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LadyCarefree replied at 3-1-2023 05:07 AM
nobody knows lah apa yg sol dan pee ass went thru and why sol macam tu. Perhaps Sol sedang bagi pe ...
Ya ..betul tu...tuntut je fasakh jika suami x layan lebih 4 bulan...kebetulan laki dia berduit...cer tengok org luar yg kes laki x berduit...sesetengah tu x de nya tunggu dah... |
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tigerads replied at 2-1-2023 02:20 AM
muak lah dgn kisah dia..
cuma terfikir,
Ntah kena dgr pekong yg sol buka dulu sebelum boleh conclude kan. Hehehe tapi i percaya tak semua laki jahat, tak semua isteri baik dan bertudung dlm masyarakat kita hari ni dah more to culture, bukan bermakna si pemakai tu maksum.
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jiwakacau06 replied at 2-1-2023 07:58 AM
hakim xkn bagi klau setakat tulis xda persefahaman...kena cerita detail...nk mudah...lafaz ja luar ...
Boleh je lah cerai alasan takda sefahaman. Tapi kena gi kaunseling dulu. Kawan iols ramai je cerai mutual tamau messy divorce. Tapi kalau kes curang susah tak messy |
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jangan kan 4 tahun 4 bulan pun dh boleh file divorce..
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Edited by Hypothetically at 3-1-2023 09:30 AM
I think she is making her moves now to get out of her marriage. I've seen women even in abusive marriages take longer time than ps ni to walk from toxic relationship. Its not easy for them esp yg ada anak2, mula2 harap pasangan dorang boleh berubah tapi lama2 that hope turn into fear of being judged as failure, financial insecurities or raising children in dysfunctional families. Tapi ps ni dah nampak bunga2 dia dah mula berdikari, moves to her own condo. I dont think dia boleh cerai cara fasakh, tebus talak dia boleh hilang hak2 dia, yg dia boleh buat is to hire lawyer to fight her case sbb sol boleh fight her on certain issues. Nak fight case pun perlu duit, she needs to be financial secure first. Kira ok lah out of 4yrs dia baru occassionally start to stir the pot. Its an indication to sol maybe she is taking her marriage situation seriously and is working on a conclusion whether he likes it or not. Its either they bring their situation to the court or they can amicably sit down utk berbincang to reach an understanding.
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kalau memula sol berniat nk berbini dua instead of ceraikan PS, bila jd mcm ni merempan tak habis2 rasanya agak susah relationship nk back to normal. too much grudges , too much has been said
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dia boleh minta cerai dah takde persefahaman. and still bole claim harta2 sol tu nafkah edah, nafkah sepencarian..nafkah anak
walk away je la sbb nampak sgt dh tak boleh turn back, too much has been said. malaysia pun dh penat dgn drama anak beranak ni
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Sorry, laki yang pernah naik tangan kat pompuan, yg curang tetap tak disokong..whatever alasan yang nak ditegakkan utk sol or birah, tak menjadikan ps tu salah. sol ada 4 tahun nak come clean or fix the issue, tapi nan hadooooo |
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Boleh lah, tapi kalau dia yg minta cerai, Sol boleh minta trade-in cerai utk custody anak2 misalnya, sapa tahu. Sbb tu mesti ada a lawyer who can fight utk hak2 dia sekali. |
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As far as i know, sblm dia tahu sol tu dah kawin, dia cuma byk sentuh ttg gangguan emosi by 3rd party and saman dia, dia kurang bercakap ttg sol. Only after dia tahu recently sol dah kawin, then she goes all out, itu pun baru2 ni je.
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hak penjagaan takde masalah...normally auto dapat kat mak for kids <9. unless the father can prove mak jahat, mak takde income etc etc
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Kalau bukan anak2, mungkin hak2 dia yg lain, u hv to be prepared for all possibilities.
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si IK tuh diam sebab dia memagn dpt perintah mahkahmah takleh buat apa2 komen yg mengaitkan or menyerang pihak PS..... klu tak, mana nyer dia nak dia diam.... dia lar punca PS meroyan spi kena naik turun court dptkan perintah supaya taknak diganggu si pompuan psycho nih nih...
jgn tertipooooo yer ngan kesenyapan si IK tuh....
