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purpler posted on 7-5-2014 06:32 PM 
kadang² kita taktau apa sebabnya kita suka seseorang, kan...
normal ke kalau mcmtu?
saya rasa gini, kita suka seseorang sebab dia ada satu daya tarikan yang menyebabkan kita rasa tertarik pada dia..
macam crush gituh..apa daya tarikan tersebut..berbeza-beza antara seseorang dengan yang lain..
lepas tu, apa yang menyebabkan kita kekal dengan perasaan suka ini adalah..ha, yang inilah kita tak tahu kenapa..
nak2 orang yang kita suka tu kengkadang bukan best sangat,pun..
saya rasa saya pernah baca atau terdengar interview kat mana ntah..marriage satu2 pasangan couple tu bertahan atas dua benda..
yang isteri,sebab sabar..yang suami, sebab kasihan..lebih kurang ginilah..sebab, makin lama sesuatu relationship tuh, makin pudar rasa cinta..almaklum, maknusia ni mudah rasa bosan..
eh relevan ke komen ni eh...hahaha
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Nurul8001 posted on 7-5-2014 06:48 PM
saya rasa gini, kita suka seseorang sebab dia ada satu daya tarikan yang menyebabkan kita rasa ter ...
Why Do We Fall In Love? (Based on the psychology of falling in love)
You were walking down the street, nothing was unusual and then suddenly she came out from a nearby shop and it happened that you fell in love with her at the first sight! Huhh!! What happened?!!
The answer is simple, its all related to how your mind works. If you are single or currently not in a relationship then your mind will always be on a hunt for your long awaited partner. Even if you think that you don't care about relationships now still you will fall in love with the first person who matches your criteria.
But why she? Why not someone else?
Each one of us has got some kind of a check list stored into his mind which includes the criteria that a person must meet in order for you to love him. If a person didn't match some of the items in this list then he becomes disqualified to be a potential partner and you will think of him as a friend. The items in your check list are of course unique and specific to you depending on your background, values, past experiences and beliefs.
The following is an example of the first three lines of a check list of a guy called Sam. Sam is a guy and his list starts with the following three conditions:
- Item one: She must have the same educational background as mine.
- Item two: Her hair must be yellow (Sam always failed to establish successful relationships with blonds in his past and so his subconscious mind included this item in his list in order to help him compensate for his past failures)
- Item Three:She must be assertive. Sam wasn't an assertive person and since we get attracted to those who have what we need therefore Sam's mind included this item in his criteria.
If Sam is currently not in a relationship and then he met an amazing girl who has black hair then most likely he won't fall in love with her (without understanding that the real reason he didn't love her is that she didn't match his subconscious criteria).
People are usually unaware of their subconscious criteria and that's why they usually describe love as a mysterious thing that follows no rules but the truth is that when they become aware of their subconscious criteria they will be able to know why they fall in love with certain people and not others.
Once you become aware of your own list you will know how to stop loving someone and how to make someone fall in love with you.
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aisya1987 posted on 7-5-2014 04:51 PM
Aku tak rasa mak dia akan ikut je mana-mana yang dia pergi. mak dia dah biasa dah kene tinggal sor ...
kerjanya supir? selalu ditinggali? berbulan? waduh...cawangannya ada dimana-mana gitu!
ditinggal sbb keje ngan ditinggal sbb bersama seseorang laen....BESAR beza dia.......
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Nurul8001 posted on 7-5-2014 06:48 PM
saya rasa gini, kita suka seseorang sebab dia ada satu daya tarikan yang menyebabkan kita rasa ter ...
releven..SETUJU....
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mana tt? kesian tt. abis hilang mood nak takle duda tu.
kalau rasa, dia calon paling terbaik dijumpai, then takle lah. org2 lain boleh bagi pendapat ajek.
tapi, mmg ada "masalah" sket lah kalau serumah dgn mertua nie. tidak syak lagi.
kalau ada jodoh, tt kena jadi mcm aku la. natural gitu. semua hal adalah remeh temeh. takde hal adalah hal besar. masuk tinge kanan, kuar tinge kiri. kalau ada perkara abnormal sket tu, adalah normal.
kalau MIL marah/bebel2/komen tak best, biasa lah tu. anak mana tak kena marah. lagi kena marah lagi sayang tu. 
kalau MIL mintak apa2, bagi ajek. jgn kata NO. misti kata..yes mem.. ok mem..anything else mem..
bukan senang nak jadi menantu mithali tapi, boleh dicapai..
disayangi oleh MIL tu, tak jamin lah.
duduk serumah dgn org2 lain, takboleh cepat sentap. sekali skala nak sentap takpe. normal la tu. kalau hari2 nak sentap, tak normal ok?
tipu la kalau aku tak rasa sentap. ada jugak. especially mil komen pasal cuti ai. ai kan gila keje. ingat anak dia sorangg ajek gila keje-tanak ambik cuti?  
semlm FIL lagi best komen kat anak ai no.2.
