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Borak2 forumers thread bloggers No.5 (Off topics only)
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cikyahvogue replied at 24-8-2017 05:18 PM
Td dia tgk anak i, tanya2 soalan which is anak i mmg xkn jawab. Dia nampak anak i mcm berdrama sik ...
I rasa kdg2 bdk mmg drama sket or more like malu dgn stranger kot |
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cikyahvogue replied at 24-8-2017 10:37 PM
Tulah. Salah i n husb jugak. Ksg nk bg dia senyap bg hp. Dah dua bulan mcm addicted. Alhamdulillah ...
Betul u. Kalau dh berterusan mmg nmpk kesan addicted tu.
I dulu selalu bribe anak i dgn gadget kalau nak suruh duduk dlm carseat.
Bila tak dpt gadget, mmg nmpk lah dia bunga2 tantrum.
Lps tu slowly i tak bg gadget utk duduk kt carseat. Alhamdulillah ok je sbnr nya dia, takde tantrum lansung and behave well. Lg byk dia explore n lihat sekeliling, n say out loud things she saw.
Dr hadap gadget, 1 way comm je.
In a way takdelah i tak setuju pon gadget. Its good. Cuma kita kena pandai monitor. Not than an hour per day. Sama mcm tv jgk.
Aritu wanita hari ini cerita psl gadget. Point dia boleh bg. But not more that an hr. Only applied for toddler age 2 above boleh dpt 1hr tu.
Below 2, kalau boleh takyah intro lansung.
I know its hard kan
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babynina30 replied at 24-8-2017 10:42 PM
I rasa kdg2 bdk mmg drama sket or more like malu dgn stranger kot
Dia suka drama sebab nk attention. Yelah sejak ada adik i byk jaga adik dia.. |
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babynina30 replied at 24-8-2017 10:48 PM
Betul u. Kalau dh berterusan mmg nmpk kesan addicted tu.
I dulu selalu bribe anak i dgn gadget ...
Yeah. I took the blame on me. Sbb i introduce dia dkt gadget. Masa tu x terfkr dia akan addict. But slowly i tarik gadget tu. Dalam seminggu ni mmg sgt susah la dia tantrum yang amat. Husb i xtahan dia bg. I bebel kt husb i. Harini i bwk husb i sekali pegi check up. Biar dia dgr apa doc ckp. Baru dia nak ikut ckp i. So far alhamdulillah anak i dah dua hari x dpt hp. Adalah tantrum sikit2 tp i boleh handle. And suprisingly dia tido awal kalau xdpt gadget. I bg dia main kat bilik mainan dia. Biarlah bersepah as long as dia x mintak hp |
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cikyahvogue replied at 24-8-2017 10:37 PM
Tulah. Salah i n husb jugak. Ksg nk bg dia senyap bg hp. Dah dua bulan mcm addicted. Alhamdulillah ...
Blh bg tp under control la kn..ye la...ktorg pn sama gak u... especially klu g mkn kt luar...mcm mne nk bg bdk2 ddk diam.bukak juga la utube kids..
Lantak la org nk ckp ape...sbb klu x mmg x blh mkn..nak2 klu mak ayah tgh lapa..klu x blh gilir2..
Tp i mmg jns x ksh klu anak nangis nk gajet..when i say no..means no. Namgis la mcm org gila...
Tp yg kakak dh blh phm...yg adik tu still controllable lg...klu namgis blk umh siap! Haha
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pichee replied at 24-8-2017 11:05 PM
Blh bg tp under control la kn..ye la...ktorg pn sama gak u... especially klu g mkn kt luar...mcm m ...
Masa makan kitorang make sure anak i dapat makanan mcm kitorang makan. And dia happy la. Adik dia i boleh control lg.. Tp jarang la kitorang makan luar selalu tapau je. Memang ambil pengajaran kali ni. Hari2 i bisik kat anak i tu cepatlah bercakap. |
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cikyahvogue replied at 24-8-2017 11:03 PM
Yeah. I took the blame on me. Sbb i introduce dia dkt gadget. Masa tu x terfkr dia akan addict. Bu ...
Betul. Dia 1st few days tu je mencabar sikit.
