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Post time 28-1-2008 11:19 AM | Show all posts |Read mode
salam semua....

apa pendapat ibu bapa ttg ni....?

- bb baru ...semua kena beli baru ker...? atau pakai jer paper yg
  bleh guna....?

- uniform sekolah...? klu yg kakak/ abg nmpak ok jer...
  ok tak si adik..pakai jer...tanpa beli baru...?

- "hand-me down" @ share -- cam mana kerenah antara anak2...?
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Post time 28-1-2008 11:51 AM | Show all posts
bagi blue, if baby kecil lagi guna jer hands down nya barang ni..baby bukan tau apa..brg pun still baru kan? beli mana yg patut2 jer..tapi if anak tu dah besar dan pandai compare dah beli barang mereka individually..
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:03 PM | Show all posts
mana-mana yang boleh, hand-down aje. esp baby things. that's why when preparing for newborns (alhamdulillah nak masuk 3 dah pun), saya cari yang neutral. no too girlish, no too boyish. bila dah besar sikit baru beli yang nampak girl/boy. tu bab baju. bab bulky item like stroller, car-seat pun sama.

my first is a girl, dah 7 tahun.
2nd boy, 4 tahun.
coming soon, another boy.
not planning to tambah anymore after the 3rd one.

baju kakak dia hak yang sulung tu nampaknya kena hand-down to relative yang lain-lain. hak abang dia boleh bagi adik kecik.
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:01 PM | Show all posts
pakai ajer asalkan x nmpak sgt 2nd hand....
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:04 PM | Show all posts
Dlm kes eynda plak gap anak jauhhhhhh.....yg sulung sekarang darjah satu....adik plak baru setahun 3 bulan...so barang2 abang banyak yg dah buang atau kasi kat orang...100% tak simpan..kebetulan eynda berpindah rumah...malas nak bawak barang banyak2....lagipun yg 2nd ni baby girl so keinginan nak beli barang baru tu agak menyeronokkan maklum la lama tak ngandung
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:06 PM | Show all posts

Reply #5 eynda's post

saya pun sebenarnya tak plan for the 3rd one. so banyak barang2 baby dah bagi kat org. nak sambut anak no-3 ni macam prepare for anak sulung!

last month saya shopping for baju2 / mitt and boots / towels -> dah nak kopak dah. barang2 lain tak cover lagi tu..
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:14 PM | Show all posts
mcm yuna gap anak yuna x jauh..so baju abg dia adik dia leh pakai..kebetulan dua2 laki.so reuse balik seme baju abg dia
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:14 PM | Show all posts

Reply #1 gorgonz's post

Kalau boleh pakai , pakai je lah! Buat apa membazir? Kalau rasa dah terlalu lusuh tp masih boleh dipakai, buat je seluar pakai kat rumah. My sisters selalu pass baju2 sekolah anak2 dia yg dah tak muat kat my sons. Kalau elok lg, i don't mind to ask them to wear. My kids pun tak kesah. Janji sesuai dan sedap dipakai. Yg letihnye my sisters mcm nak mengosongkan locker dia org plak. Yg dah koyak skit pun depa bagi suruh me jahit. Eeee!!!! Tak kosa mak!   Tp utk tidak mengecil kan hati depa, me ambik je lah pas tu buat kain lap kaki!
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:14 PM | Show all posts
klau brg2 tu stil in good condotion hand down jer...
sbb tu aku x beli baju yg ntah apa2..
sbb cepat berbulu n leher cepat kembang..
mcm bb cot lak mmg hands down turun temurun...dh 25 tahun usia bb cot..!
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:26 PM | Show all posts

Reply #1 gorgonz's post

anak sulung boy...anak ke dua girl....beza 2 tahun...baju2 tak banyak yg leh share...cuma brg2 kalau leh guna...neisya guna contoh mcm buaian, bouncer, stroller...etc....

anak ketiga beza 7 thn...so mau tak mau...semua barang baru...dari A to Z...yg abang ngan kakak semua dah bagi orang...lagipun lama sgt....satu lagi..mira ni byk neisya perabih beli mcm2...sbb dulu baru nak bina ekonomi...now dah alhamdullillah...dah ada lebih..beli la....n kalau ditakdirkan dapat baby lagi...tak kisah la nak bagi pakai barang kakak dia (mira jadi kakak..eheh...cam cute plak)

tp beli baru tetap beli....yg mana perlu la.. .

cuma bila dah besar2 ni....kena beli individually la...jenuh sat gi berebut.... ...pastu nak bagi adik pakai yg abang....bukan buleh dah...dah rosak dikerjakan oleh abang
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Post time 28-1-2008 12:33 PM | Show all posts
salam
i wudnt mind handing down baju abg kt adik die. mungkin sbb dh biase ngan tis practice, almaklum ank bongsu fr 6 girls, so passing2 baju ni mmg amalam kami la tho i only hav 1 at the moment (& intend 2 hav more mintak2 ade rezeki... amin...), i stil keep baju2 yg elok unt the nxt one. baju unt pakai hari2 mostly dh bg org, especially the white ones sbb kalu kept 4 too long pon nnt jd yellowish kan... since my 1st is a boy, kalu yg 2nd nnt boy pon ok. kalu dpt girl, pon ok. bj jalan2 je la kn beli lain, xkan girl outing nk pakai tshirt & pants all the time kan... unt bj hari2, sile la pakai abg die punye...


