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TBB Mawi V.25: Disember - Musim Khenduri Kendara & Musim Sejuk
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gue cnp petua keluarga resepi dari stephen covey
HABIT # 1: BE PROACTIVE
You are not only who thinks something is wrong with your family. At some time or another, your brothers and sisters have probably wondered why there is so much negativity at home, too. But, no one has done anything about it. The habit being proactive means that you will do whatever is your power to improve your situation, starting with you. You are the creator, the actor and the doer in your life; get started and "just do it". If nothing ever changes, then nothing will ever change.
HABIT # 2: BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND
Now that you've decided to do something about your family, develop a Family Mission Statement that says exactly where you want to go. It's important that everyone joins in and visualises the family you all want. See yourself being happy for each other. Use your creative forces to create images in your head first, then work toward making those images a reality.
HABIT #3: PUT FIRST THING FIRST
You may not think so right now, but family really is most important thing in the world to you. Up until now, it has been somewhere near the bottom three on your list of priorities, which is understandable because, well, it stinks. That must change. You must put your family right up to the top of your priorities, ahead of bestfriend and food.
HABIT #4: SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND..........THEN BE UNDERSTOOD
To fix your family, you must first actively listen to everyone and understand their situation and concerns. Make a conscious effort to understand and to see the world from everyone's perspective, parents and sibling alike. Listen without judging. Avoid "hearing" through a filter formed by your own worldview, and do not impose your preconceived ideas on what you hear, because doing so will inhabit your efforts to put yourself in the other person's shoes.
HABIT #5: SYNERGISE
Family ties begin with family unity. Create opportunities for everyone to participate in a project as a team. Start with a family mission statement, and as you experince positive feelings together, you will feel more optimistic about bigger things like family vacations. Optimistic, emotionally-charged individuals who are living out the previous habits can work together in amzing ways and see new paths none of them would have found alone.
HABIT #6: SHARPEN THE SAW
Having said all this, it is important to remember that family should not be all work and no play. Eventually, you will want your family to be as free-spirited and joyful as your adopted family, but it will not happen overnight. Take the time to rejuvenate yourself. Rehearse your roles as sister and daughter within the family, and chill.
Adapted from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families (st. Martin's Griffin) by Stephen Covey and Sandra Covey.
"While we are fairly accurate in our perceptions of others, when it comes to ourselves we see through permanently rose-tinted glass" |
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Balas #504 tikusmondok\ catat
hai ndok... lama x chat ngan hang.. ada sihat ka |
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Originally posted by redsentra at 26-11-2008 04:39 PM 
hai ndok... lama x chat ngan hang.. ada sihat ka
Alhamdulillah red amber sehat sokmo..lening kat ofis amber dah ada yg kena cikugunya..kena ambik calcium selalu kalau tak dia tangkap kat joint xleh move |
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Balas #506 tikusmondok\ catat
ye ke.. ciannya....
sekarang kite ada De Red Kitchen... hahahha jual muffin plak akak ko ni |
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Reply #507 redsentra's post
(((((((r e d))))))))
muahhhhhhhhhhhh!
miss u
lama tak borak2
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Balas #499 tikusmondok\ catat
Walau pun aku ikut citer tu tapi dari pandang dengo aku pasti yg aku tepek ni garlic, baik  |
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Balas #508 chekshu\ catat
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miss U like cleziiiii hahahhahahha |
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Originally posted by redsentra at 26-11-2008 04:45 PM
ye ke.. ciannya....
sekarang kite ada De Red Kitchen... hahahha jual muffin plak akak ko ni
bagus red, mesti lebat masyuk ni, amber doakan red menjadi usahawan berjaya..syabas..sikit info, pernah attended meeting masa petrol crisis kat one of gomen ofis, seems that tepong yg dlm market tu bukan yg terbaik, can't remember term utk jenis tepong ni |
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Reply #511 tikusmondok's post
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itu la... nak cari tepung yg terbaik kena dptkan dari special bakers supplies... yg kat kedai biasa memang la kurang mutu dia |
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Reply #512 redsentra's post
waa bisnes muffin plak red ek... bile nak daftar company sendiri nih....
leh la kami dtg mkn free |
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Reply #514 chekshu's post
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bila2 la lepas bulan 11.. sekarang ni aku bizi la hehehhehe |
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Reply #515 redsentra's post
wokehhh
aku on jer
bila hang tak bz
pm ke.. sms ke...
bleh kita set date
wokeh dear???? |
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assalamulaikum
kabare???
waras???
hik hik hik |
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Salam semua..
Apa khabar chekshu? |
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Post time 26-11-2008 04:35 PM