Kalau dh 4days in a row tak dpt. Dia dh jd routine.
Dia pon dh lupa about it.
Anak u sebaya anak i , sep sikit. Hehe
Anak i selalu bgn lmbt sbb tido 11+.
So bgn pon around 11am.
Her routine, bgn. Pastu i bg main air b4 mandi.
Then brunch at 12noon.
Dr 12 noon - 8 pm mmg main je dkt playroom.
Her screen time bila mlm je b4 sleep. I cuba lengah2 kan. Kdg2 10.30pm baru i bukak tv.
Kalau rajin ptg i bwk main kt luar jap.
Tp selalu nya malas sbb panas. Haha.
Asalkan anak dh tau their daily routine, and no gadget includes, lama2 diorang faham.
I nak bg 1 hr per day. Tp i hold dulu kot. Stakat ni dia tgk disney channel je on tv an hr per day. Kdg2 terlebih jugak. Adoi
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babynina30 replied at 24-8-2017 11:13 PM
Betul. Dia 1st few days tu je mencabar sikit.
Kalau dh 4days in a row tak dpt. Dia dh jd routine ...
Wah i boleh cuba ni. Setakat ni tv belum boleh sekat lg. Sebab i baru sekat hp kan. So far dia kalau dgn hp pukul 1 pun xtdo lg. Ni pukul 10 lebih dah lelap. Pagi dlm pukul 8 bgn dah. I bg sarapan. Main dlm playroom tu. Mandi, main lagi. Lepas tu tgk tv sikit2. Tdo. Lepas zohor main lagi smbl i ajar2 dia. Sampai pukul 5 lebih. Papa dia balik bwk round2 ke. Malam main lagi. Sampai dia penat n tdo. Ni jadual baru dialah dr semalam. Huhu adik dia folo je apa abg nye buat. Ni baru lelap adik nya. |
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cikyahvogue replied at 24-8-2017 11:18 PM
Wah i boleh cuba ni. Setakat ni tv belum boleh sekat lg. Sebab i baru sekat hp kan. So far dia kal ...
Umur2 diorang tu mmg suka nk ajak kita main bersama sbnrnya kan.
Tp kdg kita ni leka.
I lah tu. Hadap forum. Adoi lah. Kasihan anakku |
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Assalamualaikum ... xdan nk baca thread ni lg ... dh tertinggal byk .. btw, xtau la off topic ke masuk topik ke x ni .. korang ada masuk ig yumimely_authentic x .. jual beg longchamp tumi bagai .. mmg btl original ke? sbb berminat nk beli tumi bagpack dia tu .. xnk la beli mahal2 tiba2 x ori pulak .. anybody yg blh kompemkan? Tqvm .. |
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babynina30 replied at 24-8-2017 11:21 PM
Umur2 diorang tu mmg suka nk ajak kita main bersama sbnrnya kan.
Tp kdg kita ni leka.
I lah tu ...
Tulah i pun sama.
Ni lagilah i baru nak start bisnes sikit2. Terpaksa sorok2 dr sia |
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cikyahvogue replied at 25-8-2017 02:07 AM
Tulah i pun sama.
Ni lagilah i baru nak start bisnes sikit2. Terpaksa sorok2 dr sia
Utk adik yg kecik tu, u start kan cakap2 dgn dia dr kecik .
Buat semua benda sambil kita bebel2 to them.
Pakai baju, pakai pampers, kt dapur , sidai kain, siram bunga, sapu sampah etc. Semua activity kita buat, kita explain to them.
Kalau dia x ikot takpe. Tp insyaAllah eventually dia faham.
Tunjuk semua real objects dkt dia. Like a plate, cup, fork, spoon , everything kt dapur tu. Kalau yg bahaya jgn bg pegang.
Flash cards pon boleh. Tp bdk cpt boring sikit.
Kalau animals, fruits n veges, transportation n all tu byk jual yg mcm betul tu. Lg bagos kalau dpt let them explore the real 1 masa kita tgh groceries shopping tu kn. Tp i fhm. Mane sempat nak ajar2 bagai plak masa tgh beli brg. Hehe. Lgpon ada adik jgk nk dihandle kan.
