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Missjemuh nak tanya, how do you know he's the one? Mungkin soklan ni cliche tapi it's sangat penting for proses pemilihan pasangan hidup and maybe ada antara kita yang still ragu2 and tertanya2 apa nak buat |
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Post time 31-10-2021 09:17 AM
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Edited by green~tea at 31-10-2021 06:41 PM
Missjemuh replied at 31-10-2021 06:05 AM
Missjemuh nak tanya, how do you know he's the one? Mungkin soklan ni cliche tapi it's sangat penting ...
I jawab dulu yach.. kot ada wanita2 lain di sini nak jawab juga dari context korang..
Masa 1st time terserempak dengan husband tu i tengok physically dia mmg boleh tahan la.. and muka dia mcm lighten up tengok i, even masa tu i dgn kawan i, dia tengah coffee dgn kawan dia (after office hour, kat starbucks).. kawan dia exclassmate i, so ada phone number i.. few times terserempak within 2 weeks, he asked for my number..
First date... he's the first man yang i langsung tak glance at my watch lepas berbirak lebih dari 1 hour... usually kalo ada yg berminat ngn i, i kasi can laa 1 date tp i can easily get bored dengan guys yang tak sama wavelength or trying too hard... .. huhuhu
i masa tu janda lah, tp mmg berita i menjanda mmg cepat tersebar and quite bersusun org nak cuba nasib.. tp i mana ada masa utk dating2 sgt, dengan anak lg kan... so i kasi laa can cari masa sesuai for one date... bg i, i nak cari someone yang bijak, i can look up to, boleh communicate.. so that 1 hour not glancing at my watch is my own rule of thumb dalam memilih good boyfriend..
Then i tengok dia belanja i cemane... masa dating, dia mmg tak allow i keluarkan duit belanja, dia ckp, itu ego seorang lelaki, so kalo dating biarlah dia belanja... ok lah situ i nampak dia seorang yg responsible, ada ego tp diletakkan di tempat yg betul...
I couple few months je dgn dia... and dia plak lepas 2 months kenal i, dia nak serious kahwin... so dia start renovate rumah yg dah lama dia beli utk exwife dia tp tak pernah duduk... dia spent lebih 150k utk renovate, tp satu sen pun dia tak pernah minta duit i.. dia ckp bg breather sebulan dua utk dia prepare majlis kawen.. settle renovation rumah, 2 bulan lepas tu kitorg dah selamat ijabkabul...
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Post time 31-10-2021 09:20 AM
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Missjemuh replied at 31-10-2021 06:05 AM
Missjemuh nak tanya, how do you know he's the one? Mungkin soklan ni cliche tapi it's sangat penting ...
In summary lah.. i cuma tengok the followings
1. Thinking wavelength.. boleh masuk tak...
2. Responsible man, ada ego di tempat yg betul
3. Overall physically can do la  |
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green~tea replied at 31-10-2021 09:17 AM
I jawab dulu yach.. kot ada wanita2 lain di sini nak jawab juga dari context korang..
Masa 1st t ...
Laki ni kalau jenis serious nak ajak kawin tu yang bagi missjemuh elok. Yang nak main2 tu tak payah ler silakan pergi main jauh2 dgn org lain.
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green~tea replied at 31-10-2021 09:20 AM
In summary lah.. i cuma tengok the followings
1. Thinking wavelength.. boleh masuk tak...
Pernah missjemuh terbaca, katanya marriage is a gamble. Sebab tak ada yang solid pun kata confirm bahagia ke apa kan kita just boleh usaha dan doa je. |
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Post time 31-10-2021 06:45 PM
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Missjemuh replied at 31-10-2021 04:58 PM
Laki ni kalau jenis serious nak ajak kawin tu yang bagi missjemuh elok. Yang nak main2 tu tak paya ...
Yes lelaki yang ikhlas tu adalah yang cepat2 nak halalkan hubungan (berkahwin)... kitorang mmg jenis tak penting kan majlis gilang gemilang, sementelah both pernah kawen pun... so majlis kitorg mmg simple je 1 majlis akad nikah sahaja.. tak perlu habis beratus ribu utk wedding grand mcm 1st wedding husband i dulu..
