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Post time 12-8-2008 05:13 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by aznao0o0 at 12-8-2008 05:08 PM
satu lagi elakkan apa remark yg boleh menimbulkan kentroversi sepert first class, second class dan thrid class....ini adalah kali pertama saya dengar...walaupon saya lahir dalam keluarga yg berad ...



Azna, perli orang tu bukankah sensitif? isu sensitif, tak percaya cuba tgk siggy . Anyway...isu ni subektif sangat, dan saya  adalah diri sendiri, takkan ikut cakap orang. Apa yg saya rasa tak salah, saya tuliskan saja.

[ Last edited by  shidahameera at 12-8-2008 05:16 PM ]
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Post time 12-8-2008 05:22 PM | Show all posts

Reply #361 shidahameera's post

yer..ratu pun tak baik perli orang jugak hehhehehe, nak kena rotan ni

tapi at least jangan kita mulakan dulu



ok saya tak ader anak...tapi my parents follow chinise style..coz famili saya ni  mix chinise...nak duit memang cari sendiri...ingat lagi masa PMR nak pensil 2B pun i kena basuh kereta papa i..so papa i bagi 2 ringgit...kalau nak duit susah nak dapat free..kalau ketat sangat pun anak anak stres...kena balance jugak..ialah mcm adik saya berdendam dgn ayah saya..bila dah besar selalu ungkit2 cerita masa kecil..tapi now dah ok
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Post time 12-8-2008 05:26 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by aznao0o0 at 12-8-2008 05:22 PM
yer..ratu pun tak baik perli orang jugak hehhehehe, nak kena rotan ni

tapi at least jangan kita mulakan dulu



ok saya tak ader anak...tapi my parents follow chinise style..coz f ...


whatevaaalah wak janji masing-masing gembira.
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Post time 12-8-2008 06:37 PM | Show all posts
ye la tu... masing2 dah tua..elakkan la dr tersentap dan menyentapkan org..

kadang2 terasa jugak tgk ayat2 yg ade unsur2 riak,mcm kalau dah kaya tu tuhan tak boleh terlangkupkan rezeki/nasib dia sampai ke tua dahh..... tp kadang2 terpikir jugak..entah2 aku pon pernah jugak riak mcm ni, lagi mau ngata org..

anyhow.. yg senang jgn la rendah2 kan yg kurang senang...kalau org susah kata 'sian anak2 org kaya ni...pakai memahal pon haram tak hensem ropenye" yg kaya tu akan sentap tak???


* aku ni sedang2 je..tak kaya tak miskin...
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Post time 12-8-2008 07:26 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Delifrance at 12-8-2008 06:37 PM
ye la tu... masing2 dah tua..elakkan la dr tersentap dan menyentapkan org..

kadang2 terasa jugak tgk ayat2 yg ade unsur2 riak,mcm kalau dah kaya tu tuhan tak boleh terlangkupkan rezeki/nasib d ...


hehe.. baru nak cakap..

deli kan.. kat page2 belakang kann.. kalau marah anak2, sebut ala2 'jangan mcm jakun2' gitu ler lebih kurang..

kat tempat kiterang.. jakun pun dah ramai wooo anak derang pakei nike.. baju t adidas equipment..

takut ada jakun masuk forum jerk

p/s: aku tak der kena mengena ngan jakun.. sedara mara pun tak der.. tapi kawan ada lah sorang dua
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Post time 12-8-2008 07:34 PM | Show all posts
btw.. ku membaca thred neh dari sesejuk rasa, hingga ke panas bahang..

sentap juga ler kadang2

aku neh, tak der ler manjakan anak2 aku bagai.. aku asal orang susah.. aku nak anak2 aku belajar juga susah gitu.. tapi, ayah dorang plak fikir lain.. katanya, dia dulu2 susah, rasa perit ajork.. so, dia tak mo anak2 dia susah..

my boy memang giler toy jugak.. kalau koleksi transformers dia, syahhhhdu jer aku tengok, sebab pada perkiraan aku, dah boleh buat beli gelang dan rantai emas yang besoo

aku cuma suka, tengok anak aku tekunnnn jer mengadap manual tuh kalau dia nak transform2 mender tuh kan.. tapi hangin jer aku kalau dia tak dpat buat dia terjerit2 pangei ayah dia suruh buat.. ye ler.. dapat buat satu ok.. buat dua ok.. tapi kalau dia kena transform sampei 7, bengkak gak mata.. anak lelaki aku neh jenis tak sabar.. so, boleh ker aku kira ini satu trainning untuk dia menyabarkan diri dia?..

