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Post time 9-11-2020 12:08 PM | Show all posts |Read mode
Edited by green~tea at 9-11-2020 12:17 PM

Hi lovelies,



I'm entering a new phase in life : early retirement.. so I need your ideas, your guidance apa pendapat korang about early retirements, and apa aktiviti yang kita boleh buat utk ensure this early retirement more meaningful...

so in this journey to prep ourselves for this... we have to be ready : -

MENTALLY     - read books, further study (MBA, PHD)

PHYSICALLY    - health insurance, workout regularly, gym membership

FINANCIALLY    - passive income, expenditure plans

EMOTIONALLY - surround with friends, have a hobby, pursue your passion

SPIRITUALLY - kelas mengaji & tafsir, program agama among muslimat, join the activities



Thanks in advance !!~~




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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 12:25 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Lagi satu, mcmana nak handle perception orang yang suka pandang rendah pada housewife?

These are the things that makes me nervous... nnti orang pandang hina laa, berharap duit laki laa apa laa.. padahal bila kita retire doesnt mean that kita langsung takde income... tp tu la.. perception orang kan...
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Post time 9-11-2020 02:08 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I wld say go with the flow.
I consider myself semi retire but i can't fully retire since i am owner of a few business.

My life skrg, pokok bunga & kucing. I dont eat much so I don't cook much.

My firm, managers jaga. My other business small holder je, so x de la time consuming sgt.
Biasa petang i lepak mamak, malam i read novel & ngaji.

Tai tai, never one never will be.
I lobe n happy with my life direction now.

Since i know u personally, i am against u to semi retire. Sayang bakat & kepakaran. what a lost.

Tapi jgn ingat duduk rumah blh rehat gitu je. Kepala tu ade je mende fikir n nak buat.
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Post time 9-11-2020 02:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 12:25 PM
Lagi satu, mcmana nak handle perception orang yang suka pandang rendah pada housewife?

These are ...

Sape yg pandang rendah tu.  I rase surirumah insan bertuah dpt jaga anak sepenuh masa.
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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 02:19 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MrsVeneer replied at 9-11-2020 02:08 PM
I wld say go with the flow.
I consider myself semi retire but i can't fully retire since i am owner ...

Hopefully i wont lose my skills and talent lah... thats why i nak ambil MBA next year, just for the sake of networking as well as for self - enrichment...

Consider it as my time off for before i decide to rejoin the corporate world or enjoying this early retirement...

I takde nak kejar income dasyat2 pun... i believe im self sufficient with my current plan of passive income... ok la.. live simple and humble is enough
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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 02:20 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MrsVeneer replied at 9-11-2020 02:09 PM
Sape yg pandang rendah tu.  I rase surirumah insan bertuah dpt jaga anak sepenuh masa.

There's a few housewives friend (which i believe kawan2 u jugak, we're same circle lahhhhhh mak hayammmmmmmm).... diorg la duk luah kat i some of them have low self esteem because of this
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Post time 9-11-2020 02:24 PM | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 02:20 PM
There's a few housewives friend (which i believe kawan2 u jugak, we're same circle lahhhhhh mak ha ...

Low self esteem? Org kaya ada low self esteem?
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Post time 9-11-2020 02:25 PM | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 02:19 PM
Hopefully i wont lose my skills and talent lah... thats why i nak ambil MBA next year, just for th ...

MBA We should never stop pursuing knowledge in life.
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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 02:33 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 9-11-2020 02:35 PM
DyanaHarun replied at 9-11-2020 02:24 PM
Low self esteem? Org kaya ada low self esteem?


Oh takde ke? I watched tv series the crown... dalam tu ada episode yang queen elizabeth requested for a private tutor sbb dia merasakan diri dia not good enough utk give constitutional advise to the members of parliament...

So i believe at some point... mmg ada rasa low self esteem especially bila kita dah keluar dari our "working" environment... rasa ketinggalan.. im quite competitive sbrnnya, so maybe im worried on some petty things like these
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Post time 9-11-2020 03:11 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 02:20 PM
There's a few housewives friend (which i believe kawan2 u jugak, we're same circle lahhhhhh mak ha ...

Nanti nk lempang derang
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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 03:22 PM | Show all posts

i will alert them first!!!! ahahahhahahahah
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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 04:00 PM | Show all posts
ok lah.. I nak menulis a bit about emotional stability  post retirement....

sebenarnya ini yang husband I tekankan… dia mmg emphasize sangat2 utk I continue with my workout gang.. gym ladies.... he wants me to continue pursuing my hobby, my passion....

as u know, I love dancing.. fitness dance especially.. sbb dancing relieve stress in me.. the reason that keeps me going to the office, when everyday I look forward to workout dengan kawan2 during lunch break or after office hour... mmg happening, and we're very close....

so dalam expenses (financial planning I tu), I mmg include expenses utk gym membership, fuel, parking tickets cost, and some allocation for attending events for fitness mcm running event, Zumba or fitness dance entrance fee events...

