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Originally posted by mummyslove at 2-6-2008 12:18 PM 
Baik2. Emm sy rasa hati saya lagi baik dari hati awak yg suka pukul anak. Tak nak dukung anak. Gigi x jaga. Anak tak jaga. Badan calar balar. Kalau anis tak beritahu x macam nie. Kalau dah kaya sgt nak cr anak lain biar saya jaga anis jgn tamak
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berasas tak tuduhan nie?.....berapa org anak u? |
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i've faced that kind of stuff for 7 years ... start frm the 7th years after divorce, i told myself..enuff is enuff...i taknak dengar his complaining, his shouting etc anymore..
my doter pun dah leh adjust, kalau dulu, she complain sb susah nak jumpa her real father, tapi now, she couldnt care less pun...
dulu2 my x pun argue nak ambik custody over my doter, siap dah ada lawyer..i tak cakap apa2 pun, lantak u la...lama2 dia senyap...
start that 7th year,i tak penah angkat his call..i dont even care dia nak masukkan duit untuk anak ke tak..
kalau betul2 dia nak cakap dgn anak dia, buy her 1 hp...
i dah penat dgn kerenah my x...
so mummy...take your stand and jgn goyah dgn kata2 org... |
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Originally posted by mummyslove at 2-6-2008 12:18 
Bila hati terdetik nak berbaik semula..ini lah yg berlaku.... Ya Allah kuatkan lah hati ku... berikan lah kesabaran....
Siapa ada tips nak jd org yg sabar. asal dpt sms dari x takde ketika yg ...
...u have tried to be nice to him...but...kalau segala usaha baik ko dibalas ngan kata2 hinaan dan ugutan...it can demoralise u eventually...so...the best thing for u to do is to communicate ngan dia only when necessary...only in emergency...kalau setakat anak ngadu kaki sakit nie semua...tak payahlah nak bersms dan bertanya kenapa dan macam mana kaki anak tu bley jadi sakit??...biasalah...budak2...suka lari sana lari sini...lompat sana sini...lonjak sana sini...bila tengah main tak terasa sakit...bila dah nak tidor baru ngadu sana sakit sini sakit...as long as theres no major injuries...then aku rasa ko just handle the thing on your own sualah...
...tentang duit nafkah anak ko tu...tak perlu nak tanya dia dah masuk ke tidak...ko check sendiri...agak2 kalau dia tak masukkan...ko ngadu jer kat mahkamah...jangan kasi muka ngan dia...
...bukan senang nak menyara hidup kita dan anak kita when we are single nie...so...ko kenalah perkuatkan semangat ko..didik diri dan hati agar jangan cepat terasa ngan kata2 tuduhan your ex nie...as long as u noe that u have done your best tuk anak ko dan tuk diri ko...then that is good enuff... |
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Reply #20 NURMIMIE's post
ho.. bagus gak kekdah nie... pernah buat jd.. tp x tau lah hari nie membalas pulak... actully saya yg mula sbb tanya psl nurseri sbb dua bulan lepas dia bg so ingat dia bg lg.. rupanya tak.. sbb baru gaji kan...
kalau ada nak inform nurseri in advance.. supaya senang kira tu jer... x tau plak dia hangin... agakya dia ingat i tuntut kot.. mungkin dia sempit bulan nie.. so dia marah tiba2 bila tanya tu...
agaknya la....
Alja anak sorang je...
gigi kuning sbb dia tido minum susu botol.. coklat...
calar balar tu sbb dia jatuh bermain.. biasala.. budak belum betul2 stabil lagi..(3 thn) it's normal at her age to fall...
kurus.. tu betullah.. dia nie lebih suka bermain dari makan.. a picky eater... Maybe I shud be more creative at cooking...
pasal adik satu lagi tu... saya pernah plan nak kasi dia adik..anak angkat la.. sbb taknak dia lonely kat rumah, adalah dia teman bermain... tu kot dia hangin and tuduh bukan2... |
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Reply #1 mummyslove's post
since ko ader psg angan2 nak berbaik semula... ko anggap jer ler sumer nih warning signs... kenapa ko tak payah pikir sikit pun nak berbaik dgn mamat nih.
ko anggap jer lah mamat nih ada undiagnosed bipolar disorder yg boleh jadikan dia dr jekyll kejap... mr hyde kejap... 
plus, since your divorce was surrounded by unhealthy circumstances, aku tak paham apsal ko expect to heve a cordial relationship with your ex. |
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Reply #23 blackmore's post
thanks sister... I'll do just that... tu lah kenkadang being nice pun kena shot jugak..
jahat kang tak elok gak...
Reda skit sebab dah lepas tension sini...thanks guys..  |
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Reply #25 kikilalat's post
he he jeckle and hyde...
em.. maybe he needs more time lah kot.. kiki it's like this saya terbaca dekat one of dia punya blog network...
bunyi dia lebihkurang mcm nie...
"what would you do to stop crying if the only way to stop is by the one that makes you cry"
Maksudnya ever since saya tinggal dia.. he's been crying and the only one who can cure that pain is me... Td cuba search balik kot2 jumpa to give you guys se.. the actual quote...
Sbb lepas baca nie lah hati saya sikit banyak jadi sayu gak la.. |
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Reply #27 mummyslove's post
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aiyo makcik... ko jangan lah bacer blog dia... hentikan sumer mender2 nih... tak mendatangkan hasik... mebbe tuh ayat dia nak pancing awek ker haper... lagikpun ko dpt address tuh dari dia kan? dia tau ko akan bacer, dia buat ler ayat2 cenggituh... senang2 jer dia kencing ko... |
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Reply #28 my-alja's post and kikilalat
ho... ho.. gitu ... ok la.. dah cool down dah thanks sis...
tak terfikir lak bagai yg kiki cakap tu.. maybe betul gak.. thanks ..ok dah.. happy now.. |
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Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 2-6-2008 02:39 PM
masa dalam kawin pun dia sakitkan hati ko kan?
laa ni dah pisah pun..masih sakitkan hati ko
so?
masa dalam kawin ko susah nak sabar..laaa ni dah lepas cerai talak satu pun..ko masih ...
nak totally ignore tu payah tau abg aji..
mummy nie ader anak sama dgn ex tu..
tapi yang the best.. x payah communicate lgsg la mummy..
just important punya hal.. termasuk urgent matters.. spt kecemasan...
mcm saya la.. my ex mmg dah pesan awal2..
kalau nak bagitau dia aper2 just soal kematian atau anak sakit je..
yang lebih dia suh bagitau bapak dia..
so kita dah terbiasa mcm tu.. |
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Reply #33 ajinomotonosuga's post
tu ler lelaki mmg kebal no.. bab2 bolayan nie...
pompuan susah skit...
okies dah aji.. td posting pun sbb barlaku baru kejap nie.. tuh yg nangis tuh... kalo semalam berlaku ..mungkin x do positng sini sbb dah cool |
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Reply #36 zanorba's post
Oh... just dilema kejap jerk kot... now ok dah.. maklumlah.. on that day anak I takde..
pastu ternampak post dia tu... 
My own fault lah kot.. pergi baca knp plak.. Pasal my family for sure x leh terima dia seperti sblm nie that is for sure...
But for sure he's still with his way sukaaa cariiii gaduh.. so let him be la...
I'm fine now... |
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love + forgiveness = happiness ..
simple formula but i'm still grappling .. i can't forgive easily. |
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Post time 2-6-2008 01:34 PM
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