Living with ADHD & ASD (updated page 12)

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Ok guys, i just want 2 share baru2 i nipegi UMSC for 2nd opinion atas nasihat Dr M. He said u have t right to know . And after lebih 1 one hour session with Dr F, The answer is yes, Dr kata i ada Asperger Syndrom Disorder which is Austism 1mild. And asked twice just to make sure and still t answer is yes.

I swear 2 to God ni la kali terakhir i will go to get a mental diagnosis for anything...

Ambik masa jgk la nk terima....for now i got nothing much to say

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In this video, I talk about what it's like having both autism and ADHD and how this can feel from an inner perspective. ADHD and autism have many similarities, but also many conflicting traits, so this can be really difficult to unpick sometimes.

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What is Mild Autism?

Mild autism in adults, also known as high-functioning autism or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) level 1,
refers to individuals exhibiting fewer and less severe symptoms of autism, often characterized by :

1) challenges in social interactions,

2) communication, and sensory processing, while still being able to function in daily life with average or above-average intelligence;

3) common signs include difficulty reading social cues,

4) preference for routines,

5) intense focus on specific interests,

6) and potential struggles with emotional expression or understanding others' emotions.

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U all yg ada mild autism or Audhd bleh la share pengalaman kat sini yea

Btw guys ni la clip yg i t'tgk & terus terpanggil to get 2nd opinion for t autism diagnosis yg sblum ni terkurang 1 symptom. I went to UMSC as adviced by my Dr. Mula2 byr rm300 then lepas session , nurse pulangkan rm130. X tau knp ?

Perkahwinan Puan Hasnita & Encik Azhar menghadapi pelbagai masalah termasuk komunikasi. Tapi siapa sangka penyakit ‘Autism Dewasa’ yang dikesan pada Encik Azhar pada tahun ketujuh perkahwinan menyelamatkan rumah tangga mereka.

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Have you ever felt different from others but couldn’t explain why? Studies show that up to 60% of people on the autism spectrum are undiagnosed, often leaving them without the understanding or support they need. This video explores five common signs of undiagnosed autism in adults, based on scientific research and personal experiences, to help shed light on this often-overlooked topic.

*What You’ll Learn in This Video:*  

1️⃣ Feeling different or like the “odd one out” your whole life
2️⃣ Relating deeply to autistic people’s stories and struggles  
3️⃣ Connecting with fictional characters who exhibit autistic traits  
4️⃣ “Masking” or pretending to fit societal norms, often at great personal cost  
5️⃣ Compulsively researching autism and seeing yourself in the findings  

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Timestamps
1). We're not all geniuses 1:01

2). We're not all beyond hope 1:47


3). We're just as varied as you 2:40


4). We're not trying to make you uneasy 3:31


5). We're often more not-okay than we let on 6:27


6). Our reality is not your jokes 7:33

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So far byk jgk la cite2 yg i dah bc about adults yg baru kena diagnose dgn adhd & austism. Also social anxiety. Antara dugaan yg dihadapi is loneliness.

Tp ada je yg keje ok ada moral support from family, ada kwn2 & family sendiri..but for me i relate with t latter group.

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Some of them like me hadapi chronic loneliness ( x tau la ada ke x term tu) or long term loneliness and isolation. Ada yg sejak childhood sbb tinggal offgrid, kena home school and lewat didiagnose. Ada jgk yg come from broken family and with all t late diagnose disorders mmg pyh la nk b' kwn , b'kawin ke bekerja ke..

Same like me. Saje nk share this poem about long term loneliness. Ai app yg tolong i buat haha..anyway i dedicate this poem for all of u struggling with multiple mental disorders & sgt2 lonely. This poem xde kena mengena dgn yg hidup or mati

The Abyss

If life is a body, and you have no family,
It feels like you have no legs.
If you have no friends, no love, no hand to hold,
It feels like living without arms.

You move, but you do not go far.
You reach, but there’s nothing to grasp.

Some who've weathered storms
carve love from the ruins—
So why can’t I? Why not me?

Years have passed, decades even,
Yet no sign of hope, no glimmer in sight.

They say family is forever,
Some say do what you can with what you have.

All I have is the abyss,
This quiet refuge I call home, though I never miss.