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Reply #183 pujanclay's post
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Reply #243 lolita_lempicka's post
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can ur heart n soul speak?? |
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Originally posted by mbhcsf at 4-4-2008 06:10 AM 
not that scary , commonlah..you're being to the point , venting ur opinion why not?
it 's just that may be if i were u , i would have written it down rather differently...while maintaining the ...
I respect te opinion of others. It just that sometime I don't write that well and it comes off lke that. Oh well...
what can I do... |
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Originally posted by pujanclay at 4-4-2008 07:18 AM
is reason really matter???why can we just follow what heart tell us..for me there is no reason to love someone...
love is non-reasonable...love is just love...sometimes u just feel n u just know that u love him/her...
that is sincerity...love for no reason
well..differ people always have differ way to see love n life
You miss my point. I never said that love needs a reason. If you know me, i'm quite the proponent of P.U.L. Pure Unconditional Love. There is a thread in epistemology board. You can find it there.
However authentic love is not ego approval. people always mistakes ego approval for love. If you want to know if it's really love, check if it feels good, or hurtful. If the love is painful, be sure that it's not love. There is never sense of longing, clingyness, jealousy in love. However that doesn't make fake love wrong. Most people are happy enough to have fake love. Like imitation good in PS. Sometime there is joy in fake love. If it makes you happy, go for it. 燨ne day you may know true love. Or you may not. In both cases, have gratitude.
What I'm trying to say is, know yourself. Know the truth and it will set you free.You don't have to sweep everything under the carpet and keep in hiding. Awareness is a very good virtue.
You said that you don't have rason. Deeper introspection could reveal that maybe, just maybe you love because you want to feel joy. And that's great. |
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Suatu masa dulu, aku pun macam korang. Cinta tu satu perasaan yang memabukkan. Tapi sekarang pendapat aku dah berubah.
Ah' susahla...
You want someone to love you. Why do you want it so? What is the want behind that? Is it wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe? Could you let it go? Would you let it go? When?
That's a nice series of question.
We have attachment and aversion to everything. |
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Kadang2 sebab tu ada cuma kita malas dan takut untuk berhadapan hakikat. |
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P.U.L. Pure Unconditional LoveGo to page 5, I personally like Lester Levenson's words on Love. Lot's of them there.
The mental aspect of sex is the seeking for ego approval. Man looks for a partner that can give it to him, and when he finds one that can give him ego approval constantly,he says he is madly in love, and wants this one as ac onstantmate. So long as he is getting this approval, direct or implied, he says he is inlove and happy. However, and this is a big however, this happiness, although it may be the greatest he has yet experienced, is ofnecessity at the same time mixed with a certain amount ofpainful
anxiety lest this happiness be not had in the time ahead. The pleasure obtained through one's mate creates ahungerfor more ofit, and at the same time a fear that it couldbe lost, both of which are painful. This admixture of pain and pleasure
necessarily prevents full enjoyment.
~Lester Levenson
All behavior, every act in this world, is based on the desire for love. This desire causes us to seek for approval, acceptance, attention, power, fame, and fortune.
Unfortunately, however, love cannotbe gotten this way, and we become frustrated and unhappy. Only by loving can we fmd love and be happy.
~ Lester Levenson
Happyness do not come from others love. It comes from you, being loving to others.
~ Me.  |
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Post time 4-4-2008 11:21 AM
