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Balas #179 pressor\ catat
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Balas #179 pressor\ catat
btul gak..kan..
good point....time kaseh sedarkan ak...
ye ah ak ni so vulnerable...emotionally fragile..
post2 yg td tu sume influence emo.... |
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Balas #180 bacteria82\ catat
kannnn..sejak bile die masuk islam... |
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Reply #183 cursebreaker's post
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Tu yg confius tu. Siap suh pi masjid bagai |
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Reply #181 pinkie's post
 habang telod ajr |
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Reply #185 pressor's post
Sorry, mulut org melaka  |
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Originally posted by cursebreaker at 1-3-2009 12:12 PM 
sbb jalan yg aku tepaksa lalu byk sgt duri..batu...liku.....sakit...
sakit luar at least berdarah..lebam..bleh ubat...sehari dua hilang ah...sakit dalam ni...
it's like a nvr ending journey...
hi curse.. everybody have problem in life... some is smaller than you and some is even bigger than you.. but most will just get on with their life and somehow manage to find happiness in it.. i believe you are facing pretty difficult problem... if i read your message correctly, i think your problem is related with homosexuality.
changing what you feel inside is very hard. u probably never ever manage to do that because it is you. many people don't understand because they are not in your position.. for the rest of us, 'normal' people just image suddenly the rule don't allow people to marry and have sex with opposite sex.. you have to married and have sex with same sex... can you do it?? you probably wont. you probably never will... how tough you think life would be??
All we can do is just imagine. bak kata org tua.. berat mata memandang, berat lagi bahu yang memikul.
Your problem is amplified because most people dont really understand or want to understand it.. its easier to condemn...
So i think for your problem, my opinion, you just need to accept who you are.. its like someone who are blind or deaf.. they have to accept they are handicapped.. dont feel guilty because you are handicap. then you can do something about it...
so you have weird feeling toward same sex.. so what?? it just a feeling... you dont have to follow it, right? just shrugged it off. and think positive... try to think why homosexuality is forbidden. this is a test from god for you.. its pretty big one tho.. but if you manage to deal with it.. the reward is also great...and try not to skip solat. stick to the basic.
another thing i think you need is a good friend... a friend that understand you and will try to help you deal with this problem.. its pretty hard to find such friend in our society but its not impossible.. maybe someone who have problem like you who don't want to indulge in the homosexual activities. preferable someone you are not attracted with, sexually. like other problem in life, having a friend probably will reduce the burden a lot..
well in short. life is too precious to cut it short before its time. and remember sex is not the only great thing in life. lighten up and smile ;)
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Originally posted by cursebreaker at 1-3-2009 09:37 AM 
problem camni laa yg buat any gays out there yg betul2 nk berubah...gettin married & whatsoever... semacam x de confidence..
coz i've always heard that once u r gay u r forever gay.....
dimana ada kemahuan disitu ada jalan..kadang2 bila kita terlalu pk negatif
jadi lah negatif..kalau berfikir positif jadilah positif..
gay yang forever jadi gay tu sebab dorang tak nak berubah..
dah jadi gay tegar...
aku rasa pernah reply thread ko dulu, utk cari perempuan
yang boleh buat ko rasa sayang kat dia..
bila dah suka, dah sayang..nafsu tu boleh timbul kemudian..
jgn pikir kalau lepas ko kawin ko tak leh happy ke
@ buat wife ko tak bahagia...silap2 haribulan wife ko
tersenyum memanjang jer... |
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Originally posted by alia_elina at 2-3-2009 02:46 PM 
dimana ada kemahuan disitu ada jalan..kadang2 bila kita terlalu pk negatif
jadi lah negatif..kalau berfikir positif jadilah positif..
gay yang forever jadi gay tu sebab dorang tak nak berub ...
kannn....segalanya mungkin..... |
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Reply #190 MsQuerida's post
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Kalau kita dah kahwin lama, pastu anak pun dah ramai, ada kemungkinan ke suami jadi gay? |
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Reply #192 eastrun's post
Ada, pernah baca metro. Tetibe jumpa boyfriend lama, jatuh cinta balik  |
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Originally posted by eastrun at 3-3-2009 15:05
Kalau kita dah kahwin lama, pastu anak pun dah ramai, ada kemungkinan ke suami jadi gay?
motif??? ape unsur2 yg mengheret si suami mnjadi gay?
ker u nk cakap if dolu2 sang suami ni penah claim die gay & afta ade anak sume die decide nk jadi gay balik...still, motiff? |
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Reply #194 MsQuerida's post
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Motif dia kerana dia ingin kembali ke arah jahilliyah setelah normal |
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Originally posted by bacteria82 at 4-3-2009 10:40 AM
Motif dia kerana dia ingin kembali ke arah jahilliyah setelah normal
kalau cam2 pokok pangkalnya pada hati lah kan..
kalau nak semua jadi..
kalau tak nak semua tak jadi.. |
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saya dah confess utk kali ke bape ntah dgn husband. dia sungguh2 ckp dia bukan gay. dia tgh depress sbb hutang byk sgt. by this time saya rasa kena percaya dia. kalau tak percaya mcm mana nak hidup dgn dia lagi 100 thn?
hutang plak hutang makpak adikberadik yg buat. kes beli harta guna nama dia dan skrg takmampu bayar.
kesian pun ada. geram pun ada. tp mmg dia taknak balik rmh jgk smpi skrg. |
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Reply #177 cursebreaker's post
curse,
bkn ko sorg rasa hidup berliku2....
aku kawin tp husband takde, duduk rmh sorg2 mcm single. jumpa husband pun boleh kira dgn jari bape hari.
nangis takyah cakaplah. smpi aku doa mintak tuhan tabahkan hati ni, jgn nangis lg.
kalau nangis, keja takleh nak buat. mata merah2 nanti kwn ofis sure tny nape mata merah, mata bengkak. takkan nak bgtau semua org my husband taknak balik rmh.
terpaksa telan hari2.
weekend kalau ada sedara mara jemput dtg kenduri terpaksa pegi sorg2 dan org mesti tny, mana husband? takpegi, rmh sedara(adik beradik, makcikpakcik). takkan takmo pegi?
semua org jln liku2. cuma sama ke tak itu jea..
aku tny2 jgk, org lain nape hidup happy jea, nape aku tak happy?
dugaanNya! |
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Originally posted by osizn at 6-3-2009 21:29
saya dah confess utk kali ke bape ntah dgn husband. dia sungguh2 ckp dia bukan gay. dia tgh depress sbb hutang byk sgt. by this time saya rasa kena percaya dia. kalau tak percaya mcm mana nak hid ...
mungkin benar kut die tgh bgelumang dgn byk masalah....time |
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Originally posted by cursebreaker at 1-3-2009 11:58
kalo hdup kat dunia pun terus menerus persoalkan takdir Dia..kan bedosa gak tu..so better....
mohonlah padaNya...mohonlah kekuatan dr Allah curz, hanya Dia yg dapat mmberikan kekuatan tuh...
redha Curz..teruslah hidup dlam redha dr mempersoalkan Qada' & Qadar |
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