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Hana posted on 14-7-2010 11:51 AM 
Post Last Edit by Hana at 14-7-2010 12:02
apa kata u beli satu dishwasher...and outsource certain kerja kat org....ringan sikit kerja u,...then u blh retire awal, tak perlu tunggu umur 50..anak2 lelaki mmg camtu..buat sepah je rajin...
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me n husband sepakat xnk ada maid walaupn the needs are there. but we x suka ada strangers dlm rumah. rasa mcm kekok.
btw, me ada 2 kids; 3 years old doter and 1 year old son.
penat yahamatttt. masing2 tgh melasak. house chores yg di outsource kn only iron baju keje kami kat kedai dobi. the rest on my own kederat yg x seberapa ni. lantak la kat situ. since u are not helping me much stop komplen. tu yg i bgtau husband.
tinggal kn anak yg bongsu while i masak or jemur baju kejap pn dh budak tu tekepit tangan kat drawer la, astro dekoder/ dvd player kena tarik wayar la, so mcm mana la tu kn..
kalau jadik full time h/wife mcm mana la gamak nye ek?
x tercapai dek akal.. penat nyer.....
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addamnor posted on 22-6-2013 03:38 PM
suka benar kau gaduh dengan laki...
jap lagi dia bawak balik adik baru untuk kau..
orang laki mmg pendek akal kan?
tak dpt solve problem, kawen baru ajek solutionnya. 
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Aku dgn hubby tgh plan nk amik maid...lpas raya...klu dpt la...klu xdpt aku redha je buat semua...baju je anta dobi utk iron...yg lain masak+mengemas+cuci bj+cuci umah semua sendiri...slmt hubby bantu apa yg patut...dia lg ske klu xde maid...bebas dlm umah...nk ada maid sbb aku biasa 2bln sekali kne outstation seminggu...so kesian lak hubby nk jaga dua org hero kat umah ni...dh la dua2 bersusu botol lg....tp riso gak nk tgglkan hubby dgn maid...adoiii...poneng...kadg2 hubby pun kne outstation gak...klu kne waktu yg sama lg haru...skrg aku byr rm800 utk taska...so i dont mind byr smpi seribu pun utk maid jg anak2 aku masa aku xde...tp lg satu blh percaya ke dorg ni...huwaaa...stress betul ble pikir...klu teruk sgt aku tolak je la klu kne outing mana2...harap bos aku memahami...next week je lg nk masuk keje dh.... |
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yesterday, i dah start maidles...my maid dah lari...tak menyempat nak tunggu hbs kontrack bulan 10 ni...esok kena gi buat report segala...today rasa mcm nak paralysed je kaki tangan....apa taknya 5-6 kali keluar masuk rumah gi antar anak and ambil from school....maslah betul when school 2 session ni...and i nak get transport for sekolah agama susah sgt...kakak ni minta 300 (last yr 200, itu pun just ambil je, i yg antarkan anak i to school since most of the time dia lambat)- melampau betul dia since dia tahu i desperate...so bila i quit my job this yr i yg jadi chauffer lah...
apa rasanya buat semua ni...PENAT yg teramat...too exhausted i could not even sleep last night or do anything else. yg terkilan coz my project pun delay (mmg tak cukup masa nak buat everything..)
luckily i dah mentally prepared n dah train/warn my kids awal2 lagi...i told then that sooner bibik blk kg......my kids ni tak usah cerita lah...my maid tak tahan layan they all ni coz tak dengar kata n suka buat sepah...and i pun tak larat nak dgr my maid membebel psl anak i and kata anak2 i susah diurus and degil everyday for yrs....budak2..dah berjuta kali ditegur n diajar, still anak2 I ni tak makan saman coz my eldest yg tak makan saman, so the younger ones pun follow suit.
