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Author: misy

Andai Dia PERGI Dulu??

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Post time 13-12-2007 03:38 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 13-12-2007 02:52 AM
selalu nya suami mampus dulu....dan memang ada bagusnya..aman dunia sikit

Adoi kejamnya pak aji nih
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Post time 13-12-2007 05:44 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by misy at 12-12-2007 08:46 PM
Satu pertanyaan buat wanita....jika ditakdirkan pasangan anda pergi dulu megadap Ilahi, terutama yg premature death atau mennggal sebab tragedi...apakah korang akan kawin lagi, atau tak....soalan ...


Yup..aku akan kawin lagi
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Post time 13-12-2007 06:33 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by eva at 12-12-2007 12:49 PM

sedih fara sbb kita dlm situasi what if tu dulu...
i berjurai airmata tengok suami dgn badan lebam. tengok kereta remuk mcm tak caya dia bleh survive..
in your case.. mcmana dia kena rawat.. ...


me sekarang ala ala jururawat peribadi laki melah..
ingatkan dia makan ubat...
so far, alhamdulilah, dalam hampir dua tahun ni dah cam ok..
dua bulan lagi ni dia kena check darah,
me harap kesihatan dia ada peningkatan..

hari tu laki me sain untuk jadi penderma organ
aje pun me dah sedih habis..
inikan bayangkan kalau tak jumpa langsung
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Post time 13-12-2007 06:38 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by dianthe at 12-12-2007 09:37 PM



true...
kalau hati ni boleh berbunga macam aku ngan dia... maknanya tuhan bukakkan hati..
tapi so far, even byk dugaan kami lalui, hati aku tak pernah berbunga dgn org lain pun..
aku ras ...


Mungkin sebab u masih dengan dia..u tak bukakan pintu hati you untuk orang lain..
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Post time 13-12-2007 06:39 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Banana at 13-12-2007 03:38 AM

Adoi kejamnya pak aji nih


Aku dah sangsi la nie..aji nih jantan ka betina?
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Post time 13-12-2007 07:38 AM | Show all posts
susah nak cakap....nak kena start from scratch balik (berkenalan/bercintun dgn org baru)  ni ada sikit letihla....
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 Author| Post time 13-12-2007 08:25 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by NURMIMIE at 12-12-2007 11:20 PM


bukan aku emo pasal anak pompuan aku kena apa2kan..

tapi neh haaaaa.. pasal topik kalau dia pergi dulu neh.. sedih wooooo.. rasa nak peluk lak dia sejuk2 neh..



  sorry ye semua kalau thread buat korang sedih....musim musim hujan ni rasa mellow skit
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 Author| Post time 13-12-2007 08:32 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Penulis at 12-12-2007 11:30 PM
Aduh... susah nak jawab soalan nie. I cannot imagine loosing my wife... I guess if that happens, I will be devastated and I will miss her very much.

But to answer your question, I don't think  ...



terharu dgr pendapat penulis...u maybe 1 in 10 guys would ever opt for the choice..

Eva...takut kan, maknanya u dah dpt bayangan masa yr DH eksiden teruk, so mesti soalan ni dah cross yr mind...Lucky u sbb masih berpeluang bersama selepas tragedi tu...
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 Author| Post time 13-12-2007 08:35 AM | Show all posts

Reply #39 faraway's post

fara sorry...harap hubby cepat sembuh... i can see that both of u r such a loving couple...mustahil nak ulangi lagi cam tu dgn org lain kan
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 Author| Post time 13-12-2007 08:36 AM | Show all posts

Reply #45 nighunter71's post

expected
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 Author| Post time 13-12-2007 08:39 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by long at 13-12-2007 07:38 AM
susah nak cakap....nak kena start from scratch balik (berkenalan/bercintun dgn org baru)  ni ada sikit letihla....


betul letih kan...rasa cam takde energy  dah...
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 Author| Post time 13-12-2007 08:41 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 13-12-2007 02:04 AM




kdg tuhh ms spouse kita msh ada....kita sometimes take for granted jekkk ngan apa yg kita ader...kita suker tapi kdg2 kita lupa nak hargainya...biler dah kehilangan org yg kita sayang, ki ...


absence makes heart grows fonder...ntah betul ke tak ayat ni
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Post time 13-12-2007 08:43 AM | Show all posts
hihihihi

jawapan jujur dari aku...
kalo laki aku pergi dulu.... dan aku masih muda belia.... cantek lawa....
dan org yg nak kat aku tuh  baik budi, perangai bagus cam laki aku..... ensem cam laki aku... bole bela aku.... WHY NOT!!!

