Gomol Dan Cabul:Ibu Tuduh Anak Goda Suami Baru

mama2iman

ada ke patut?ngata anak sendiri goda suami baru. ... baru 13 tahun je pun. ... haih. ... apa nk jadi

rosasa

kesian beribukan wanita vangang

xoxopac08

alahai si emak...

MsLulu

haiah...apalah malang dapat ibu kandung tak percaya kata anak sendiri...lagi percaya kat org asing yg gatal menggedik nak cabul n rogol anak dia..

kelip2_07

hrp bpk kandung bdk nie dpt belasah laki nie smpai cacat...

bellaa

xpasal2 anak dipersalah kan..

FlowerGirl

bangcak posted on 10-10-2014 10:11 AM
Nape nak bercerai?
Bawak bincang dulu, kot ada salah paham ke.

x de salah paham apa la bangcak..dh bincang hati ke hati...dgn mak ayah tp dia x nk terima..x pe la..dia pun relahati lepaskan sy...sy pun rela hati la terima

haryatie

asal berlaki..

jazaa

akakmasihvogue posted on 10-10-2014 09:51 AM
kalau janda atau balu nak kawin lagi dan ada anak dara
berfikir laa 10 kali....tapi kalau ada anak  ...

nanti kena liwat lak....

sayangkid

pernah terjadi mase aku sekolah rendah dulu..kawan sekelas aku yg di rogol bapak tiri n pkcik nye dlm mase yg same..buat repot mak nye ckp anak nye gatal,suke mlayan lelaki..lg di berhentikn sekolah..fikir la banyak kali pd sesape yg ade ank tu sebelom nk bkahwin..bkn semua org dpt terime ank tiri mcm ank sendiri.dah bute cinta smpai ank ckp pon tak percaye..

azrain98

mak dia buang tabiat ke

dani-rox

sayangkid posted on 10-10-2014 10:08 PM
pernah terjadi mase aku sekolah rendah dulu..kawan sekelas aku yg di rogol bapak tiri n pkcik nye dl ...

sampai hati si ibu boleh cakap mcm tu dgn anak sendiri. kesiannya... apa jadi dgn classmate u sekarang nih agaknya kan. ai harap dia mampu survive dari kenangan yg amat hitam spt itu, dan hidup dgn tenang dan bahagia.

Talibun

Bawa bertenang.

Kita mungkin cenderung untuk salahkan mak tu. Memang dia salah pun.

Tetapi yang paling KEPARAT LAHANAT ialah lelaki su bapa tiri itu. Dengan sebab dia, anak dan emak jadi bermusuhan.

Tergamak dia nak cuba rosakkan budak form 1, yg sepatutnya dia lindungi. Rumah yang asalnya aman, jadi bergolak dengan sebab lelaki perosak itu.

Tahniah kepada adik itu yang tahu haknya, kuat semangat untuk melawan dan berani buat laporan polis. Sepatutnya, di saat ini, bapa saudara adik itu patu main peranan. Memberi perlindungan.


Kepada lelaki di luar sana, jangan pandang enteng dosa zina teruatama yang telah berkahwin. Sedemikian bencinya Allah dengan penzina yg dah kahwin sehingga dihukum dengan rejam sampai mati. Di baling dengan  batu sampai berdarah-darah, patah gigi buta mata dan tetap direjam dengan batu  tak akan berhenti sehingga nyawa tamat.


Wal 'iya dzubillah. Moga Allah melindungi saya, tuan-tuan, keluarga saya dan keluarga kita semua dari kebejatan ini.

AMin

mystica

yup nasib baik adik tu sempat larikan diri sebelum dirogol.

mcmane la mak dia boleh belakangkan anak sendiri. u have known ur daughter her whole life. 13 years kot. baru kenal laki bbrp tahun trus hadap sgt. kesian budak tu. sapa la dia nak turn to kalau bukan mak kandung sendiri.

ayah kandung pun ada yg rogol anak ini pulak bapa tiri. kalau nak kawin lain mmg kena hati2. jgn mudah percaya orang. sesetengah pervert ni mmg aim janda yg ada anak agaknya.

dani-rox

Pedophiles Groom Both the Child and the Family

Up to 95% of child sexual abusers are male (Bagley, 1995). They can be single, married and have families of their own. Up to 1/3 of reported offenses are committed by adolescents (Bagley, 1995). 95% of abusers will be known to the family (Child Protection Council, 1993). They will be a trusted friend and/or family member.

It crucial to note, that child sex offenders ‘groom’ both the child and the family. It is also important to note, that the sexual abuse of children has no social boundaries.

Child sexual offenders are skilled at deception and conniving in all their perverse undertakings. They will:

• Always plan their sexual abuse of a child. In fact, they may plan and ‘groom’ for a number of years before making sexual contact with the child. They will plan in detail how they will spend time with the family and the child, how they will get time alone with the child, and especially what threats they will use on the child in order for the abuse not to be revealed. Ensuring the child ‘keeps the secret’ is of extreme importance to the offender — if the child does tell, the consequences for the offender are catastrophic. Therefore, they will use whatever means they can for the child to keep the secret. This includes subtly discrediting the child by making them out to be a liar — so if they ever do disclose, they won’t be believed.

