Dapat offer keja tapi boss tak tau i peknen

minahsenget

kerja tu as accs exec...handle full sets ,mmg i keja mcm tu pun..masa memula appy,that job only for part time,3 days a week,so i pun apply thru jobstreet,mmg sesuai dgn keadaan i ms sekarang ni,tetiba dia org offer permanent full time...saya la i ni nak tolak kan????

i ada tanya advise my manager (tempat i keja temporary sekarang) should i mention i'm pregnant during the telephone conversation,she said no need since the employer didnt ask...so i go with the flow la kekonon....masa second interview dia org pun tak tanya....tapi bila dah dpt offer my manager ckp better tell them nanti byk issue lak.....i ni sincere la konon,email to them and inform....so dia ckp....i'm afraid i have to discontinue the offer....as the other 2 empoyees are also pregnant and dur sama ngan i!!!!!! i even suggested to them....can prolong my probabtion period or unpaid maternity leaves....

sehari lepas direject,i dpt interview kat shah alam,i inform the PA that i'm pregnant,still interested to see me? ye lah,penat ooooo nak travel ke sana sorang,she said yes yes yes...masa i masuk je jumpa bos dia,he was surprised that i peknen...i told him i have informed yr PA....he said PA tu tak ckp apa pun...and end up....'if we want to hire u,may be after u give birth....ptg pulak ada lak call suruh p interview at top comp....told them the same thing,and guess what,the caller said...'well i dont think this job is suitable for u".....i frust sangat coz i ikut hubby ke kl,ingatkan boleh la nak buat part time ke apa ke...even comp i sekarang ni ckp klu la tau i ni peknen ms interview tak de nye nak ambik...and i said to that lady...i asked for temp job,i didnt ask for permanent,and whatever assignment semua i siap...bukan nye i muntah kat tempat tu,dah le klu mc sehari,kena ganti hari sabtu....

jemtart

nampaknya pas bsalin la leh apply blk keja..isk2.. ada gak camni ek..

easy81

kesian u minah..tapi based on my own experience, rezeki akan mencanak2 bile dah ade anak. just take u'r time...jgn stress2 lagila mengandng tuh. i dulu 4 mths pregnant da benti. nganggur sampai anak 6 bulan baru keje. ok jugak sbb dpt jaga anak puas2 masa die kecik, lembek2 tuh takut jugak nak tinggal kat org..


u'r background, same as me..account gak..
memg kdg2 rase unfair sangat sebb ade co yg pilih chinese utk acc dept..ade gak yg taknak married woman..mcm2..

tapi kalu ade rezeki tak kemana. percaya lah..saye sendiri penah samapai bergaduh dgn sorg director company masa seisi temuduga just becouse die memperlekehkan pompuan yg berkawin selalu nye kurg productif..n die memg provoke sampai i nak nangis..

trust me..kalu bole buat buku, i nak bukukan pengalaman interview i yg bermacm2 nih..

tapi selalu cakap dalam hati, ape2 rezeki yg kite tak dapat tuh, sebenarnye memg bukan rezeki kite..dan ade rezeki yg betul2 utk kite menunggu kite..just follow the flow..

honeybunch

biasela tu...
usually memana company takkan nak amek org pregnant..
and then some of the co suruh kita buat medical check-up dulu barula boleh confirm the offer..which is unfair. i find that international company is less bias than local company. less discrimination.

apa2 pon, cuba jekla lepas maternity leave, jgn pas maternity baru carik cam saya, hehe...masa during maternity tu dah start send in application sumer cos company pon take time to process etc

izati_abc

tetiba aku br baca lak topic ni....so minah ape cite skrg? aku ari tu pegiview tourism malaysia utk post accountant masa 8 months pregnant...tp surprisingly panel x perasan aku tgh pregnant...masa pegi tu terpk jgk what if offer dtg masa aku tgh pantang lg ke ape...tp pk2 sume tu rezeki...pegi je la.....skali masa aku dh blk kg maternity leave....aku dpt offer suh report duty in a short time....masa tu aku sepatutnye dh due tp x bersalin2 jgk lg....aku ckp aku willing nk gi report duty aje...tp diaorg kata nk pakai org cepat...kalo aku gi report duty tp lps tu aku cuti x guna jgk kan...so dia kata nk discuss ngn bos dulu.....lama aku x dpt response sehinggalah 3 ari lps tarikh report duty br diaorg call n ckp diaorg nk ambik aku jgk.....n aku blh report duty lps abis pantang...itula yg dikatakan rezeki anak...tepat2 44 ari aku report duty..n here i am....di tourism malaysia...

utk minah or sape2 lg kan...kalo ade problem pasal anything related to ur employment...please consult ministry of HR....jangan bg sesapa pijak kepala kita dlm hal2 ni....defend our rights...aku pnh kene tp kdg2 mmg akta x membantu kita especially executive with salary over 1.5k per month...x cover under jabatan buruh

[ Last edited by  izati_abc at 27-3-2008 04:21 PM ]

si bulat

tapi selalu nye private comp mmg x amik pregnant woman keje lah..
kalau gomen, diorg tak kisah..

voizze

Originally posted by minahsenget at 8-3-2007 09:34 AM
tks all, but offer tu dah ditarikbalik....coz of the pregnancy....

sorry to hear that....

Glass

Kesian jugak kita org perempuan kan...

ada pro and cons jugak la kan, understanably, bagi jawatan2 kritikal memang agak susah apabila kita perempuan bercuti dalam tempoh yang panjang dan tempat kita tak boleh di ganti dengan temps or tak ada org lain dalam kompeni tu yang blh ambik alih keje kita dalam tempoh cuti 60 hari. Dilema untuk kedua2 pihak..

jemtart

skg ni tgh pregnt, bru keja dgn comp ni 3 bln..
lom bgtauu diorg, sbb mst kena buang la nih

shidaaziz

Originally posted by jemtart at 1-4-2008 07:11 AM
skg ni tgh pregnt, bru keja dgn comp ni 3 bln..
lom bgtauu diorg, sbb mst kena buang la nih

kalau pregnant masa dalam perkhidmatan kat company sekarang, tak de masalah. kalau dia buang, u boleh fight dekat pejabat buruh.

tinie_purple

haaihhhh kesian aku baca prob gni... mcm kwn aku gak jenuh carik keja cni..xdpt...bla dia gtau skang peknen 4 bln..ikotkan xnmpk pon prot g..tp xnak ada prob dia gtau... last... dpt la gak 1 company...gaji 1000 jekk...sdgkan dgn kelayakan n pengalaman brape thn tuh....haiiihh... dh biasa kat kulim gaji 2k lbih...tp sbbkan nk dkt utk jaga laki dia yg koma dia accept gak...katanya jadik la buat byr hutang keta n simpan utk anak skit..

kimytooby

Originally posted by si bulat at 28-3-2008 09:19 AM
tapi selalu nye private comp mmg x amik pregnant woman keje lah..
kalau gomen, diorg tak kisah..

agreed!!!!