lagi satu.. kadang2 anak2 tak tau pun harga sesuatu barang tuh mahal.. dia main chop jer dia suka mainan yang itu.. kalau time mcm gini.. ko offer ler mainan lain.. tak mo dia.. anak aku saiko boleh tahan.. dia tak main ler nangis2 jerit2 guling2.. memang kena hempuk jer.. tapi dia jenis yang nangis tak der suara.. sepanjang jalan mata merah air mata menitikkkkk titikkk beso2 mcm air mata hindi tuh jer.. ngan bibir dia bibik tuh.. wahhhhh!! kalah hati syahdu neh weyyyy

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Post time 12-8-2008 07:49 PM | Show all posts

Reply #361 shidahameera's post

alahai kak shidah ni....siggy dia bukan perli perli....terus to the point...hehheheheheheh,,,,,.anyway ada kena mengena ngan kak ke (joke saja).....jgn lah cepat kecik hati...



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Post time 12-8-2008 09:15 PM | Show all posts

Reply #365 NURMIMIE's post

le.. seumur idup aku jakun is an adjective... never really realized that it can refer to a group of people or tribe or whatsoever....

dr kecik kalau aku terejal je ade la sore2 sumbang kata 'hang ni awat laa jakun sangat..'
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Post time 12-8-2008 09:41 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Delifrance at 12-8-2008 09:15 PM
le.. seumur idup aku jakun is an adjective... never really realized that it can refer to a group of people or tribe or whatsoever....

dr kecik kalau aku terejal je ade la sore2 sumbang kata 'h ...


sama gak ler ngan aku..

sampai satu masa bila aku sekolah menangah gitu.. suka suki jer main jakun2 kat orang..

marah orang jakun tuh kat aku.. bayangkan ler masa tuh aku budak, yang marah tuh bapak budak
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Post time 12-8-2008 11:35 PM | Show all posts
I think this is so basic.  

We as parents always strive to do what is best for our children.  Its not a matter of showering them with kemewahan.  If we can afford to give them top of the range - either toys, clothes, books, gadgets etc then its our right.  

I know of people that were brought up in well to do families and they are now successful in their own right.  Doesn't mean if you shower your children with kemewahan they will definitely turn wayward.

I'll admit I'm an indulgent mother. I buy my sons tons of stuff from malls and not pasar malam.  I buy when I find something I love. Are my sons spoiled?  Definitely. Am I substituting material things for love? Definitely not.

They both know what I feel for them.  They are both smart, intelligent, kind and considerate.  They are not cocky.  They help out with chores in the house,  they give up their savings to their friends in need.  Just last week they gave some of their savings to one of the school kid whose house was razed by the fire.  They both believe in the goodness of the humankind. I try to protect them from the vagaries of life but they know what happened to Nurin and that Sharlinie is still missing.  They ask why are there such evil people there.  My boys are not indulgent and uncaring.  

What is the point of all this?  I'll tell you.

I had my sons after a series of miscarriages.  They are miracles in their own right with both being born prematurely.  What a glorious world this is with my sons.  .  

So when they see something they like, WITHIN REASON, I will get it for them.  They don't have to do without to appreciate what they have.  My sons have balance in their life.  They are not being raised by someone else with someone else's values.  They are surrounded by hubby & me who love and adore them.

I see parents that indulge their children and what it's done to them.They become unappreciative, ungrateful and unwilling to work hard for anything worth working hard for.  

My sons know that both hubby and I would buy something that we like even if it costs a lot.  As long as we don't have to get in debt to get it.  If we don't have the money then we won't buy it.  Its that simple really.

That's my 2 cents.:victory:

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Post time 13-8-2008 12:36 AM | Show all posts

Reply #351 ev700's post

"rugilah siapa yg berlumba2 beli formula milk yang mahal kerana ALLAH kurniakan sumber yg terbaik dr dr badan kita sendiri"

wa dah jeling2 kenyataan lu kat atas
jgn ingat semua emak nak mengelak bagi susu ibu
ada juga kes -kes atas nasihat doktor
so whatttt!!!! RUGI

ok wa nak cakap cikit pasai susu formula
isteri aku dah berusuha menyusu badan
tapi tak berjaya gak atas beberapa masalah
dan atas nasihat doktor..so terpaksalah aku berlumba-luma gi cari susu formula

isteri aku nak guna pump
tapi doktor pakar kata susu akan kering if anak tak breast feed
cos rangsangan untuk keluarkan susu akan terganggu
kalo anak tak menghisap breast

isteri aku punyalah sedih
dah tak ader rezeki
tapi syukur gak anak aku sehat
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Post time 13-8-2008 12:47 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by aznao0o0 at 12-8-2008 05:01 PM
salam semua

saya bukan nak sokong ratu, tapi dia ada point yg betul jugak berkaitan dgn posting salah seorang forumer iaitu shidda....sebelum saya baca posting ratu saya baca posting shidda di ...


