The Problem is Rarely the Problem
99% of the harm is caused in your head, by you and your thoughts.
1% of the harm is caused by reality, what actually happens and the outcome.
Most of the time, the problem isn't the problem—it's the way you think about the problem.
Avoid Self-Rejection
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Never overthink yourself into self-rejection, self-discovery instead