...MY RECENT NEGATIVE THOUGHT...

seribulan · Post time 1-6-2007 01:31 PM

The sister's car is making much noise...my negative thought would be i would be stranded somewhere n be abducted...

Most people seem to besiege negative thoughts rather than positive one that it can spoil one's whole sould-have-been happy day...

Wats urs?

wei_loon5063 · Post time 1-6-2007 02:20 PM

Originally posted by seribulan at 1-6-2007 01:31 PM
Most people seem to besiege negative thoughts rather than positive one that it can spoil one's whole sould-have-been happy day...

It is as simple as that it started in our mind.

If we have negative thought, we see only negative things.

sometime the possessive feelings get too strong till it eventually blinded our mind.

foundation · Post time 1-6-2007 03:12 PM

Originally posted by seribulan at 1-6-2007 01:31 PM
The sister's car is making much noise...my negative thought would be i would be stranded somewhere n be abducted...

Most people seem to besiege negative thoughts rather than positive one t ...

I have a lot of negative thoughts myself but I don't mind as long as it does not lead to me being pessimistic.

In fact negative thoughts can lead to positive things if we handle it correctly; for example in the case above, you'll get the car checked and/or repaired.

I guess to me it's more of 'Be prepared for the worst but hope for the best'. The 1st part requires negative thoughts to enable us to be prepared but the 2nd part ensure we don't end up being pessimists. In fact, very optimistic and realistic.

wisteria · Post time 1-6-2007 04:03 PM

that my boss will fail his PTK exam .. again

hahahahah

foundation · Post time 1-6-2007 05:59 PM

Originally posted by wisteria at 1-6-2007 04:03 PM
that my boss will fail his PTK exam .. again

hahahahah

sorry for my ignorance.... PTK exam tu apa?

dutchy · Post time 4-6-2007 12:41 AM

Originally posted by seribulan at 1-6-2007 01:31 PM
The sister's car is making much noise...my negative thought would be i would be stranded somewhere n be abducted...

Most people seem to besiege negative thoughts rather than positive one t ...

sometimes in a coward moment, its easy to be negative and see things negatively

mine is always mistrust in ppl

seribulan · Post time 4-6-2007 11:17 AM

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 1-6-2007 02:20 PM

It is as simple as that it started in our mind.

If we have negative thought, we see only negative things.

sometime the possessive feelings get too strong till it eventually blinded ...

Well, u can always turn it into humorous thought...laughter is the best medicine kan?

If the car is making noise...think of it turning into Herbie...grumbling n nagging away til
u send it fo checking, that is...

seribulan · Post time 4-6-2007 11:19 AM

Originally posted by foundation at 1-6-2007 05:59 PM

sorry for my ignorance.... PTK exam tu apa?

Penilaian Tahap Kecekapan...

Bad employee!

seribulan · Post time 4-6-2007 11:24 AM

I am bad at paying my bills due to moving around...can't keep track of my payments...

I fear I will be cut out of things soon enuff...e.g. phone or car will be towed...DUH!

nazadiyah · Post time 4-6-2007 03:27 PM

for me + n - should be balance....sin n nun = balance.........we are human.....

my-alja · Post time 5-6-2007 03:55 PM

is a matter of choice

my-alja · Post time 5-6-2007 04:04 PM

Originally posted by seribulan at 4-6-2007 11:24 AM
I am bad at paying my bills due to moving around...can't keep track of my payments...

I fear I will be cut out of things soon enuff...e.g. phone or car will be towed...DUH!

rocking chair...the chair is not moving anywhere....

twist it to action

wisteria · Post time 6-6-2007 10:43 AM

Originally posted by seribulan at 4-6-2007 11:19 AM

Penilaian Tahap Kecekapan...

Bad employee!

blame me .. but well ... he's not a good boss either ... kekekekekek

kalau cerita karang .. off topic pulak

hahahah

wise man said : if u don't have anything nice to say .. keep it quite!

so .. i keep my self quite na

*bad me!

seribulan · Post time 6-6-2007 08:48 PM

Originally posted by my-alja at 5-6-2007 04:04 PM

rocking chair...the chair is not moving anywhere....

twist it to action

Dun worry...seems I've been overpaying my bills when checked...I'm way ahead my bills n credits...so down the drain went all negatives there...worthy to have negative thoughts, it seems to be...

seribulan · Post time 6-6-2007 08:52 PM

Originally posted by wisteria at 6-6-2007 10:43 AM

kalau cerita karang .. off topic pulak

hahahah

wise man said : if u don't have anything nice to say .. keep it quite!

well, topic is on the negative...no off there...

