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Originally posted by nashra at 25-12-2006 06:06 PM
good for you norsha..
at least dia pandai mingle around..
maybe my son belum pandai kot nak mingle dgn rakan2 sebaya..
nash
insyaAllah with time and support he will grow up just like other kids..we just need to find the ways to allow him to explore and experience the supposedly beautiful process of growing up ...
anak aku pon dulu2 org tak suka kawan dgn dia... coz dia suka berebut..gopoh..cepat marah..tak mo kalah etc.. but sekarang ni kalau compare dgn dulu mmg he has tremendously improved his social skills ..ptg2 dah buleh main bola dgn k awan2..kalau pegi kenduri kendara boleh main kejar2 etc...even bile ikut bapak dia gi semayang terawikh pon dah buleh buat geng dgn kawan2.. and in laws aku pon supportive..bile ade family day ke apa kat kawasan umah dorang mesti diorang suh anak aku participate - lumba lari ke, kutip gula2 dlm tepong, bawa bola dlm sudu etc....
pas tu jgn lupa..he is only 3 1/2..so allow the time and space for him to learn.... bukan dia je..kite sendiri pon have tons of things to learn..tiap2 hari ade ilmu baru
satu mende yg ak urase bagus utk minda anak2 kite ni..is trampoline and snake tunnel tu..ko kalau jumpa tu beli la utk adam.... cikgu taska irfan selalu suruh irfan lompat2 atas trampoline tu.. ade benefitnye mende tu tp dah lupa lah mende nye..nanti aku try to surf for info |
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Originally posted by norsha at 25-12-2006 05:05 PM
bukan apa nashra..my son nie kena semua ikut order..kalau change, dia rasa terganggu..and menangis nya, I think yaite tahu..nak describe pun susah..sb moms yg takde anak camnie just cant imagin ...
if you cannot start with food...
maybe you can start with game therapy ..then slowly2 bile dah reduce sket autism dia mungkin he won't reject the food as badly as before kot...
i am thinking on giving my son puzzles to do..tp susah la nak carik puzzle sekang ni ... tak macam dulu2 berspeah je puzzle kat tempat mainan kat mana2 oultet parkson ke jusco ke isetan..tatau la kalau ada tp aku je cari tak jumpa!
kalau nak kasik computer puzzle..hiyak....mesti half of the time is wasted on quarelling with the younger sister sebab berebut komputer! |
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Originally posted by Delifrance at 25-12-2006 06:14 PM
ye lah..itu hari ko..ari lain org lain pulak yg kene
tiap2 manusia tu kan ade dugaan masing2
like hallmark channel kata "in every life, there is DRAMA'
anyway..hope he is progress ...
memang hanyir pun..
melekat kat tangan..seksa nengokkan adam terpaksa telan..nak tak nak aku kena paksa..
cengkam mulut dia masuk terus..kalau tidak memang apa2 ubat ke supplement ke dia reject manjang..
sebelum ni aku try campur dlm susu..ye la dah hanyir kan tentu dah tukar rasa susu tu..
susu pun anak aku dah switch to bebelac ec..pasal perut dia tu..skang dah sekali sehari je minum susu..tak sekerap dulu..maybe tak sedap kot..
deli, garam bukit tu dlm bahasa omputeh nya 'pan salt' ye?
ada pharmacist tu cakap yang tu garam bukit..tapi mahal..rega kat rm10.. |
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pasal trampoline and snake tunnel ni memang aku perasan adam suka sesangat..
dulu masa dia join tumble tots memang dua benda ni yang dia dok ulang main..lompat selagi boleh..merangkak2 dlm tunnel tu..
ayah dia berhentikan dia join tumble tots sebab dia terlampau la active sampai dia memang tak leh focus dgn instructors yang ada kat situ and suka buat hal dia sendiri..dia sorang je yang tak mo participate dlm apa2 activity yang tumble tots anjur..
aku kesian gak dgn dia sebab dulu walaupun dia gitu tapi everytime on sunday memang dia looking forward nak pi kelas tumble tots tu..cuma masa tu parents kena participate sama and ayahnya dah tak larat nak berkejar2, nak handle dia nyer amukan, tantrum segala during the session..aku plak time tu tengah dlm pantang..kalau tidak aku dgn perut2 memboyot tu mengejar dia.. |
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Originally posted by mami06 at 24-12-2006 08:41 PM
psl sekolah utk anak2 kita ni mmg I risau. Harapan I depa boleh la blend in dgn budak2 lain kat sekolah biasa. Lagi satu x berapa suka sekolah khas psl x pernah lagi la jumpa sekolah khas utk budak ...
kak fie tak pernah jumpa dr kadir lagi pun. Cuma quite concern about my youngest ni. Dia tak de lah exude all the characteristics and behaviours of an autistic child. Very hyper dan speech a bit delay dari peer tapi he's communicating jugaklah using more than 2 words sentences sometimes, focus ok, eye contact ok. In fact dua orang dr yang akak jumpa kata dia bukan autistic. Cuma fahamlah kan as a mother ni kita risau dan alert lebih. Hes 3 now...so nak bagi dia masa lagi sebelum jumpa dr kadir. In the mean time dok bacalah semua tips kat sini yang mungkin relevant for my son jugak.
