EDISI PENJARA: Ex-wife Jimmy dipenjara

cik_nit

kesian anak2...

dendam tak membawa ke mana-mana pun. sepatutnya sebagai ibu bapa kena berbincang.

cerai msalah lain... anak2 masalah lain.  jangan kerana dah berpisah, perasaan anak-anak di abaikan..

sixret

pjade replied at 9-2-2015 12:53 PM
Apa maksud awak "jenis yang tak berguna"?

Jenis jantan yang suka bersama betina2 yg sama taraf  ...

Maaf ya lambat reply. Saya pun jenis jarang masuk forum. Kalau ada masa je baru la saya join.

Apa maksud awak "jenis yang tak berguna"?

Jenis jantan yang suka bersama betina2 yg sama taraf macam pelacur. Padahal anak2 di rumah ibu adalah dari golongan orang baik2. Kenapa anak2 itu mesti didedahkan dengan unsur negatif sedemikian. Atas dasar hak? Kalau anak2 awak, sanggup kah? Or it's ok for you?

Kalau macam tu memang saya sangat setuju dengan awak. Ada segelintir lelaki memang macam tu. Sangat suka mencari perkara yang tidak halal sedangkan yang halal ada di depan mata. Kesian majoriti lelaki yang baik2( dan perempuan yang baik2 juga).

Setuju. beritahu perkara sebenar tentang situasi pada anak-anak ketika mereka boleh memahaminya(umur 18 tahun?)

memburuk-burukkan bekas suami/isteri dan memberitahu perkara sebenar adalah dua perkara yang berbeza.

Anak2 adalah lebih reseptif dari yang dijangkakan. 18 tahun, seriously??? C'mon. 6 tahun pun dah boleh paham apa yang baik dan buruk. Mungkin belum legally mumaiyyiz but mereka paham, cuma mungkin tak tahu bagaimana nak meluahkan. Bukan memburukkan bekas suami/isteri tapi bapa/ibu mereka juga patut have the balls dan face up to what they have done. Masa buat tak ingat dunia, masa depan anak2 nak berlagak idol?

Budak 6 tahun memang dah faham tapi they can't process the information sensibly and rationally. They take thing on its face value without delving too much into phychological aspect of it.

I stand corrected with the belief that the child is prone to traumatic incident. It's our duty to protect them. Is it OK for us, adult to burden them with our own marriage problem?

biskut_milo

Smart42ofuS replied at 31-1-2015 10:14 PM
Inikah muka suhaila si anak orang kaya tu??

Heavy smoker look..

sixret

pjade replied at 9-2-2015 12:53 PM
Apa maksud awak "jenis yang tak berguna"?

Jenis jantan yang suka bersama betina2 yg sama taraf  ...

You have missed the point altogether.

Awak sedarkan ada hak penjagaan dan ada hak lawatan?

kalau menjaga anak pun nak komplen, what's the point of fighting hak penjagaan in mahkamah at the first place?

Hak penjagaan dan hak lawatan are two separate things, ye, saya faham, yang arif. But what I am stressing here is, why is it, kalau tak diberi melawat, beria2 masuk court and court boleh pula masukkan penjaga dalam penjara sementara yg culas bagi nafkah (which is semuanya jantan), tak pulak kena denda yang lebih berat? I'm sure the court ada justification yang kuat kenapa sentence minah ni jadi macam ni, tapi justice pun must be seen dijalankan.

I can't talk on behalf of the judges. But my previous point was, it's wrong to tar every men with the same brush. Just because 1000 men had done wrong to their ex-spouses, it does not mean another 1 million men are doing/have done the same thing. But I do agree, men who do not play their role as fathers should be punished appropriately.

In this case(Jimmy and his ex-wife): Do you have a proof in saying that Jimmy did not give nafkah? I'm quoting your remark that I have highlighted as bold.

You know what, kita boleh argue sampai ke bulan pun. Tapi yang sebenarnya, dalam majoriti kes2 perceraian, ada yang terluka dan ada yang melukakan.

Can't agree with you more. Very much agreed.

