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[MERGED] Menyusukan anak depan public

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Post time 7-6-2006 06:01 PM | Show all posts
saya pun penah gak breastfeed kat public..anak saya masa baby, kalau dengan saya mmg x nak isap botol..  cover la ngan tudung n x ble la pakai baju kecik2 masa kuar jenjalan..
lantak le org nak pandang or ckp apa.. but skrg nih rasanya org dah x kisah dah.. sbb ramai dah tau kebaikan breastfeed nih

tp kalau kat tempat tuh ada baby room/surau/rest room.. saya slalu nyusukan kat situ
x pun bg dia nyusu masa dlm kete sblm sampai or tahan sekejap kehendak dia n bg nyusu dlm kete on the way nak blk umah
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Post time 8-6-2006 11:44 AM | Show all posts
Sy baru jer ternmpk ibu breastfeed anak dia dpn public last wk kat Alamanda.....entah lah yek...bg sy, tak brp manis lah nk breastfeed anak kat public sbb skrg kat mana2 shopping ctr ade disediakan babies changing room, so sy rasa sesuai lah breastfeed anak kat situ....sy sendiri klu nk breastfeed anak sy walau dirumah pun sy akan masuk bilik utk breastfeed..... tp ye lah kan, itu sy....org lain mungkin lain caranyer
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Post time 8-6-2006 12:06 PM | Show all posts
emm mmg x manis ape lagi kite ni pompuan mmg dihiasi dgn sikap malu. but sometime terkena waktu naik lrt tuh terpaksa la tersorok2 sambil wat muke slumber. cume perasaan kesian baby lapar tuh and bangga bile minum susu ikhlas dari ati kita, sebabkan momnih dh lali dgn jelingan org.

teh pernah juge kena, kat poliklinik kerajaan, while waiting for my turn, baby lapar. no room provided. so pi laujung2 tuh sambil BF baby. mase tuh la duk pk, awat la promote BF tp x sediakan kemudahan.
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Post time 8-6-2006 12:22 PM | Show all posts
last week first me kuar shopping sejak ada baby
dia meronta2 nak BF tapi takde tempat
so, jalan yg ada
me masuk lam toilet
tapi jgn tutup pintu laaa
sib baik bibik yang cuci toilet tu
bila nampak me susah2 nak BF
dia cepat2 lapkan toilet seat laaa
bawak kuar tong sampah sume
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Post time 8-6-2006 09:57 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by LadyMarmalade at 8-6-2006 11:44 AM
Sy baru jer ternmpk ibu breastfeed anak dia dpn public last wk kat Alamanda.....entah lah yek...bg sy, tak brp manis lah nk breastfeed anak kat public sbb skrg kat mana2 shopping ctr ade disediakan ...

I guess it depends pada masing-masinglah. Bagi lm breastfeeding is something beautiful, bukan setakat bagi makan...it's bonding antara ibu dan anak so I really don't mind breastfeeding in public. Setgh org pulak rasa breastfeeding is something intimate and rather do it in their own privacy. Whatever pon, org ramai perlu menghormati ibu yg susukan anak dan masyarakat perlu ubah persepsi depa tentang penyusuan ibu. Breastfeeding is not taboo dan Islam menggalakkan menyusu badan.
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Post time 9-6-2006 07:05 PM | Show all posts
sebenarnya kalu kiter tengok ibu yg menyusukan bayi nih rasa macam tersentuhnyer hati....macam sejuk jer hati....itu sebab ay4 tak kisah kalu nak menyusu anak kat public...BANGGA sebab anak kiter merasa susu dari ibu dier sendiri...cuba bayangkan kalu baby yg dilahirkan tanpa ibu....:hmm::hmm:
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Post time 12-6-2006 09:49 AM | Show all posts
sebenonye,MJ x pulak le rase bangge ke ape ke mase bf baby ni. I just do what i hv to do.
Kalau ke shopping complex, usually MJ will feed her in the car...cume kadang2 x cukup tu yg die nak jugak. Kalau dlm mase 2 hours rase nye cukup utk sampai balik & bf again dlm keta...

I really hope other ppl x pandang semacam terhadap ibu2 yg terpakse bf baby kat public...
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Post time 12-6-2006 10:55 AM | Show all posts
my mom dulu citer...masa kitaorg baby...kalau nangis nak susu dan reluctant to formula milk...my mom terpaksa breastfeed jugak kat depan public....w'pun malu tapi sebab my late father ada and his said..".buat apa nak malu...budak ni da bapak! bagi je isap".....hahahaa...since then my mom tak kisah nak breastfeed kitaorg ni kalau kat public...hahahaha...tapi i stil kever2 lah...malu lah...ekekek...i dun dre sgt nak breastfeed my baby depan public.....nasib my baby jenis yg tak kisah...semua pun OK....
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Post time 12-6-2006 11:13 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by mattromeo at 29-9-2005 10:41 PM
selalu jugak terserempak dengan ibu yg susukan anak (breastfeeding) depan public.. normal ke..?
kalau diorang cover dia punya 'tut' tu takpe la jugak..ini tidak..sampai 'nipple' diorang pun dapat  ...


aku yang bfkan my son(now 1 yr 8 mths) pun penah gak terfikir macam ko ni, mattromeo... kadang2 tu rasa malu gak bila ternampak ibu2 ni saje je bfkan anak dia tanpa cover... aku penah gak nampak, masa tu ada tournament bowling... dahlah dia bfkan anak dia kat public, pastu selak dari bawah pulak (sebab pakai t-shirt lengan panjang)... bila dah turn dia main bowling, cepat2 dia tutup breast dia... so nampaklah tut dan perut sikit... kalau aku yang ternampak, takpelah... tapi pepaham jelah kat bowling alley tu, dahlah ramai orang... nak tegur gak time tu, tapi tak tertegur pulak...

