Menstrual Phase...

freekey

Hi women.

I just curious that how long is normally your menstrual phase lasts?

I read over the net that normally it should lasts only between 3-5 days or maximum is 7 days only.



But what if it only lasts after 8-10 days? Is it normal?

And how is the actually pattern of menstrual flow? Is is started with heavy blood during the 1st day? Or should it started with a light one?

What about it goes fluctuate all the way?

Thank you

freekey

auntieagony

Salam.

Impress auntie dgn Freekey's exposure on womanhood. Sungguh in detailed....

Setau auntie, kitaran haid selalunya sekitar 7-10 hari (iaitu sampai boleh mandi hadas). 1st day period - bagi tanda2x jer. 2nd till 4th day - heavy flow, 5th till 6th day - moderate. After that - cuma ekor2x period jer....

Tapi different woman different pattern of menstrual flow. Some of them experience heavy flow throughout their menstruation. I've been informed that if you continue to bleed after the 15th day, itu adalah darah penyakit dan boleh memulakan solat.

Now I'm very curious as to why you need to know this piece of information? Sebab prihatin dgn situasi isteri ker? Sbb nak tahu bila blh memulakan activiti "bersama" ker? Sbb Freekey buat survey utk LPPKN ker? Sbb both you and your wife is TTC ker?

Hmmmm.......

silica_SiO2

last week or last 2 weeks ka, kat tb3 kol 1330, friday..rancangan usrah ke hidayah..
ade die cite bab haid n bersuci..

yg setau saya laaa...
kata setazah tuh..ia mengikut kebiasaaan setiap pompuan.
so tak sama..ade org 5, 6, 7hr..ade org tuh sampai 15 hari..
so ai sendiri pon rasa rasa camtu jgk.
not to say bln ni u 5 hari..bulan dpn u dtg 10 hr..itu tak normal tuh

kalo nak carik time suburr...oh sng bangat tuuuu..
bagi yg tetap laaa..ai carik kat tenet aje.
die ade cam schedule monthly progresss dr haid ke telur n nak jadi haid balik or nak jadi janin kah...
so tgk schedule tuh n relate la dgn puan2 punya jadual dtg bulan.

auntieagony

Reply 4# silica_SiO2

Uoalls yg muda2x ni gigih mencari masa subur utk proses TTC...

Auntie ni yg dah senja pulak gigih TNTC (trying not to conceive)... So tekun jugak berusaha dan berikhtiar agar tidak preggy.... Malu nanti, org ingat auntie bawa cucu masuk sekolah darjah 1! Tapi kalau Allah tetap nak kurniakan rezeki, terima jer lah....

silica_SiO2

Reply 5# auntieagony


    ya laa auntie,
mesti aware our own body changes.
baru la senang nak get ready, nak get pregnant or not to get pregnat,
family planning katanya...
plan saje, tak semestinya tepat 100%.
But I rasa most of the time, kalo take more precautions, mmg tepat.ehehe.

daun_hijau

amboi freeky..gigih betul nak faham bab2 nie. tak nak lar vote..segan
tapi memang setiap orang pompuan lain waktu menstrual tu. tak  boleh nak dibandingkan pun

freekey

ala daun_hijau.. vote aje ler.. bukannya kita kenal pun.. huhu

freekey

Salam.

Impress auntie dgn Freekey's exposure on womanhood. Sungguh in detailed....

Setau aunti ...
auntieagony Post at 20-12-2011 13:17

huhuh.. thanks for your warm response..

ermm.. sebab curious dgn period wife that lasts about 8 days

pastu plak dia kata darahnya mcm tersekat2.. kadang banyak.. pastu stop.. pastu kuar balik.. she even sometimes dah mandi wajib pun, pastu tup2 ada balik darah.. ermmm.. so tu lah yang pelik..

dah penat gugel aritu... semalam pun hampir seharian gugel pasal intermittent period, stucked period, irregular menstrual flow.. mcm2lah..hoho.. tapi mcm tak jumpa pun satu significant article yg dpt menerangkan keadaan ini.. kecuali yg ni...



but still it's not the case
   

freekey

last week or last 2 weeks ka, kat tb3 kol 1330, friday..rancangan usrah ke hidayah..
ade die cite b ...
silica_SiO2 Post at 20-12-2011 13:27

pasal ovulation calendar tu mmg byk kt internet ni..

masalahnya dah 9 bulan pun cuba tp takda hasil..

huhuh..

