nak pisahkan tmpt tido....

assalamualaikum & hai utk semua...

ada sape-sape tak bleh tolong mama...mcm mana nak pisahkan tmpat tido anak dgn kita. maksud mama, selama ni mama, papa & baby mama tido sekatil...mama nak pisahkan baby tido kat court dia sendiri...dah cuba,tapi tak berjaya...kesian tgk tgh2 malam nangis cari kitaorg...last2 angkat naik katil sama2...

anak mama ni time tido mlm pun, klau mama ke papa dia g toilet ke atau solat subuh...dia akan tercari2...waduh2...bila kita baring balik dkt dia...ok lah..boleh le smbg tido balik...

tolong....:pray:

BellaDeLaRossa

Originally posted by mamaHazim at 6-7-2005 05:32 PM:
assalamualaikum & hai utk semua...

ada sape-sape tak bleh tolong mama...mcm mana nak pisahkan tmpat tido anak dgn kita. maksud mama, selama ni mama, papa & baby mama tido sekatil...mama  ...

hm..masalah mama nih sama lah dgn Bella...ssh jgk..lgpun kat rmh nih cuma tinggal kami bertiga jer....me,hb n ank..so kalau nak pisahkan dia ddk bilik lain...taknak..sbb mlm2 bila tdo dia suka..dua2 org ada tdo sebelah dia..n kalau bgun pergi toilet pun dia terjaga jgk....tkt oreg tinggal dia...

so nak tunggu dia ada adik dulu..maybe dah blh jd kawan dia tdo...sbb now ni pun Bella tgh peknen n tak lama lg blh lah pisahkan tmpat tdo..insyaalllah

laaa...payah jugak le klau nak tunggu mama tambah adik lagi.baby mama ni tido lasak, tak tau le ikut sape..hahaha..

masuk 7 bulan dia skrg ni, dah tambah fiil baru.tido pegang baju kita la.tak cukup bekepit siang agaknya...

Tillingtan

Originally posted by mamaHazim at 6-7-2005 05:32 PM:
assalamualaikum & hai utk semua...

ada sape-sape tak bleh tolong mama...mcm mana nak pisahkan tmpat tido anak dgn kita. maksud mama, selama ni mama, papa & baby mama tido sekatil...mama  ...

Dear Mama Hazim,

I have a child who is 2 yrs and 4 months old, and he is sharing the same bed as his pabbi and mamma. He is so attached that when he sleeps, he takes my elbow everytime to doze off. It is not easy to take the security away from him. Last night I tried to take it off for a while, he cried and cried sampai dia kata I don't love him. After some time he got his elbow and said thank you and slept soundly until morning.

I am thinking to let him sleep in his own bed. I know it will take some tough days but then I think I will wait until we have anoher little on.

I am reading a book by Tracy Hogg.

A change has to be done in steps and when you have plan something, by all means you have to stick on it. Take small steps at each time, because a child needs to feel safe in her/his own crib.

You can try putting her in the crib during day naps so that she gets use to the smell of the wood and mattress. Make sure she is happy when you are going to put her in. Everytime, try to make her stay there longer and be sure you pick her up before she starts to cry. Let her have some of her toys or you may want her to have your baju.( the smell make them fell safe)

If the crib is in a different room. You may have to camp there for copple of malam and each nights you may move a bit away from the crib to let her know you are always around.  If she cries, you have to take her up and console her until she磗 sattle and goes to sleep, then  put her back in the crib.DO THE SAME UNTIL SHE ACCEPTS IT; BECAUSE FINALLY SHE WILL BE TO TIRED AND SLEEPY.
The mistake you did was taking her back into your bed when she starts to cry. Next time she will try to do it again because in her mind, the cries works!!

I have not tried this so it is senang for me to cakap. But I think it will work, if one is persistent. You may want to do this when you are on cuti...if you are working, I think nanti penat.

So all the best for you.

sofeahisyam

Em, same problem with me.
During day time, okey lah pulak tido sengsorang
malam2 mmg tak boleh daaa..
susssah mcm nie, nanti bilik die tak gune. penat jek beli katil and hias cantik2, kan?
But , i think it's true everything needs to be done step by step, slowly...

alhamdulillah...akhirnya baby mama skrg dah bleh tido asing stlh 2 bulan ajar dia tido sendiri.walaupun dlm pkl 5 pagi, minta bawa naik ke katil mama...ok lah tu

tapi,yang menyebabkan kes ni tak brapa menjadi,baru bebrapa ari baby tu tido sendri, my hb lak yang bawa dia ke atas katil, masa hb nak tido...dia kata, dia tak nampak baby (baby tido dlm court dkt mama). hahaha....apa bleh buat..join balik la nampaknya..

Esmeralda

pengalaman esme, sejak lahir my doter mmg tdo kat court dia tapi satu bilik...so, dah biasa dia tdo situ tak kisah kalu tak sekatil pun...

malah kalau my hubby outstation, tinggal berdua atau my mum datang teman...my doter tetap i tdo kan dlm court (tetap dlm satu bilik)...i tdo sorang atas katil...bukan kata kejam sgt n tak sayang tapi i nak asuh dia supaya berdikari...

now sara nak masuk 10 bulan. me n hubby plan nak pisah bilik pula bila umur Sara setahun...

