bipolar mom.Im paying it forward. anyone looking for a wfh job?maybe i can help pulak this time. pls head to last page.TQ for all of your doa!-open space for mental health sharing

nia_salina · Post time 31-1-2022 03:42 PM

Zaien replied at 31-1-2022 03:18 PM
haa xpe2.. iols pun x ramai kwn pun irl.. ade kwn sekerja / kwn skolah menengah tpi boleh kira bra ...

i ada la few frens tp bab mental health ni tak smua paham.
btl tu uols .org yg tak paham ni kan suka sgt la beza kan dgn sakit yg nampak tu. kadang pikir kalau kita le paham kenapa la theyols susah sgt nak paham.
sian uols. mmg susah kalau dpt spouse yg jenis tak paham.

masz83 · Post time 31-1-2022 09:02 PM

I ada banyak jugak baju2 ank2 i… u perak kt mana ye? Kalau i ada balik kg maybe boleh terus kasi kt u….

nia_salina · Post time 31-1-2022 09:47 PM

masz83 replied at 31-1-2022 09:02 PM
I ada banyak jugak baju2 ank2 i… u perak kt mana ye? Kalau i ada balik kg maybe boleh terus kasi kt ...

hi! u org perak juga ya. jp lg i pm u ye. cuba cek kadang pm cari ni mcm hampeh

nia_salina · Post time 1-2-2022 07:27 PM

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CYkRPVCFZQc/?utm_medium=copy_linkto my dear mama mama forumer here...i kinda love this vid...so sharing it with u guys

nia_salina · Post time 3-2-2022 04:44 PM

how is evryone doing?i hope u all are ok. i lately mood very low. tats y i pegi bod lain to keep my mind off..

tupai · Post time 3-2-2022 05:21 PM

I think u ada post kt fb wall Syed Azmi kan? Any luck?sorry I hv nothing to offer except hang in there…insyaAllah thing will getting better…I used to hv mental health issue, depression due to stress at work then I left my job. During my break tu I focus getting better, attend doc appt, on med & after few months alhamdulillah im back on track…Bile i dh betul2 okay baru I start job hunting & then secured new job. I penah jgk rasa frust bila application kena reject, demotivated tp i berserah 100% to Allah, other than hardwork, i tawakal, bgn solat mlm, baca quran setiap waktu…kdg2 kebergantungan kt manusia pun x ke mana…so lets back to basic…so gambate to u

tupai · Post time 3-2-2022 05:24 PM

nia_salina replied at 3-2-2022 04:44 PM
how is evryone doing?i hope u all are ok. i lately mood very low. tats y i pegi bod lain to keep my ...

Sometimes bile mood u too low, my suggestion kurangkan kt social med even forum…sbb kdg2 bile baca ken org lain yg good2..indirectly contribute to your negative thought. Better u focus on reading motivational talk…ayat2 quran yg bagus utk naikkan semangat u & baca psl amalan2 yg boleh lapangkan hati & murahkan rezeki…been there done that

nia_salina · Post time 3-2-2022 08:02 PM

tupai replied at 3-2-2022 05:24 PM
Sometimes bile mood u too low, my suggestion kurangkan kt social med even forum…sbb kdg2 bile bac ...

hi u! yes haah my post. i mmg kenal dia sbb i pernah buat 2 charity dgn dia a long time ago. tu i mcm baru ni nk mtk tlg dia sbb i ada my level of respect kt dia.
dia ok je nk tlg. tp i la segan. no luck yet but its ok atlis we tried.
actualy i kurang socmed. i byk kt forum

kadang2 je i stalk tgk apa menarik then dh tats it. i byk online baca job search. technical thing pasal writing etc n belajar pasal shopee.
i bipolar so it depends on my mood. so okla managable insyallah this days. i get that advise alot actualy..trust me not a day that i dont get back to basic. tq for the advise. i apriciate that

tupai · Post time 3-2-2022 08:07 PM

nia_salina replied at 3-2-2022 08:02 PM
hi u! yes haah my post. i mmg kenal dia sbb i pernah buat 2 charity dgn dia a long time ago. tu i ...

Just sharing ye, i selalu amalkan surah al insyirah 9x lepas setiap lepas solat sblm doa, & dhuha setiap hari, solat hajat setiap mlm sblm tidur & tahajud/taubat sepertiga mlm….kita ni manusia kdg2 ada masa down sedih…even i hv good support system tp kdg2 wont help so i akan ambik my own time buat benda2 sunat…cuma lately ni im too handful with works, x mampu bgn tgh2 mlm sbb i tido pun dh 2/3 pg..rasa rugi jgk tp tu la kdg2 terlalu penat….hope everything will fall into places soon for u ya. InsyaAllah rezeki x pernah salah alamat

nia_salina · Post time 3-2-2022 10:13 PM

Edited by nia_salina at 3-2-2022 10:16 PM

tupai replied at 3-2-2022 08:07 PM
Just sharing ye, i selalu amalkan surah al insyirah 9x lepas setiap lepas solat sblm doa, & dhuha ...

Insyaallah amin amin. insyallah il put tat in note. tula i pun masalah juga nk bangun malam ni sbb lack of sleep dgn anak bf lagi. Insyaallah i will try to do more.
kadang mcm i ,i have problem in asking ppl for help. sometime kita ni mmg kena except selain doa kita kena cuba mtk tlg juga.
tq tq doakan. il pray the same thing juga untuk u. Insyaallah amin

adila39 · Post time 4-2-2022 10:28 AM

I suka baca komen komen u all...i hope all of us will strong enough facing our days. Hey! jangan lupa its all up to us how we want our life to be..so keep fighting!

nia_salina · Post time 4-2-2022 10:40 AM

adila39 replied at 4-2-2022 10:28 AM
I suka baca komen komen u all...i hope all of us will strong enough facing our days. Hey! jangan lup ...

hi mod. i pun love sgt sebab ada few juga yg pm i mtk pendapat. i can gv base on my experience . i maybe canot help in sense of financial problem but im here to suport u all in sense of mental health issue. tq evryone here!

