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perlukan nasihat - nak benti keja

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Post time 25-2-2008 06:13 PM | Show all posts |Read mode
camnih ceritanya...

1 - saya tgh pregnant... and expected to deliver bulan 8.. and now going through morning sickness yg sgt takbes... so far every week mc... main reason sbb kena travel jauh... lebih kurang sejam setengah pergi... and sejam stengah balek.. slalu sampai umah around 8:30pm

2 - saya tak tahan plus tensen nak kena mc tetiap minggu... plus bukan slalu ada surat mc sbb tak larat nak drive gi klinik.. hubby keja siangnya, and balek just elok2 utk siap2 gi part time klas.. sampai umah slalu around 10, 11pm.. klinik dah tutup.. walaupun dia ada ckp kalau tak larat dia sanggup je ponteng klas... but saya tannak sbb nnt takot bagi bad impression to his lecturer... so abislaa annual leave ku diguna utk mc yg takda surat tuh...

3- nak benti keja sbb nnt pas delivered... takda org nak jaga baby... kalau keja still tempat yg sama... kol 8:30 baru sampai rumah... brapa lama jerlaa leh spend time ngan anak... plus kitorang tak cukup budget nak amik maid.. satu lagik slalu nursery bukan up to 6pm je ke? nak tinggal umah parents pon payah sbb mak pon still keja... and dia pon tak larat nak jaga...

4 - saya ada tanggungan keta... kena bayar RM550 evey month... so plannya kalau betni nak keja ngajar pusat tuisyen.. dulu pernah ngajar part time dalam setengah taun lebih kat pusat tuisyen... ok tak agaknya? takot gak nak benti keja...

5 - masalahnya company bakal anatar gi linux training bulan mac nih... saya sorang lak tuh derang nak hantar.... and kalau saya pegi.. saya sorang jerlaa nnt yg betol2 blajar pasal linux.. lelain sumer tau gitu2 jer....

6 - saya ada bond ngan company for another 3 years.. tapi MD dah promise kalau saya benti boleh jer kalau saya tak larat nak commit sbb family... nih dah bincang ngan dia.. but past few months.. bila ada org benti.. sumer ada masalah... takda yg leh benti cara elok... takot laa kalau saya pon derang tak kasi benti lagik2 sbb derang antar training...

7 - so saya pikir tannak gi training.. tapi kalau tannak gi training kena gitau bos laa my reason kan.. payah ak tu.... sbb my current project requires linux skill.... perlu ke berterus terang ngan my bos?

8 - nak cari keja lain yg sama bidang.. tapi ngan keadaan sekarang nih i doubt leh nailed any job... otak sgt lembab berpikir.... on top of rasa loya and ting tong yg teramats...
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Post time 26-2-2008 11:38 AM | Show all posts

Reply #1 cyra's post

jgn berenti beb. try talk to your boss abt unpaid leave. lagik pon ade 3 more years bond, jd apekate abeskan ade bond period tuh. for me, in your situation, the best solution is unpaid leave.
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Post time 26-2-2008 11:41 AM | Show all posts
kenapa tak pindah umah?
dekat ngan tempat keje..
dari travel berjam2 lama nye?
at least jimat masa and minyak..
and tak yah pikir nak benti keje and cari keje lain..
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Post time 26-2-2008 11:42 AM | Show all posts
double post.. sorry
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Post time 10-4-2008 11:27 AM | Show all posts

Reply #1 cyra's post

i think u kena fikir panjang sket psl berenti kerja when ur financial position is not stable..since org lain dah komen part lain, i nak tambah sikit...why dont u discuss with ur boss psl training tu suruh dia antar org lain...he/she may agree given ur current situation....let me tell u, if u quit now without a back up, u'll e in trouble and it may be morestressful when ur bb is due to be delivered...byk keperluan bb yg u kena prepare...pls reconsider....
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Post time 10-4-2008 03:12 PM | Show all posts
beb tanya doktor boleh tak bagi cuti lama sikit (MC) OR kau apply la unpaid leave...dari ko let go keje tu. nanti dah ada anak expenses mungkin increase kan?

or, as a forummer sugessted, carik keje yg dekat dgn rumah. kalu niat kau nak jimat masa and senang urus anak, toksah memilih sgt bila carik keje tu.
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Post time 15-4-2008 11:04 AM | Show all posts

Reply #1 cyra's post

biasanya masa 1st trimester mmg morning sickness teruk..time ni mmg u tak larat nak pegi keja..i paham sebab dulu masa pregnant dulu pun i kena camnih..u jgn berhenti dulu..talk to ur boss about ur situation and cuba ambik unpaid leave dulu..hopefully dia paham & izinkan u ambik unpaid leave..

insya-allah bila dah masuk bulan ke4 or ke 5 pregnancy, morning sickness tu berkurangan laa..tp kalau dah nak berhenti jugak..jangan lupa ambik insurance..mana la tau kot2 u sakit,so at least insurance leh cover..
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Post time 16-4-2008 12:28 PM | Show all posts
aku pun pernah hadapi mcm ko dulu.. bezanya aku keje gomen.. tapi kontrak la.. akupun dulu travel jauh gak... 1 jam setengah baru sampai opis.. drive sindri dari banting ke klang.. kene jem plak... morning sickness mmg la..ade.. cuma aku x layan sgt.. aku lagi x leh ambik unpaid leave.. sbb aku kontrak.. kalo aku ambik gak consider kene renti keje la..

la ni.. aku baru je lepas keguguran 2 kali.. masa 2nd time pregnant tu aku bleeding byk.. sampai aku pk nak rneti keje.. sbb aku rasa aku kene bedrest kalo pregnant.. dul aku x cam ni.. tp memandangkan laki aku xde keje tetap.. pendapatan kadnaga de kadang xde.. soo aku korbankan diri aku keje juga... then bila dah dpt keje lak.. gaji mmg kecik kene lak kat perak... aduhh blom sempat aku buat keputusan nak selamatkan baby aku.. aku gugur lagi..

yg aku bole cakap sabo je la.. ko discuss dgn bos ko.. ko kene pk bonding ko ade lagi..
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