my hb...mmg not helping at all...what I did....i warn my kids, "klu u nak bangun esok n tengok mummy tak ada kat rumah ni u buatlah perangai tak elok ni, tak dgr cakap mummy..." alhamdulillah today everything was okay, i tak perlu terjerit2....and for the first time rumah i sunyi, tak ada lg i dgr my maid terjerit2 and membebel dari pagi sampai petang (actually i rasa saja je dia ni buat camni , my kids pun sengaja bak attention saja sb i ada kat rumah).
i cannot imagine nanti bila i ada baby (3 months to go)...mcm mana i nak handle semua benda ni...perhaps i have to stop my eldest from attending the agama school, hence tak ambil upsra next yr...i mmg dont think i could handle it with 3 boys, housechores, masak everything and a newborn baby. My projek yg akan delay lagi really makes me terkilan...yelah, mmg satu kerugian besar if i quit my job juz to be a full time housewife....i mmg dah tawar hati utk ada anak lagi but my hb yg bising2 nak anak lagi...after this one is born...i would do anything not to get myself pregnant again (this time i really dont give a damn with my hb's quota to hv 5 kids...)
guys, i hv been thinking which chores i shud outsource...upah org datang buat...ada service 3 hrs for RM65....perhaps it helps but i hv to maximise the time lah...klu ironing, baju my hb n my sons school uniform...really need suggestion...
w/pun i tak kerja kat office (trying to do my own things while tgk2 anak i- esp my eldest yg problematic with his studies and attitude) i really think i need a helper BUT i mmg dah piss off dgn maid ni...klu setakat bayar 700 for the maid for substandard job quality plus poor attitude i dont mind but i hv to fork out outfront 8-9K ....(note : i ada kat rumah so kerja my maid much lesser)
i nak cari helper that could come for half a day, preferably up to 3.30 pm so that i dont need to angkut everyone every 2 hours ...but u knowlah...mana nak cari...
thanks for any suggestion...
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mistyQue posted on 9-7-2013 04:24 AM
yesterday, i dah start maidles...my maid dah lari...tak menyempat nak tunggu hbs kontrack bulan 10 n ...
Oh dear...I yg baca you pun penat tambah pula pada tuan badan sendiri.
May be for basuh and iron you boleh outsource dekat dobi.
Cari driver untuk ambil dan hantar anak you. Kadang2 kita stuck kat jalan raya pun boleh jadi stress dan penat.
Panggil daily maid mcm 2-3times week for sapu,mop,kemas bilik tidur your son,tolong basuh bilik air, or tolong you mcm siapkan kupas bawang,cuci ikan,ayam semua tu.
Buat setakat yg mampu saja dear, dont force yourself. May be seminggu dua ni susah sikit you nak sesuaikan diri but I believed lepas ni should be ok.
For confinement nanti kalau boleh cari la confinement lady tu jaga you. Memang ada cuma mahal la sikitkan. |
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mistyQue posted on 9-7-2013 04:24 AM
yesterday, i dah start maidles...my maid dah lari...tak menyempat nak tunggu hbs kontrack bulan 10 n ...
one thing that helps would be to outsource normal clothings to dobi, ie wash, dry and lipat taken care of. baju husband hantar dobi for ironing juga. tapi problemnya baju putih sekolah mmg kena basuh sendiri sebab nk tenyeh kat tempat kotor semua.. house cleaning definitely kena outsource to weekend maid..
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PENGASUH SKRG NI PUN DEMAND GILER2..DAH JADIK MACAM KEJA PROFESOINAL LAK..TP BELA BUDAK SAMBIL LEWA JE |
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water_lily posted on 4-2-2010 05:19 PM
haha, bos u kena la assertive enuff to tell the subordinate, wat per cakap belakang2 ekk..
even ...
post taun 2010. ni dah taun 2013.
saya terpikir.
kalo lah every day saya buleh keluar kol 12.30 - 2pm.alangkah bahagia nye
pastu adakah 2pm tu betul2 2pm tak lebih tak kurang?
saya sendiri..setel urusan rumahtangga balik tengahari
balik umah je dah 20min (10km), gi balik 40min.
