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Post time 17-2-2020 09:24 AM
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umbut replied at 17-2-2020 09:00 AM
Inilah bahaya anak berderet laki pompuan rumah kecil xda bilik... ini yg aku takut.. pasti benda mac ...
Ye sis.. saya kalau takdir menikah satu hari nnt xnak anak sbb takut jadi macam saya ni. Saya igt kan bila makin byk umur ni saya boleh lupa la, tapi tak.macam tu jugak jugak memory tu.takley delete |
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Post time 17-2-2020 09:26 AM
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noor2 replied at 17-2-2020 09:13 AM
Akak pun rasa berat dada baca masalah tt. ...geram betul dengan abg2 tt yang ambil kesempatan. .ka ...
Anak sulong tu mmg anak kesayangan mak buat apa pun takpa |
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AAAZ replied at 17-2-2020 09:26 AM
Anak sulong tu mmg anak kesayangan mak buat apa pun takpa
Rasanya tt X kena rogol..mungkin di raba mcm tu....tapi mmg hati rasa sakitlah trauma sampai bila2. ... |
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Allahu..simpati dgn tt
Semoga Allah memberkati kita semua
setiap kejadian pasti ada alasan dan penyelesaian
apa yang tt alami mmg pahit dan tkkan dpt dilupakan
mmg hang suang abg2 tt tersebut 
patut depa yg lindung tt tp sebaliknya yg jadi
Apa yang tt bole buat skang adalah berlapang dada..lepas kan..mcm lagu frozen tu
usah dipikirkan sgt..sbb selagi tak buat mcm tu selagi tu sesak dada
diorng elok je hapy dgn famili tp tt..mkan hati..lbih baik tt muhasabah diri
rasenya tk smpai kene rogol kot..belum..kalau tak mesti tt sedar
yg sebenarnya tt rindu sgt2 kt famili kan tp sbb kejadian tu jadi benteng utk tt bahagia
Tt, cuba tabah kan hati..kelak nnt abg2 tt pasti dpt pengajarannya
mak bapak tt tk salah pun..jgn sbb kan abg2 tt tu , jadi tt plak berdosa dgn parents tt secara tk lgsung
bab dara tu bukan sekali buat terus hilang..bkn senang nk pecahkan benteng itu,,hehe insya allah tt carilah bahagia dah lame sgt tt pendam..hakikatnya org2 yg tt benci hepi je..wat for? allah tu maha adil and maha mengetahui tt..bykkan berdoa, zikir and solat2 sunat
let it go....let it gooo...
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TT.. sebaknya baca apa yang awak luahkan. Tt tak pernah luah kat siapa-siapa kan? Tt jadi macam ni sebab segala kesumat dekat dua orang abang tu bersekam dalam diri. Semakin lama semakin memakan diri apetah lagi bila depa dah bina hidup sendiri. Awak sebenarnya nak luahkan benda ni especially pada mak ayah tapi dari awal dulu awak tak tau nak luahkan macam mana. Sebab tu keadaan awak berterusan macam ni.
Nak suruh tt letgo benda ni tak mudah. For me satu cara sahaja iaitu meluahkan. Tt cuba lah cari satu masa untuk berdua-duaan dengan mak tt, dan luahkan. Tt kena luahkan segala-galanya dna lepas tu baru akan rasa lega dan boleh move on. Rasa macam nak peluk je tt wakaupun tak kenal. |
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AAAZ replied at 17-2-2020 09:24 AM
Ye sis.. saya kalau takdir menikah satu hari nnt xnak anak sbb takut jadi macam saya ni. Saya igt ...
Memory tokleh delete..cuma suppressed
Yg baru tindih n tindih yg lama
Kenapa u asik kenang yg lalu?
Lojik nya u tokleh control yg lepas..tapi pasai pa dok ingat kes cam tu?
U tau i ada kes lai terukkk dari u ..budak porem ni gak cite..tapi u know budak tu happily married with kids
Jasad u mayb tercemar tapi roh u? Jiwa u?
Jasad ni hanya tanah..tapi u pnah pikir pasal roh or jiwa?
Roh ni tadak jantina..u tau ke?
Kalau risau bab dara..pi cek doktor.
Mayb abg 2 u sumbang mahram yg ringan ringan..kes saya yg lain bab ayah rogol anak sendiri..u tau?
Biasa lah bila tadak ilmu..salah kan tuhan..teriakkk mana nabiii..salahkan ugama etc.
