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Post Last Edit by pak_itam at 3-7-2009 08:46
Assalammualaikum wbt dan salam sejahtera kepada forumers yg dihormati..
I got this letter from my daughter who now in boarding school. Content of the said letter: -
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Assalammualaikum babah, hope u r fine n happy with yr tiny lovely angel.. Just got yr last 2 letters, thanks.. luv u too.. am in good health too. Had no probs with my study, all are well taken care of.
Babah, wanna share sumtin with u..
Apologies, it never cross my heart to hurt u, as u always said |
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errr...kurang fhm...
bleh xplain skit?
anissa n arissa at d same school?
u single parent? |
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kesiannya dia... keluarkan je dia dari sekolah tu.. |
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Originally posted by KIM.mafia at 1-4-2009 13:53 
errr...kurang fhm...
bleh xplain skit?
anissa n arissa at d same school?
u single parent?
Pakcik single parent. Arissa 13 dok boarding school. Anissa 6 thn.. dok ngan pakcik laa |
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sounded to me that your daughter is not happy, and crying for your help there. If Iwere you, I would take my daughter out of the school. She is obviously is not coping, and however great the school is - if she's not be able to focus and concentrate on her studies, she will be left behind. |
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ha ah la..kuarkan jek la dia dr sekolah tu..bnyk lg SBP lain yg lg ok..even SMH pun ada yg ok..
pd sy it is a kind of mind n feeling torture yg bole dikatakan agak teruk..jgn biar anak pakcik tu..kesian sy dgr camtu skali dia kena buli mf bukan buli lg dah tp seksaan minda n perasaan..so pakcik wat la keputusan terbaik utk anak pakcik..jgn biarkan anak pakcik makin hr makin jd anak n pelajar yg bermasalah dlm pelajaran mahupun dlm kehidupan dia d masa akan dtg.. |
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Balas #4 pak_itam\ catat
i rasa better u yg jaga dia...
at their age now..dgn u nyer situation..buat diorg jauh dr u..
biarla diorg ber2 selalu ade dpn mata u...
dia perlukan some1 yg bleh guide dia..bukan guide dr jauh...
its a teen age crisis..
i pun x tau sgt..
tapi masa i sebaya dgn anak u n dok boarding school...i feel lonely..n rasa jauh dr family..even school dgn kg x jauh...tapi bila i tlalu bdikari mcm skang..buat i lg jauh dr family..
bila ade prob pun x tau nak citer dgn sape..all on my own..
i kalau bleh pas kawin esok biarla i x keje..jaga anak2..biar anak2 mbesar dpn mata i..
i xnak diorg jd mcm i...n i rasa bsalah sampai skang bila i x dpt nak bg perhatian n balik kg selalu tgk my parents..i dah mhabiskan masa tlalu lama dkt luar..n i feel bad bout this |
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Balas #6 mayraa\ catat
hi mayraa...
baru masuk ke? |
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Reply #8 KIM.mafia's post
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hi kak..aah br masuk je ni |
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pakcik heran jugak, zaman pakcik dulu, takder laa schoolmate pakcik set set buas camni...bila dia dapat offer belajar kat situ, pakcik setuju.. arissa pun setuju.. pakcik nak dia belajar2 berdikari...camner pakcik nak buat supaya dia tak mengalah terlalu awal... setakat 2x ujian bulanan dengan exam 1st sem .. arissa still maintain 8A.. |
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Originally posted by KIM.mafia at 1-4-2009 14:23 
i rasa better u yg jaga dia...
at their age now..dgn u nyer situation..buat diorg jauh dr u..
biarla diorg ber2 selalu ade dpn mata u...
dia perlukan some1 yg bleh guide dia..bukan guide dr ja ...
masa awal2 dulu pakcik dah brief arissa ni.. kat hostel nanti... dia akan jumpa dengan 1001 mcm org.. sebab manusia ni dibesarkan dalam pelbagai keadaan. dan pakcik nasihatkan dia... yg baik jadikan teladan yg buruk jadikan sempadan... buat masa ni pakcik jumpa dia every 2 weeks.. ada laa ter mis sekali dua... |
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Keluarkan jer la dari sek. 2...tukarkan ke sekolah yg lain
Sek. yg dekat dgn rumah & pemantauan PI
she not happy, and crying for your help ..dah jadi aper2 nanti lgi susah..PI yg menyesal nanti
Kesian anak tu.. |
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Balas #11 pak_itam\ catat
psl result 2 jgn risau...
kalau dia mmg bkebolehan insyaAllah dia akan bjaya juga walau dimana dia blaja
cuma saya nak ckp..budak pompuan yg umur mcm ni a bit sensitif n kdg2 emotional..
i x tau la ur daughter cemana..cuma i ckp bdasarkan pengalaman..
they need attention from u..tambahan pula dia x jumpa mak dia..
jgn sampai dia terikut ckp kwn2 yg bleh pengaruhi dia.. u kena support dia.. |
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Originally posted by KIM.mafia at 1-4-2009 14:58
psl result 2 jgn risau...
kalau dia mmg bkebolehan insyaAllah dia akan bjaya juga walau dimana dia blaja
cuma saya nak ckp..budak pompuan yg umur mcm ni a bit sensitif n kdg2 emotional..
i x t ...