Zaien · Post time 4-2-2022 12:35 PM

nia_salina replied at 31-1-2022 03:42 PM
i ada la few frens tp bab mental health ni tak smua paham.
btl tu uols .org yg tak paham ni kan s ...

iols ada kawan yg mmg ade anxiety ye di opis.. now dia dh resign la.. sbb tak boleh carry keje yg overload & perlu struggle ke hulur hilir uruskan opis sbb dia HR.. sbb condition dia yg sakit berkali2 & operation merata tmpt ( lutut - leher/tengkuk - czer fibroid ) so mmg dia jadi down sgt2.. so langkah dia buat adalah berhenti keje. itupun ramai tanya dia suruh fikirkan btol2.. sbb skang susah nak cari keje.. dia pun stress sbb kalau dia keje pun org tak paham situasi keupayaan dia sampai mana dah.. dah tak sama mcm dulu boleh ligat2.. doktor dh brape kali warning dia ye..

dia mampu luah kt iols la.. benda buka mudah kan... doktor yg mak iols jumpa pun ada ckp.. bila dtg anxiety ni bukannya kita minx2 benda tu dtg.. so org yg tak paham mmg akan fikir or anggap kita ni lemah/lembik..

nia_salina · Post time 4-2-2022 01:47 PM

Zaien replied at 4-2-2022 12:35 PM
iols ada kawan yg mmg ade anxiety ye di opis.. now dia dh resign la.. sbb tak boleh carry keje yg ...

i feel her. huhu. masa i berenti i siap anta karangan panjang kt head of h.r i pasal mental health at work place. bkn dia paham pun but atlis i luahkn sblm i blah haha.
masa i brenti pun org ckp cmtu susah nk cri kerja..eh mcm2 la. mmg pun ssh. tp kalau i gone mental lg teruk lg susah. tu one thing..blm org ckp kita tak kuat agama tu sbb mental. aiyooohh. kita pun tk nk otak serabut cmni

Zaien · Post time 4-2-2022 03:16 PM

nia_salina replied at 4-2-2022 01:47 PM
i feel her. huhu. masa i berenti i siap anta karangan panjang kt head of h.r i pasal mental health ...

btol2.. doktor pun ada ckp.. bkn sebab tak beriman ke.. kena penyakit nih..
anytime boleh kena kt sesiapa..

mmg susah nk bg pham kt org.. balik2 isu agama.. mental tak kuat sbb tak kuat beramal katanya..
dosa itu ini la sampai cmtu.. mmg iols skip je org yg cmni..

marlindo · Post time 5-2-2022 01:50 PM

Hang in there ladies!! I hope semuanya dipermudahkan segala urusan.

nia_salina · Post time 5-2-2022 05:21 PM

marlindo replied at 5-2-2022 01:50 PM
Hang in there ladies!! I hope semuanya dipermudahkan segala urusan.

tq kaka mar!!

nia_salina · Post time 5-2-2022 05:25 PM

Edited by nia_salina at 5-2-2022 05:28 PM

realiti of cari kerja nowadays. asik nak cina je(no offend to chinese here) letihhhhh mak. as of today i still tak dpt job lagi.byk dh aply tp byk reject sbb i luar kawasan. perkeso gig tu pun dpt majikan slow. watsap pun susah nk respon. padahal kita beria dh pg jmpa ajk kampung bagai mtk sign.

tu blm yg dh buat job translatiing tp tk bayar2..padahal rm100 je. tah tah duit lunch money dia je.tupun susah nk byr. i dh mtk pun sbb i terdesak nak pakai tupun dia le jawab nanti dia busy. shopee pun slow..tapi takpa i syukur atlis ada benda i le buat. atlis i reti nk niaga kt shopee. i just masukkn barang n promot je dulu.i am still hopeful. in sense of mental health gitu la i ups down. i doakan u all strong juga ye.

melatibiru · Post time 6-2-2022 09:25 PM

nia_salina replied at 28-1-2022 07:42 PM
how is ur job intw mel

Hi. Sorry baru nak reply. I baru je habis keje part time warehouse. Penat tp got worth payment. Now tgh cari job lain. My person in charge yg dapatkan job utk I pun akan update mana2 jobs yg avail. Job perkeso pun masih buat.
Next week I akan pergi syariah court. To be honest, I dah penat. I tak tau sampai bila hidup begini.

nia_salina · Post time 6-2-2022 11:24 PM

melatibiru replied at 6-2-2022 09:25 PM
Hi. Sorry baru nak reply. I baru je habis keje part time warehouse. Penat tp got worth payment. No ...

hai mel. glad to know u still hustling.
u buat warehouse shop website tu ye. kawan i de buat..part time midnight

same here. i pun sll pikir when is this going to over. but im optimistic. Insyaallah.
nanti i akan reach u juga kalau ada job yg suai yg i dpt. takat ni takde la. perkeso gig tu pun tk stat2 .cm menyesal lak i aply dgn majikan ni. reply watsap pun susah.

btw i nak share with u all a doa ...
اللهم اني اعوذ بك من الهم والحزن. واعوذ بك من العجز والكسل. واعوذ بك من البُخلِ والجُبن. واعوذ بك من ضلع الدَيْن وقهر (او غلبة) الرجال.
O Allah, I take refuge in You from anxiety and sorrow, weakness and laziness, miserliness and cowardliness, the burden of debts and being over powered by men.

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