Kalau ada flash cards or book, suruh anak put the object on the similar pic.
Masa 1y or below, kita yg explain to them.
1y above dah boleh start tanya dia what is this, what is that. Pastu kita jwb blk. Its ok kalau dia mumble je dulu. Or sometimes dia dpt sebut yg hujung2 je. As long as kita sebut in full dgn diorang. No baby talk.
Sembang je mcm ckp dgn org besar.
It helps to improve their vocab.
Ni usaha kita lah kan
Its good that u concern n positive utk bw jumpa doc etc.
Bagus jumpa pakar in their field.
Sbb bak kata @dutalover , mcm dentist lah. Tak semua dentist bleh psg kn braces. Hehe.
Sama mcm doc. Sbb kalau yg doc biasa mmg tak mendalam sgt bila check. Mcm your concern about bercakap kan. So i cdgkn better jumpa dgn yg pakar about it or a therapist.
Sbb takot mcm my relatives i cite few days ago yg anak 2y 7 m mkn batu,pasir etc, belum berckp but doc said the boy is normal.
And always go for 2nd or 3rd opinion juga.
Tgk mcamana diorg punya pndgn.
I doakan everything goes well and nt cpt anak u pandai berkata2 
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babynina30 replied at 25-8-2017 07:34 AM
Utk adik yg kecik tu, u start kan cakap2 dgn dia dr kecik.
Buat semua benda sambil kita bebe ...
Aamiin.. Tulah nk tunggu appt dia lmbt nya bulan 11 |
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cikyahvogue replied at 25-8-2017 09:08 AM
Aamiin.. Tulah nk tunggu appt dia lmbt nya bulan 11
Lg 3 bulan tu agak lama jgk. Tu check up dkt kk ke appointment kat mana u ?
Kalau u gi yg private specialist ok ke? I rasa utk consultation fees dlm 80-120 tak silap i.
Or mana2 therapist. Biasanya each state ada |
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babynina30 replied at 25-8-2017 09:30 AM
Lg 3 bulan tu agak lama jgk. Tu check up dkt kk ke appointment kat mana u ?
Kalau u gi yg priv ...
Tu jumpa pakar govt. Kk bagi nxt month. |
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Edited by Suchi at 25-8-2017 11:59 AM
Iols nk luah sini, betul la org melayu mmg hauk tau nk mencekik drh je huhuh..
Mlm td iols cari merata tukang paip jumpa fb rata2 melayu la siap tulis 100% pekerja bumiputra bagai
So iols mesej la tnya bagai, sorg caj rm300, sorg lg caj rm250 tp sabtu bru blh dtg sorg lg caj rm450 siap ade warranty.
Mahal belaka, pastu somi kata dia blh buat sendiri je tp hari ni kena kije sbb ade appointment ngn org.
Pastu somi teringat ade vietnam selalu gak dtg blok iols tinggal org upah dia repair paip bocor bagai. So somi call vietnam tula suh dtg tgk.
Pg td bg tau kul 9 dia dtg, pastu dia blk semula pi amik brg n pggil sorg kawan.
2 jam kije setel, upah rm150. Lg murah dr melayu2 yg iols tnya.
Malah table top pun dia ade buat. Murah, cepat siap dan lawa.
Dia ade tunjuk gambar.. uwaaa sakit la hatiku
Dia kata amik masa 3 hari je biasa dia buat.. iols punya kontraktor amboi sampai 3 minggu. |
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alhamdulillah, berjaya siapkan tempahan nasi lemak low GI untuk on of Department di Ministry of Finance. |
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uolsss
ada idea tak nk bag hadiah kt mak mentua apa
apa yg uols salu/ biasa beli eh
lets kongsi2 hhehehe |
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lifeline replied at 25-8-2017 03:48 PM
uolsss
Kalo budget tinggi, slalu handbag la kan? Iols bajet kecik2, takat perfume (ni pon bg VS je) or lipstick |
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tudung
telekung
kain pasang
perfume
lipstick
kasut
bag
set kerongsang
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Post time 24-8-2017 10:42 PM
