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Ada betul nya kata kata you ni.. kawan kawan nampak luaran je.. belakang pintu dia tak nampak life kita macam mana..
Tapi tu lah kekadang tu bila dengar orang cakap ni rasa tercabar pulak walau hakikat nya laki tu bukan nak mengongkong pun tapi nak memimpin.
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ramaramu replied at 26-6-2020 03:42 PM
Ada betul nya kata kata you ni.. kawan kawan nampak luaran je.. belakang pintu dia tak nampak life ...
Banyak perhubungan terhenti separuh jalan disebabkan orang ketiga. Pengaruh kawan-kawan juga boleh kita anggap sebagai orang ketiga. Mereka tak suka kalau kita lebih suka ikut cakap pasangan sebab nanti mereka takde pengaruh dengan kita. Sebab tu mereka banyak cakap perkara negatif tentang perangai pasangan kita dekat depan kita sendiri. Kawan macam ni seeloknya patut dijauhkan sebab akan ganggu hubungan kita dengan pasangan.
Alpha male, alpha female ni hanya istilah jer untuk merujuk kepada kekuatan seseorang dalam hirarki dunia sekarang. Sifat naluri kita masih kekal sama. |
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Biasa kita akn dpt psangan yg berlainan sikap dan watak..buat msa ni lom jumpa lgi yg sma.kalau pendiam mesti dpt yh riuh.mungkin fitrah dlm berpsangan to complete each other..
I jnis dominan n pnas sket..husband jenis sabr and cool..so ok la kot.balnce utk ank2..but at certain thing/matter mna yg husband patot in charge,i let him in charge. Sya x masok cmpur. Kalau x,xde function la suami,if semua I nak lead..ujung2 suami lepas tgn,i yg penat sndri.nk mrah x boleh,sbb sndri yg didik.
Ikotkan x kisah pon alpha ke x..tpi dpt suami yg brtentgan sifat.i think mmg law of attraction nya begitu kot.. partner was meant to complete us. To fill in the gap.to be what we not.same interest is different. For me it is about how u carry and potray urself. |
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Edited by green~tea at 28-6-2020 12:22 AM
My husband is an alpha male.. and i pun camtu... cumanya sebab both dah mature, so ada masa he lets me decide.. ada masa dia intervene, especially big decisions... we talk a lot.... usually i didnt hide anything to him, vice versa... sbb i really respect his wisdom...
Masa mula2 kitorg couple, kawan2 kitorg dah highlight pasal "kepala batu" kitorg... but somehow we managed to communicate it well and get mutual agreement... i really do respect him, and intonasi semasa bercakap pun memainkan peranan penting, though mcm argue, tp we control our tone and i manja2 la sikit.. so jadi lah discussion instead of argument...
even my son also extrovert.. rumah riuh walau cuma bertiga.... my husband says kdg2 padan muka i sbb dpt anak suka argue and expressive on his opinion.... like setepek perangai i... husband ckp karma is a b*tch.. hahahahha sometimes dia makan popcorn je bila tengok anak i kenakan i balik.. he developed his reasoning quite well, even baru 7 yo... |
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I have a joke about who should make decision between husband and wife.
There was one newly wedding couple. The husband and wife a were discussing about who should took charge and made decision in house. Finally they reached an agreement that husband would made decision in big and important matters while wife would took charge in little issues. Since then, they never made decision in important issues, only a small issue arise. |
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iols prefer beta male..tapi masalahnya aku pon beta female gak...haha |
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Aku dulu alpha female dan dominat laki aku pulak beta carotina ... Tapi skg ni aku dh malas nk dominant jadi bini turut je.. Sonok rupanya bila pencen jd dominant ni ...rilex2 je hidup aku..skg apa2 aku serah kt laki aku..aku cuma mampu berserah aku kan insan yg lemah.. |
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Edited by mbhcsf at 28-6-2020 10:45 PM
wow , typifying a male like algebra?
hmm interesting
dont care that much alpha beta as long as that male has an indication of an intact cognition.
hahahah
i am joking, seriously i am joking.
I think ,all these things are pretty much about chemistry and personality really. these two traits and of course jodoh -the ultimate haqiqat.
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Iols mmg takleh ngam dgn alpha male. Sekejap je borak mmg akan gaduh. Heols pun jenis suka provoke iols bg marah. Sebab dia suka iols marah2, lepas tu dia pujuklah. Mental lah org mcm ni.
Iols prefer mixed of alpha beta male. Jenis boleh buat decision, tak ego, boleh kemas rumah, basuh baju, boleh masak, boleh jadi driver iols, boleh beli groceries dan lain2 lagi |
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hahahaha ni nearing to male slavery dah ni hahahahahahah
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mbhcsf replied at 28-6-2020 11:53 PM
hahahaha ni nearing to male slavery dah ni hahahahahahah
Alamak male slavery la pulak |
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Betul tu.. macam sekarang bila diorang ajak tea or apa, bila i cannot join i selalu di label dalam sangkar emas.. kena control dengan pasangan lah apa lah
for now i tak ambil pusing, masuk telinga kanan keluar telinga kiri sebab kawan pun dah berbelas tahun..
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situasi i sekarang ni pulak apa yang i nampak in my partner is how i treated my exes. kadang kadang rasa macam ohh macam ni rasanya bila i yang dominant kat partner i dulu..
tapi part saling melengkapi tu betul la.. apa yang kita kurang dia lebih and vice versa..
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ohh tu la trick dia.. kena cakap manja manja bila argue. good tips.. 
nice to hear about your family.. happy go lucky je
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Usually kalau alpha ni memang ego kelangit la.. kalau nak point out his mistakes pun kena ada cara.. kalau salah cakap mahu terbalik rumah..
in certain areas i think i am quite blessed jugak because at home i dont cook, i dont clean and i dont do laundry. i just sit and do nothing..
cuma tu la when he micro manage everything.. you rasa macam being restricted pulak.. deco rumah pun hujung2 dia yang decide
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hahahaha bukan male slavery la.. kalau dia nak buat tu semua takkan nak halang.. hehehehe senang hidup!
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turut je kata laki inshaAllah tak pening. hahaha...
tapi susah la kalau kita ni jenis degil, ade je nak membangkang kan..
dia suruh buat A kita buat B..
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ramaramu replied at 29-6-2020 01:58 PM
turut je kata laki inshaAllah tak pening. hahaha...
tapi susah la kalau kita ni jenis degil, ade ...
Nak buat camne mmg dh pihak pembangkang mcm tdi aku belajar buat tupat palas..susah gile weh..dia dtg pelan2 guna bahasa yg paling berhemah..dia tau aku akn bila2 meletup sbb stress ..berpeluh peluh..
Sayang abg tau abg tak pandai.tp cara syg buat ni salah..mcm ni macm ni..
Aku tetap cakap takkk cara saya betul
Hahahahahaa .. Dia pn blah |
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ramaramu replied at 29-6-2020 01:48 PM
situasi i sekarang ni pulak apa yang i nampak in my partner is how i treated my exes. kadang kadan ...
Ha ah betul2 time aku dh cool down.dia plak firm nk strict bila guna kuasa veto..peh tercalar ego haha |
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eh takde la.. alpha male pun buat kerja rumah... cuma kita la kena cakap elok, diorang pun faham sbb responsibility suami tu apa...lebih pada cara didikan ibu bapa je sbnrnya... and as wife, bila kita cakap dgn full respect, bukan arah2 cabar ego, ok je in fact.. kadang2 tak sempat kita minta tolong, dia dah buatkan... or time kita vacuum rumah, dia dah awal2 standby nak mop lantai...
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