Majlis yang simple and affordable, tak menyusahkan kitorg.... tp kitorang spend lebih dekat honeymoon ler... kitorang honeymoon 5 kali dalam setahun tu (japan, bali, bangkok, NZ/OZ & kota kinabalu) |
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Post time 31-10-2021 08:04 PM
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Missjemuh replied at 31-10-2021 05:00 PM
Pernah missjemuh terbaca, katanya marriage is a gamble. Sebab tak ada yang solid pun kata confirm ...
Husband i jenis serik dah nak kawen lg lepas dia cerai dulu... terlalu down sampai dia kena counseling almost 1 year lepas cerai sbb pejabat agama detect dia depress, so diorg extend session counselling to him... luckily lepas 2 tahun dia cerai tu, jumpa i... heols siap bawak i jumpa counsellor dia... utk perkenalkan and seek advice... counsellor dia la jugak yg pujuk husband i, give urself a second chance... |
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green~tea replied at 31-10-2021 06:45 PM
Yes lelaki yang ikhlas tu adalah yang cepat2 nak halalkan hubungan (berkahwin)... kitorang mmg jen ...
Tu yang helok ni kawin nak grand2 aleh2 makcik2 onion mengata jugak wedding kita.
Baik simpan duit untuk bahagiakan diri sendiri |
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green~tea replied at 31-10-2021 08:04 PM
Husband i jenis serik dah nak kawen lg lepas dia cerai dulu... terlalu down sampai dia kena counse ...
Ye? Eloklah tu maknanya husb u dah jumpa someone yg he can trust balik. Baguslah tu sebab he's healthy again.
Tahniah semoga aman bahagia dunia jannah |
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Post time 31-10-2021 11:01 PM
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Edited by green~tea at 31-10-2021 11:03 PM
Missjemuh replied at 31-10-2021 08:17 PM
Ye? Eloklah tu maknanya husb u dah jumpa someone yg he can trust balik. Baguslah tu sebab he's hea ...
Yes.. marriage counselor tu nama dato h****.. masa i jumpa dia tu, byk la dia advise i... jaga bakal husband i elok2 sbb dia orang yg baik...
Husband i depress sbb berhabis more than 100k for wedding je.. pastu honeymoon depa pi umrah skali bawak family in laws dia.. then beli lagi rumah landed sbb wife nak rumah brand new takde org duduk.. tup2 2 bulan before dpt kunci rumah, exwife dia lari dari rumah and tuntut cerai...
husband i ceraikan dia leklok lah, siap bayar mutaah (even exwife dia masih dara sbb refuse sex dgn husband).. lawyer and marriage counselor nasihatkan husband i bayar je mutaah and iddah & sign agreement utk tiada sebarang tuntutan in future.. clean cut divorce... kalo nak masuk mahkamah charge isteri nusyuz, complicated sbb nak kena buktikan exwife dia virgin technically susah dan mengaibkan...
Begitu lah proses cerai.. complicated and makan duit juga sbb kita perlukan clean cut divorce, utk elak tuntutan in future especially harta sepencarian sedangkan their marriage tu mcm tak valid pun sbb x pernah sex... |
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green~tea replied at 31-10-2021 11:01 PM
Yes.. marriage counselor tu nama dato h****.. masa i jumpa dia tu, byk la dia advise i... jaga ba ...
Macam2 perangai ada kan takut pulakk. Lps ni nak cari pasangan, doa, mintak istikharah bebanyak kat Tuhan biar Allah hantar yang elok2 je kat kita semua |
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Post time 31-10-2021 11:25 PM
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Missjemuh replied at 31-10-2021 11:22 PM
Macam2 perangai ada kan takut pulakk. Lps ni nak cari pasangan, doa, mintak istikharah bebanyak ka ...
Exactly.. harap2 pasangan kita gu membahagiakan dan membina kita.. |
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green~tea replied at 31-10-2021 11:25 PM
Exactly.. harap2 pasangan kita gu membahagiakan dan membina kita..
