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Post time 15-12-2020 01:09 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
roraaaa replied at 9-12-2020 10:24 AM
Kes iols pun kenal kat online. Since bulan 7 hari tu. Memang tak declare apa2 pun. Kenal ramai, tapi ...

Knp last msg tu u x reply? And u harap pulak utk dia tegur dulu lps u yg end kan last msg gitu?
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Post time 15-12-2020 05:34 PM | Show all posts
Edited by eplasbpafree at 15-12-2020 09:51 AM
mishungu replied at 14-12-2020 05:09 PM
Knp last msg tu u x reply? And u harap pulak utk dia tegur dulu lps u yg end kan last msg gitu?

if u camne?

btw, camne dgn ur Singaporean tu? still in touch?


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Post time 15-12-2020 05:51 PM | Show all posts
on Oct, after i meet my IBF, i delete all conversation i dgn all tinderean kat Telegram. i delete for me only but for this guy (Don) , i terdelete both.
dia ada juga text i lepas i delete. dia tanya, dah kena covid ke chat ni. i dgn dia mmg jarang text pun sbb macam takde kimia nak berbual2 dgn dia.


then kelmarin, i gatai2 text him. ikutkan dah sebulan jua lah i tak text him. dia pun senyap macam tu jer.
i actually lupa nama sebenar dia. (okey ni i admitlah i silap sbb i save his name as Don je) and i lupa dia tinggal kat mana. (deym)
nak jadi cerita, dia ajak i jumpa.
then i ckp tgu i kurus.
pastu i bg alasan, i prefer text dari bercakap.
then i tanya dia lagi, u tinggal kat mana?


then Don terus jd terus emotional.
dia terus ckp,
i tak pernah jadikan dia priority.
i delete conversation kat telegram and i even unmatched him kat Tinder.
dia ckp, dia igt jer semua yg i cerita.
even i tukar profile picture kat Telegram pun dia perasan.


erk.. bila i menjawab, dia kata i defensive.
hahaha.. tak tahu nak kata, sbb i dgn dia mmg takde chat deep2 pun. chat setakat hi, tgh buat apa.. camtu je
bila dia hamburkan segala apa yg dia rasa, i rasa, teruklah pula i treat dia.


huhuhu. now i text him cuma single tick jer. tp still boleh nampak his profile picture..
maybe tahun depan la kot baru dia reply.


hahaha




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Post time 15-12-2020 06:47 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
eplasbpafree replied at 15-12-2020 05:34 PM
if u camne?

btw, camne dgn ur Singaporean tu? still in touch?

Kalau i x reply cth sbb i tertido ke kan.. Next day tu i akn reply la.. Kalau dia x reply lps tu nasib badan la.. Mcm tu nak diam x nak tegur x pe la.. At least kita da try..

Me and Singaporean tu mcm tu la.. Seminggu ke 2 minggu skali dia msg.. Hehehe.. Da biasa.. Mmg last week dia msg tu pon ckp bz.. X habis pindah factory lg.. Nak tgk birthday i nnt dia igt ke x.. Huhu

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Post time 15-12-2020 06:52 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
eplasbpafree replied at 15-12-2020 05:51 PM
on Oct, after i meet my IBF, i delete all conversation i dgn all tinderean kat Telegram. i delete fo ...

Alaaa.. Maybe dia interested to know u better tp mcm xde positive feedback kn.. Telegram ni kdg mcm apa jgk.. Kalo x buka x perasan ada msg msk
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 Author| Post time 15-12-2020 08:44 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Currently i dah delete all mg dating apps.. dah semacam serik pulak nak kenal org online.. tp tu lah.. nak kenal mcm mana lagi kan lps ni.. huhu..

Just to update uols kengkawan yg sentiasa memberi sokongan kat sini spjg iols heart broken. Khamis lepas (10/12/2020) akhirnya i dpt contact Mr Ghost. 2 kwn iols wasap dia.. tp gaduh la dlm wasap tu.. hahaha.. then kwn i screenshot bg kat iols & iols cam tu dia by gayabahasa & shortfom. Pastu iols wasap dia pakai no lain midnite tu.. iols ckp “saya tahu ni awak. Selama ni saya berhusnuzon blabla.. tp skrg saya tahu lah awk mmg lari & block no saya bla2”. Tp dia tak reply apa2.. i semalaman tak dpt tido.. then masa subuh i tgk dia online.. i terus hantar 1 pic quote “terima kasih atas segala kenangan & luka yg diberikan. Selepas ni hati ini akan berhati2 memilih siapa yg akan selamanya dtg & sapa yg hanya singgah sementara” something mcm tulah.. then dia reply emoticon  “nangis + tangan mintak maaf + love”

Bersambung kalau ada yang nak tau..
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Post time 15-12-2020 10:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by eplasbpafree at 16-12-2020 01:09 AM
mishungu replied at 15-12-2020 10:52 AM
Alaaa.. Maybe dia interested to know u better tp mcm xde positive feedback kn.. Telegram ni kdg mc ...

Lepas sesi I delete chat tu, i je kot yg text dia dulu.

Dia reply pun biasa2 je.
Masa I senyap sebulan tu, takde pun dia nak mulakan chat.
Pastu nak emo2 kat i pula.

Confuse betul...

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Post time 15-12-2020 10:01 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by eplasbpafree at 16-12-2020 01:09 AM
missBlackDahlia replied at 15-12-2020 12:44 PM
Currently i dah delete all mg dating apps.. dah semacam serik pulak nak kenal org online.. tp tu lah ...

Nak3.. I nak tahu kisah u...