• Choose a victim very carefully. They will test the child’s reaction to touch. In fact, one male offender stated in an interview that he will firstly stroke a child’s arm and if they cuddle up closely and are receptive to the touch, than that child will be his next victim.

• Work very hard at being liked (even loved) by the child and his or her family. For example, the abuser will often help the family out on short notice, appearing as reliable and trustworthy friend. This is the persona a pedophile will go to great lengths to establish.

• Scheme to get ‘alone time’ with a child (or group of children) and will spend a lot of their out-of-hours recreation time with children.

“Because the offender is often a person well-known and trusted to the child and their family, they usually can easily arrange to be alone with the child — therefore the abuse is commonly repeated. This abuse rarely involves violence because instead of force, these offenders use promises, threats and bribes to take advantage of their trusted relationship with the child’s family and the subsequent powerlessness of the child. In some cases, this can go on for years.”

(NSW Child Protection Council, 2000)

• Target busy parents who are in need of extra help. They will also target vulnerable and disadvantage communities.

“Children who live with a single parent that has a live-in partner are at the highest risk: they are 20 times more likely to be victims of sexual abuse than children living with both biological parents.” (Sedlack et al, 2010)

• Change jobs and addresses to avoid detection.

Grooming is about power over the child and using that power to maintain the secret. It is about making sure the child never tells. Grooming can take place over days, weeks or years. A groomer taking time to ‘groom’ enables trust between the abuser and the child (and the family) to build up. This trust, in turn, creates opportunities for regular abuse to occur.

Grooming techniques can include:

• Making the child feel extra special by giving them special presents and treats and/or taking them on outings. The child will be made to feel as if they are the groomer’s ‘confidante’.

“The strategies employed by offenders to gain the compliance of children more often involve giving gifts, lavishing attention and attempting to form emotional bonds than making threats or engaging in physical coercion. Many sexual encounters with children were proceeded by some form of non-sexual physical contact.”

(Smallbone & Wortley, 2000)

• Helping families at the ‘drop of a hat’ so trust is built up over time, enabling the abuser to spend more time alone with the child without suspicion.

• Physical contact such as rubbing the child’s shoulder or an arm, stroking his or her hair and then watching for the child’s reaction. If the child is receptive, the touching will continue. The touching may well begin as an ‘innocent’, ‘fun’ game of tickling that the child enjoys, but later when the abuser deems the child ‘groomed’, the touch will turn to sexualised contact.

• Encouraging the child to keep secrets that at first may not be of a sexual nature. These ‘fun’ secrets are intended to build up a sense that the abuser and the child have a ‘special’ relationship. Note: an abuser will use ‘guilt’ and ‘blaming’ techniques to coerce the child into believing that they are an equal participant in the ‘shameful’ secret and are equally too blame. The abuser may even make the victim feel they encouraged the sexual contact. The child can be so guilt-ridden they may never disclose and this is the perpetrator’s key aim.

• Using threats and blackmail to ensure the child keeps the secret. Threats such as the child will go to jail if they tell and they will never see their family again, that no-one will believe them and that they will be destroy the family, etc. The abuser will work very hard to ensure the child never tells.

The above information only reinforces why we MUST educate our children in body safety before they become victims of the grooming process, ending in them being sexually abused by the perpetrator and in many cases, for a number of years.

Children need to to know these three key and life-changing rules:

1. Their body is their body and no-one has the right to touch it.

2. They must never ever keep secrets that make them feel bad or uncomfortable.

3. If someone touches their body, they must tell, tell, tell; and keeping on telling until they are believed.


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Wazzul

Haizzz.....binatang pun lebih bagus dari ini.

lav10

ni nick @lavataubakar ke?...
kau bior  betul laba...
dulu satu hari satu nick, skrg satu hari dua nick lak...

2-2 pon bukann

sayangkid

dani-rox posted on 11-10-2014 12:02 AM
sampai hati si ibu boleh cakap mcm tu dgn anak sendiri. kesiannya... apa jadi dgn classmate u seka ...

aku mmg kesian dgn nasib hidup dia..mungkin tu bahagian dia..tapi bukan takat mak nye je tak percaya..aku ingt lagi cikgu kelas aku pon sama..siap buat2 main lagi sambil ketawa2 lagi.. cikgu aku tu cakap rock and goal (rogol)sambil  ketawa2..pasal dia ni ade satu prangai suke menipu..jadi bile jadi btul org ingat dia tipu.kahwin dgn pakistan ade kedai perabot tapi tak panjang jodoh. lelaki tu ade wife pulak kt pakistan.balik pakistan hari tu lame sgt sampai setahun lebih..tgk macam laki tu nk gunakn dia utk permit.

dani-rox

sayangkid posted on 11-10-2014 08:43 PM
aku mmg kesian dgn nasib hidup dia..mungkin tu bahagian dia..tapi bukan takat mak nye je tak perca ...

mcm tu sekali kehidupan dia? kena pulak dikelilingi lelaki2 tak guna. ai cuma mampu tumpang simpati jah, dan harap dia tabah.
bengongnya cikgu tu. kalau iya pon pelajar tuh bermasalah dan suka berbohong, tak payahlah sampai buat rape jokes, dlm kelas pulak tuh. takmo percaya, sudahlah. perangai tak padan dgn profesion

ibnuyusop

Aku rasa nak dia ni gila jantan kot