Thanks bagi recipe almond milk tu. Kena bebetul rajin tu... |
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Originally posted by nashra at 25-12-2006 06:05 PM
fil aku tenung dulu..
kalau pompuan tu cakap sentence kedua baru la fil aku nak fire..
apa nak buat..dugaan aku ler tu deli..
aku tengok adam suka bebenar nak berkawan..
kalau boleh ...
sorry nash...kak fie ketinggalan bas rasanya...kenapa dengan adam sebenarnya? dia hyperactive ke? berapa umur dia? |
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Originally posted by nashra at 25-12-2006 07:41 PM
pasal trampoline and snake tunnel ni memang aku perasan adam suka sesangat..
dulu masa dia join tumble tots memang dua benda ni yang dia dok ulang main..lompat selagi boleh..merangkak2 dlm t ...
beli la letak kat umah ko...
aku tau ade satu kedai dalam bangsar shopping village tu ade jual colorful snake tunnel for kids..abt 100+..
and trampoline tu kat ebay pon ade jual..kat toys r us pon ade kot...
garam bukit tu ' rock salt'. the one that we got from the clinic iis from Halagel..rege singgit lebih je sepeket... |
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Originally posted by nashra at 25-12-2006 01:03 PM
nak citer sket pengalaman dua hari lepas kat one utama..
my son nak berkawan dgn ada budak ni..tapi dia cam takut2 dgn my son..
padahal my son approach budak tu dgn sentuh bahu ajak main seka ...
isk..ada gak makhluk gini ek nashra..uish kalo haku geram gaks kat situ....kire ok ler org nak kwn ngan anak dia.. |
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Originally posted by KakFie at 26-12-2006 08:48 AM
kak fie tak pernah jumpa dr kadir lagi pun. Cuma quite concern about my youngest ni. Dia tak de lah exude all the characteristics and behaviours of an autistic child. Very hyper dan speech a ...
anak bongsu kak fie musti takleh dok diam ek? i think like my son la..adui kalo nak banding ngan cousin dia ada time tau gak dok diam..sama ler eye contact seme ok..cuma speech tuh a bit pelat.i think diet dia pun memainkan peranan kot..huhu..picky eatter lak tuh..kalo ikut dr kadir nih mau tak termkn nih..kene pelan2 nih..
nash..fish mmg busuk ahhh..wa penah gak bk kapsul dia..erkk..i pun tak lalu...kalo tln ngan kapsul tuh tak per..cuba tanya dr plant source dha..yg haku igt flax seed oil..but dunno bdk kecik can consume or not.. |
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Originally posted by honeybee1802 at 26-12-2006 09:41 AM
anak bongsu kak fie musti takleh dok diam ek? i think like my son la..adui kalo nak banding ngan cousin dia ada time tau gak dok diam..sama ler eye contact seme ok..cuma speech tuh a bit pelat.i ...
haaaa....betullah tu honey. Memang sentiasa ada aje kerja dia. One thing yang kak fie perasan, anak-anak macam ni, yang hyper dan speech slow ni, kalau kita manage untuk dapatkan dia duduk diam dan bertenang, masa tu mesti kita boleh sembang dan bersoal jawab dengan dia. Banyaklah cerita dia walaupun not in perfect full sentences. Tapi itulah....masalahnya nak suruh dia duduk diam ...ya ampunn.....
Sebab tulah akak tak nak jumpa dr kadir lagi...tak nak abruptly change his diet. Nak buat sikit-sikit dulu and by the time jumpa dr kadir tu tak de lah my son terkejut sangat. Heh.heh..excuse..excuse.... |
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kalau free leh je jumpa/..start changing the diet tu up to you lah..
he is a very insightful person... nanti dia berceloteh sampai ke ibnu sina..ekonomi negara etc etc..
ha ha ha...mase bawak irfan ni sebenarnye my second visit... first visit was back in 1999 kot, mase tu blom conceive lagi.. lepas borak for a few minutes..dia leh tenung kitorang "this is not ur first visit right? i have seen both of u before, haven't i?"
then i cakap 'yes..actually i have been here before..about 6 years ago, way before i conceived my irfan' ..then he looked at my husband and cakap' u must take care of yourself..u are not eating healthily, see u used to be slim now u are overweight..bla bla bla' so the visit was not only for irfan but for the parents too!! ha ha ha |
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Originally posted by Delifrance at 26-12-2006 10:04 AM
kalau free leh je jumpa/..start changing the diet tu up to you lah..
he is a very insightful person... nanti dia berceloteh sampai ke ibnu sina..ekonomi negara etc etc..
ha ha ha...mase bawak ...
ha..hah...sounds like an interesting doctor characterlah dr kadir tu. InsyAllah will definitely jumpa dia dalam 2/3 minggu ni. Memang tak nak delay sebab risau jugak dengan my son. Nak tengok apa pulak dr kadir nak diagnose tentang dia. Hopefully jugak by that time I am emotionally prepared to accept any news... |
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Originally posted by KakFie at 26-12-2006 08:54 AM
sorry nash...kak fie ketinggalan bas rasanya...kenapa dengan adam sebenarnya? dia hyperactive ke? berapa umur dia?