Yes.. Hendaknya yang sampai ke syurga |
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@Hidungkembang sisthurrr.. i tag u kat sini laa chat sini pasal Olay regenerist tu boleh tak.. i cannot open your PM... i tatau apsal kadang2 PM ni error... senang sembang pasal skincare sini orang lain pun bleh mencelah bg opinion |
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Post time 8-1-2022 09:07 PM
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@hidungkembang i dulu pakai olay retinol tp disebabkan reganya mahal sgt so i am back to be using olay regenerist tub warna grey.. night cream tu... then utk retinol, i pakai the ordinary retinol serum... combination ni is better than using olay retinol tu.. result biasye2 je, rega plak mahal...
The ordinary retinol tu pakai malam je.... olay regenerist night cream pun pakai lepas sapu serum retinol tu... then tido....
Pagi pakai laa spf50 and bbcream of your choice.. i pakai spf50 anessa whitening (forumer yang suggest and I LOVE IT!!!).... lepas tu i tepek le any bbcream cosmoderm of light foundation silky girl matte tu.. murah rm27 sebotol je.. result nice lightweight
Dulu2 i pakai MAC studiofix... tebal je rasa.. and i naik bumps... then estee lauder.. same result... then bertahun pakai bbcream bobbi brown best tp rega mahal sgt... lepas jumpa cosmoderm or silkygirl ni sama je coverage, apedehal, beli je la yg lagi murah and kind to skin.. takde break outs... |
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green~tea replied at 8-1-2022 09:07 PM
@hidungkembang i dulu pakai olay retinol tp disebabkan reganya mahal sgt so i am back to be using ol ...
Omg. Thanks sisturrrr. Saya pergi google dulu produk produk yang berkaitan.
Nak start pakai skincare balik sebab dah lamaaaaa tinggal. Muka pun dah naik jerawat, dengan wrinkles segala macam. Malu lah kang orang ingat dah 30an padahal baru 20an. Wakakaka! Tqtqtqtq!! |
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Hidungkembang replied at 8-1-2022 09:14 PM
Omg. Thanks sisturrrr. Saya pergi google dulu produk produk yang berkaitan.
Wow.. orang umur 20 an already concern about wrinkles.... hahahahaha....
Since you are that young... dont overdose on retinol... just buy a mild one je.. cari concentration yang 0.2% in squalene tu je... sbb retinol ni sensitive to UV... takut naik jeragat kalo pakai awal2.. retinol is skin communicating ingredients, it tells your skin to behave like a young cell, produce collagen sufficiently.. itu lah function nya...
Dalam olay, contains good formulation of niacinamide.. the best one i ever use... i pernah beli brand lain cam the ordinary, inkey list takde yang dpt challenge keberkesanan niacinamide formulation olay ni... the pricey version of niacinamide cream is SKII, same company dengan olay je sbnrnya tp market segment luxury... formulation sama je
While you're still young, U better focus on spf50.... anessa spf50 whitening tu serious best... lembut and nyaman je pakai kat muka.. |
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green~tea replied at 9-2-2021 09:26 PM
Hahahahha weyy i have those in my toys box!! But have yet to merasmikan that one.. tp iols pernah ...
receive or giving rimjob?lols |
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green~tea replied at 31-10-2021 06:45 PM
Yes lelaki yang ikhlas tu adalah yang cepat2 nak halalkan hubungan (berkahwin)... kitorang mmg jen ...
Ayat lelaki ikhlas & halalkan perhubungan itu membawa makna yg mendalam. Tahniah awak!! Till jannah.
Kerap mdgr kwn2 mengeluh, bertahun2 berkawan. Masih tak kahwin2... sebaiknya angkat kakikah? Luaran si lelaki nampak ok tp smgt nk halalkan tu tiada. |
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BlousePutih replied at 23-1-2022 04:16 PM
Ayat lelaki ikhlas & halalkan perhubungan itu membawa makna yg mendalam. Tahniah awak!! Till janna ...
Yeah, kena cepat halalkan hubungan.. kalo dah lama sgt hanging, mana responsibility nya... |
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