kat umah: kata la 30min (daa lebih sejam dari waktu rehat)..
cemana nak setel tghri?balik 12.45pm, sampai opis balik paling awal 2.15
paling lewat 2.45, kalo nak balik ngam2 kol 2, just mkn n solat je kat umah
solat iols selesa kat umah sbb kat opis surau ber-share ngn lelaki
ssh macik nak rebut2 surau, dan selalu nye macik kene book no.1
pasal kalo dah terlepas giliran solat, konfom kena tunggu n tunggu n tungggu.
tak buleh imajin la
tatau la saya jenis lembap buat keje.
gi keje mesti awal.
sbb kalo tak insentip RM1k per month kena potong 50% or 100%
so tak boleh lewat langsung.
balik dah lewat ptg, sampai umah kol 6.15.
mana masa nak buat sume keje.
bebetul saya tak reti manage time
selalu terbabas aje kalo keluar time keje.
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kimoree posted on 9-7-2013 03:56 PM
Oh dear...I yg baca you pun penat tambah pula pada tuan badan sendiri.
May be for basuh and iron ...
kimoree, ajiqah...thanks...today i feel a lot better...but i am still adjusting myself...i ni actually tak pandai nak outsourcekan benda cuci n lipat baju ni...the ironing tu maybe...tulah tgh figure out which chores yg kena outsource...this weekend mmg kena panggil weekly cleaner tu....i m not going to do the moppping etc...dah takde kudrat ni..
this morning my eldest son (std 5) menjerit2 kata taknak gi school coz penat...bulan puasa, kat school pun full of activities...i pula nak train dia independent but pagi2 di bulan puasa, for him to take his own towel, his school uniform etc is a bit of a chore to him (yelah nak bangun pagi pun susah)...i just wonder if i am just being too hard on him...maybe fasting month ni i sediakan semua tu n after raya nanti baru dia uruskan barang2 dia sendiri...dia merajuk tu, tak nak salam I pun masa nak gi sekolah....anak2 u all ada ke camni?
psl driver tu mmg x blh nak buat apa sgt coz sekolah agama mmg susah nak cari org sb tmpt i dok ni xde van sek yg datang. i rasa my sons je yg gi sek agama tu.. ..so i mmg hv to send them...sekolah biasa mmg ada van ambil n hantar but then again sb sek 2 sesi, jd i hv to make a few trips...still tgh cari mana tahu kot2 ada yg nak dtg sini. next yr klu susah sgt i nak get transport, maybe hv to stop him for awhile...
pasal my maid ni...i should have asked her to go masa i nak renew her contract when she first said that dia tak nak sambung...ntah mcm mana tiba2 bila i dah bgtau agent nak hire maid baru she said she wanted to continue pula, so i cancel the hiring...alih2 dia pula yg lari...i supposed maid ni klu dia dah ter'sebut' tak nak kerja lagi for whatever reason, just ask her to leave n cari maid baru yg nak kerja coz sooner or later she would run away...
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Masa x ada maid .... satu family termasuk anak2 kena sama2 berkerjasama membantu ... mcm me... hubby ambik kontrak tang kain... tapi dia just masukkan baju dalam machine... sidai and angkat jer la... lipat masih tugas me... baju sekolah anak2 me iron... baju keje hubby hantar dobi for ironing... kasut sekolah anak2 me basuh sendiri.. yg sulung 10 thn lelaki, second 7 thn ppuan... so abang akan guide adik... kemas rumah pulak me la... dan me suka mengemas time semua org dah tido... midnight... biasa me akan kemas rumah giler2 ie mop lantai, lap kabinet, basuh bilik air semua jumaat mlm.... kira mmg buat seminggu sekali @ 2 mggu sekali la... me selalu tido jam 3 - 4 pg... tapi puas hati bila siap rumah nampak bersih n kemas jer...
