...MY RECENT NEGATIVE THOUGHT...

Agul

Nothing is inherently bad or good, only our thinking makes it so.

Agul

Originally posted by hamizao at 29-7-2007 12:23 PM


more that meets the eye ...

Allsparks...

hamizao

Originally posted by Agul at 29-7-2007 12:41 PM
One might not know if his/her decision is negative or positive in the long term/ grand scheme of things.

Maybe next week/tomorrow/yesterday it may seems negative but one year from now it will  ...

I would surmise that the negativity or positivity of any action  has more to do with the intention of the action. The initial evaluation is to ensure the execution is as flawless.

Hmm it's 1.00pm and me tummy is working up. I fear that I may not be making much sense after this!!:geram: :geram:

Agul

Originally posted by hamizao at 29-7-2007 01:04 PM


I would surmise that the negativity or positivity of any action牋has more to do with the intention of the action. The initial evaluation is to ensure the execution is as flawless.

Hmm it' ...

That single word brings more meaning than one...

dutchy

Originally posted by Agul at 29-7-2007 12:41 PM
Nothing is inherently bad or good, only our thinking makes it so.

yup..our mind is the mechanism that determines all this

how we perceived things is how the outcome will be

dutchy

Originally posted by Agul at 28-7-2007 05:55 PM
Everyone is scared, sometime... Just being cautious... Sometime rightfully, sometime not...

It's great that you are now doing something you love. Maybe the recent offer is good, maybe it's not ...

Decided to stay put..am praying that I made the right decision

hope its worth all the sleepless nite that I went thru

thanks for the concern   

hamizao

Well, what can we say about intentions?

Whatever we do is usually/always to satisfy  our need. Are there negative and positive needs?

Agul

Intention, as a word have many meaning, some of the meaning are rarely used today...


I will try to remember it...

Mansairaku

first time posting on "Negative Thoughts"

my most recent:

"sedangkan pantai lagi berubah, inikan pula hati orang"
people change ..
and hearts ...despite their best intentions, do change ...

wisteria

if only i can yell to my boss


so loud that the building will shake

hamizao

Originally posted by wisteria at 6-8-2007 12:53 PM
if only i can yell to my boss


so loud that the building will shake

Heheheh....the boss is still the boss!

wisteria

that's why la hamizao

hehe

puterikhaleeda

Originally posted by wisteria at 6-8-2007 12:53 PM
if only i can yell to my boss


so loud that the building will shake

u could if u want too..  i did it yerterday ... geram betul.....came back smiling away..... rasa 'puas' !!!!!

wisteria

did it before .. to the other boss


hehehehehe

tuna_sandwic

i do have some negative thoughts but couldn't remember any right now...
but i do receive negative treatment from others which i twisted it into positive output

current situation:

one of my ex-student keep on nagging at me about my classes which shesays very expensive, not achieving target, the schedule is not good,the backdrop is not up, the toilet is dirty, the toilet paper is notthere, the A4 paper is not given daily, the pencil is not replaceddaily, the mineral water is not refilled hourly, and the worst thingis, the food is so damn bad.... yikes.... i can accept the earliestcomments, but complaining about food really makes me think twice andlook who's talking... i really don't have any respect to people wholoves to complaint about food.. because for me they are not beinggrateful for whatever rezeki they get for the day.. i've been raised ina poor family and for me food is very precious... during my childhoodi've been eating porridge without anything... plain... just porridgeand water coz we cannot afford to get rice for days.... not to mentionany tasty fish or vegetables... and yet while attending the course withus, she can eat more than 30 types of indian dishes and western dishesdaily... eventhough i myself don't fancy indian dishes, but i respectthe food.... i've never insult the food like she did.... nothingfancies her... and nothing satisfies her

through my observation,during the class, she talks a lot... she disturbs everybody in theclass with her words and nagging without a stop. While others is doingeverything the trainers asked, she didn't do a single thing.... ididn't know this until one of my ex student spilled out the incident..the rest of the students hate her... i AM surprised...

well, atone time i do feel bad about myself for not being able to fulfill herwish.... but when i checked with the rest of the students, they arevery happy attending my classes and they said that my class is way toodifferent from other provider...

i dind't say that i'm perfectcoz i will improve everything she had said to me... because i don'twant to receive the same complaint like she did...

yes.. herwords really put me on the negative side... but, i had twisted it to bein positive way... i will try harder to improve myself...

currently, i befriended her, and try to help her with no cost.. i evengo to her place which is an hour drive from my place.. looking at theway she lived, i don't regret receiving complaints from her because shewon't go any further until she change her way of life.. she will not besuccessful if she still live a life and a thinking like she is rightnow...

[ Last edited by  tuna_sandwic at 8-8-2007 11:23 AM ]

Mansairaku

we cannot be responsible for every person ..
changes starts from one-self

hamizao

It is usual for one to obtain feedback on course given at the end of it. From there you would be able to measure your own success or otherwise. I hope you have done this.

Now if what she said is true, you have to acknowledge and try to improve. Expecting people just to be greatful for what they get (to eat) is no way towards betterment. Other people have their own expection. Your own background cannot be entrusted upon others. What about her life? Was it merely an attitude issue?

I am not sure of the nature of your biz ....certainly doesn't sound like a normal school. Tuition Centre?

sciencefiction

mine :

just want to relax and ignore all matters ... nak otang lak tercari cari haku...

wisteria

i hope lelaki yg langgar kereta i pagi tadi n lari n tipu when he said nak berhenti kat tepi to discuss ditimpa bencana n tak senang for the whole week

Agul

What you can do. You do.

Sometime this is the nature of these people. They are not loving, they are not grateful, they are hateful, always dissatisfied, they just crave the attention.

One day by associating yourself without sense of detachment with her you may be robbed off your energy and everything becomes a downward spiral.

There's a reason others do not want to associate with her. They find it a  chore to be around her. Her mannerism drains and mental state are negative and it drains them. I guess this class involves creativity, right?

They find the bad in everything. You're concentrating on this person. Do not forget about other students who appreciate you. They are IMPORTANT too.