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bagaimana uols cope with mid life crisis

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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 03:52 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 3-9-2021 03:54 PM
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 12:59 PM
I setuju dgn @green~tea .... pls advise me ape good investment now sbb I dh losing life motivation ...


Nak tambah.. i dengan husband,  dulu2 masa involve with bursa pun... kitorg beli bluechips je.. petchem ipo, MAS, maxis, digi, bumi armada..
Masa insiden letupan pengerang, i terus letgo my bluechips... just right before dia merudum lebih teruk menyamai rega IPO jerhhhh

Tambah dgn political instability post 2018, i dah stop bursa...  then i move to unit trust.. i manage sendiri je pakai public mutual online... lepas i dpt gain kat situ... i only maintain all low risk investment sahaja...  maximize ASB1, ASB2, ASB3, AHB, Koperasi... retirement funds under maybank... now i tambah lagi maybank funds... ada a few yang i rasa bagus like maybank technology and sustainable funds, maybank asia mixed fund (AI + FM) and small play wahed invest in moderate agressive portfolio
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 03:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
If possible.. jangan la terpengaruh dengan hebahan property guru... like it or not dunia investment property dah terlepas boat...

The best time beli residential property is 2007 - 2014...
the best time to sell off residential property is 2016-2020...

Lain dari timing ni.. dah ada value erosion in your margin... why? Because of the government policy changed... nnti lah i komen... hehehehe... nak keluar isi minyak kete...
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Post time 3-9-2021 04:06 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 12:04 AM
Tu la psl....sblm ni I jenis plan my life properly & selalu fikir abt long term this & tht but bei ...

Eemm cmtu i kena tgu few years lagi la .. life begin at 40s .. moga semuanya baik2 saja.. nnt i da 40 husband i blm lagi.. muda dr i lagila ntah apa2 ujian mendatang bila dia da 40an..
dl i jenis plan semua benda.. bila i frust bcinta x jadi kahwin i mula redah je.. tapi skrg i rasa i kena plan semula
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Post time 3-9-2021 04:06 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 12:22 AM
Acik fefeling nak naik gred lagi taun depan
Padahal haku lah kaki meroyan kat opis
Nak ke ...

Haha 52 ke 54 tu acik?? Bkn ke 52 ke 54 tak banyak beza sgt gaji dan elaun kan?
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Post time 3-9-2021 04:37 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 03:28 PM
I mmg ada a group of bestfriends yg I trust with my life. Dorang mmg jenis x teragak2 lempang or t ...

Hugs. It's good not to trust people sometimes. Luah dlm forum je. Tp hati2 dlm forum ramai org baik, ramai juge evil. Jgn percaya buta tuli. Just keep urself anonymous
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 05:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MrsVeneer replied at 3-9-2021 01:04 AM
Don't worry dia berjln bw baju 2 lai je


Eh u talking about me? I mmg light traveller pun.. koser lah nak bungkus segala mak nenek baju.. beli je lah nnti kat sana.. wakakakakaka

And iols bukan jenis nak melawa.. wajib jeans and kemeja & tudung je dah...
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Post time 3-9-2021 05:28 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MrsVeneer replied at 3-9-2021 04:37 PM
Hugs. It's good not to trust people sometimes. Luah dlm forum je. Tp hati2 dlm forum ramai org bai ...

Agree with u, my concept of trust is xde la i disclose everything cume apa yg perlu saja for the sake of I got a good & reliable advise.
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Post time 3-9-2021 05:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 03:52 PM
Nak tambah.. i dengan husband,  dulu2 masa involve with bursa pun... kitorg beli bluechips je..  ...

Dedulu I mmg aktif kt bursa saham tp now no more...im too busy with work then i stop fikir psl investment....property is sthg tht i never consider, x minat. At the moment I cuma invest in ASNB punye funds saja. Then kumpul emas. Unit trust pun I baru jual semua unit last month....no more unit trust.... so now I tgh mencari2 another peluang investment sbb after I take a break for few months, I mcm dh hilang minat nk keje. But to retire too early for me....and I xde passive income yg really stable utk I retire secara comfort. Then kena la keje jgk hehehe
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Post time 3-9-2021 05:41 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tomatome replied at 3-9-2021 04:06 PM
Eemm cmtu i kena tgu few years lagi la .. life begin at 40s .. moga semuanya baik2 saja.. nnt i da ...

Like it or not selagi bernyawa mmg sentiasa kena plan over & over again. But thts life. Kalau x nanti life stagnant, pun boring jgk. In my case, Im single so semua plan is all abt me and me...hehehe.
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 05:51 PM | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 3-9-2021 05:56 PM
tupai replied at 2-9-2021 11:46 PM
Hugs balik.... lets backpacking. Sblm pandemic, I suka travel solo ke non eng speaking countries.  ...

i never tried solo travelling... jom laa kita travel sama2 acik2 kertu forum.. simple2 light travel.. i tak gendong bag (backpacking), tp i bawak beg tarik yang kecik (cabin size je).. hahaha.. nak jaga badan, takut injury due to ergonomics...