Mak ayah dah buat terbaik..termampu so bior..and never berandaian berkalau kalau
Isu ni diri u sendiri..tiap berlaku ada hikmah..kita kene tanggung fikir n faham n redha
Those memories make u feel bad n by feeling bad it makes u feel good
Saya risau..adik nnti perlu sadism acts untuk feed ur own tersirat punye lust..ini satu KEKELIRUAN
What u suffer now is satu kekeliruan ok
Tiap kita ADA KISAH HITAM..percayalah ok..but it is personal
Sesuatu yg peribadi better jgn publicise k
This life is a bigggggg pretender..setiap kita an actor ok? Pretend nothing happened..begin with end in mind
Kontek ayah mak..depa masih idup..cite yg ari ni n esok esok..jgn kesal nnti..bila depa dah tadak.
Orang senyum kita balas senyum...
Kita senyum orang masam..itu hal depa..tugas kita sedekah senyum so AJAR DIRI bab IKHLAS gitu k
Balik saluuu jenguk mak ayah..jgn tunggu depa mati baru nk teriak..jgn putus silatulrahim..kita buat baik orang balas jahat kita sabar redha..ikhlas..kita hidup dan mati lillahitaala ok?
Sebab u tadak apa nk buat at present u OTOMATIK cedok kisah silam haaa tu psl k
U kne buat something beneficial ..busy kan diri so hal lalu tu soon will b forgotten..sebab values baru masuk ur mind n suppressed u old memories k
U will be ok ..i tak nmpk big issue sangat k? Wassalammmmm
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Simpati dgn nasib TT yg merana dek trauma sexual harassment yg dihadapi masa kecik. Iols taktau nak advice mcm mana tp iols nak suggest if TT nak confess to your parents maybe TT boleh buat melalui cara tulis surat. Iolss ade bff yg ade mommy issues and dia sgt nak fix her relationship with her mother since her father just passed away. So dia takut if dia dendam ke apa ke dgn mak dia later in future she will regret dia tak sempat get a good closure.
Dia balik for weekend and lepak dgn her siblings semua then the last day before headed to KL, she left her mom a letter. Dia salam mak dia and bgtau surat tu dia letak sekian, sekian kt mana and dia nak mak dia baca. Nanti later after mak dia dah baca pls call dia. Haa cmtu.
Few days later mak dia text dia and for the first time in her entire life, mak dia ckp minta maaf and mak dia ckp mak dia sayangkan dia. She didnt tell me the detail of her mommy issue ni but sedikit sebanyak I tau la mak dia quite old school mom kot. But now I rasa she turned out well dgn mak dia. Dia kata dia finally jumpa cara nak communicate dgn mak dia heart to heart. Siblings lain pun taktau.
Btw bff iols ni sgt pandai, genius type and solat tak tinggal, very happy go lucky and brave. Jenis perempuan travel solo tu. Mak sheols pun tudung labuh type hehe. |
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rasa nya...benda pertama yang tt kena buat ialah,
terima diri sendiri dan maaf kan diri sendiri...
selebihnya, jalan tu akan terbentang luas.. |
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Parents xde kisah ke bila sis xblk raya and all?
What about adik2 yang lain? Dorg pon amalkan sikap aak ke.. |
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Regardless of age or gender, the impact of sexual violence goes far beyond any physical injuries. The trauma of being raped or sexually assaulted can be shattering, leaving you feeling scared, ashamed, and alone or plagued by nightmares, flashbacks, and other unpleasant memories. The world doesn’t feel like a safe place anymore. You no longer trust others. You don’t even trust yourself. You may question your judgment, your self-worth, and even your sanity. You may blame yourself for what happened or believe that you’re “dirty” or “damaged goods.” Relationships feel dangerous, intimacy impossible. And on top of that, like many rape survivors, you may struggle with PTSD, anxiety, and depression.
It’s important to remember that what you’re experiencing is a normal reaction to trauma. Your feelings of helplessness, shame, defectiveness, and self-blame are symptoms, not reality. No matter how difficult it may seem, with these tips and techniques, you can come to terms with what happened, regain your sense of safety and trust, and learn to heal and move on with your life.
Recovering from rape or sexual trauma step 1: Open up about what happened to you
It can be extraordinarily difficult to admit that you were raped or sexually assaulted. There’s a stigma attached. It can make you feel dirty and weak. You may also be afraid of how others will react. Will they judge you? Look at you differently? It seems easier to downplay what happened or keep it a secret. But when you stay silent, you deny yourself help and reinforce your victimhood.
