Did I have an affair?

manakautau

Originally posted by sarahmirza at 23-1-2008 01:31 PM
En. Idhamriza, my suggestion, you should

1. Share things you appreciate about your wife with her everyday like puji dia masak sedap, iron baju kemas etc.

2. Really listen to her and don't ...

One size fits all ????? Only you know best.....follow yor heart....cam sweetmama cakap go with the flow.......Mana lah buah hati Manak sorang ni? odah tak nampak dia shopping2 kat tempat odah ker??????

dianthe

sweetmama sopping kat parkson kontan jerk

sarahmirza

Originally posted by manakautau at 23-1-2008 01:42 PM


One size fits all ????? Only you know best.....follow yor heart....cam sweetmama cakap go with the flow.......Mana lah buah hati Manak sorang ni? odah tak nampak dia shopping2 kat  ...

Jangan buat one size, buat free size. Common courtesy plays a big role in HAPPY marriage.

People in HAPPY marriage don't want to hurt one another's feelings.

People in HAPPY marriage don't try to make the other one feel humiliated.

People who are married for life are extremely kind to one another.

People who are permanently married are polite to one another.

A HAPPY Marriage is a marriage between TWO (2) HAPPY PEOPLE !

manakautau

Even robots break down...................... (hantu chocolate...autobot...transform)

manakautau

Hang selalu jumpa kah???? Kim salam leh????? tanya dia pepasai tai mai jengok2 Manak kelepai sowang ni kat FD???

dianthe

jumpa? tak ah, dia dah sambung study kay S.M. Harvard

Kirana_cari

En Idham,
tolong jawab soalan-soalan ni kalau boleh.


1. Apakah awak mesti dalam linkungan 35 - 48 tahun.
2. Adakah kemahuan aktiviti kelamin melonjak-lonjak tapi isteri awak
3. Awak merasakan pada usia awak ni awak ingat tahu kalau awak masih dpt menarik perhatian wanita lain selain isteri awak.
4. Kewangan awak agak mantap dan awak yakin awak mampu dari segi kewangan mahupun kemampuan kelelakian awak untuk punya seorang lagi isteri.
5 Awak tidak mahu mengaku awak sudah tua.

nighunter71

Originally posted by idhamriza at 22-1-2008 05:04 PM
I have been with my wife for 12 years. We have our ups and downs like any couple. Day to day things are OK and I assumed that抯 just how it抯 supposed to be.

I was at an out of town, outstati ...

I know the feeling bro...and that feeling is not easy to get...and trust me..even harder to go away.

Even till this day ..with every beat of my heart i still remember her even thought i don't want to.

It's not the period of relationship..it's not the touch or the kiss...it's the chemistry that you felt present when you are together..isn't it?.

Maideen_jr

sebelum ni aku ada baca thread mamat ni. katanya dia tipu ttg cerita affair dia. sekarang mengaku pulak. mcm2 ragam lah korang kat board ni.

norsha

i dont think your marriage ada big problem pun..just that part your wife accuse you of having an affair..get to know your wife better, selidik dulu cerita yg camne dia boleh accept..cerita yg camne dia takleh accept..u cant always tell your wife the truth sb kadang2 the truth tu hurts..

btw..about the lady yg u rasa love at the first sight (which i believe u tak rasa with your present wife la)..u serahkan je lah pada God..if ada jodoh, u maybe akan jumpa that lady balik and ada peluang get married with her...kalau dah ditakdirkan takde jodoh, takdelah peluang u tu..put believe in God..Dia akan aturkan teh best for you..

as for now, concentrate on your present marriage..pujuk balik your wife so that she can put back her trust on you..

good luck...

cherub

dear tuan umah,

if you single, and feel camtu, namanya love or infatuation.

if you laki or bapak orang, namanya EMOTIONAL AFFAIR. saja saya boldkan, kot tak nampak. emotional affair is an afair. fullstop.

you are taking the right step in teling your wife. however if issues are not resolved quickly enough, it will become a physical afair.

emotional or not, it hurts just the same. it does not help the situation with your wife.

you have needs, she has needs. you're both not fulfilling each other's needs. that's why you're still looking.