alhamdulillah anak2 me jenis tak menyepah @ dowang akan kemas barang2 lepas main... tapi kalau just dowang adik beradik kat rumah la... kalau ada sepupu2 ... ampun la... tak pernah main atas katil pun leh main.... sebab tu me tak berapa suka nak bawa anak2 buah datang ke rumah....
ekceli hubby mainkan peranan yg besar... my hubby ok jer ... dia ok je nak mandikan anak siapkan semua.. malahan kalau dia yg siapkan anak lebih teliti dari me... siap sapu myk panas bagai kat my bby.... 
so far me ok je kalau tak ada maid cuma me ni jenis tak leh menangani stress dgn baik.. mudah melenting... time paling kritikal ptg sebaik saja balik dari keje tu la.... mmg mudah hangen sbb semua nak kena buat sendiri ... dah la letih kan.. perjalanan dari tempat keja yg jauh.....
satu lagi.... seminggu berselang me kene ke keje... sabtu dan ahad... mmg boleh bawa anak2 ke kedai... tapi kesian pulak kat dowang... seharian nak duduk kat kedai ... sampai ke malam... tu yg prefer ada maid kat rumah... dowang tak letih...
but me sentiasa ready je kalau x ada maid nnti sbb me dah tekad maid yg ada skrg adalah maid last.... lepas ni malas dah nak pakai..... anak2 dah besar... so insyaAllah boleh manage.... |
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Finally aku xder maid.. She was terminated biler dok demand nk naik gaji 850 sebln.. Aku soh dier blk, dier xnk blk.. Nk keje lgi, but aku ckp max aku byr 700 jer.. So, dier start wat keje sambil lewa.. Dulu x la cmtu.. But sInce dh lama sgt ngn aku, naik lemak la kot.. Plus byk anasir2 yg dok soh demand gaji 900-1k coz dh keje lama ngn aku... Pdhal, siang2 no one at home.. Anak2 skolah pgi.. Blk pon dh pukul 3 gitu..
Aper yg aku leh ckp, idop aku 1 famili lbh ceria.. Xder nk risau2 or sakit hati ngn perangai maid..
Keje umah.. Baju2 mesen n terus guna dryer.. N terus sangkut... Mna nk kene gosok, hntr dobi... Weekend cleaner dtg cuci umah n tukar sarung bantal, cadar selimut etc2.. Aku hanya memasak.. Time weekend.. Msk byk sket lunch n dinner... Sabtu n ahad.. So, aku ader 4 lauk utk mOnday to thursday.. Kekadang mkn kedai.. Pepagi msk lauk lunch jer utk my kids.. Around 330 ader mkcik yg dtg umah.. Tunggu smpai me or hubby blk umah.. Mmg mkcik tua, so aku x harap dier wat keje umah.. Tunggu anak2 kt umah dh syukur.. But kekadang dier rajin gak tolong prepare minum ptg bdk2 n dier skali.. Kemas2 umah mmg xder.. My kids pon dh bsr.. Monday to friday jer laa..
Biler dh tebiasa, x rsa sgt pon keje2 umah ni.. Btw, mmg aku invest byk kt equipment.. Cloth dryer mmg helps a lot.. X yah nk sidai2.. Iron n iton board yg gud kualiti if rsa2 nk irin sndiri mmg helpful.. Vacum.. Amik yg wireless leh jln sndiri tu.. Aku main biar jer dier jln sndiri.. So, xyah menyapu langsung.. Umah pon x berabuk.. Dish washer.. Pon mmbantu org yg x baper nk rajin cam aku ni.. 1 time investment yg brbaloi coz bdn kurang penat, hati senang.. Tu paling pnting.. Mkcik yg tunggu anak2 aku tu pon org kiter, so mmg beradap sopan aaa n x peningkn kepala... So far dh byk bln, alhamdulillah xder masalah... Last edited by nurryn on 16-7-2013 09:45 PM
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nurryn posted on 16-7-2013 09:41 PM
Finally aku xder maid.. She was terminated biler dok demand nk naik gaji 850 sebln.. Aku soh dier bl ...
salam nurryn.. just wondering.. vacuum u brand apa ye..? teringin jgk benda alah ni...