BellaDeLaRossa

Originally posted by Esmeralda at 17-7-2005 08:55 AM:
pengalaman esme, sejak lahir my doter mmg tdo kat court dia tapi satu bilik...so, dah biasa dia tdo situ tak kisah kalu tak sekatil pun...

malah kalau my hubby outstation, tinggal berdua atau my ...

erm..geram..nyeeerr..tgk  mata ank esme ni...cute...gituu..mata bulat..n bsr hihihi..:hug:

[ Last edited by BellaDeLaRossa on 18-7-2005 at 05:36 PM ]

Esmeralda

Originally posted by BellaDeLaRossa at 18-7-2005 05:35 PM:



erm..geram..nyeeerr..tgk  mata ank esme ni...cute...gituu..mata bulat..n bsr hihihi..:hug:

[ Last edited by BellaDeLaRossa on 18-7-2005 at 05:36 PM ]

:tq::tq: Bella...

nasi^impit

my doter sejak dia lahir mmg tidur dalam baby cot
tidur pun tidur sendiri, tak payah nak dodoi dodoi
lepas menyusu campak jer dia dlm cot :bgrin:
kalau train dari kecil mmg takde masalah
dah besor ni susah la skit
tapi boleh try, but it takes time larr :ah:

anyway, gud luck :hug:

amboi nasi...ko main campak2 je anak dare ko ekh.....
mcm anak aku, dr lahir sampai genap setahun umur die tido dgn aku tp dlm cot die lah.
bile dah setahun ni aku siapkan 1 bilik utk die... mule2 mmg amik maselah sbb baru lagi, tp sekarang Alhamdulillah, dah ok skit2...

nasi^impit

make sure kalau anak tidur sorang kt bilik sebelah, letak walkie talkie :ah:

mana tau dia mengigau ngigau ke malam nanti :lol

moimed

moi nyer baby baru 2bln lebih, baby mula2 tdo dlm cot sorang2, tapi bila slalu terkejut jer pastu menangis melalak2 risau gak. moi pon tdo skali ngan baby atas katil, papa dia lak tdo lasak, so, papa dia terpaksa la turun pangkat, bukan maksudnya papa dia turun pangkat tuh moi tak kisah kat huby, cumanya bila nak ehe2 tuh kat bawah jer la bila baby dah tdo...heheheheh :clap:

Esmeralda

Originally posted by nasi^impit at 19-7-2005 11:16 AM:
my doter sejak dia lahir mmg tidur dalam baby cot
tidur pun tidur sendiri, tak payah nak dodoi dodoi
lepas menyusu campak jer dia dlm cot :bgrin:
kalau train dari kecil mmg takde masalah
dah be ...

sian anak ko kena campak...

yum3

My baby semua sejak balik dari hospital, I dah letak diorang tido dalam baby cot sendiri.  Masa dapat 2nd baby, si Abang tido baby cot lagi (umur 2 tahun), si Adik tido dalam playpen cum baby cot.  Mummy and daddy kat katil kami.  Tapi semuanya in the same room. Sempit sikit la bilik tu.

Sekarang si Abang dah 3 tahun lebih, dah sampai masa pisahkan bilik dia.  Dia sendiri yang minta sebab bosan baring atas tilam kat lantai.  Lagipun adiknya pompuan, dia tu konon2 ala ala macho... takmau tido dekat pompuan.  Pompuan bising katanya.  Hahaha...:bgrin:

So, we bought a bed for him (yang ada pull-out bed kat bawah tu, macam laci).  Then we took him shopping for his own bedsheet.  Dia pun pilih gambar kereta racing, gambar train, gambar Spiderman.  Dia rasa seronok la dapat buat decision sendiri and ada barang kepunyaan sendiri.

Sebelum tinggalkan dia tido sorang, one of us, either daddy or mummy, akan baring kat pull-out bed temankan dia.  Borak-borak pillow talk, then baca doa tido.  Pastu bolehlah tinggalkan dia kat bilik sendiri.  Kengkadang jenguk2 gak dia.

In fact, until now I selalu check tengok my kids breathing tak masa tido.  Mungkin I ni phobia sendiri kut, takut SIDS.  Toddler pun boleh kena tau.  Kalau I tak nampak turun naik dada bebudak tu bernafas, I pun cucuk-cucuk badan dia tengok ada reaction tak.

:stp:  Sampai masanya, mungkin I'll be normal.  Takde phobia sangat.

nasi^impit

yum3

i ingat i sorang jer ada problem tu :ah:
kalau i terjaga jer, mesti tgk anak i breathing or not
kalau dia statik jer, cuit2 skit pipi tgk ada respon ke tak
nampak dia gerak skit, lega rasa hati
tapi kalau jaga takmo tidur balik, aku lak kena leter dgn laki.. :lol :lol

pelaga

nasi,yum3,

hahah!! sama la kita! saya pun,kalau tgk baby tak gerak masa tido,mula la nak gi dekat2,tgk dia napas ke dak..tmabah2 la ni,sejak dah pandai meniarap,dia suka tido mengiring la,meniarap  laa...risau aje.

selalunye saya soh hubby terlentangkan baby balik,kalau dia tido meniarap..takut laa..saya takleh terlentnagkan dia,kang baby bangun,baby tu boleh sense bau saya rasanyee...

BellaDeLaRossa

hm....ank bella lak..mmg style dia tdo meniarap....bila kita ubh dia tdo mengiring or terlentang...2 minit lps tu mmg tdo meniarap jer hobi nyer...hm..tak per ker  ha??/kdg2 takut gak...lemas ke hapa ker....plak anak aku nihhh

eynda

Member husband eynda terpaksa beli katil yg king size sebab yg nak tidur atas katil tu 5 orang!! Dia, wife dia & 3 org anak dia yg kecil-kecil.......Heran ek cemana tidur ramai2 atas katil :stp:

izaown

eynda....heheheh...iza sekrg ni tido 4 beranak atas king size bed....just imagine la mcm mana sempitnya...yg besar tu selalunya tido dgn mil tp tgh