carilah marriage counsellor, atau nasihat org tua. dekatkan diri pada yg ESA. sedarlah yg awak tu
sangatlah bertuah, cukup rezeki, cukup segala. nobody's perfect, sir. susah sgt kah nak work things out. you think your wife's not perfect, you pun dah beraffair, dah tak perfect tu.

betulkan diri sendiri tu dulu. wife tak dengar cakap, ask yourself if you are a good manager of the marriage? every reaction towards us is usually a result of our own action. your marriage needs help. you are very close to a physical affair. very.

sueria_azlee

married man yg gatal nak kahwin lain @ yg nak bergf2 ni..selalunya akan buruk2kan wife..ada saja yg x kena pasal wife dier org..tak pandai jaga badan la..x pandai layan atas katil ( ntah selama ni sapa yg dok layan dier atas katil ntah )..dan 1001 alasan lagi.mmg aku x nafikan..ada segelintir wife macam tu..tp x semua..
kami wife2 ni..lagi dah beranak pinak lagi mahu jaga badan..luar dalam..telan segala jamu..segala ubat tapi ada jugak hb yg x appriciated..

hb2 yg gatal ni..selalu mudah lupa..dulu masa susah..duduk setinggan..siapa yg dok bantu..yg dok support..tapi bila dah pindah dok banglow...mula lupa..mula citer buruk2 ttg wife..

so pada tuan tanah..even ur wife ada buat mistake..as urself..sebagai  ketua keluarga..what should i do..kenapa wife aku dok fantasize org lain..kenapa wife aku ckp mcm tu..kenapa..kenapa..kenapa..

jgn marah..aku cuma menyuarakan apa yg aku nampak dan apa yg berlaku disekitar aku saja..

sarahmirza

Originally posted by manakautau at 23-1-2008 02:12 PM
Even robots break down...................... (hantu chocolate...autobot...transform)

My ex-BF (Sammy Knight) pesan;

Whenever you have a lot of breakdowns, it's normally from a lack of communication.

nighunter71

Originally posted by Maideen_jr at 23-1-2008 03:31 PM
sebelum ni aku ada baca thread mamat ni. katanya dia tipu ttg cerita affair dia. sekarang mengaku pulak. mcm2 ragam lah korang kat board ni.

Errrrrrrrrrrrr...kalau tak silap aku..mamat sweet & innocent tu kata..anggaplah cerita dia semua tipu...

Dia tak kata semua cerita dia tipu...kan kan kan???

nighunter71

Originally posted by sueria_azlee at 23-1-2008 04:47 PM
married man yg gatal nak kahwin lain @ yg nak bergf2 ni..selalunya akan buruk2kan wife..ada saja yg x kena pasal wife dier org..tak pandai jaga badan la..x pandai layan atas katil ( ntah selama n ...

Pernahkan ko terfikir yang alasan alasan itu mungkin ada kebenarannya?

sarahmirza

Originally posted by nighunter71 at 23-1-2008 05:41 PM

Errrrrrrrrrrrr...kalau tak silap aku..mamat sweet & innocent tu kata..anggaplah cerita dia semua tipu...

Dia tak kata semua cerita dia tipu...kan kan kan???

Kat mana you all baca thread dia lagi satu?

Kenapa gue terasa mamat ini ganisara? Ya ampun kalau bukan.

mummyslove

ye ke? see, like it kan sarah... sori la kalau silap

nighunter71

Originally posted by sarahmirza at 23-1-2008 05:44 PM




Kat mana you all baca thread dia lagi satu?

Kenapa gue terasa mamat ini ganisara? Ya ampun kalau bukan.

Aik..dulu kita selalu gaduh..how come you think of me as ganisara? The broken english mamat?kah3x

sarahmirza

Originally posted by nighunter71 at 23-1-2008 05:49 PM

Aik..dulu kita selalu gaduh..how come you think of me as ganisara? The broken english mamat?kah3x

Perasan pulak nighunter ni. I maksudkan Idhamriza ni Ganisara, bukan you.

sarahmirza

Originally posted by mummyslove at 23-1-2008 05:50 PM
ye ke? see, like it kan sarah... sori la kalau silap

Intan claimed dia boleh scan orang, abe aji claimed dia boleh kenal org dari avatar & signature kita. Gue pulak tak adalah claimed, cuma terasa je mereka orang yang sama. Ya ampun lagi kalau bukan.