boyfren buat hal...teruskan atau putuskan??

indah1285

In paling menci laki2/bf ckp kasar2 n men tuduh2 lak.... mende yg dtuduh tu lak mmg xlayak disebut pun.... nmpk sgt tak dewasa n tak berilmu ....


sblum dia belah, In dulu angkat kaki.... putus 18.....huhuuu


errk.... tuan umah,,  In lps geram jerk.....

siape_aku

hehehe.... hmmm...kitorg dah ambik kate putus.....untuk break off... mmg jalan yg terbaik....sbb bisnes die tak menjadi...and die kate die tak bole nak support diri die sendiri (hal duit) for this time being...tak tau la berapa bnyk die dah labur duit sampai nak bankrupt camtu... die just kate "abg syg kat awk...kalau ade jodoh kite...ade la..."   

aku takde la mcm frust gile tp mcm terkejut la jugak...so...aku nak solo buat sementara waktu walaupon ade yg cube masuk line...penat la....

badreena

erm....mcm ni pun ada erk..kesian dkt awak...bersabar yer...kuatkan hati...

hardeyboyz

Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 10:08 AM
hehehe.... hmmm...kitorg dah ambik kate putus.....untuk break off... mmg jalan yg terbaik....sbb bisnes die tak menjadi...and die kate die tak bole nak support diri die sendiri (hal duit) for thi ...

ok note taken.. siape_aku (single)

hitamputih

Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 10:08 AM
hehehe.... hmmm...kitorg dah ambik kate putus.....untuk break off... mmg jalan yg terbaik....sbb bisnes die tak menjadi...and die kate die tak bole nak support diri die sendiri (hal duit) for thi ...

dear tuan umah,

kalau aku jadi bf ko tu, aku keciwa gila........dah laa biz aku merudum, duit aku abis, keta lagi, utang lagi, family mesti mengata punya, and in the same time "awek aku nak break?!!!"

cuba be in his shoe right now, biz merudum, tu periuk nasi tau! dia cakap dia tak leh sponsor diri dia sndiri, bukan maksud taknak kat awak dah....cumanyer paham laaa sikit keadaan org tgh kalut gini.

sorry to say it this way, awak ni bukan jenis teman masa susah ker?

supposedly, kalau u sayang kan dia, u tak pandang semua benda remeh, dia tak angkat call, dia letak awal, dia tak balas msg, itu semua remeh sebenanyer, hanya accessories cinta. tp pikirkan,, camna nak bg dia kurang serabut, how u can help him, camna nak jadi gudlisterner....in case u ada kemahiran, camna nak tlg biz dia, or maybe find him another jobs.........or at least be there when the world are laughing at him.

afterall, maybe tindakan u nak minta break tu the most brilliant idea, sbb, maybe, awak tak layak utk dia......kalau waktu senang awak dekat waktu susah awak jauh

maaf kalau post ni agak tajam......but ive been there, feel that................

kikilalat

i would have to agree.

instead of being needy & pushy, try to be a supportive and understanding gf instead... remember that his whole world does not revolve around you... he pun kena ada priority to settle i.e. his livelihood...

hitamputih

Originally posted by kikilalat at 11-1-2008 10:48 AM
i would have to agree.

instead of being needy & pushy, try to be a supportive and understanding gf instead... remember that his whole world does not revolve around you... he pun kena ada prior ...

betul, mesti dia pikir, alaaaa biz hancur camna nak kawin ni.....................camna nak tanggung anak bini nnti, but u walk away..........

hardeyboyz

Originally posted by hitamputih at 11-1-2008 10:51 AM

betul, mesti dia pikir, alaaaa biz hancur camna nak kawin ni.....................camna nak tanggung anak bini nnti, but u walk away..........

itulah lumrah kehidupan.. hidup ibarat roda..

hitamputih

Originally posted by hardeyboyz at 11-1-2008 10:55 AM



itulah lumrah kehidupan.. hidup ibarat roda..

waktu di bawah, pakat pakat pijak reramai ek, waktu kat atas pakat pakat sanjung....................well thats life lah!

badreena

biasa lah tu tamtih...lelaki pun kadang2 mcm apa entah..ada prob..discuss la dgn awek..senyap jer..dh tu ckp yg bukan2 lak..lagi ler org berfikiran negatif dkt dia..kerana mulut tu kdg2 menyebabkan org walk away tau..

itik_magic

xde berita langsung ker......cuma siasat kat balai polis ker? hospital ker? mna ler tau kna culik atau eksiden ker...sapa tau.

hitamputih

Originally posted by badreena at 11-1-2008 11:06 AM
biasa lah tu tamtih...lelaki pun kadang2 mcm apa entah..ada prob..discuss la dgn awek..senyap jer..dh tu ckp yg bukan2 lak..lagi ler org berfikiran negatif dkt dia..kerana mulut tu kdg2 menyebabk ...

