Start over.

Covid19

mishungu replied at 15-5-2020 10:48 PM
Dia igt dia da hilang no i.. Dia bz keje..  Hehehe.. And i pon x pnh try contact dia bila dia hila ...

My advise, keep your option open sis..jgn fokus kat seorang tu je..try kenal2 ramai lagi calon..

Covid19

My mistake dulu, bila dah suka,asyik focus kat seorang tu je..setia la konon..taknak pandang yg lain..ceh!

Sekarang dah ada steady boyfriend,nak kahwin dah in few months but still bila ada lelaki nak kenal kat facebook,mesej kat messenger i terima je..tapi still tapis
tgk profile okay,background decent baru i terima...i takde flirt2..just borak2 macam nak kenal kawan baru masa zaman sekolah....interesting tau bila dpt kenal org dari different background ni..share story psl travel experiences..

Bila dah kawan2, kalau i post status kat fb tu,sekarang 90% lelaki je yg komen ..komen pun mcm kawan2 yg dah kenal lama..

Apa yg i belajar,manusia ni suka berebut something.. dari just ambil apa yg senang dpt dpn mata

mishungu

Covid19 replied at 18-5-2020 07:12 AM
My advise, keep your option open sis..jgn fokus kat seorang tu je..try kenal2 ramai lagi calon..:l ...

Harus uols.. Skrng lyn je la.. Menghilang kesunyian diri.. Hehe

mishungu

Covid19 replied at 18-5-2020 07:22 AM
My mistake dulu, bila dah suka,asyik focus kat seorang tu je..setia la konon..taknak pandang yg lain ...

I setuju.. I pon bkn flirt around ke apa.. Just knl je org.. Seronok knl org from diff background.. At least ada benda baru kita bljr kan.. Selamat pengantin baru in advance ye..

Covid19

mishungu replied at 18-5-2020 01:59 PM
Harus uols.. Skrng lyn je la.. Menghilang kesunyian diri.. Hehe

Okay uols

Covid19

mishungu replied at 18-5-2020 05:59 PM
I setuju.. I pon bkn flirt around ke apa.. Just knl je org.. Seronok knl org from diff background. ...

Betul..dinamik hubungan sgt lain bila diri sendiri tahu ada je option lain..boleh lagi tarik tarik lepas..tarik tarik lepas... boleh lagi sedar fikiran utk evaluate pasangan tu mcm mana orgnya....lagi tenang..

Kalau diri rasa takde option,nanti jadi desperate,asyik tarik tarik tarik,seboleh2 nya akan paksa utk hubungan tu menjadi..lelaki tu teruk  perangai pun kita dah tak perasan..buta dah..... pasangan pun lemas,asyik nak lari je dari diri ini..

P/s thank you utk wish..semoga selamat semuanya..

isis885

Kalau orang tu tak reply kita boleh tak kita tanya directly 'are you ghosting me?'

aechae

isis885 replied at 26-5-2020 11:59 PM
Kalau orang tu tak reply kita boleh tak kita tanya directly 'are you ghosting me?'

I rsa boleh je klu u jenis berani...tgk dia jwb apa
Tp klu i, i lantakkn aje buat paham2 sndri je huhuhuuuu...mgkin sbb i jenis penakut segan sket gtuuu

isis885

aechae replied at 27-5-2020 07:48 AM
I rsa boleh je klu u jenis berani...tgk dia jwb apa
Tp klu i, i lantakkn aje buat paham2 sndri je ...

I pun bukan jenis berani jugak. Selalu je kena macam ni. Susah jugak nk start over everything esp in relationship when u are 30 ++

aechae

isis885 replied at 27-5-2020 02:45 PM
I pun bukan jenis berani jugak. Selalu je kena macam ni. Susah jugak nk start over everything esp  ...

Yee.. i pn rsa susah..lg2 nk cri yg bujang ahahaha... i slalu pikir org laki klu in 30s pn msti nk kn pmpuan yg younger, manja2 menempel n on the phone slalu etc

adheq

wah sis byk persamaan la kite . take time jugak nak start over. sy bagi syarat kat diri sendiri nak start over with fresh & clean slate. no bringing baggage from past relationship. almost 2 years since broke up & suffice to say that am almost ready to meet someone new. i know i'm at peace with my past bila sy dah boleh duk gelak & rasa happy je bila teringat memori2 dgn ex dulu. kalau mula2 dulu syahdu jugek sorang2 rindu2an wahaha

masa pkp haritu sempat la usya dating apps & texted someone for a while before he ghosted on me. wah begini rasanya org ghosting kita ya wahahaha tagunee betul. ex dulu matured, knowledgable, ckp straight to the point, rajin nak keep contact. tapi mamat yg ni mmg totally different. tapi bila texting dgn dia ni buat sy sedar yg despite saying that my only criteria is to meet someone yg ngam, i actually have certain expectation i unconsciously built up from my prev relationship. mungkin ni la halangan kedua terakhir sy sebelum Tuhan ketemukan sy dgn pasangan sy hihihi.

enjoying the memories i've had with my ex & starting on a new one without expecting to meet someone with qualities i liked from my ex. ah gituhhh. apa2 pun, didoakan semoga kita jumpa dgn pasangan yang sebaik-baiknya

aechae

adheq replied at 7-6-2020 02:54 AM
wah sis byk persamaan la kite  . take time jugak nak start over. sy bagi syarat kat diri sendiri n ...

Hai u... lama tau i smpan perasaan sbb nk luah kt kwn rapat i takut dorg xpaham mcm mna yg i rasa...relationship lama2 last makin hmbar then hanyut gtu msg2 hala ke lain...klu i tau dlu lg i buka tred kt cni luahkn semua yg terbuku...rupanya ada juga org lain yg sama kapal dgn i ye

Apapn i still trying utk buka pintu kenal org baru now...ada 2,3 yg ghosting dh jd pocong ke apa xtau lah so i buat bodo lntak ko je lah gtu sbb bru thp mesej2 je kn x jmpa lg so apadehal...

Tp seriusly mmg susah nk dpt yg ngam..sighh

All the best to us ye hahahhaah...