Cerita cepat please...
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Post time 15-12-2020 10:03 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by eplasbpafree at 16-12-2020 01:10 AM
mishungu replied at 15-12-2020 10:47 AM
Kalau i x reply cth sbb i tertido ke kan.. Next day tu i akn reply la.. Kalau dia x reply lps tu n ...

Yeah.. at least kita dah text dia.
Ada effort di situ.

If dia reply, okeylah. If takde reply (ghosting), then we shud know, maybe itulah masa utk kita move on.

Kdg2 kita ego kan. Kita nak dia mula dulu coz kitakan perempuan, mestilah nak lelaki yg text kita dulu.


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Post time 15-12-2020 11:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
eplasbpafree replied at 15-12-2020 10:03 PM
Yeah.. at least kita dah text dia.
Ada effort di situ.


Itu la yg mamat ni selalu bising kt i.. Dia ckp kalau dia x tegur i pon diam jeee.. Dia kata kalau dia bz ke apa tegur je.. Tp i tetap la berat sungguh jari nak text dulu.. Hehehe
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Post time 15-12-2020 11:59 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
eplasbpafree replied at 15-12-2020 10:00 PM
Lepas sesi I delete chat tu, i je kot yg text dia dulu.

Dia reply pun biasa2 je.

Owh kalo gitu mmg x patut la nak emo.. Period kot time tu.. Hehehe..

Ada org jns sng igt apa org bgtau dia even org tu x penting pon dlm life dia.. Maybe that guy jns gitu..
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Post time 16-12-2020 12:21 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
missBlackDahlia replied at 15-12-2020 08:44 PM
Currently i dah delete all mg dating apps.. dah semacam serik pulak nak kenal org online.. tp tu lah ...

Sila sambung..

Btw umur ghost ni brpe? Knp mcm bdk je buat perangai gini.. Kwn2 u wasap dia gado psl u ke?
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Post time 16-12-2020 05:25 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mishungu replied at 15-12-2020 03:59 PM
Owh kalo gitu mmg x patut la nak emo.. Period kot time tu.. Hehehe..

Ada org jns sng igt apa or ...


Dia ckp his circle kecik je so that dia igt je everything.

Tp dia still tak puas hati sbb I delete our conversation kat Telegram. And lupa benda2 yg penting. (Mmg my bad)

And last his word, now dia tahulah i mcmana as his last Tinderean based on how I treat him. (Makan dalam betul yg ni)

Dia kata biasa org jdkan dia as option.
No wonder he too emotional.

Even that day I say sorry byk kali kat dia.
Dia ckp, pergi minta maaf dgn Allah sana.

Huhuhu
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Post time 16-12-2020 06:27 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
bila jumpa seseorg yg first time kita jumpa tak perlu kita terlalu control atau aggressive. rilex dan cool..byk mendengar dan ikut rythm perbualan dia. eye contact dan sesekli ketawa berdekah kah kah..be yourself tp dlm konteks penjelmaan dlm bentuk yg lebih flexible entahla..mungkin dh terbiasa selalu jumpa org cara percakapan dan pergaulan lebih santai dan friendly. lelaki yg bijak bole nenilai seseorg tu mcmna dari awal pertemuan. haaa awak ni camni camtu..kalau diorg selesa jgn cepat selesa jga..jaga pergaulan penjarakkan sosial
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Post time 16-12-2020 07:54 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
eplasbpafree replied at 16-12-2020 05:25 AM
Dia ckp his circle kecik je so that dia igt je everything.

Tp dia still tak puas hati sbb I d ...

Telegram kalau kita delete conversation, dedua pihak akan jadi delete ke uols? Bukan macam wasap ke? If kita delete, tpi yg lagi sorang ada je.
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 Author| Post time 16-12-2020 08:00 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mishungu replied at 16-12-2020 12:21 AM
Sila sambung..

Btw umur ghost ni brpe? Knp mcm bdk je buat perangai gini.. Kwn2 u wasap dia gad ...

Hahaha.. 36.. takk gadoh sbb kwn i la mcm samseng terus terjah tanya ni sapa berapa lama pakai no ni?? So dia ingat kwn i tu scammer.. so dia sound2 la kwn i tu suh insaf la cari org lain lah kalau nak scam bla2..
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Post time 16-12-2020 08:17 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
eplasbpafree replied at 16-12-2020 05:25 AM
Dia ckp his circle kecik je so that dia igt je everything.

Tp dia still tak puas hati sbb I d ...

Wow mmg sentap teruk ni.. Tp tu la kdg org yg kita rasa x best chat ni mls je nak chat dgn dia..
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Post time 16-12-2020 08:19 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
nuhanis replied at 16-12-2020 07:54 AM
Telegram kalau kita delete conversation, dedua pihak akan jadi delete ke uols? Bukan macam wasap k ...

Yup.. Dia akn delete for both.. Sbb tu lps kita delete dia bg 10sec kalau kita nak undo ke apa..
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Post time 16-12-2020 08:20 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
missBlackDahlia replied at 16-12-2020 08:00 AM
Hahaha.. 36.. takk gadoh sbb kwn i la mcm samseng terus terjah tanya ni sapa berapa lama pakai no  ...

Owh kira dia mmg x tau la dorg tu kwn u.. So bila nak sambung cite ni..
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Post time 16-12-2020 08:42 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
nuhanis replied at 15-12-2020 11:54 PM
Telegram kalau kita delete conversation, dedua pihak akan jadi delete ke uols? Bukan macam wasap k ...

Kat telegram best sikit.
We can delete old conversations. Walau sebulan yg lalu punya chat.
U can choose delete for both or for u only.

Whatsapp, cuma blh delete dlm limited time je. If kita nak delete for both, kena dlm 1-2jam je kot.
Lepas tu, cuma blh delete for me only.
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