First Son vs Second Son

sha_n · Post time 9-8-2007 04:11 PM

same la..dpt dr email..

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tp tkde experience lg....

snowy · Post time 9-8-2007 09:59 PM

diff with my 2 sons is 17 mths. bila preg 2nd dpt tau boy..org kata jimat diuit tak yahb eli baju or aper2 lagi sbb suma yg from abang leh pakai. tapi me tetap beli everything for the 2nd one sbb tak mau feel i'm a hands me down of everything. so i bought new cot, new stroller, new clothes and even new car seat. my hubby sangat la bising n siap ckp i ni lagi sayang the 2nd one. but the adik still pakai baju abang cuma i byk top up baju baru.

my 1st one dpt privillege going to little gym ( which was very expensive for me..

sha_n · Post time 20-8-2007 01:29 PM

setuju gak tu...

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first son tu mmg always mom choice..

baju_merun · Post time 20-8-2007 01:37 PM

1st ngn yang seterusnya mesti laa lain sket kan..

1st.. sbb no.1, parent pun excited lebih.

for me, utk 2nd child.. baju dia akan dapat 70% brand new sbb abg dia punya.. banyaknya mummy dia dah jual

menan.. accesories.. terpaksalah pakai yang abg yayep punya.. itu pun kalau mak korang ni tak jual ler

my mum and my MIL selalu gak bising apsal g jual lak barang2 yayep..
den jawab
"yayep sumer dapat baru.. adik dia nanti tentu laa nak baru jugak"

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sha_n · Post time 20-8-2007 01:47 PM

mmg biase gitu kan??
yg second biase dpt brg2 yg first..

kroit92 · Post time 20-8-2007 10:11 PM

isk, sedey lak..coz i'm the second son, and kebanyakkan di atas adalah benar..

sha_n · Post time 30-8-2007 12:52 PM

luv_ma · Post time 30-8-2007 03:42 PM

tpkan,
kalau yg first boboy,sec gugurl..
tak bnyak nk diturunkan.
baju contoh,gugurl pakei skirt

dpt pulak mommy yg giler nyopping nih'

[ Last edited by luv_ma at 30-8-2007 03:44 PM ]

O2 · Post time 30-8-2007 05:03 PM

Like me, my 1st son 3yrs and 2 ni 6mths.

Adik pun ada jugak dapat barang2 baru, cam toys, stroler baru, sbb yg abg punya dah x boleh guna.
Boleh kata adik lebih jugak la dr abang, maybe sbb masa abgnya dulu x reti sangat nak membeli..yg biasa2 je la.. pernah my hubby cakap masa pilih barang untuk adik.. dulu abang tak dapat pun yg camni camtu..rasa cam bersalah pulak..tapi me rasa perhatian lebih pada abang la sbb dia dari kecil mudah jatuh sakit.

Baju pun walau dapat yg abang punya tapi me ada juagk belikan yang baru untuk adik so sekrang collection untuk anak2 laki makin bertambah la..
For me rasanya fair and square la tu..

kalau dapat girl lak lepas sure tak sama esp. pakaian. yg lain2 rasanya x beli laa yg baru asal boleh pakai..

Elmina · Post time 31-8-2007 02:11 PM

Originally posted by sha_n at 6-8-2007 04:10 PM
just nak share...kebetulan dpt email td..

Kesian kan jadik anak no 2 .....tk tau la sejauh mane kebenaran fakta ni..
but...some of it maybe happen kan???

insyallah in the fut ...

Betul.
Kata orang tu parents semua sayang anak sama, equally but differently,masing masing anak ada kelebihan actually tp memang untung jadi no 1

sitisbp · Post time 3-9-2007 03:52 PM

Ha ah. Sbb my gurl I gila belikan color baju pink2..and rambu2 bunga2.
Yg abg punye byk bg kat cousin dia.
Pastu masa abg pun byk org hand-me- down mcm basket, bouncer, stroller. So tak belilah.
But mana2 yg broken tu adik dpt baru ler.
Cuma toys mmg kongsi lah. Berlambak... rimas tul.
Tapi skrg 2x dah pandai demand, kalu adik ada baju baju abg pun nak gak. Mama plak gila belikan baju adik sbb pompuan baju cute2 n murah. Abg balik2 nak baju otomen, spideman, batman..boring.

sha_n · Post time 3-9-2007 05:49 PM

emm..no 1 tetap first choice..
lgpun org kate..klau anak yg first pandai..masuk U..insyaallah adik2 die sume ikut..

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my_edlin · Post time 3-9-2007 06:55 PM

mcm sy lak...1st ank lelaki & 2nd girl so baju byk yg x leh nak kongsi...lagi pun baju kbykan nyer pakai sampai lusuh...so far x de lak yg membazir...and than yg 3rd one pun mcm tu sbb beza umur 3 thn sorang....lagipun ms beli baju mmg x budget utk pakai sekejap....lagi pun klu beli baju yg mhl sikit mmg blh pakai lama...alah membeli menang memakai...so klu x pakai utk buat jln pakai utk duk umah....

mcm brg2 lain gak susu, diapers still beli brand yg sama...dr abg long sampai lah ke adik dia sbb konon nyer nak adil...

jual brg idak lerr...klu bagi org ade lerr....

Elmina · Post time 4-9-2007 12:34 AM

Originally posted by sha_n at 3-9-2007 05:49 PM
emm..no 1 tetap first choice..
lgpun org kate..klau anak yg first pandai..masuk U..insyaallah adik2 die sume ikut.. ..

Memang betul. I dulu cukup adore my big bro, kalau boleh nak jadik macam my brother sbb dia jenis creative, lagi satu sbb i pun tak mau kalah dgn dia actually hehe