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Originally posted by pujanclay at 4-4-2008 11:54 PM 
the only reason i can think about is...i just want to love somebody and want to be loved back by her...she become special and i just want to think how to love her more...how to make her happy n smile
for the time being..that all matter to me..
but time can always change the way u think about love...it just dont happen overnight..maybe it takes me years to understand ur point and answer ur question
but i just want to believe in what i have now...
used to have a lot of bad experiene ke??have u lost faith in love??
Err... Ko silap faham lagi. Mungkin aku terang tak jelas.
Never have bad experience. I have not lost faith in love. I now know that Love can solve everything. I just state everything matter of factly.營t爏eems爐hat爉y燽ackground爄s燿ifferent爐han爕ou爏o爕ou爁ind爄t爃ard爐o爑nderstand爉e.
Apa yang aku cerita tu bukan daripada kekecewaan. Lebih kepada penemuan yang hebat.燤acam爇o爅umpa燽enda爕ang seronok爈a...
Ko nak faham pandangan燼ku kena baca link yang aku bagi tu...
You might also want to look up Greek's燾lassification爋f爈ove.燬pecifically, agape,爀ros,爌hilia,爏torge and thelema.
I can't explain it any more clearly right now. A bit sleepy. However please understand that I have found greater faith in love.燤uch爂reater爐han爐he燼verage爈ovelorn / 'jiwang' people's爁aith. Although my definition on love may differ from you.
the only reason i can think about is...i just want to love somebody and want to be loved back by her...she become special and i just want to think how to love her more...how to make her happy n smile
for the time being..that all matter to me.
I don't kow you so my analysis might be totally off the mark but it seems that here you loved her you want to experience the feeling of being loving to her. You also need some attention from someone to affirm your ego |
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Reply #259 stingbeh's post
sting, sorilah...
aku ingat nak tulis bm... |
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Reply #261 sosimple's post
sos selalu jatuh longkang ke? |
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Reply #264 Agul's post
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apa jatuh longkang plak nie.... |
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Reply #265 sosimple's post
habis tu jalan pandang depan je...
tersadung dan jatuh? |
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Reply #266 Agul's post
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kiasan jer... btul2 x faham ker?? |
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Reply #267 sosimple's post
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Originally posted by Agul at 5-4-2008 02:17 AM 
used to have a lot of bad experiene ke??have u lost faith in love??
Err... Ko silap faham lagi. Mungkin aku terang tak jelas.
Never have bad experience. I have not lost faith in love. ...
well quite a lengthy discussion there...
well what i do not get you is that
why did you tend to repetitively write this : i am separate from my mind , my emotion .....
any theoretical construct or rationales behind thsi statement...
well it fascinates me to think that well a person's personality trait is a product of deeply ingrained way of thinking pattern, affect mode of action etc etc
So, to basically segregating those components to a mere fragments of "entities" then my question would be - what has becoming of you..?????
well i would understand this better if you could apply this thinking pattern when you're being objective on something say like a character of Dr Temperance Brennan in " the BONES" serials ..well that's ok , she was just being objective in terms of her views on things but when you' re always ..saying to urself those statement .. ...then
would u think that you are putting the lines between the flesh and the bones? the essential ingredient that makes us human ...????????
then ok, how about this any other studies, opinion that would counter back the newly developed thought of " iam separate than my emotion bla bla" any
readings . or other authors that might disprove ur currently adopted model of thinking etc etc/ How accurate was the author ?
what have they said about this ..? would this be termed as "pre - canned" solid fact from "a book " too?
what are their strong points?
[ Last edited by mbhcsf at 5-4-2008 07:07 AM ] |
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Originally posted by thedude at 5-4-2008 09:21 AM 
If I understand it correctly, by separating mind and emotion, it becomes a lot easier to stay happy during hard and easy times.
In calamities we say "setiap yang buruk ade hikmahnya" .. we ...
well..of course.. dear,
that goes without saying lah..alahai ...pehaps may be i am too emotional kot may be ..and u being the opposite sex kot , so i could understand that.
well as far as we could , this affect factor, would have to be safely kept at bay in order to gain an accurate perspectives on things yes i second you on that, but...when comes to psychoemotional aspect of human beings like love, security, trust , hate , state of being happy etc etc would a person could ? still or dare say i am not my emotion?? haiyaa..well i guess you could stay within that zone forever ok, but i guess to a certain extent it'll be very dry ..lah..
u think?
[ Last edited by mbhcsf at 5-4-2008 11:29 AM ] |
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bile ader masa.. nanti nak digest betul2 la
aper yg anon, mb dan agul cakap...
pastu tulis translation..
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aku baca posting tuan tanah & few other postings on the 1st page jek
anyway, tahniah pada tuan tanah
tentang soulmate atau pun tidak ni
kalau kita dapat berkahwin dgn seseorang yg hati kita mengatakan 'dialah soulmate aku'
then Alhamdulillah
walau macam manapun
tak kiralah pasangan kita tu soulmate atau tidak
SETIAP PERKAHWINAN ITU MEMERLUKAN KERJA KERAS UNTUK TEGUH BERDIRI
jgn pk kerana pasangan kita tu 'soulmate'
everthing will run smoothly
thus you tend to take each other for granted.
'take each other' yg aku maksudkan tu ialah :
-menjaga hati pasangan
-layanan terhadap pasangan
-komunikasi 2 hala
-hubungan dgn keluarga pasangan
-kewangan rumahtangga
-byk lagi... tak tersenarai..
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baru dgr lagu pictures of you by the last goodnights. |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 5-4-2008 01:59 AM
Mixing up mind and emotion is like trying to play soccer in heavy rain. It's possbile but it's a lot easier if we halt the rain first. 