salam

ingat sudah sejuk... awak plak nak hangatkan balik?

bak kata my friend, usah menangguk di air keruh...

back to topic, tq
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Post time 13-8-2008 09:14 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ratu_cinta at 13-8-2008 12:36 AM
"rugilah siapa yg berlumba2 beli formula milk yang mahal kerana ALLAH kurniakan sumber yg terbaik dr dr badan kita sendiri"

wa dah jeling2 kenyataan lu kat atas
jgn ingat semua emak nak menge ...


kalau atas masaalah kesihatan..mmg le takleh elak...
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Post time 13-8-2008 09:31 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Delifrance at 12-8-2008 06:37 PM
ye la tu... masing2 dah tua..elakkan la dr tersentap dan menyentapkan org..

kadang2 terasa jugak tgk ayat2 yg ade unsur2 riak,mcm kalau dah kaya tu tuhan tak boleh terlangkupkan rezeki/nasib d ...

Aku pun cam tu gak...tengah2 jer..tak kaya x miskin. boleh la untuk bela anak2 aku. Janji aku bahagia   Alhamdulillah.
Errkk aku kalau aku berdepan ngan org yg suka bangga diri ni aku wat derkkk jer ..buat tak dgr tapi kalau x berubah jugak aku laser jer. cam jiran depan umah aku dok bangga dia pernah masuk Miss Malaysia (time tu org melayu leh masuk lagi pertandingan ni) sikit2 dok puji dia cantik..wah lastly x tahan aku dgr aku sound " cantik jer wat per kalo SPM pun x pas " hahahahahahahaha....
erkkk sorry yer topic dah terbabas...
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Post time 13-8-2008 09:36 AM | Show all posts

Reply #374 casper_cute1's post

le sengal je ..miss mesia tahun brp tu meh aku nak tgk gak cantik sangat ke..


dasat aa ko berjiran dgn miss mesia
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Post time 13-8-2008 09:50 AM | Show all posts
mewah di mata kita tak semestinya mewah di mata org.. tak mewah di mata kita tak semestinya buruk di mata org.. attitude kita sikit sebyk akan mempengaruhi mental/attitude anak kita nanti..

aku rasa pasal susu formula ni takde kena mengena pun dgn attitude anak bila dia dah besar kelak... drg kan ke minum susu formula (samada yg mahal/murah) sampai certain age jer.. koman2 pun sampai umo 5 thn..... pastu sure depa nak MILO jek lebih ekekeke.. ni pun ada yg umo 3 thn dah tak nak susu dah... nak ceklat je lebih.. huhu

and there goes the issue of pemakanan...
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Post time 13-8-2008 10:00 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by casper_cute1 at 13-8-2008 09:31 AM

Aku pun cam tu gak...tengah2 jer..tak kaya x miskin. boleh la untuk bela anak2 aku. Janji aku bahagia   Alhamdulillah.
Errkk aku kalau aku berdepan ngan org yg suka bangga diri ni aku wat ...




aiyooo..ada jugak yer orang puji diri sendiri cantik.
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Post time 13-8-2008 10:06 AM | Show all posts

Reply #375 Delifrance's post

wakakakakakkaakakaka ari tu aku baru jer belek2 pic dia berbikini tepi kolam. Kalo x silap aku yg menang tu Suzila Azrai pernah jadi pelakon dan berlakon dlm Kad Cinta. Tahun 1994. Dia sekali dgn Emylia Rosnaida tu. Nanti aku balik kenen2 pic dia nooo pic dia yg berbikini tu..tapi kalo ko nak pic dia skang pun ada jugak..tapi x berbikini lah hehehehehehehehehehehe

sorry yer mod dan tuan umah..topic terbabassss
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Post time 13-8-2008 10:06 AM | Show all posts
:@ :@  page terbenam la pulokkk
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Post time 13-8-2008 10:17 AM | Show all posts

Reply #379 casper_cute1's post

sama badge dgn akak aku ni hehehe.. akak aku kata awek2 melayu yg join contest tu semua sosiol habis.. ada yg kena tangkap sbb kuar dr otel mlm2 buta n kena sack terus

sorry off topic.. tak tahan nak nyampuk
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