Pernahkah anda di pukul oleh pasangan anda???

iman311006

salam to all.....

Pernah tak u all dipukul oleh pasangan anda??tak kira la BF/GF/Wife or Husband....atau korang ada tahu mana2 experience dipukul by pasangan tak??apa punca,jalan penyelesaian yg diamikmoleh korang....i ada pengalaman dipukul..tp i hope ada yg lg berani dari i tuk ceritakan kat thread cni...

Thnks....

reenz013

so far tak pernahlah...lagipun tak suka kalau dpt bf yang kaki pukul ke apa...

midori88

stakat nie tak pernah lagi..tapi aku pnh tumbuk xbf aku dulu..tu pun skali jerlah..

jofizo

kena cubit2.......

Sasha

apa dia buat tuh sampai hang kasi dia penumbuk? lebam tak biji mater dia?

aura77

Originally posted by midori88 at 28-8-2007 01:40 PM
stakat nie tak pernah lagi..tapi aku pnh tumbuk xbf aku dulu..tu pun skali jerlah..

dasatnya ko.....

MugMerah

aku pernah..
dia pun pernah..

bukan pukul ape pon..

biasalah time2 gaduh2 manja nih

mekma

ee tak pernah..berani nak pukul, mak bapak kita pun tak penah jentik..

melowais

huuhuhuh..
tak pernah kena pukul.. sebab hubby jenis anti lelaki yang pukul pompan... so marah camna sekali pon, dia takkan naik tangan..
tu yang aku sayang sangat kat my hubby tuh...

nashra

husband tak pernah pukul..

tapi bergurau tu biasa la..

mummyslove

kenapa iman....? Teruk ke iman kena? Ada lebam tak...? One place or more than one place....?

Nasihat mummy bila dah kena please tak action... don't keep quiet... tell someone at least best friend yg kenal korang berdua.... Once he hits you and he sees you follow apa dianak eventhough dia tahu you buat tu with a large burden in your heart he will do it again..

Kalau dah nmpk tanda2 tu masa bf/gf... tglkan jer dia... Pyh tau nnt org akan salah kan ko... Kalau dah kahwin ada anak ke... Org akan kata kita tak sabar lah apa lah but the truth is diorang tak tahu apa yg kita alami...

Well for me tanda awal sebelum dia start angkat tgn pun kita dah boleh nampak bayang2 dah.. Especially kalo dia main ckp lepas jer... aka jenis mulut celupar.... Kata2 yg will degrade your self worth... Time lagi you dah patut say sayonara okay...

Okay in response to your question pernah kena pukul tak?
Yes...

Bukan lempang but with his fist.... biasanya dia tak aim kat muka sbb visible... most behind the back... and also penah dia tolak I dgn kaki dia masa bertekak at that time I was breastfeeding my daughter.... Also pernah got blue eye gak... tp masa nie I assume it was an accident but still I made police report about it...

So please don't let he put you down okay... Such action may in time... change your character..dari seorang yg cheerful you will become a very quite girl... Trust me..

midori88

takdelah lebam Sha...penumbuk aku nie kan cute jer..almaklum tangan kecik...haha..psl aku rasa masa tu dia menggunakan kepala lutut dia tuk berfikir..

mummyslove

People who hit then cry after that ... from doktors point of view ialah dia nie got some burden inside them yang diorang tak sedar.... Tp mende nie dia carry along with him

In normal situation dia akan nampak like most normal person... But in certain time... the cats jumps out of it's hat.. So at this time you will be very surprise... It will catch you of balance... So kalau ada satu dua insiden mcm nie... please... mummy repeat please don't pity the guy.... Kasihan diri you dulu... And walk away even though it may not be easy at that time....

Sometimes we hope he will change... but pattern keep on going like a cycle okay...
1. Bertangkar, or gaduh...
2. Then dia akan guna tangan or kaki dia bila dia lost of words for debate
3. Then bila kita diam... dia akan start menangis ckp tak sengaja...
4. Then kita pi pujuk dia pamper2.. belai2 and kiss his ubun2 ke doalah apa patut..
5. Then his happy... we thought it's over... but the problem was not solve...
6. Other problem arises... then the cycle go back to 1,2,3,4.....

It's a pattern for someone needing attention... As a husband he's the should do the guiding not the other way around....

** Nota kaki: He also cried when he has problem with his first gf when they have a quarel... so this mean he's not going to change until he realise he's the who got problem

[ Last edited by  mummyslove at 28-8-2007 02:33 PM ]

easy81

penah..sbb aku pukul die dulu..tp pas dah baik aku tolonglah buh ubat sume..

Vvenus

tak pernah.  so far orangnya coollllll manjang.  nak melenting pun susah..inikan pulak nak memukul

mintak dijauhkan laaa....

mummyslove

Originally posted by iman311006 at 28-8-2007 01:30 PM
salam to all.....

Pernah tak u all dipukul oleh pasangan anda??tak kira la BF/GF/Wife or Husband....atau korang ada tahu mana2 experience dipukul by pasangan tak??apa punca,jalan penyelesaian  ...

Kenapa iman takut? Usually bila kita takut lah maka kita lebih senang dibuli?
Punca kena tendang tu sebab mummy minta dia byr sewa rumah ayah mummy yg dia duduk... Tak minta byk cuma RM200 jer... alah bukan byk pun... Lepas tu dia halau mummy balik seremban... ( Masa nie mummy keje kat seremban ) Then mummy ckp kat dia abg takde hak nak halau mummy balik... Kalau ikut logik mummy lebih berhak suruh abg keluar sbb ni rumah ayah mummy... Sbb tu yg kena "debush" kat belakang tu dgn kaki dia... Masa tu tgh susukan anak dlm umur 10 bulan gitu lah....

Penyelesaian... mummy buat report polis ler.... Then buat aduan kat pej agama pastu kaunseling 2 kali....

Iman plak sbb masalah apa?

nazijo

aku pun anti lelaki pukul pempuan....aku sendiri pun lum lg sampai tahap tu..even marah cam mane skali pun..teringin gak..tapi x sampai hati la..
bkn ape...org pempuan pun satu hal gak..da tau kite panas baran..lg diapi2 kan..kite dengar cam mintak2 penampo je..sabo je le..makin kite diam..makin la die menjerit...bile kite tegas sket besokan suara..lg die beso kan suara gak..membakar2 plak..aku paling pantang klu org pompuan x puas ati hempas2 brg kat umah..ringan je aku..klu ckp elok2 ape salah nye ye x...

tapi bab pukul pempuan ni aku x setuju beno la...x rock la bro..

dealova77

tak pernah...

tapi pukul2 manja tu biasa le.. time gurau2..

mummyslove

Memukul never solve problem... sesiapa yg guna tangan kaki nie dia nie singkat pemikiran... Sbb sekali dia debik org yg kena debik tu akan ingat forever tau...:@

mummyslove

Originally posted by nazijo at 28-8-2007 02:17 PM
aku pun anti lelaki pukul pempuan....aku sendiri pun lum lg sampai tahap tu..even marah cam mane skali pun..teringin gak..tapi x sampai hati la..
bkn ape...org pempuan pun satu hal gak..da ...

Not every body ckp beso sora kena debik tau... kenkadang ckp haluih pun kena... nak buat camna... Dah org tu tak centre.. bior jerlah...