harap tuhan je boleh tunjukkan yang the one untuk kita... hehehe |
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Post time 31-8-2010 05:17 AM
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(ramai girl kt luar sana hebat2..sapa lah aii..cewah)
