[MERGED] All about 'Anak angkat' (Procedure & Etc)

melatiazura

kepada yg berminat nak mohon anak angkat...cuba call kat sini...

KEM MODAL INSAN KEWAJA
Menjana Integriti Dan Membangun Insan Hadhari
Pejabat:
No.19 Jln SG 5/4 Tmn Sri Gombak
68100 Batu Caves, Selangor

Tel: 013-3384868, 03-20214868, 03-40254755

kim_kardashian

I myself baru adopt one baby girl. She is now 48 days old. Alhamdulillah, i'm so happy tak terkata, tak tau cammana nak show it or express it. Here are my stories..

I dah kawin since 2003 but kami tak di kurnia kan zuriat kerana masalah masalah tertentu. So, we've been thinking about adoption tapi tak tau nak g mana , how to do it, i read about Kewaja but mmg when i called i got really frustreated sgt sgt sbb susah sgt panggilan hendak di jawab till one day i spoke to a lady yg pernah mengambil 2 org anak angkat from Kewaja, and she's willing to help me, tapi after i spoke to her and told her about my preferences smua, dia kata i parents no .4 in her list, so i anggap i will not be that soon, but ever since that i was sooooo excited tanya tanya around bout baby stuff, tapi i tak nak beli barang barang baby sbb i target mmg early tahun depan. Satu hari and that is a week after i spoke to Kak Anne (bukan nama sebenar), she called me, kata ada baby girl, she was born pagi 25 October 2008 at about 1.15am. She's 2.5kg and if you agree she will be yours. I tak terkata, tergamam sampai my huband kena ambik the phone and speak to her sbb i nangis kegembiraan, i have been waiting for so long and mmg macam mimpi. Masa she called me its 9.30pm, and i di kehendaki ambil baby tu kat one of Kewaja's place in Gombak at 10.00am keesokan hari nya.  

So, thru my experience, mmg senang deal with them, but masa i ambik, Yuran telah di naikkan kepada 4k, but they did everything for me. Kita ambik baby tu balik, just provide nama utk baby to them, diorg settlekan yg lain , surat beranak, my kid baby, surat legal papers smua lah. Kita cuma datang lagi sekali utk ikut them to their appointed pesuruhjaya sumpah (betul ker nie) then we are given all the papers..she mine. ..

sekarang my life change, mmg excited sgt sgt nak balik from work, she's developing well. Dah boleh di agah agah, pandai senyum and berat naik 4.5kg dalam masa 40 hari which is alott kata Dr.will update more..

baldu_biru

seronok dengar cerita kim... happy for U
kim dpt susukan baby tak? lg elok kalu dpt jadikan dia anak susuan... dpt selesaikan masalah mahram nnt.

kim_kardashian

tima kasih...

skrg mmg tgh try cuba nak breast feed, dari day 1 saya ambik baby, dah mmg plan nak breast feed. Just sharing things that i did selepas ambik the baby..maybe just sharing info with kengkwn kat sini yg bakal ambik baby;

1. lepas ambik baby, normally pihak Kewaja sudah buat blood test for the baby and the mother, but just to be on the safer side, kita kena bwk baby jumpa specialist buat full check up including blood test sesmualah supaya kita pasti this baby is in a good health, kalau apa yg bakal terjadi later itu semua ketentuan, tapi pada masa kita ambik we just make sure everything is fine.

2.Masa buat check up, i mintak advise doctor regarding breast feeding, since masa tu i went to SJMC, well diorg mmg tak buat, so they gv me Staff Nurse Nurhayati from HKL no, untuk i buat appoinment, and i did, i was being brief and di beri ubat untuk membantu, tapi till now i still takder susu..kalau ada kengkwn yg baca yg sudi share knowledge ngan saya, mmg nak sgt breast feed baby saya since she's a girl senang lah later antara dia ngan my husband tak batal air sembahyang...but after taking the pills, n i bought the breast pump, tapi i still takder susu.

3.for parents yg selalu travel, its adviseable to buat passport ASAP supaya kalau kita buat later its going to be hard sbb kita akan melibatkan the ibu kandung, iyer lah kalau later dah besar, baby pun dah cerdik and cute, nnt kang ala korg pepaham lah yer.

mmelonberries

baru ni mel ada terbaca kt paper....
gynae tu ckp air susu bleh kuar tp kena dirangsangkan selalu
dia ckp kl tanpa mkn pil pn bleh kuar gak tp msti selalu dirangsangkan
adehhhh tp nengok kengkawan kt sini mkn pil pn ssh nk kuar gak kn
camne yer...... kena selalu rangsangkan la yer.... moga2 akan kuar jgk susu tu

luvaries

cuba selak belakang2 page ni.. ada yang berkongsi info pasal nak breastfeed ni. tapi nak lalui proses menyusu ni memang kena banyak bersabar dan kuat semangat. Ada alat yang boleh membantu.