he is one of autism kids..mild to moderate..
has been diagnosed by his psychiatrist dr..
he is 3 plus..
tambah lagi selain masalah autism, ada masalah dlm perut juga..
until now, if buka citer pasal dia, airmata ni mesti nak menitis..
all these while dah banyak dr nash jumpa..tak de sorang pun bagitau apa jadi kat dia..
until i went to twin tower medical centre kat klcc sana..that dr yang notice perubahan dia..terus dia refer to gleneagles..
tomorrow i will bring him to check his ears..then baru go for audiologist, speech theraphy,ultrasound..
tengok lah apa kata dr..i only hope for the best..
sedih sebab adiknya sihat walafiat tapi dia macam gini.. |
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Originally posted by nashra at 26-12-2006 11:37 AM
he is one of autism kids..mild to moderate..
has been diagnosed by his psychiatrist dr..
he is 3 plus..
tambah lagi selain masalah autism, ada masalah dlm perut juga..
until now, if ...
I see....maaf banyak-banyak nash kalau soalan akak buatkan nash sedih. Sorry.
Akak doakan nash dianugerahkan kekuatan yang luar biasa untuk go through semua ni. I am sure you, hubby and son have gone through a lot kan?
Anak-anak akak yang lain pun semua alhamdulillah oik...bukannya perfect tapi normal developmentlah. Yang last ni lain sikit. Mungkin sebab masa pregnantkan dia dulu akak ada macam-macam complication, kena makan/cucuk ubat macam-macam, berapa kali MRI scan, kena general anaesthetic untuk surgery masa 12 weeks pregnant lagi....Akak somehow feel that semua tu tentu ada effect on the fetus dalam perut...entahlah wallahualam....
Kalau rasa berat sangat kepala ni dok pikir tentang dia...akak selalu ingatkan diri tentang ayat Quran...ayat berapa ntah..kena check yang bermaksud "Allah tidak akan membebankan kita dengan sesuatu yang tak mampu kita tanggung". It really makes me stronger. |
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Originally posted by honeybee1802 at 26-12-2006 09:33 AM
isk..ada gak makhluk gini ek nashra..uish kalo haku geram gaks kat situ....kire ok ler org nak kwn ngan anak dia..
makhluk-makhluk yang insensitif begini sememangnya ramai yang berkeliaran di muka bumi ni. |
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tak pe kakfie..
dah memang rezeki nash dapat anak macam gini..
adik dia yang muda dua tahun dari dia dah banyak pick up with simple words..
sedangkan dia masih lagi gitu..
makan tok sah cakap la..memang picky sungguh..
and very moody..very bad tantrum..
entah la kakfie...i only hope for the best je utk dia..
i know ada ramai lagi ibu bapa yang punya masalah lagi teruk cuma at his age ni sepatutnya tadek masalah kesihatan..
he should be happy, sihat and tak perlu nak ulang alik ke hospital.. |
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Originally posted by nashra at 26-12-2006 12:01 PM
tak pe kakfie..
dah memang rezeki nash dapat anak macam gini..
adik dia yang muda dua tahun dari dia dah banyak pick up with simple words..
sedangkan dia masih lagi gitu..
makan tok sah ...
yup...setuju nash. Apa pun keadaannya, kesihatan memang penting kan? Kalau on top of other problems kesihatan pun poor tentu kita jadi lagi susah hati.
Apa nama anak nash ek? Adam ye? Kalau silap sorry...kak fie pick children names up here and there dalam forum ni kekadang confuse jugak. |
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hehe..
haah kakfie..
adam namanya..
tak tau la dulu masa dia like 1 year old gitu org tua2 tengok kata dia lasak..
tak tau lak dah masuk umur 3 tahun ni lain plak...
tak sangka rupanya segala perangai dia menyumbang ke arah autisme ni..
bila dr explain then only dlm otak ni rewind balik segala perlakuan dia.. |
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Originally posted by nashra at 26-12-2006 03:04 PM
hehe..
haah kakfie..
adam namanya..
tak tau la dulu masa dia like 1 year old gitu org tua2 tengok kata dia lasak..
tak tau lak dah masuk umur 3 tahun ni lain plak...
tak sangka rupan ...
sama le namanyer ngan anak i..hehe..
takper la nashra..u have encountered mende nih earlier..maybe its good chance for him to get rid of it when he's older..just prepared to be optimist je la..sbb penah bc dlm mag..a mother nih dah bwk anaknyer ke beb pedi seme kater ok..but at last ada satu yg diagonose ada autism..pehtu muler treatment since 3..by msk skool..Alhamdulillah leh catch up..at least anak u dr segi kesihatannya ok..like my fren's son..aiyoo.i think autism pun ada..then syndrom unknown..slalu sakit..cian ngk...dah 2yrs takleh jln lgk.. |
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