anak ai no.2 tu ckp la kat tok dia, "xx ada baju nie" -ala gaya budak2 nak eksyen ada benda best.
tok nya tanya,"baju sapa?"
anak ai jawab,"baju abang"
tok nya terus komen"mak kau asyik bagi baju secondhand ajek kat ko ye. ko takde baju sendiri ke?"
kalau org sensitif, misti terasa tu.
tapi, ai, gelak2 ajek. sebab mmg betul pun. nak sentap pasai apa pulak. jimat apa.
tapi, ada jugak ai sentap dgn kata2 FIL tu. mcm FIL ckp, anak2 dia takpenah bergaduh pun wp anak ramai. (sebab anak aku 2 org pastu suka bergaduh). mmg sentap & down la. aku ngadu kat kawan baik la dlm whatassp.
ngadu kat laki wat pa. buang masa ajek.
alang2 dah jumpa calon BEST, baik ko ngorat. kalau ko tanak, berlambak ppuan lain nakkk.. Last edited by Hana on 8-5-2014 02:30 PM
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juita posted on 8-5-2014 10:40 AM
kerjanya supir? selalu ditinggali? berbulan? waduh...cawangannya ada dimana-mana gitu!
ditingga ...
supir pesawat. yang tinggal berbulan tu sekali je. sebab secondment. skrg dah takde jauh2 dah. paling lama pun 2 mlm je. buat masa skrg ni la.
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Hana posted on 8-5-2014 02:19 PM
mana tt? kesian tt. abis hilang mood nak takle duda tu.
haha. aku dah bgtau dia awal2 yang aku takkan berenti kerja kalau kawin. ye la apa aku nak buat kat rumah. kalau kawin dengan dia lagi la. kerja je yang boleh buat aku maintain jadi orang. hahaha. aku cuma akan slow down kan kerja aku je.
tak cepat sentap tu mungkin susah sikit la bagi aku. sebab aku ni sangat sensitif. kawan-kawan yang kenal aku mmg rasa susah aku utk survive.
tipu la kalau cakap tak risau lepas dengar nasihat korang. sebab tu la aku mintak nasihat korang. aku tetap suka dia. cuma bila baca nasihat korang buat aku fikir balik kenapa aku suka dia.
Last edited by aisya1987 on 8-5-2014 02:51 PM
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Innrukia posted on 8-5-2014 07:46 AM
Why Do We Fall In Love? (Based on the psychology of falling in love)
You were walking down the ...
artikel ni mcm betul je. haha
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aisya1987 posted on 8-5-2014 02:33 PM
supir pesawat. yang tinggal berbulan tu sekali je. sebab secondment. skrg dah takde jauh2 dah. pal ...
iyah....iyah....ramei gitu temen2nya...dikelilingi yg bermini skirt ato berkebaya?...persinggahannya jugak, byk kan?....udah dibilangin tanya sama hati lo...suka apa enggak?..
tanya hati larrrrr.....hagak2 nak jadik menantu misali, jadik la cam hana, me menantu misali gak la,blik umah mentua lepak dpn TV jahh!......ader ketika balik skali2 tu sentap gak! tapi wat bodo jek la sbb bukan tinggal skali ngan me uhuhuhuhuhuu...kalu tinggal skali pun wat bodo jugek!!!ekekekek
kok tinggal omah mentuo sok..pandai2 la....jangan kato balik kojo leh torus membuto...karang omak mentuo bising plak..orang lain pon kojo.boleh yo masak,ngomeh,basuh kain..ini kojo eh membuto yo! laki plak maso tu otstesen...ngadu kek sapo la kan?.....takpo ngadu yo kek sini!!! |
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anees~nuhara posted on 22-5-2014 02:48 PM
sblm ko nk confess tu istikharah la dlu... mntk petunjuk die tu yg terbaek atau pon x..terburu2 sg ...
Nasib baik tak confess lg. Sekali mak aku bgtau dia ada gf. Pilihan hati mak dia. |
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aisya1987 posted on 7-6-2014 05:39 PM
Nasib baik tak confess lg. Sekali mak aku bgtau dia ada gf. Pilihan hati mak dia.
tapi tu gf je....belum bertunang dan kawin lagi, kan...
jahatnya aku....
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aisya1987 posted on 7-6-2014 05:39 PM
Nasib baik tak confess lg. Sekali mak aku bgtau dia ada gf. Pilihan hati mak dia.
hoh...seb bekk...kalo x..merana
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purpler posted on 7-6-2014 06:30 PM
tapi tu gf je....belum bertunang dan kawin lagi, kan...
jahatnya aku....
Gf je pun. Tu pilihan hati mak dia kot. Haha. Kalau itu yg baik utk dia why not kan. Paling penting mak dia suka. |
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aisya1987 posted on 11-6-2014 03:16 PM
Gf je pun. Tu pilihan hati mak dia kot. Haha. Kalau itu yg baik utk dia why not kan. Paling pentin ...
takpe. move on.
doa kat Allah, ganti yang lain. lebih baik mungkin.
fighting!
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