laki aku penah ckp dulu... kalo dia tetiba dia disable ker cacat ker tak mampu ker.... dia rela lepaskan aku
kalo dia takde.... dia pon rela aku kawen lain kot
tapi aku sendiri tak penah ckp ape2 bagi pihak aku lak...
tapi kami dah janji nak jadi suami isteri di syurga... aku nak jadik bidadari nomot 1 utk somi aku
errrr..... kalo camtuh.... tak jadik ler aku nak tawen lain
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Post time 13-12-2007 08:56 AM | Show all posts

Reply #1 misy's post

kalo dia pergi dulu,ko pegi la kemudian..
amacam,settle masalah?
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Post time 13-12-2007 09:13 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by misy at 12-12-2007 07:35 PM
fara sorry...harap hubby cepat sembuh... i can see that both of u r such a loving couple...mustahil nak ulangi lagi cam tu dgn org lain kan

terima kasih bebanyak misy,
dia doing very good now, so alhamdulilah sesangat..
emmm kekadang fikir kalau penyakit dia datang lagi pun
boleh buat menangis, so konpem, kalau dia tetap lelaki macam hari ni,
dan kalau ajal laki me sampai dulu, sebenar separuh nyawa me pun ikut dia sama...
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Post time 13-12-2007 09:15 AM | Show all posts

Reply #32 misy's post

lain2 bod takpe kot...


my answer to your question - might or might not... depends on the situation... seperti apa yg penulis has posted, kita tak boleh nak predict apa yg akan berlaku... kita tak tau apa yg dah tertulis utk kita... contohnya kalau aku jumpa dgn seorang lelaki yg penyayang dan boleh membimbing aku ke jalan akhirat, ya mungkin... IF that is what has been written for me... even now pun aku dah jumpa cuma aku tak pasti what's in store for me..
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Post time 13-12-2007 09:22 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Penulis at 12-12-2007 11:30 PM
Aduh... susah nak jawab soalan nie. I cannot imagine loosing my wife... I guess if that happens, I will be devastated and I will miss her very much.

But to answer your question, I don't think  ...


aku kenal ada sorg yg wifenya meninggal, dan smpai ini belum terbuka hati nak kahwin lagi. jauh di sudut hati dia, memg susah nk lupakan wife dia tu dan aku kira dah masuk 4 tahun dah wife dia meninggal. wife dia meninggal dlm kemalangan ngeri dan dia juga koma masa tu, jadi dia hanya tahu wife dia meninggal selepas sembuh dari koma, maksudnya tk sempat tgk wajah wife dia buat kali terakhir dan tk sempat hadir majlis pengkebumian.

dia hampir jadi sasau selama setahun tetapi kemudian dia disedarkan oleh Allah kembali. Kini aku rasa dia berubah menjadi seorg yg lebih taat dlm agama dan byk habiskan masa dgn aktiviti masjid. Cuma hatinya belum terbuka utk berkahwin lagi.
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Post time 13-12-2007 09:31 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Penulis at 12-12-2007 11:30 PM
But one can never predict the future. Mungkin I akan bertemu dengan seorang one day, who knows. But two things I definitely know are that: I won't purposely go looking/searching/finding for this person and whoever she may be, she can never replace my wife.


suami sape ni?? bertuahnya isterinya....
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Post time 13-12-2007 10:00 AM | Show all posts
aku .......?

hmm, amat susah utk digambarkan , tak sanggup rasanya kehilangan nya yg tersyg,...

mgkn memula aku akan jd org bengong kejap kot..
yerlah setiap hari bersama, kemana pon sentiasa bersama...tiba2 hilang ....
mau sasau aku kejap....
namun, aku perlu redha, n mohon Allah rahmati n ampunkan dosa2 nya...
lepaskan die dr azab kubur...

baru bygkan camni, aku dah sedey ni...camana nak bygkan seterusnya lg ...




tp, mmg betui kata mimie...
bkn senang nak dpt org yg benar2 boleh memahami kita...suami kita pon amik masa ...ni kan plak nak ganti org baru...berapa lama lg nak belajar tu...

biar byk manapun duit kwsp, insurans yg ditinggalkan utk aku...
aku mmg akan gunakan ....itu sudah mesti la...nak menyempurnakan kewajipan utk kita yg hidup...




tp, dlm hati ini....
aku tetap nak jd isterinya smpai disana nanti...


insyaAllah

[ Last edited by  lovewife at 13-12-2007 10:07 AM ]
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Post time 13-12-2007 10:49 AM | Show all posts
susah gak nk ckp ..
sbb benda ni kita x leh nk rancang..
tp aku pilih utk x kawin lg laa...
mls la buat benda yg berulang..
nk pakai duit lg..iskkkk mlssss...
biar la aku idop bergumbira dgn anak2...huhu
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