mmmmm
mmg kekadang mulut lelaki ni tak bertempat, lagi tajam dari perempuan, tapi, pikirkan, naper dia cakap camtu in the 1st place.

kekadang, pompuan waktu PMS pun cakap bukan2 gak kan?!

siape_aku

ooo...salah aku lagi ke??? bile tanye bisnes ape, die nak rahsiakan...(bisnes ni die baru nak try)...die ade keje lain...and for your information....die yang soh aku cari lain!!!!! sbb die kate die tak mampu even utk diri sendiri...aku dah ckp dari dulu...ade ape2 mslh bgtau aku...walaupon ade kate2 die buat aku sakit hati...tp aku tak kisah...tp die buat diam je...so in which way should i help him??? die tak nak aku buat ape2...so how can i support him bile die sendiri tak benarkan?? yes i still love him...tp die tak nak bg harapan...it seems like he need so much time to recover...

siape_aku

aku bukan desak die utk ape2....at least bila dlm satu hari aku sms "morning..keje busy ke hari ni??sihat tak??" lepas tu sampai ke mlm tak reply....cube kalau bf or gf korg buat camtu....lepas tu kol tak angkat...satu hari bole tahan lagi tp kalau dah lebih seminggu??? mesti la dtg mcm2 yg negatif...igt die eksiden ke ape ke... kalau busy ke ade mslh sekali pon reply msg aku bgtau yg die perlukan mase to be alone...then i know what should i do as gf...

siape_aku

aku bukan jenis nak naik angin time PMS....kalau pompuan lain aku tak tau....tp setakat perhubungan kitorg ni...aku hormat die sebagai lelaki yg lebih tua dari aku... aku cube utk tak sakitkan hati die...walaupon aku terpaksa tolak permintaan die yg mcm2 (nak ringan

badreena

bad penah kena mcm ni...









dan kesudahannya..dia bukan setkt ada masalah keja or duit..




tp dah nikah.

dah jd laki org.

dah jd bapa org.

so berhati2 la...jgn percaya sgt apa yg dikatakan...siasat latarbelakang dia klu btl2 awak sayang dan nakkan dia sebagai teman.klu pjj...lagi la....so fikirkan hati dan diri awak dulu...seblum nk concern any other heart.

badreena

so the best is...tinggalkan dia.jgn sms or call dia at this time.lelaki yg baik takkan buat mcm tu.sekadar nk lepaskan bosan byk lagi benda yg bole dibuat utk hilangkan kebosanan.

hardeyboyz

huhuu.. sekali 3 post siape_aku respon..

udah udah le.. rasanya case dah closed dah.. tuan thread dah finalise dia punya decision berdasarkan post post forumer sebelumnya..


so janganlaa korang api-apikan lagi ...

buka chapter baru...

hitamputih

Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 11:20 AM
ooo...salah aku lagi ke??? bile tanye bisnes ape, die nak rahsiakan...(bisnes ni die baru nak try)...die ade keje lain...and for your information....die yang soh aku cari lain!!!!! sbb die kate die tak mampu even utk diri sendiri...aku dah ckp dari dulu...ade ape2 mslh bgtau aku...walaupon ade kate2 die buat aku sakit hati...tp aku tak kisah...tp die buat diam je...so in which way should i help him??? die tak nak aku buat ape2...so how can i support him bile die sendiri tak benarkan?? yes i still love him...tp die tak nak bg harapan...it seems like he need so much time to recover...

marah ek sis?

well, mmg dia tak bgtau, and sometime, suami isteri pun tak tau jgak apa biz pasangan, kena plak zaman skrg MLM bertaburan, kena ingat, bila kita copule, bukan kita own our partner.

dia suh cari lain, itu bleh di lihat dari sudut positive, either u akan cakap,

"fine i cari lain..............!!!"(i pun tak hingin org cam u)

atau

"eh naper cakap camtu, i still love u, want to be with u, cant we do something to overcome this?"

about u sms, call tak angkat for week(s) tu, u pun tau waktu tu dia tgh ada probs kan, not that dia cari lain kan, its nothing wrong on pikir negatif bila di treat camtu, but jgnlaaa after u dah faham condition dia still, u put the blame.

a gud relationship is not a relatinship without fight,  but a relationship that survive those fights...................

maybe after this, both of u can take something to learn about:

him:
aku tak sepatutnya treat gf aku gitu, kena xplain to her walau pun aku dkt dkt nak mati dah

her:
aku kena respect his privacy life too, give him sometime too, and tak cepat melatah sgt

but

if u choose to break anyway.....its ur life afterall................


p.s: dah berapa lama couple?

siape_aku

thank u for those forummers yg memahami...