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MENGAPA SUDAH BERGELAR ISTERI MASIH MELAYAN JANTAN.

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Post time 20-2-2008 10:53 AM | Show all posts
manusia punyai jutaan alasan utk menghalalkan cara walalupun terang dan jelas yg dilakukan itu haram...manusia itu memang perangainya melampau...
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Post time 20-2-2008 10:54 AM | Show all posts

Reply #316 be_nign's post

isk...dah 13 page dah derang nih sumer diskusi...
ko boleh tanya lagik...
hampehss  betul.......
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Post time 20-2-2008 11:10 AM | Show all posts
aku nak contribute gak tapi tatau mana nak setat.....

maksud layan tuh pon subjective.....kalo layan ada perasaan tuh mmg kompemla hampehssss tahap cipan...tapi kalo layan tak de perasaan...yang belah sana ada persaan ...cemaner????? pompuan salah gak ke????

macam aku yang peramah nih mmg ramai la kawan laki.......close friends indeed.....boleh share la citer suka hidup berumah tangga...too bad ada yang sama interest pon ngan kita.......hahahhaha......makanya layanjek la........selagi persaan centa hati kat laki sendiri.......godaan datang cemaner insyaAllah...... mmg lah godaan sangatlah temptingnya.......ajak balik ...kete bmw........muka pon comei cam mamat2 ala2 model kat uptown.......phuhhhhhh!!!! hahahhahaa..... tapi untuk pompuan yang brutal cam aku ( hehehehehe.....bagus gak pompuan brutal cam aku nih).....it takes morethan that to impressssss....... aku kalo rasa2 nak tersangkut2 tuh ...selalu akuingat lagu shania twain yang u dont impress me much....ha......kena macho skettttttttt............selalu ingat laki aku lagi tomei and gagah......hahhahahahaha......

betullah...yang tak paham dan tak melalui akan kutuk rapattttttt la pompuan yang layan somi orang......bayangkan in that situation mmg senang....tapi ada beberapa situation u cant simply empathy..........contohnya keadaan macam nih la.....tapi banyak yang terjebak nih pompuan yang tak pikir panjang......dan byk gak otak letak kat lutut....... bodoh bukan apa....bodoh menilai laki.....bukannya ramai sangat laki yang boleh pakai dua tiga menjak nih...nak nak yang gemor mengayat tuh.....mmg la kengkadang duitnyer banyak.....ketenyer gempak.....tapi kengkadang TAK HENSEM......hahahahhahaaha!!!!!! tapi itulah pasal......aku byk berpeleseran.....( kengkawan jek la) tapi tak tersangkut pon...nak terpk untuk tersangkut pon belum lagi.......aku nih friendly...tapi susah nak jatuh centa.....isk...bertuah netul laki aku dapat aku nih....ahaks.....!!!! tapi dia pon  tau.....aku nih jebis cemaner...tuh pasal member rilek jek......tuh la pasal aku pon tak sampai hati nak betray trust  laki aku......i lap him so much woo....tapi aku nih mmg noty......itupon dia tau......tapi dia suka pasal paling aku noty ngan di ala.....hahhahhahahaa
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:16 PM | Show all posts

Reply #323 akubest's post

ada 2 points aku setuju:

1. layan = definisi layan ni berbeza utk setiap org, tak semua prg punye ukuran yg sama
2. kalau takde feeling, the other side ada feeling = bolehke kita control perasaan org kat sana?

semua bergantung pd hati & akal..
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:25 PM | Show all posts
....We can't even say NO b4 we even started......what make us think that we can say NO when we get stuck???????

Nafsu sarakah ni jgn buat main2.........
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:33 PM | Show all posts
"We didn't start the fire
It was always burning
Since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No we didn't light it
But we tried to fight it"

.. billy joel is singing it..
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:38 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by LostSoul at 20-2-2008 12:33 PM
"We didn't start the fire
It was always burning
Since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No we didn't light it
But we tried to fight it"

.. billy joel is singing it..  ...


hi losol....Im bored.

so who started the fire?
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:42 PM | Show all posts
Yep... That's why I'll usually shy away from any of this kinda thing.  I mean, being exposed to different culture makes me realised that I can't please everybody....  In the States, friends are friends & Americans mostly are firm on relationship hierarchy.  So, it'll be rare occasions to face conflicts of interest.

Take this for example:  While I was taking some basic Chemistry classes, I happened to cross-path with a Chicano girl.  She's a Chemistry major while I was a Chemical Engineering student; so naturally I always helped her with some experiments etc.  Other Malaysians students; of course they will be wondering....  "What happened aaa?" etc      Biasa le tu....  But, she's a good friend, nothing happened between us; except as a fellow student & we helped each others.

Put into context in Asian culture; pretty girl like that, foreign student.... something's bound to happen, or maybe more like "forced to happen"  

So, in the end; professionalism comes into mind.  How professional can you be?  Do you need to be worried sick if your husband or wife is a Doctor, probably seeing more than he/she shouldn't have seen?
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:44 PM | Show all posts

Reply #327 truly's post

hi truly... why so bored? how was ur new year's holiday? good meh?

ohhh it was the ever infamous 'firestarter'...
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:48 PM | Show all posts
keji sungguh kalo menuduh tanpa bukti

terlajak lori taik buleh gostan , terlajak kata buruk padahnya

apa maksud melayan jantan?

a servant is oso pelayan

a waiter or waitress is oso pelayan

pramugari pramugara disebut bahse lama pelayan kapalterbang

tok nenek hangpa pi haji tu di layani mesra oleh mak hangpa keje pelayan kapalterbang tuh..camna perasaan laki dia or bapak hangpa?


kalo nak daring berbincang..cuba sempitkan topik tuh, bahkan jangan categorise satu pihak saja..buat umum, suami dan isteri.