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ajiqah posted on 17-7-2013 01:51 PM
salam nurryn.. just wondering.. vacuum u brand apa ye..? teringin jgk benda alah ni...
Salam ajiqah... I pkai jenis samsung jer.. Coz tu paling murah... Hehe.. Ader 1 tu, robotic lbh kurang nama dier... Mmg lgi powerful.. Tp x kesah la kn, janji kiter x yah nk heret benda tu..
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iolls xpenah pakai maid. dan x rasa macam perlu pakai maid. yes, i'm working mother jugak. hero2 yang buas tgh membesar - rumah bersepah adalah STANDARD utk yang memiliki anak2 kecil. me & hubby xsuka org luar ada dlm rumah. xselesa. plus, mak iolls, idola iolls!!! bangun awal pg siapkan breakfast, lps tu kua p motong. tghari blk masak utk abah. petang p kelas mengaji/memasak/aerobik bagai..malam - meeting persatuan wanita pulak..! kalau iolls yg stakat keja opis, anak baru 2, gatal no anak amik bibik, harusss kena lahar ngan mak sdri!!  |
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mmg aman x ada maid.. ada menyusahkan ttp penatla sikit sbb bekerja ttp puas hati la ... |
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Minggu ni belajar hidup tanpa maid. Since anak 1, sampailah skrg ni anak 3, mmg dah biasa ada maid. Bebaru ni aku fire maid aku sbb byk buat masalah, one week test 2 org maid baru but diaorang ni dtg rata2 nak keje 1 tahun (depan agen harus lah tak ngaku - semua anggguk jer kena kena 2 tahun). memandangkan kos nak bayar dlm 7k++ utk maid yg nak keke setahun je, aku rasa tak baloi.
aku ngan hubby decide utk cuba hidup tanpa maid buat sementara waktu - anak2 yg kecik hantar taska, yg plg besar dah sekolah, lepas sek terus ke tpt kafa utk transit sekali. Tgk lah kami larat ke tidak. If not, lepas raya re-evaluate lah anak ambik maid ke tidak.
sibuk tu memanglah sibuk... dari bangun sahur sampailah time tidur, tak habis2 ada mende nak kena buat. tiap2 hari kena prepare beg utk ke taska/transit/kafa, persiapan sekolah. petang pulak kena ambik anak2, then balik rumah, prepare bukak puasa pulak. basuh baju, kemas2.
Setakat ni still boleh survive. Rumah pun boleh di kata kan lebih kemas drpd masa ada maid. Hubby rajin kemas rumah - time ada maid dia mmg jadi 'boss' aje, everything order. If takde maid, dia mmg rajin tolong kemas2 ni.
Yang pening sket, is kain baju lah. Berlambak2... tak larat nak basuh and jemur hari2. tak buat hari2, mgm bertimbun. Nak tunggu cleaner dtg weekend, mcm lambat.. plus dia nak kena iron baju2 lagi. setakat ni aku mmg byk hantar dobi. tp nak hantar hari2 mahal ler pulak... 2.50/kg.
Korang buat mcmn eh kain baju ni? |
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mekteh posted on 30-7-2013 02:51 PM
mmg aman x ada maid.. ada menyusahkan ttp penatla sikit sbb bekerja ttp puas hati la ...
agreed.
aman mmg aman... takde nak melayan kerenah or sinetron maid ni. mcm2 hal ... serabut.
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moa posted on 1-8-2013 09:32 AM
Minggu ni belajar hidup tanpa maid. Since anak 1, sampailah skrg ni anak 3, mmg dah biasa ada maid. ...
Kain... Beli dryer... Byk mudahnyer... Aku lps kering by dryer, terus sangkut jer.. So, wardrob aku mmg layers utk sangkut baju.. So, xyah lipat...
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