Self-Improvement vs Self-Acceptance: Which is Right?

hijaupurnama

perlu ada dua2.. keyword is BALANCE

nidzhar

perlu ada balance..in fact they complement one another..self acceptance is about loving ourselves faults and all..self improvement is about diminishing our faults.

Elle_mujigae

Susahnya soalan ni...huhu... I will go for self improvement...

manjalara_01

my-alja posted on 5-1-2011 07:46 AM
Yup...agreed!

Bila baca banyak sangat pasal self-improvement stuffs.....kekadang rasa kita ta ...

i ade bc..dari buku mana x hingat..
penulis kata..bile u nak improve yourself..
dari ape2 aspek..fizikal ke minda ke..habit ke..dll..
u ubah ikut tahap keselesaan diri u...bukan bulat2 ikut cara org lain...
sbb lain org lain acuan...huhu...

contoh gaya pakaian...tudung..
ambik warna saja..kalau dh kulit kite hitam manis..
sure la..jenis warna yg ssuai dgn kulit kite x same..
dgn spesis yg kulit cerah..

something like that la..huhu...

P/S:..pd manja...theres no such thing as self-improvement VS self-acceptence..sbb improvement & acceptence is 2 different things..

manjalara_01

my-alja posted on 15-12-2010 11:33 PM
The Self-Improvement Junkies

At its extreme, the self-improvement movement preaches the importanc ...

bile bc posting ni ttiber teringat..
psl personality types..

choleric (the glass is half full) personality..sgt2 ngam....dgn
spesis self-improvement junkies ni..sgt serasi..tu yg yg bleh jadi junkie..

tp tu bukan personality type manja..
that's why self-improvement is a nightmare 4 me...

just bg pendapat..bukan nak label..sesuke..hati..

hiswife

I think both are important

U need to accept who u are- ur strengths n weaknesses. Then improve urself in those areas that u are lack in