ashka2902

seronoknya kim...happy sangat bila u bercerita tentang baby.. mintak2 la ash jugak rasa macam kim lepas nih..
kim..nak tanya la..ash pon da call kewaja..memandangkan ash di penang..so diorg soh ash antar salinan ic,surat nikah,slip gaji,no fon dan jantina baby yang kita nak dan wang pos rm50..ash pon tak tau yang tu merangkap isi borang ke tak.. so berapa lama yang ash kena tunggu untuk masuk dalam waiting list? ash tak der kenal org dalam kewaja so rasa cam blurr la pulak..kim..tolong explain kat ash apa step yang seterusnya bole..tq..

kim_kardashian

siap kena wang pos..tak tau lah pulak saya. what if saya tolong u since i dah kenal org dalam. mana lah tau kan.just pm me, nnt kita calling calling atau email each other.

mmelonberries

wah kim kenal org dlm yer....
kl camni mel pn nk mintak tolong bleh hehe

reyne

Originally posted by kim_kardashian at 11-12-2008 05:23 PM
I myself baru adopt one baby girl. She is now 48 days old. Alhamdulillah, i'm so happy tak terkata, tak tau cammana nak show it or express it. Here are my stories..

I dah kawin since 2003 but  ...

Kim! im so happy for you! alhamdulillahhhh.

about the passport, since the baby belum 2 years lagi kan, if we wanna apply for her passport, the birth mother kena sign off paper work ye?

kim_kardashian

thank u reyne...

betul u cakap, infact apa apa yg kita nak apply for the baby pun, sebelum baby 2 tahun, kita need to carik / contact the biological mother, cume selepas 2 tahun, kita boleh / hv authorisation to do so.

i buat my baby sara's passport masa dia umur 2 wk old, so jumpa mother dia balik..tapi still okielah kan, takut later, mana lah tau the mother berubah hati, decided to have her back...boleh gila gak i rasa. even though im not the biological mother, but the bonding is soooo strong.

sesapa lah nak tanya , im willing to help and share, apa salah nyer dulu saya pun melalui benda tu, nasib baik ada org yang tolong

reyne

Originally posted by kim_kardashian at 12-12-2008 06:44 PM
thank u reyne...

betul u cakap, infact apa apa yg kita nak apply for the baby pun, sebelum baby 2 tahun, kita need to carik / contact the biological mother, cume selepas 2 tahun, kita boleh /  ...

Kim, thanks for confirming on the passport thingy, if you can think of anything else, kalo ada la yg Kim apply or buat etc, share la dgn kami, at least we all can do the same.

Iya, better buat cepat2 kan, sebab nanti kalo dah besar, or anything, takut the birth mother berubah hati, anything can happen.

kim_kardashian

reyne, so far itu jer yg i buat:-
1. full medical check up , adviseable jumpa specialist, get all the blood test done... (very very very important!!!!)
2.went for a talk on how to breast feed ur baby
3.buat passport ASAP, kita travel or not blakang kira..for this is for ones yg ada possibility to travel, but kalau u rasa dalam masa 2 tahun, ur not going anywhere then dont bother..

kalau ada kengkwn lain yg buat other things, hope u all dont mind sharing knowledge utk parents spt kami

dak_abu

Originally posted by kim_kardashian at 11-12-2008 05:23 PM
I myself baru adopt one baby girl. She is now 48 days old. Alhamdulillah, i'm so happy tak terkata, tak tau cammana nak show it or express it. Here are my stories..

congratulations on being a mother.....
so.. panggil urself ape... mama/mummy/ibu/mak....

kim_kardashian

mummy

dak_abu

best nyerrr.....

salina4033

dah naik 4K ekk.. kat kewaja tu... saya dulu anto jer maklumat yg dia nak... bila gi kl baru bayo rm50... yuran pendaftaran tu... dan isi borang rasmi.... saya dok penang
anakanda saya pun dah 6 bln dah... pengarang jantung... masih belum berpeluang nak kasi susu badan.... ingat nak amik ubat dan berurut minggu depan... doktor galakkan kita berurut jugak... tp mcm risau gak... anak dah minum kuat la ni... kalau kuar setitik dua jer... meraung la dia... tak pun mama yg meraung
TAHNIAH sume yg dah menjadi mama, ibu, mami, mak dan umi...

salina4033

sori.. ulang tayang lak!.

[ Last edited by  salina4033 at 21-12-2008 11:26 AM ]

salina4033

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salina4033

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