bile derang dh besar kot br beli bj masing2 sbb bile dh besar tu their growth kan dh slow sket, so kene la get them bj derang sdiri.

however, wen it comes 2 school uniform, i think better buy new ones la sbb alalu kan uniform skolah ni bile dh pakai setahun tu, hancus!!! dr putih jd bermacam2 warna... hihihi...

as 4 baby gears like stroller, bath tub, sterilizer & etc, pakai je yg mane dh ade tu. unless if the existing ones tu x bape bagus. cam kiteorg, stroller yg ade ni x bape best la, berat & ssh nk manoeuvre, so insya allah ade rezeki pregnnt nnt most prolly we r getting a better one unt baby. same with baby carrier. kalau ade rezeki bleh cari travel system, mudah sket

yet again, bergantung la pd parents sdiri. some parents wud think it's unfair 4 the adik 2 get 2nd hand items. tu yg ade parents sanggup beli brg2 baru unt new baby. if mampu, why not? cume mungkin harus berpada2 la. takut nnt jd smpai ke besar sok anak2 x pndai nk share pulak... haru jugak nnt! once again, kalu mampu, x salah...
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Post time 28-1-2008 02:38 PM | Show all posts
no problem...
dulu kecik2 pun selalu dapat baju kakak..
adik2 aku lak dapat baju aku...hehhehehe
dgn anak pun sama...as long as still ok to wear n x koyak2..why not hand-down je....
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Post time 28-1-2008 03:04 PM | Show all posts
i pun tak kisah tapi masa baby 1-2 bulan ajelah guna baju abang sebab yg ke-2 tu pompuan...bila dah lepas pantang dan jalan2...kena beli yg baru lah, sian plak

tapi myself bukan jenis angkut baju2 branded jadi setakat beli dan pakai, dah buruk i sedekah kat JUSCO ...

benda yg betul hand-down cam car-seat, high-chair, toys, buku2...
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Post time 28-1-2008 03:11 PM | Show all posts
baju sekolah tak laa hand down..
sian lak kat budak tu
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Post time 28-1-2008 06:53 PM | Show all posts
tak tau macam mana...tapi baju baby Feesa masih ku simpan rapi..yang mana elok sumer dah simpan,,yang dah lusuh @ berbulu...ku buat kain ap dapor jer.. ..
so nanti adik dia mungkin akan pakai baju masa Feesa baby.
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Post time 28-1-2008 10:36 PM | Show all posts
alhmdulillah, rezeki my baby murah... ramai orang hands down kat my baby... even anak pertama...ktorng tak banyak membeli... dari set bilik...cot, almari and changing table... sampai la ke besen mandi and toys, semua orang bagi...

cuma kalo ada special event, cam hari raya baru kami beli baju baru...

terpulang pada perception kita sendiri, for us, kami tak kisah... anggap itu semua rezeki... ada orang xleh nk terima barang second hand... terpulang... kalo masih elok, apa salahnya kan...

as for me skrang pon, mana2 baju x muat dah, gee basuh n lipat elok, masuk dalam kotak... kami sort by sizes.. nak bagi orang atau untuk anak ke 2 nnti senang
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Post time 29-1-2008 08:27 AM | Show all posts
masa muda2 dulu, mac vowed taknak kasi anak pakai barang2 hands me downs.... walaupun barang2 kakak. Dapat baby no3.... surrender, hehe.... pakaila gak baju kakak2 dia, tapi baju dia yg baru2 tetap ada la....

Now my no2 mmg rajin selongkar baju no1 tunggu bila boleh muat  (and no3 pun macam tu, try2 baju no2) .... yela, kadang2 baju2 they all ni, pakai sekali dua, so elok lagi.....

Baju2 dan barang2 sekolah, pantang mac kasi hand me downs..... sebab nak setiap anak rasa semangat bersekolah serba baru. No sharing pls....
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Post time 29-1-2008 08:29 AM | Show all posts
lately ni, ada cousins dok kasi hands me downs. Mac tak suka sangat macam ni... kalau adik beradik hands me downs boleh accept lagi. Tapi bila dia cakap baju guess and oshkosh yg masih belum dipakai.... still ada price tags....... hehe......   of course la mac cakap.. terimakasih daun keladi......
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Post time 29-1-2008 09:39 AM | Show all posts
i pon dari preggy anak first mostly baju baby 0-6 month tu unisex..yellow green, white, cream...bila dah besar sket bari ikut jantina..
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Post time 29-1-2008 09:54 AM | Show all posts
Kalau org bg , I ambik. Anak  ke3 ni gal, so bila konfem gal masa tu, terus sorting baju2 kakak dia  yg masih elok utk dia. Baju abg pun sorting utk bg kat cousin dia.
Beli 4 pasang je baru...
Plan tak nak tambah rakyat dah, so after 4 yrs nak hand down byk gak ...baby cot, portable sleeping bed, etc..
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