Reach out to someone you trust. It’s common to think that if you don’t talk about your rape, it didn’t really happen. But you can’t heal when you’re avoiding the truth. And hiding only adds to feelings of shame. As scary as it is to open up, it will set you free. However, it’s important to be selective about who you tell, especially at first. Your best bet is someone who will be supportive, empathetic, and calm. If you don’t have someone you trust, talk to a therapist or call a rape crisis hotline.
Consider joining a support group for other rape or sexual abuse survivors. Support groups can help you feel less isolated and alone. They also provide invaluable information on how to cope with symptoms and work towards recovery. If you can’t find a support group in your area, look for an online group.
It’s common to feel isolated and disconnected from others following a sexual assault. You may feel tempted to withdraw from social activities and your loved ones. But it’s important to stay connected to life and the people who care about you. Support from other people is vital to your recovery. But remember that support doesn’t mean that you always have to talk about or dwell on what happened. Having fun and laughing with people who care about you can be equally healing.
Participate in social activities, even if you don’t feel like it. Do “normal” things with other people, things that have nothing to do with the sexual trauma.
Reconnect with old friends. If you’ve retreated from relationships that were once important to you, make the effort to reconnect.
Make new friends. If you live alone or far from family and friends, try to reach out and make new friends. Take a class or join a club to meet people with similar interests, connect to an alumni association, or reach out to neighbors or work colleagues. |
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KIM.K replied at 17-2-2020 02:28 AM
Dara tu boleh pulih dalam empat tahun tak bersenggama. Zaman jepun dulu bidan gugur janin mangsa rog ...
4 tahun????
kalau situasi lain ,say hang punya paraj tahap serombolan gajah aprika boleh buat tentage didalamnya...agak agak timeline utk faraj pulih 4 tahun jugak atau 40 tahun????
larikkkkkkkkk
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noor2 replied at 17-2-2020 09:13 AM
Akak pun rasa berat dada baca masalah tt. ...geram betul dengan abg2 tt yang ambil kesempatan. .ka ...
i tot hang pernah berkongsi yang the only time dada hang berat adalah bila kena tindih dgn tok laki setiap kali tirai.malam berlabuh?????
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kan. sbb tu dlm islam umur 5 tahun dah kena tidur asing, even from parents pun. utk elak gejala mcm ni la. tak kisah la miskin ke kaya, parents kena amek berat benda-benda mcm ni. kalau miskin & anak ramai, fikir la genius sikit mcm mana aku nak asingkan anak lelaki from anak perempuan. especially dah umur belasan tahun tu nafsu mencuba tengah mencanak.
aku faham sgt kenapa TT jadi rebel, alhamdulillah dah kembali pada Tuhan. tapi benda2 mcm ni yang boleh buat seseorang buat kelakuan tak senonoh & bad decision e.g. mendadih, merokok, berzina etc.
pegi la kaunseling TT. aku rasa LPPKN pun ada kaunseling. cuba cari kat mana TT boleh luahkan perasaan & get some help. kalau tak, mmg selama2nya TT akan berdendam dlm diam. aku rasa abg2 TT pun mungkin menyesal dan malu dgn apa yang dah jadi dulu. harap2nya la.
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CiliPadiSedap replied at 17-2-2020 03:59 AM
dekat afrika ada pakai gam gajah untuk ikat dara isteri nya
kalau dah pakai gam gajah aprika...dah kena invest pada benda alah nee....pulak..
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ajinomotonosuga replied at 17-2-2020 12:57 PM
Memory tokleh delete..cuma suppressed
Yg baru tindih n tindih yg lama
bila balik wak kromo????? |
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AAAZ replied at 17-2-2020 02:31 AM
Mungkin aku boleh cuba ni sis
Kerak keputihan, sisa haid tak keluar habis akan kacau hormon. Meruang faraj ni insert pil kasi lapisan kotor yg menempel tu keluar
Kurang la isu emotional, kesunyian, kelesuan, menangis melampau dan haid teratur |
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ajinomotonosuga replied at 17-2-2020 12:57 PM
Memory tokleh delete..cuma suppressed
Yg baru tindih n tindih yg lama
I saw sadism tendency in one of forumers. He cant calm down |
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KIM.K replied at 17-2-2020 02:01 PM
Kerak keputihan, sisa haid tak keluar habis akan kacau hormon. Meruang faraj ni insert pil kasi la ...
hang tak sarankan perkara ini pada sedara mara hang yg asik datang nak bantai hang????
kata boleh control emosi dari.membuak.buak kan????
larikkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
jgn lupa screenshot yg ini juga... |
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julielapadite replied at 17-2-2020 01:48 PM
Regardless of age or gender, the impact of sexual violence goes far beyond any physical injuries. Th ...
wak kromo....pls summarise in one sentence.....
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