~Two ways Communication in a relationship~

sue_0684

Innrukia posted on 27-3-2013 11:14 PM
Cth communication problem2

JUST GIVE ME A REASON - PINK

good example.....

bila bg mcm2 alasan tu adalah comm breakdown omputeh kata..
kalo org melayu kata ..x sefahaman/x serasi..

solution x ada..tp alasan jer yg ada..

Innrukia

Its been a year...hampir la
Lama dah tak menulis kat sini..................isk rasanya kena sambung tp bz sangat skrg

sue_0684

Innrukia posted on 8-2-2014 10:48 PM
Its been a year...hampir la
Lama dah tak menulis kat sini..................isk rasanya kena sambu ...

hihii.aah..lama btoi x jnguk
..up balik

ladyfree

Innrukia posted on 1-3-2013 03:17 PM
Chapter 2 : Are you a Pursuer or Distancer

Men & women appear to be fr different planets becoz mo ...

mmg konfirm aku jenis female pursuer dan dia male distancer....

mana nk dpt buku ni??? cam bes la plak

Innrukia

ladyfree posted on 12-3-2014 01:23 PM
mmg konfirm aku jenis female pursuer dan dia male distancer....

mana nk dpt buku ni??? cam bes  ...

Kat border ada kot....

ladyfree

Innrukia posted on 12-3-2014 06:25 AM
Kat border ada kot....

border jauh.
td ada yg tepek link mph, nnt aku check kat situ je...tu pun kalau ada lg...

bila nk sambung lg topik 2 way comm ni......?

Innrukia

ladyfree posted on 12-3-2014 02:32 PM
border jauh.
td ada yg tepek link mph, nnt aku check kat situ je...tu pun kalau ada lg...

Cer la carik kat mph kalo ada....
Lately agak bz, tak sempat nak mengarang. Tggu free skit br bleh sambung....

Innrukia

4 reasons Why people sometimes give mixed signals

Here are the most famous reasons that motivate people to send mixed signals:

•1) Hurt Ego: In 90% of the cases people who send positive signals and never get an equivalent response withdraw back these signals by doing negative actions. Because a person's ego hurts him when he becomes overly nice then gets no response he tries to make himself look good by taking actions that show that he never had interest. The stronger the negative actions coming from the person the more its a proof that he was really interested

•2) Can't make up the mind : Many people can't control the temptation to flirt when they like someone. If someone is confused between two people then he might flirt with both just because he is truly attracted to both of them.

•3) Commitment freak: So many people who fear commitment fail to resist the urge to come close to the people they like but as soon as they come close enough they freak out and pull back. Commitment freaks always have an inner conflict because of those two powerful forces that control their desires and that's why they do both positive and negative moves.

•4)Lost interest: It happens a lot that someone develops an interest in certain person then loses it after sometime. The good news i have for you is that even if someone lost interest you can still attract him again since you already met his unconscious love criteria. (for more information see Love Psychology)

What should i do when i get mixed signals?

The best thing you can do when you get mixed signals from someone is to keep treating that person positively while making remarks that show him that you believe that he doesn't like you.

When you make a person think that his positive signals never reached you he will send more positive ones and make more mistakes that would reveal his real intentions. Of course you should never say so directly but you just need to take the actions that show that person that you are not even aware of the positive gestures he makes.

Soon that person will try to resend these positive messages and you will get a clear understanding of what's going on.