Mengapa sudah bergelar suami isteri masih melayan orang lain dengan isu yang tidak ada keperluan?


ada ke sebab lelaki bleh kawin sampai 4 maka kelonggaran ada pada depa as suami untuk layan walo Gro kelab karaoke?

ada ke sebab wanita tokleh ada 2 suami maka di ketatkan isu social depa esp bila sudah beristeri?
even sosiol bertujuan kebajikan masarakat contoh isu anak yatim, OKU, keje2 NGO etc?

apa maksud usik mengusik membawa bahagia?

apa peranan HUMOUR dalam kehidupan manusia?

bagaiman cara otak lelaki dan perempuan bekeje? bagaimana pandangan setiap jantina itu dalam aspek kehidupan?

apa yang boleh pada suami tapi tak boleh pada isteri selain isu poligami?

tuhan berfirman antara lain maksud pada lelaki, tundukkan pandangan DAN pada wanita, tundukkan pandangan tapi kenapa dalam hidup, pompuan kene tunduk pandangan sementara lelaki tegak pandangan sampai skodeng orang lain?

wanita di cipta untuk lelaki (setelah adam tercipta, di cipta hawa)
lelaki di cipta pulak untuk APA?

tu sme cukup lah..nanti gila susah plak..haa selidik dan jawap ler. elok untuk kepala otak tu , dengan berfikir skit.



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Post time 20-2-2008 12:48 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by LostSoul at 20-2-2008 12:44 PM
hi truly... why so bored? how was ur new year's holiday? good meh?

ohhh it was the ever infamous 'firestarter'...


hi back losol..........

hehe...new years holiday, has it been that long since I last came in here. just bored, worked already, tired, and thought id come in here and de stressed.

new years holiday was good, valentines was even better....hmm, I was in cloud nine for a while until the ozone holes scared me ha ha.

btw, should  I contribute to the topic? guess I should....

well, kenapa masih melayan jantan? err.....I think when the wife tied the knot, they got married, not burried. so allow them some spice lah hehe...

as long as you dont bother others, meh Id say.
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:49 PM | Show all posts

Reply #328 Cretin.Penguin's post

situation well described, dude.. anything bound to happen if we let it.. but we definitely cannot control another's mind, another's feeling, except our own..

when we were walking away from the path, we gotta return back to it, on our own accord..

"force" is never a good motion..
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:52 PM | Show all posts
orang kita bzbody lebih. as long as no one gets hurt, ok lah........hehe. tak payah ganggu sapa nak layan sapa.
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:53 PM | Show all posts

Reply #330 truly's post

hahaha.. but i'm sure the valentine's vibe is still there.. to protect you from the thinning ozone..

mine was a ok too.. spending time at hometown... getting reacquainted with sedara mara.. giving my kids all the time in the world to make themselves very, very dirty.. heh heh

yeah.. guess wives are no robot, eh?
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Post time 20-2-2008 12:59 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by LostSoul at 20-2-2008 12:53 PM
hahaha.. but i'm sure the valentine's vibe is still there.. to protect you from the thinning ozone..

mine was a ok too.. spending time at hometown... getting reacquainted with sedara ma ...


ohhh...the vibe is still there definitely........hehe.

good to know you had quality time with family and relatives. it is important. I got to go now losol...thanks for entertaining my posts. nak pegi makan, dah lapar sangat. Ill see you around ok....and take care.

oh ya, of course wives are not robots. you can take two path in life....

one is follow your heart which will lead to happiness, kepuasan hidup.

one is to conform to norm......dan norm orang melayu ni bukan baik mana pun, jarang ada iklas...........so, nak jaga diri supaya dorang tak mengata...dorang mengata jugak, tak ada apa yang akan puaskan mereka. jadi tak payah buang karan nak pk apa orang kata.....hehe, as long as you know who you are.

wives are definitely not robots. shame on ppl who think that they should be one...

ta ta, later ya.
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Post time 20-2-2008 01:26 PM | Show all posts

Reply #335 truly's post

good 2 hear that.. heh heh

true enuff as truly said (it rhymes ), enuff worry, as long as we know who and where we stand, we will be ok.. as long as we have loves on our side..

tata beb.. have a nice day ahead..
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Post time 20-2-2008 01:43 PM | Show all posts
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Post time 20-2-2008 01:49 PM | Show all posts

Reply #337 ainunaina's post

sabo ainunaina.. sabo.. there is always a silver lining in every cloud..

mintak mahap sbb akupun melibat sama..
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Post time 20-2-2008 03:24 PM | Show all posts
  tu la kauorg ni
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Post time 20-2-2008 03:37 PM | Show all posts

Reply #335 truly's post

Hai truly.....truly the nick??? Truly as in yours truly ??? or Truly, the pretender????

Just kidding bro.......

some good pointers you got  there even though I tried my best not to look at your posts and your credits up there.....

In good faith....I think you should be aok......mungkin diri awak yg telah dikhianati oleh mod2 yg tak mengerti.....

Nevertheless.....I still believe that all of us here are pretenders and fakers in our own right....Just look at our nick...to start of with........thats the privilege extended to us to exercise our pretentious beginning.......Cheers bro....
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