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yup.... masa memula dia decide nak naik court, dia cuma nak pastikan yg si penyondol tuh jgn ganggu dia, family and orang2 yg rapat ngan dia....
and dia memang ckp byk kali, klu nak kawen and jadi madu dua, dia boleh jer terima tapi kena tau adab dan hormat dia as isteri pertama.....
as much as dia meroyan mcm org gila, dia tak pernah lupakan tanggungjawab dia terhadap anak2 dan so far dia tak meroyan or merempan tentang hal2 org lain....
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Tak nak guna duit laki pun ko dah gagal PS
Alih2 royanan setiap hari untuk menceriakan suasana.
Jangan mendongak sangat.
Hari2 merempan dah sikit2 terkeluar sisi buruk sendiri.
Kalau dah cerai pun iols tak rasa rempanan dia akan berakhir.
Nantikan je la episod seterusnya.
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Hypothetically replied at 3-1-2023 09:28 AM
I think she is making her moves now to get out of her marriage. I've seen women even in abusive mar ...
Betul. Ada kenalan, bukan saja suami curang tapi abusive. Pukul2 semua. Susah sangat nak bercerai, rasanya dah beberapa kali dari rumah, umur dah 40 an baru dapat bercerai.
Awal2 tak jadi bercerai, masih sayang rumahtangga, kesiankan anak2, malu, suami pujuk akan berubah.
Padahal kawan I ni professional, ada income. Pernah lari dari husband, pergi sembunyi tempat lain. Husband cari di office, melutut mohon maaf.
Tapi perkara berulang2 macam tu.
Akhirnya bercerai ,my friend buat police report after being beaten.
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ianya tak semudah itu..... bila tgk cara si Sol samdol nih, dia takkan semudahnya melepaskan PS dan membiarkan PS dpt apa yg dia nak.... PS memang boleh file utk cerai, tapi kuasa talak tetap terletak di tgn Samdol tuh....
if samdol letak syarat utk bercerai kena serahkan anak2 dan tak boleh tuntut apa2, then apa yg tinggal pada PS????
klu hal tuh yg jadi lepas PS file cerai, basically, akn byk lagi hal yg terlondeh di media..... right now, memang PS meroyan dan merempan, tapi byk hal lagi yg tak keluar dari mulut PS, tak apa yg aku baca dan dengar dari statement yg memang PS bagi, tak byk perkara yg dia mentioned tentang hal buruk laki dia....
dia tak pernah kata si samdol tak bagi nafkah, or naik tangan, or maki hamun dia.... apa yg dia claim hanya tentang si samdol tak nak berterus ternag dan biarkan dia hadap semua menda nih sendiri..... dia bengang sgt sebab si samdol nak berskandal, tapi dia plak yg kena psycho ngan skandal si samdol..... si samdol pi skandal spi kantoi, dia plak kena hadap soalan dari wartawan..... anak2 pon dia kena uruskan semua sendiri.....
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Memang kita akan terfikir orang yang dicurangi ataupun dalam abusive marriage tu bodoh tak mau bercerai. Tapi orang yang mengalami tu mungkin sudah untuk mengambil langkah terus bercerai atas sebab2 tertentu. Family, security, in laws, manipulation from the husband dll |
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Incanto replied at 3-1-2023 07:52 AM
aku tetap tak sayang PS...sori lah , aku dah tgk perempuan lain in the same scenario yg lagi bijak ...
Exactly the point...kalo ko bertindak ikut perasaan, apa pun xdpt...sweet revenge tug penting. Br ko puas hati..lemparkan segala bykti ko ada |
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Edited by ghalibboy at 3-1-2023 11:05 AM
IMO, initially PS mengharapkan SY boleh tinggalkan IK, mereka boleh selamatkan lagi their marriage, family n in laws suruh bersabar. Tetapi bila SY does not do anything to alleviate the problems ,in addition, giving her the silent treatment, she loses her patience. Hence, the outbursts and whinings
Bohong lah jika suami curang tak sedih.
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