The Know~Your Baby~Quiz ( Just For Fun )

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The Know- Your-Baby Quiz

For each of the following questions, pick the best answer-in other words, the statement that describes your child most of the time.

1. My baby

A. rarely cries
B. cries only when she's hungry, tired, or overstimulated
C. cries for no apparent reason
D. cries very loudly, and if I don't attend to it, she quickly gets into a
rage cry
E. cries a lot of the time


2. When it's time for him to go to sleep, my baby

A. lies peacefully in his crib and drifts off to sleep
B. generally falls asleep easily within twenty minutes
C. fusses a bit and seems to be drifting off, but then he keeps waking up
D. is very restless and often needs to be swaddled or held
E. cries a lot and seems to resent being put down


3. When she wakes up in the morning, my baby

A. rarely cries-she plays in her crib until I come in
B. coos and looks around
C. needs immediate attention or she starts crying
D. screams
E. whimpers


4. My baby smiles

A. at everything and everybody
B. when prompted
C. when prompted but sometimes starts to cry within minutes of smiling
D. a lot and is also very vocal, tending to make very loud baby noises
E. only under the right circumstances


5. When I take my baby on any kind of outing, he

A. is extremely portable
B. is okay as long as where I take him isn't too busy or unfamiliar
C. fusses a great deal
D. is very demanding of my attention
E. doesn't like to be handled a lot


6. When confronted by a friendly stranger cooing at her, my baby

A. immediately smiles
B. takes a moment and then usually smiles fairly quickly
C. is likely to cry at first, unless the stranger can win her over
D. gets very excited
E. hardly ever smiles


7. When there's a loud noise, like a dog barking or a slamming door, my baby>;

A. is never rattled
B. notices it but isn't bothered
C. flinches visibly and often starts to cry
D. gets loud himself
E. starts to cry


8. When I first gave my baby a bath

A. she took to the water like a duck
B. she was a little surprised at the sensation, but liked it almost
immediately
C. she was very sensitive-she shook a little and seemed afraid
D. she was wild-flailing about and splashing
E. she hated it and cried


9. My baby's body language is typically

A. relaxed and alert almost always
B. relaxed most of the time
C. tense and very reactive to external stimuli
D Jerky-his arms and legs are often flailing all over the place
E. rigid-arms and legs are often fairly stiff


10. My baby makes loud, aggressive noises

A. once in a while
B. only when she's playing and is highly stimulated
C. hardly ever
D. often
E. when she's angry


11. When J change my baby's nappy, bathe him, or dress him

A. he always takes it in stride
B. he is okay if I do it slowly and let him know what I'm doing
C. is often cranky, as if he can't stand being naked
D. wriggles a lot and tries to pull everything off the changing table
E. he hates it-dressing is always a battle


12. If I suddenly bring my baby into bright light, like sunlight or fluorescent light, she

A. takes it in stride
B. can sometimes act startled
C. blinks excessively or tries to turn her head away from the light
D. becomes over stimulated
E. acts annoyed


1 3a. If you bottle-feed: When I feed my baby, she

A. always sucks properly, pays attention, and usually eats within twenty minutes
B. is a little erratic during growth spurts but generally a good eater
C. is very squirmy and takes a long time to finish the bottle
D. grabs at the bottle aggressively and tends to 'overeat
E. is often cranky and feedings take a long time


1 3b. If you breastfeed: When I feed my baby, he

A. latches on immediately-it was a snap right from day one
B. took a day or two to latch on properly, but now we do fine
C. always wants to suckle but goes on and off the breast, as if he's forgotten how to nurse
D. eats well as long as I hold him the way he wants me to
E. gets very annoyed and restless, as if I don't have enough milk for him


14. The comment that best describes the communication between my baby and me is

A. she always lets me know exactly what she needs
B. most of the time her cues are easy to read
C. she confuses me; sometimes she even cries at me
D. she asserts her likes and dislikes very clearly and often loudly
E. she usually gets my attention with loud, angry crying


15. When we go to a family gathering and lots of people want to hold him, my baby

A. is very adaptable
B. is somewhat selective about whom he'll go to
C. cries easily if too many people hold him
D. might cry or even try to lurch out of someone's arms if he doesn't feel
comfortable
E. refuses anyone's arms except Mummy's or Daddy抯


16. 'W'hen we come home from any kind of outing, my baby

A. settles in easily and immediately
B. takes a few minutes to get acclimatised
C. tends to be very fussy
D. is often overstimulated and hard to calm down
E. acts angry and miserable


17. My baby

A. can amuse herself for long periods by staring at anything, even the slats in the crib
B. can play on her own for around fifteen minutes
C. finds it hard to be amused in unfamiliar surroundings
D. needs a lot of stimulation to be amused
E. is not easily amused by anything


18. The most noticeable thing about my baby is how

A. incredibly well-behaved and easy he is
B. much he is developing precisely on schedule-just like the books said he would
C. sensitive he is to everything
D. aggressive he is
E. grouchy he can be


19. My baby seems to

A. feel utterly safe in her own bed (crib) B. prefer her bed most of the time
C. feel insecure in her bed
D. act feisty, like her bed is a prison
E. resent being put down into her bed


20. A comment that best describes my baby is that

A. you hardly know there's a baby in the house-he's good as gold
B. he's easy to handle, easy to predict
C. he's a very delicate little thing
D. I fear when he begins crawling, he's going to get into everything
E. he's an "old soul"-he acts like he's been here before


To score the self-test above, write A, B, C, D, and E on a piece of paper and next to each one, count how many times you've used each letter, which denotes a correspond璱ng type.