So in this case, untuk penjarakan seorang ibu kerana tidak beri melawat is a little severe, in my humble, humble opinion.

What we think is not law, you know.

For example, I might as well think it's a bit lenient in this case.

Another example: Non-Muslims might think that throwing stones to pelaku zina is a bit severe. But heck, Allah knows best!

Our opinions are not valid as a law. Just think that every single person in this world have their own set of opinion and perception. Does the opinions are entitled to be considered as a law?  

But of course, yang nampak hanyalah yang surface sahaja. What really happens, ikut mereka la nak disclose atau tidak.

Exactly! You have hit the nail with your own statement that I have highlighted. That is the essence of my argument. You will never know for sure but I am very sure, the judge, in this particular case, had looked at every aspects before he pronouced his sentence.


After saying all that, I am sincerely asking for your forgiveness if my words are too harsh. I am sorry. Please forgive me. We have different views but please don't let those views to pollute or diminish our relationships as muslims.

From the bottom of my heart, I ask for your forgiveness.

p/s: We can't expct people to agree with us. All. The. Time. But if we beg to differ, let it be in a peaceful and courteous way.

rayna_raynes

sixret replied at 16-2-2015 04:22 PM
I can't talk on behalf of the judges. But my previous point was, it's wrong to tar every men w ...

very good and well written argument
are you by any chance an advocate?

ixorzarzs

mak bapak punye angkara, anak jd mangsa..kesian anak tu..huhu

LiveYourLife

Smart42ofuS replied at 31-1-2015 10:14 PM
Inikah muka suhaila si anak orang kaya tu??

eh kenapa lain muka dia...?

jepp

muka dia ke tu
aloh la

sixret

rayna_raynes replied at 16-2-2015 04:52 PM
very good and well written argument
are you by any chance an advocate?

Thank you so much.

No, I'm not an advocate of any sort.

sponges

Smart42ofuS replied at 31-1-2015 10:14 PM
Inikah muka suhaila si anak orang kaya tu??

her face is so scary!!! smoking really makes you get older faster

putrisofhea

sometimes kita mmg benci ex husband tp jgn lupa dia masih bapa kpd anak kita

sixret

putrisofhea replied at 19-2-2015 11:57 AM
sometimes kita mmg benci ex husband tp jgn lupa dia masih bapa kpd anak kita

Sangat setuju.

setokinpurple

Scary dowh muka dia...
Rasanya umur dia tak sampai 30 lg

sok_suci

Mak dia apa nama tu..,kosmetik gak tu, ala2 blagak

alinone78

So adakah dengan hukuman penjara 7 hari ni membuka ruang kepada jimmy untuk buat lawatan?

cale1910

Dah besar dah anak Jimmy Shanley, Rania

KLIK --> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VuYQAnFTEO4

Speaking kaedahnye...

HoneyManjer

juliez replied at 28-1-2015 01:02 PM
Ini pic baru ker lama? Hazab sgt muka sheols skrg

tatotnye cam mak lampir

wi_haryati

toxicated replied at 28-1-2015 12:42 PM
agak2 awie kene penjara tak pasni sbb tanak kasi anak jmpe mak

ha, tertanya2 jgk hat ni.. exwife tak berdaya melawan gamaknya...

mejaputih

etonjelita replied at 28-1-2015 12:56 PM
Berat sebelah!!!! Kalau pompuan yg buat salah cepat jatuh hukum.. Kalo lelaki ...... Smp sudah x set ...

Yg kes pilot tu iols ada dgr the other side..so iols pun xmo komen lebih..sbb terfikir juga.selama ni netizen ramai yg side exwife..tp ada nmpk ke family exwife at her side? Sbb ada kisah di sebaliknya..family ex husband pun dikalangan org baik2..seharusnya family ex wife pun tau hal sbnr so dorg diam je..netizen yg lebih2 ya..

balakkampung

ex wife jimmy ni yg mak dia datin munirah tu kan...yg bestfriend aliff syukri dgn sajat tu..pernah tertengok rumah mak dia dalam video aliff..memang kaya mak dia...