Islamkan dah lengkap... dengan menutup aurat, semua tu dapat diatasi... macam aku contohnya, time bf ni, aku memang khaskan pakai baju jubah pendek (yang ada butang depan tu, cuma buka 1 butang atas sahaja) kalau nak gi jenjalan... dan tudung, walau tak labuh, tapi aku tutup semua (takde selempang2... pesen je tu!)... kalau anak dah tak sabar nak bf, kebetulan takde tempat nursing dan park keter jauh... aku akan cari port yang tersembunyi dan hanya mengeluarkan t** sahaja... bukan fully breast keluarkan dan dicover dengan tudung... memang tak nampaklah...

aku cadangkan semua orang pakai tudung besar sikit dan menutup aurat... tak rugi bahkan dapat pahala sebab menutup aurat...

[ Last edited by  aishiteru03 at 12-6-2006 11:24 AM ]
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Post time 12-6-2006 11:33 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by lmokhtar at 8-6-2006 09:57 PM

I guess it depends pada masing-masinglah. Bagi lm breastfeeding is something beautiful, bukan setakat bagi makan...it's bonding antara ibu dan anak so I really don't mind breastfeeding in public. ...


Mmg lah bukan taboo & dlm islam menggalakkan & tak dinafikan BF tu something beautiful, mmg infact it is a bonding between mother & child yg even father pun tak dpt privilege tu, but bukan kah breast kita tu aurat, if kepala kita bertutup bg sy apatah lagi breast kite, sy rasa dlm islam pun tak de execption bg BF boleh bg org lain utk melihat aurat kita....kalo sekali pun tak de tmpt nk BF ade baik nyer kita mencari tmpt yg a bit secluded...if dlm LRT tu sy no komen lah maybe susah lah nk carik tmpt yg secluded tp sy pun dulu BF anak sy tp bila sy dlm LRT or bus or sy berjln2 sy bwk susu dlm botol, just incase tak de tmpt nk BF....that is my 2 cents lah but again is up to individual lah....itu cara sy...cara org lain mungkin berbeza.....
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Post time 12-6-2006 12:51 PM | Show all posts
ni cth ibu yg susukan anak depan public..






what do you think?
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Post time 12-6-2006 01:37 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by eyzlyn at 12-6-2006 12:51 PM
ni cth ibu yg susukan anak depan public..






what do you think?


bravo!!ini membuktikan kaum ibu berani....salutelah...:tq:
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Post time 12-6-2006 01:59 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by eyzlyn at 12-6-2006 12:51 PM
ni cth ibu yg susukan anak depan public..






what do you think?


hmm...kalo yg mcm nih sy rasa ok....terlindung & kita punye breast pun tak nmpk
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Post time 12-6-2006 02:37 PM | Show all posts
yeah..aurat musti mau jaga...tu yg penting..
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Post time 4-7-2006 11:25 AM | Show all posts
Hm...kalau contoh ezylyn tu aku setuju.....infact kalau masa bf tutup dengan tudung atau kain selimut ke depan public....kat mana2 lah for that matter...I have no objection...memanglah setuju...anak dah nak minum bagi aje la....tapi yang kureng tu ...bila bf...HAH, BUKAN BUAH DADA DIA AJE YANG TEREXPOSE......PUT***NYA SEKALI....NAMPAK...masa tu jalan ngan oficemates lelaki...adoiiii malunya...ini yang menjadikan setengah orang kata bf itu obscene...walaupun  niat asasnya baik....
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Post time 4-7-2006 01:20 PM | Show all posts
rupa2nya ada kain untuk tutup baby camtu..senanglah sikit utk ibu2 nak nyusu anak kan?
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Post time 4-7-2006 03:05 PM | Show all posts
Izzana dulu waktu bf kat public pun slalu jugak gunakan either bf room or gunakkan shawl. Pernah satu kali tu gi kat parkson grand tengah sibuk beli barang, tiba2 baby nangis nak susu. Nasib baik bawak shawl. Duduk one corner terus bf baby tutup pakai shawl. Konon2 tu penat jalanlah.... Usually sampai sesuatu tempat Izzana akan terus ke bf room utk bf baby, lepas tu baru membeli belah. Sebelum balik, skali lagi bf kat bf room. Jadi taklah tengah dlm bas atau mrt dia nak susu.
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Post time 4-7-2006 06:10 PM | Show all posts
xpernah lagi experience bf kat public sbb normally gi jusco.. ade breastfeeding room.. so bf kat situ je... tempat2 lain biaanye baby xpernah nangis nak susu..
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Post time 17-11-2006 10:53 PM | Show all posts

Breastfeeding at public places

Hi,

I just want to know what is the perception of the public on a woman whom breastfeed her infant at public places for example kat restaurant or a park or something similar?
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Post time 18-11-2006 11:40 AM | Show all posts
perception tu x tau le..ada org yg opn minded ada lak yg x suka..tp klu bby dh nangis sgt nk bf, kna gak lari msuk toilet or cr tmpt sembunyi...segan je rs nya
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