   

silica_SiO2

Reply 10# freekey

cecite..cemana yu paham pasal cycle in a month - ovulation tuh?
katakan ar..isteri yu menten tetap punye ar..mungkin lam sehari 2 je terbabas ke time period.

eniwey, tabik ar...jrg sgt somi2 yg nak tau n study n belek pasal period bini die..
somi ai pon tak penah amik tau pon...

tapi mmg laaa...kawan saya pong.
1. 9 taun tunggu baru dpt anak - yg ni kes rahim tak kuat, lekat then gugur.
2. 16 taun tunggu baru dpt anak - yg ni ai tatau , ni kes dr les 1 jgk, adik ipar die.

auntieagony

Reply 9# freekey

Ok. Kalau gitu keadaan isteri, pergi ler jumpa gynae. Tak semestinya jumpa gynae bila pasal mengandung/beranak jer. Pasal haid, pasal menopause, pasal pap smear, pasal suntikan cegah cervical cancer dan byk lagi. Menstruation problem could also affect your wife chances to conceive.

My suggestions would be:
1. Pegi jumpa gynae. Get proper medical advices. Beritahu doc yg your beloved wife has this period issue thingy. Mana tau bila dia check nanti, boleh settle 2 perkara berbangkit - issue period tersekat2x dan issue TTC. Dpt kill 2 birds wz 1 stone....
2. Lepas ML, letak kaki isteri atas bantal atau bantal peluk for the entire night. So that the sperm could swim happily to its destination.
3. ML jarakkan sedikit; i.e. 2/3 days once. So that dpt sperm yg berquality tinggi - sure Freekey nak baka yg baik kan!
4. Chillax ler Freekey... The more stress you are, the harder it gets for both of you to conceive.....
5. Love your wife, shower her with all your attention and do not pressure her.... Buat baik kpd isteri, dpt ganjaran baik drp Allah....
6. Wife makan asid folic - kuatkan rahim.

Insyallah Allah akan memakbulkan doa both of you to become proud parents. Amin.

freekey

Reply  freekey

cecite..cemana yu paham pasal cycle in a month - ovulation tuh?
katakan ar..ist ...
silica_SiO2 Post at 20-12-2011 17:12

huhuh.. basic concept yg i tahu, ada 3 fasa utama..
1. follicular phase (including the menstrual phase)
2. ovulation
3. luteal phase

i ada beli buku mudahhamil yg ditulis dlm bahasa melayu.. tp sebelum tu mmg dah byk dah gugel psl pregnancy ni.. so sebab tingin sgt nak anak, nak taknak kenalah paham kan mcmana pregnancy tu berlaku.. lgpun kebetulan situasi kerja wife tak mengizinkan dia nak menggugel2 ni sumer.. huhu..

based on my findings, the luteal phase normally would remain consistent walaupun jumlah kitaran hari setiap bulan tak sama. kebetulan aritu ada jumpa pakar sakit puan and dia diagnose ada nampak telur which expected to release on the next few days. so dari situlah i suspect my wife ada LPD (luteal phase defect) whereby tak lama lepas tu, dia dah period balik.

coz what i read to get pregnant, the luteal phase should be at least 10 days. anyway, dah consult doctor aritu dan doctor ada bg ubat duphaston utk tingkatkan hormon progestrone during that luteal phase that is suspected short. but still takda rezeki lagi.

so i really wonder lah what is actually prevent us from getting baby. coz my semen check pun doctor dah confirmkan ok. i siap forward kt dr. ismail thamby lagi utk pengesahan lanjut

bukan apa.. nak jumpa doktor utk further check up pun kita kenalah kumpul sebanyak info yang mungkin utk cerita kt doktor kan...