A's = Angel baby
B's = Textbook baby
C's = Touchy baby
D's = Spirited baby
E's = Grumpy baby

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~~ Your Baby's Type ~~

When you tally up your letters, chances are that you'll have picked predominantly one or two. As you read the descriptions below, re璵ember that we're talking about a way of being in the world here, not an occasional mood or a type of behaviour associated with a difficulty, such as colic, or a particular developmental milestone, like teething. You'll probably recognise your baby in the following thumbnail sketches, or perhaps she's a bit like this, a bit like that. Read all five descriptions. I've exemplified each profile with a baby I've met who fits it almost exactly.


A.The Angel baby..

As you might expect, this is the kind of baby every first-time-pregnant woman imagines herself to have: good as gold. Pauline is such a baby-mellow, eternally smiling, and consistently undemanding. Her cues are easy to read. She's not bothered by new surroundings, and she is extremely portable-in fact, you can take her anywhere. She feeds, plays, and sleeps easily, and usually doesn't cry when she wakes up. You'll find Pauline babbling in her crib most mornings, talking to a stuffed animal or just amus璱ng herself by staring at a stripe on the wall. An Angel baby often can calm herself down, but if she gets a little overtired, perhaps be璫ause her cues were misread, all you have to do is snuggle her and tell her, "I can see that you're overtired." Then, turn on a lullaby, make the room nice and dim and quiet, and she will put herself to sleep.


B.The Textbook baby..

This is our predictable baby, and as such, he's fairly easy to handle. Oliver does everything on cue, so there are few surprises with him. He reaches all the milestones right on schedule-sleeps through the night by three months, rolls over by five, sits up by six. He'll have growth spurts like clockwork璸eriods during which his appetite will suddenly increase because he's putting on extra body weight or making a developmental leap. Even as young as a week, he can play on his own for short periods璮ifteen minutes or so-and he'll coo a lot and look around. And he smiles when someone smiles at him. Though Oliver has normal cranky periods, just like the books describe, he's easy to calm. It's not hard to get him to sleep, either.


C.The Touchy baby..

For an ultrasensitive baby like Michael, the world is an endless array of sensory challenges. He flinches at the sound of a motorcycle revving outside his window, the TV blaring, a dog barking in the house next door. He blinks or turns his head away from bright light. He sometimes cries for no apparent reason, even at his mother.At those moments, he's shouting (in his baby lan璯uage), "I've had enough-I need some peace and quiet." He often gets fussy after a number of people have held him, or after outings. He'll play on his own for a few minutes, but he needs the reassur璦nce that someone he knows well-Mum, Dad, a nanny-is close by. Because this type of baby likes to suck a lot, Mum may misread his cues and think he's hungry when he'd do just as well on a dummy. He also nurses erratically, sometimes acting as though he's forgotten how. At nap time and at night, Michael often has dif璮iculty falling asleep. Touchy babies like him easily get off schedule, because their systems are so fragile. An extra-long nap, a skipped meal, an unexpected visitor, a trip, a change in formula-any of these things can throw Michael for a loop. To calm the Touchy baby, you have to re-create the womb. Swaddle him tightly, snuggle him into your shoulder, whisper a rhythmic sh . . . sh . . . sh sound (like the splashing of fluid in the womb) close to his ear, and pat his back gently, mimicking a heartbeat. (This, by the way, will calm most babies, but it works especially well with a Touchy baby.) When you have a Touchy baby, the quicker you learn his cues and his cries, the simpler life is. These babies love structure and predictability

my-alja

yg sulong text book baby...but not people-oriented

[ Last edited by  my-alja at 29-11-2007 01:37 PM ]

tina^^

oh, mine also text book baby..... so, how do we go abt that?? any input??

melati-putih

huhu.....baby ku textbook gakkk......
betoi punggg...si kakak tak wat lagik...
boleh ker.d.ah 3 tahun dah....ahaksss

mamahaqimie

hehehe i dunno, but most of the q's me answered A - means angel baby...  the 2nd one, 4 mths old

alhamdullillah, mmg sumer org kata anak haku ni senang nak jaga.

Oshin

MIne's a The Textbook baby..

ellilo

alhamdulillah my ammar is an angel baby...mmg senang nk handle pun

AnitaSabrina

Even though dah besar my sons but I tested the test to see my sons personality trait.

First my firstborn - spirited baby
Second : angel baby

My first born is very spirited.  He can be very hard to please & is a slave to routine.  Any changes to his routine upsets him.  My second boy is very adaptable & so very easy to please.    But I love them both just as much.