I tanak jadi makcik pencen gundu and OLD... sluggish.. tanak tanak tanakkkkk…..


my other passion is my BFT girls group... there are 20 of us dalam group tu, been extremely close friends since 2017... banyak pahit maung kitorg harung bersama… this forum brought us together.. so that's why I masuk forum sometimes, to keep my sanity.. being alert with current issues and what not...
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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 04:10 PM | Show all posts
On PHYSICAL well being, apart from regularly working out... I also take some supplements.. currently I beli my supplements from lazada or iherbs or pharmacies mcm guardian/Watson sahaja…


iherbs - essential oils (now foods), maca root (now foods), atkins snack

pharmacies - Berocca (sometimes husband I borong murah2 dekat chemist warehouse everytime dia outstation kat Australia or New Zealand.. skali pergi OZ, mmg dia borong berkotak2 Berocca, satu kotak berocca ada 4 tubes, baru 9 dollar camtu je)

Lazada - usually I buy my workout supplements kat pharmacy online and I borong byk2 terus time ada sale... contoh Aspen l-carnitine that I usually take before workout utk improve metabolism

there's also this jamu that I home made saja.. 1 cup ginger, 1 cup garlic, 1 cup honey, perahan 2 biji lemon... this I take 20 ml daily...
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Post time 9-11-2020 04:16 PM | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 02:33 PM
Oh takde ke? I watched tv series the crown... dalam tu ada episode yang queen elizabeth requeste ...

Biasa Low self esteem berlaku apa bila perniagan kami gagal, kehilangan kerja, bercerai etc... But anything can happen lah...
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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 04:49 PM | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 9-11-2020 05:26 PM
DyanaHarun replied at 9-11-2020 04:16 PM
Biasa Low self esteem berlaku apa bila perniagan kami gagal, kehilangan kerja, bercerai etc... But ...

owh... u're referring to that..... ok2 faham... mmg ada betul lah, dari segi ujian yang macam tu, mmg automatically confidence level crushed.... husband i pernah mencerita, bila jatuh terduduk, the survival instinct utk keluar dari keadaan itu lebih kuat as compare to orang yang dpt ujian yang biasa2 sahaja... motivation utk keep on surviving tu mmg hebat lah....

in my situation with early retirement ni, i'm referring to the feeling of being disconnected to my normal corporate and working environment, evaluating investment portfolios, making business strategies & dynamics.. well one of the reason i nak ambil MBA is that i want to maintain my networking, or better, expand it beyond my current oil n gas circle....

adakah i'm facing mid life crisis sebenarnya?
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Post time 9-11-2020 05:23 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 04:49 PM
owh... u're referring to that..... ok2 faham... mmg ada betul lah, dari segi ujian yang macam tu,  ...

I faham low self esteem mcm mana yg u mksdkan sis..for me, go with ur plan..bgs dh plan u tu..cuma take it slowly n go with the flow..dun be too rigid nk ikut plan 100%
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 Author| Post time 9-11-2020 05:31 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Alyazahra replied at 9-11-2020 05:23 PM
I faham low self esteem mcm mana yg u mksdkan sis..for me, go with ur plan..bgs dh plan u tu..cuma ...

Itu lah kan... terlalu byk yang dlm planning i ni... and husband i mcm tak suka sgt i duduk diam kat rumah lepas retire.... dia risau i boring duk rumah and perabis duit simpanan je shopping mende takde pekdah... and i insyaAllah dah slowly makin disiplin kan diri i follow planning... even i ada buat excel spreadsheet apa i nak buat bila i reach certain age... but my planning is dynamic la, boleh tukar2, sbb kita tak tau future and external factors mcmana kan...
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Post time 9-11-2020 08:23 PM | Show all posts
iols akan move topic ni ke board wanita ya. sana lebih sesuai.
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 Author| Post time 10-11-2020 09:10 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
lil_honey replied at 9-11-2020 08:23 PM
iols akan move topic ni ke board wanita ya. sana lebih sesuai.

No worries mod.... tak kisah pun move sini..
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Post time 10-11-2020 10:22 AM | Show all posts
wow good thread indeed.
I will be following your journey sis
as guidance for myself too
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