i had bad experience duduk guesthouse dekat south korea... masa tu i travel beramai dengan all girls 8 orang.. masa kat guesthouse tu, ada mat2 salleh from US duduk kat ground floor, kitorang duduk tingkat 3.. i kena stalk and kacau dengan 2 of the guys duduk situ... they literally kacau2 i ajak keluar and bila kitorang dah abes jenjalan and sampai bilik... they even pesan dekat kawan2 diorang kalo ternampak kelibat i, sila panggil diorang.. gila punya orang... mujur i ada geng berlapan.. kalo tak, mau menangis dah tukar tempat tinggal.. pernah i kena sekat dekat isle antara bilik tu, dia tanya i duduk bilik mana... then ada 2 orang kawan i nampak... i tak suka lah orang US, terlalu berani approach orang...
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Post time 3-9-2021 05:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 05:51 PM
i never tried solo travelling... jom laa kita travel sama2 acik2 kertu forum.. simple2 light trave ...

Lets plan, after international bukak kite pegi. Im not a light traveller, I akan tetap angkut luggage tp now maybe shd try bwk backpack je. Last I travel is on Jan 2020 sblm covid. Now dh nk masuk 2 thn mereput
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 05:57 PM | Show all posts
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 05:55 PM
Lets plan, after international bukak kite pegi. Im not a light traveller, I akan tetap angkut lugg ...

bawak luggage la.. ok je tarik2 beg roda sambil catwalk like stewardess

biar acikgomen ngn mrsveneer acah2 BBNU kendong bag
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Post time 3-9-2021 05:57 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mrsamz replied at 3-9-2021 01:32 PM
Aku rasa aku mmg serabut byk masalah dgn famili sedara mara..workwise masih ok ..masih minat bekerja ...

You are not alone
Dah berumo gini, lepas mil acik meninggai, instead of sedih, acik rasa lega
Bukan sbb benci kat mil, tapi sbb pressure yg dia tak sedaq dia bagi kat weols anak menantu tu yg buat acik rasa ok her passing is alright with us all
Lepas tu acik restricted semua in-laws from my socmed acc
Ni semua perasaan acik lepas umoq 40an. Dedulu, whatever antics mil acik merempan or in-laws acik dok menempek, haku besabar je
Mai tua2 ni je acik rasa bosan dah nak layan
Nasib baik somi acik in sync dgn perasaan acik
Baguih jugak la pandemic ni, takde sapa boleh dtg rumah weols bawak masalah dah
Bila dok jejauh ni rasa aman
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Post time 3-9-2021 06:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MrsVeneer replied at 3-9-2021 02:43 PM
Kwn dgn org yg betul sis.
Yg mampu lempang u bile u terpesong.
Yg x takut to say no, when it nee ...

Gittewww bekawan dgn kaki pelempang
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 06:03 PM | Show all posts
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 05:36 PM
Dedulu I mmg aktif kt bursa saham tp now no more...im too busy with work then i stop fikir psl inv ...

takpe lah, i believe you should be focusing on your ASNB funds, buat compounding selagi u ada motivasi utk kerja ni... honestly i sendiri pun dah takde nak get into risky investments... sbb i do treasure my own sweat and tears utk build balik financial and hidup lepas terciduk in 2017.. my appetite now dah more towards low risk dah... malas dah main residential properties...
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Post time 3-9-2021 06:05 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 05:51 PM
i never tried solo travelling... jom laa kita travel sama2 acik2 kertu forum.. simple2 light trave ...

Selama I solo travelling alhamdulillah x penah lg ada bad experience, selalu nye mmg manis2 je, along the way mesti I akan dpt kwn baru then the friendship tu kekal sampai skrg. Actually the beauty of being solo traveller, opportunity jumpa kwn2 baru tu wide open.  
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 06:06 PM | Show all posts
Acikgomen replied at 2-9-2021 11:41 PM
Hugssssss
Lepas bukak sempadan nih, jom kite pi backpacking geng acik2 midlife crisis
Naik  ...

make sure main itinerary is jalan2 cari makan and lots of massattt
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 06:08 PM | Show all posts
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 06:05 PM
Selama I solo travelling alhamdulillah x penah lg ada bad experience, selalu nye mmg manis2 je, al ...

i teringin nak gi xian.. terracotta army... i tak pernah jejak china... everytime my laki pergi for negotiation kat sana, i just say babaiiii, tak hingin nak ikut... hahahhaha,... but xian is beautiful.. i sanggup jejak
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Post time 3-9-2021 06:08 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 03:37 PM
Is okay to feel like this... since u dah ada target, so make plans for it... i suarakan intentio ...

Jom chuols kita jadi traveling sistah lepas abis semua ni
Acik tgh pulun taun depan naik gred, I foresee myself nak tender early retirement once I reached this grade
Maybe keja in 3 more yrs
Cukup la investment sket2 dgn pencen gred yg selesa
Lepas tu sebelum lutut haku longgar, acik nak pi jenjalan
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Post time 3-9-2021 06:16 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 06:08 PM
i teringin nak gi xian.. terracotta army... i tak pernah jejak china... everytime my laki pergi fo ...

I dh 2 kali pegi China, both g Beijing for business trip tp tetap x suka hahahaha. Tp xian menarik, jom pegi time winter bcoz I love winter season.
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