   

freekey

Reply  freekey

Ok. Kalau gitu keadaan isteri, pergi ler jumpa gynae. Tak semestinya jumpa gynae  ...
auntieagony Post at 20-12-2011 17:18

thanks a lot again for your comment..

oh ya, folic acid pun dah amik.. susu anmum pun dah belikan wlpn belum pregnant, huhu..

pasal letak bantal tu, bukan saja letak bantal, siap angkat lagi kaki bini tu ke atas, kepala kt bawah.. smpi mcmtu sekali nak bg sperm  masuk.. hahaha..

pasal ML selang2 tu pun i already aware, lgpun mmg tak dpt nak produce pun klu wat hari2.. ehehe..

mmg nak buat further check up dgn doctor, cuma musykil samada period mmg keluar mcmtu ataupun only my wife.. sebab cycle dia quite OK.. cuma beza 1-2 hari je dan tiap2 bulan datang.. dan tiap2 bulan tu jugaklah.. i hope that blood is implantation bleeding/decidual bleeding and the likes..
   

auntieagony

Reply 14# freekey

Respect tul auntie kat Freekey sbb bersungguh-sungguh berusaha. You are a good husband and your wife is so lucky that you did not blame her....

Elok ler gi jumpa gynae - maner ler tau fallopian tube tersumbat ker atau residue of the inner blood yg tak abis keluar. Lagi cepat pegi, lagi elok. Dpt medical advice yg afdal.... Auntie dulu nak ttc for a son pun pegi jumpa 2 gynae - sbb nak petua2x berbeza. Dgn izin Allah dan usaha suami/isteri, dimakbulkan permintaan kami.

What about you? Your diet, your exercise regime, your sperm count, your stress level at work, your choices of underwear?

I'm sure there's a blessing in disguise to the test that Allah has presented to both of you....

All the best.

silica_SiO2

Reply 13# freekey

nape aku dgr komplikated gegile nih..hahaaa..

kalo rase2 tak normal..mcm aunty ckp laa.better jumpe gynae la
ai tau..yg normal saje..yg normal n tetap.

harumawar

rasanya masa belajar bio dulu..kitaran haid 28 hari..
tempoh didatangi haid bagi mazhab shafie 1-15 hari..

tabasco

huhuh.. thanks for your warm response..   

ermm.. sebab  ...
freekey Post at 20-12-2011 17:04

    8 days are normal...trust me...i pun  selalu alami ni gak.asalkan darah tu datang balik dalam masa lebih dari 20 hari,dan kurang dari 30 hari.kalau darah tu datang kurang dari 20 hari selepas hari pertama period ATAU lebih dari 30 hari selepas hari pertama period,mungkin ada perubahan hormon.

my-alja

w/pun tgh buat keje pasal benda2 nie...malas nak recall

cuma satu jek TT....kalo macam nielah ur attitude twds pregnancy
mintak mahap cakap...ur wife takkan peggy dlm masa2 terdekat...

ur body is too tired processing all the infos and not relaxing...and believe me, lagi susah nak lekat!

apa yg korang boleh buat(ikut pengalaman i dulu)
pergi cek ur sperm count and ur wife secara fizikal...
kalo semua ON and OK...
then relax, buang semua carta period,ovulation kids, themometer BBT

lepas buang semua benda2 tu yg semak dlm pikiran, terus preggy my doter..
and she is 6...

cmf_blingblings

period dalam 7 ke 8 hari tu mmg normal aja. Selalunya first day belum lebat lagi, masuk 2nd day mulalah kena tukar pad sehari berkeping2...berlarutan untuk 3 ke 4 hari. Inipun ikut orang punya badan gak. Sesetengah orang sikit aja seba faktor pengambilan certain drug. Masa hari 5 dan 6 mmg tak banyak dah, pakai pantiliner pun boleh dah...tapi dia belum habis sepenuhnya...mesti ada juga sikit2 keluar especially bila you dah tak pakai pad, ini yg malas tu..

Kdg2 terjadi juga bila dah mandi, even dah make love, esoknya bangun2 ada saki baki lagi..mmg biasalah masalah ni. Bagi orang yg ada fix menstruel cycle ni mmg senang nak plan pregnancy guna kalender. Bagi orang yg nak jarakkan anak lah.

Jangan pening-pening dan ambik serius sgt, nanti bini kau tension lagi susah dia nak relax. Kalau boleh jgn sebut kerap2 pasal nak anak, nak anak ni, takut sama-sama tension tak pasal-pasal jadi sensitif