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aku tensyon le server tak bagi kerjasama...curang betul server ni
jap2 lagi aku masuk le balik |
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kredit pree........ |
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thread puaka..
awat dr td asyik mendap je..
aku nk tanya..org2 yg curang ni sbnrya..mg dh niat dr awal ke, nk buka hati kt org lain?
atau..tiba2 je tercurang..hehe |
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trid nih berhantu lah....
jaga2.... jgn sampai kena tempias... |
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ku nk tahu jugek apa yg ada di belakang |
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Originally posted by dealova04 at 21-8-2008 09:02
ye..aku setujukk ...
normal..mmg mcm ni la yg sepatutnye....
tp...aku pelik la...
ada tu..w/pn hubby tau..tp hubby leh bg supportive..mm..support dia kuar dr kemelut...
mmm...kalau laki aku la...kompom..."xde maaf bg mu"
setahu aku..kalau seseorang huby tu perfect...kalau wife buat hal..xde hal nyer bg dia still nk bini tu lg...w/pn bini lawa mn pn ...tp kalau dah perangai mcm tu...mmg kick out la...xde nyer dia nk lg dgn bini mcm tu...
sebelom kawen..lawa mmg antara faktor yg dicari...
tp..selepas kawen...lawa mn pn bini..tp kalau b'perangai ... x guna gak... ...aahhhh...betul tu...tu kalau hubby tu merasakan yang diri dia dah betul2 perfectlah...too perfect that he is not capable of making mistakes...sebab tu tiada maaf bagi mu dan dia tak teragak2 tuk kick out the wife bila si isteri nie terkhilaf...
...pple make mistakes...no matter how perfect they are...they make mistakes too...and...it would be very sad kalau kita tidak dapat memberikan kemaafan pada orang yang telah melakukan kesilapan...cos afterall...kata orang...even nabi saw pon memaafkan musuhnya...dan Allah jugak maha pengampun...nie kan kita??...dan...it would be sad jugak kalau kita sebagai orang yang bersalah tidak diberi peluang tuk memperbaiki kesilapan kita...no 2nd chances...dan...yang lebih menyedihkan ialah pabila kita jugak di kick out oleh orang yang pernah menyayangi kita suatu masa dulu...and becos of what???...becos kita gagal mengawal nafsu kita...kerana kita gagal menolak pujuk rayu from some other guy...and not only do we lose our marriage...we also at risk of losing our kids and our sanity...but hey...tu pandai2 kitalah kan...afterall...sapa suruh kita terjebak with other men??...suami kita apa peduli??...dorang ada their image to jaga perr...kalau dorang tak kick out kita...dorang akan dilabel as lelaki dayussss....so...even tho the wife dah sama2 melalui bad times and good times together2...all those dah tak de apa2 erti dah...sad isnt it??...after all those years together...becos of just one silly mistake...semuanya musnah dan berkecai...
...i would be very proud to have a husband who is willing to deflate his ego and forgive me for my wrongdoings...i would be very very thankful to have a husband who pulls me back to reality before aku trippin' jauh...i would be very very very eternally grateful kalau dia kluarkan aku dari kemelut yang bakal menghancurkan kehidupan aku dan orang2 yang aku sayangi...
...memang orang lelaki agak sukar tuk memberi kemaafan jika dibanding ngan orang pompan...but...never2 equate men who show mercy and forgiveness as being weak...i hold them in high regards...cos...to me...forgiving men are men with a heart...who can emphatise with the guilty party by seeing themselves capable of similar offenses...and realising that they are not perfect...cos afterall...like the wrong doers...they too are just human...
[ Last edited by blackmore at 22-8-2008 03:34 AM ] |
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