Cik Kim,
pakcik nak dia tough... pakcik nak dia mampu melawan feeling attack camni... she knows what she worth of ..cuma pakcik tak tau camner nak cakap ngan dia so she boleh manage to go thru all these nonsense |
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Originally posted by pak_itam at 1-4-2009 03:05 PM 
Cik Kim,
pakcik nak dia tough... pakcik nak dia mampu melawan feeling attack camni... she knows what she worth of ..cuma pakcik tak tau camner nak cakap ngan dia so she boleh manage to go ...
pakcik..cuma apa yg sy bole katakan budak pompuan mmg totally different dgn budak laki in terms of mindset n also feeling..tambah lak anak pakcik still anak remaja n i do agree with kim's statement.. |
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ermm..susah nak ckp..
mungkin saya dulu sensitif...
kdg2 buleh nangis sorang2 bila tgk parents kwn2 dtg bila weekend..
tapi i rasa i kuat jugala dulu..masa nak register masuk form 1 pun i pegi sdiri...
my parents bz dgn keje so my bro anta n tinggalkan i sorang2..pas2 pandai2la cari kwn..
cuma psl buli ni rasanyer xdela..
semua sibuk concentrate on study...undang2 kitorg time 2 mmg la ketat...
tapi bila form 4 i btukar ke skolah lain dah jd culture shock dgn perangai budak2 yg bmasalah..wpun time 2 dok asrama tapi budak2 masa 2 ade yg ponteng,isap rokok,lesbian, n mcm2 lgla..
i x tlibat dgn benda2 2 sumer tapi i jd lali seketika..x blaja sungguh2 mcm form 1-3 dulu...terikut kwn2 yg asyik nak enjoy..last2 result cukup mkn jer..
ape yg saya nak sampaikan dcni ade sesetgh kids yg mmg cukup tabah dan bsedia phisically n mentally dlm kehidupan yg jauh dr parents ni...
but kalau diorg tsilap langkah then itu akan mhampakan harapan parents itu sdiri |
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Originally posted by mayraa at 1-4-2009 15:14
pakcik..cuma apa yg sy bole katakan budak pompuan mmg totally different dgn budak laki in terms of mindset n also feeling..tambah lak anak pakcik still anak remaja n i do agree with kim's sta ...
kalau pakcik tukarkan sekolah balik semula kat KL.. tak menjanjikan pun yg arissa tak kena buli kan? kalau nanti kena lagi.. pakcik nak kena tukar sekolah lagi ker.... |
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Originally posted by KIM.mafia at 1-4-2009 15:16
ermm..susah nak ckp..
mungkin saya dulu sensitif...
kdg2 buleh nangis sorang2 bila tgk parents kwn2 dtg bila weekend..
tapi i rasa i kuat jugala dulu..masa nak register masuk form 1 pun i pegi ...
pakcik tak tinggalkan arissa macam tu jer... masa orentasi pun .. pakcik cuti seminggu dan hari2 pakcik jumpa dia, semua keperluan dia tak kurang.. pakcik siap ajar dia nak guna pad macam mana sebab dia belum ada period lagi...bila dia mula point soalan soalan kenapa mengapa ni.. susah pakcik nak jelaskan... |
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u know what...its better dia blaja dr u drpd kwn2 dia..
mmg ade kwn2 yg bleh diharap..but ade gak yg hampeh..
mcm i ckp td bila bcampur dgn yg baik maka elokla jdnyer..
if bcampur dgn yg ntah hape2 jdla mcm i..
nasib baik lepas 2 sedar kesalahan dan bangkit dr kegagalan
n now i dah recover..cuma yg i kesalkan masa utk i dgn family masih xde mcm dulu...
sbb i dah mhabiskan masa kat skolah berasrama pas2 masuk u..then keje pun kat kl..
sampai skang rasanya i nak ulang balik kisah2 dulu..supaya i jd manusia yg lebih baik dan btanggungjwb kpd family |
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Post time 1-4-2009 01:23 PM
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