Png_Prince · Post time 7-6-2007 09:48 AM

How You Can Eliminate Negative Thinking

Did you know that negative thoughts can destroy your life?

A mind filled with negative thoughts will cause you to feel
miserable, inadequate and will lead you to failure after failure no
matter how hard you try to succeed.

If you have a pattern of negative thinking you're also more likely
to be in debt and end up in destructive or negative relationships.

If you want to succeed, enjoy happiness and live a life of
abundance, and prosperity - you will have to eliminate any
consistent negative thinking, and negative beliefs that you hold.

You'll also have to replace those negative thoughts with positive
thoughts that allow you to succeed and enjoy life.

While this may sound challenging - it's a lot easier than you think
- and today I'm going to outline just how you can eliminate
negative thinking and begin creating the life you want in a few
simple steps.

How Negative Thoughts Start

Let's face it, we all have negative thoughts. As much as you try
you won't be able to eliminate all your negative thinking.

But you can eliminate the chronic negative thoughts and change the
negative beliefs that prevent you from succeeding and achieving
your goals.

What are these thoughts and where do they come from?

They come from you friends, your family, fellow co-workers,
advisers, teachers, even strangers - and they come from you -
that's right! You often create most of the negative thoughts that
you have - and it's only because you haven't trained your mind to
be positive and you haven't created positive beliefs that allow you
to succeed.

The truth is everyday you are bombarded with a series of negative
thoughts, negative messages and as you continue to absorb all of
these negative messages you create a negative thinking pattern that
leads to negative and limiting beliefs.

Negative thoughts are like weeds - if you don't take care of them
and clear them early on - they will take over your entire mind and
destroy any positive thoughts and beliefs.

Here's an analogy that I think drives home my point.

Nearly two years ago my wife and I bought a home with a huge
backyard. Now I'm no professional gardener and I knew that taking
care of this yard would be challenge - but I was up for it.

Well when summer came weeds started to takeover my yard. I asked a
so called expert how to handle the issue and the advice I was given
just about ruined my yard.

I destroyed various chunks of my yard - there were burned patches
all over the place and I had o re-seed large sections.

I spent hours removing the burned grass, putting in fresh soil and
planting the seeds.

Everyday I watered those patches and made sure the seeds got enough
water to help them grow.

Every morning I would like out the window hoping to see new grass
in those patches.

One day - I forgot to look.

I got home in the evening - went out to water those patches - and
guess what - there was new grass everywhere. The patches were
fading and the new grass seemed to have sprouted overnight.

Your mind and life work in a similar way.

How?

Let me explain.

At infancy your mind is much like my garden was - bright, clear and
untainted by the weeds of negative thinking.

As you get older - the weeds of negative thinking start to pop up.
When you don't control them they start to wipe out all that was
lush and positive in your mind and in your life.

The weeds of negative thinking not only taint your mind - they
spill over into your life and start destroying all that you
treasure and appreciate.

But just like my garden - you can fix or correct the problem. You
can eliminate the weeds, plant new seeds and create a new life and
a new way of thinking - one that will allow you to enjoy life a
great deal.

How?

You start by replacing the weeds of negative thinking with positive
thoughts, positive feelings, and begin spreading this positive
message to other people.

When you have a negative thought that says you can't do something -
think of why you can do something.

When you think of what might go wrong - change those negative
thoughts and think about what can go right.

When you feel that you can't accomplish something - think of why
you can accomplish something.

Recite affirmations - these are the seeds of your new positive way
of thinking.
Work with as many techniques as you can to get rid of the weeds and
plant new seeds for positive thinking and positive living.

The results will come when you least expect it.

I had to continue watering my lawn until one day - the new grass
just seemed to pop up.

You have to continue watering your mind with positive feedback -
and then only will things start to change.

When will this change happen?

When you are ready and when you eliminate the negative thinking.
Start removing the negative thoughts that create the weeds of your
mind.
Begin changing negative and limiting beliefs.