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Kalau rindu me baca alfatihah je sedekah kat dia.i know i cant reach his heart but Allah can.so yes pape je just turn to Allah first.ngadu sume rasa tu kat Allah.Dia sentiasa mendengar.ntah la im in the process of healing myself too.i just wanna go with the flow.ada jodoh dia akan dtg gak satu hari nanti.kalo xde jodoh,well Allah akan gantikan somebody yg terbaik untuk kita yg boleh buat kita lupa org2 yg terdahulu.me xkuat dulu sasau gak dibuatnya but today im gaining my strength little by little that im amazed with myself now.yg pasti Allah yg selalu ada disisi to guide us all.Allah Allah Allah  |
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mbhcsf replied at 20-9-2015 02:43 AM
rasanya kan , elok you ambik wuduk basahkan diri dan isikan jiwa you yg i think dibelai rasa cinta n ...
Awak,thank you gak for these words.they soothe my heart too :') |
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selalu bila gitu, i choose to diam and pendam
i ni dah la jenis xbanyak cakap,
memang no way la im going to start the conversation
better dont hope to much,
selagi xde pape, takut nnt u yang kecewa.. |
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yups, sy pun baca alfatihah bila tiba tiba rase teringat, rasa rindu kat dia ... 
hopefully with that, Allah boleh tolong sampaikan rasa rindu pada dia kan
dulu I pernah mengalami hard time during my previous relationship jugak .. sakit gile huhu
so thats why sekarang i lebih berhati hati
kalau ikutkan memang serik dah nak jatuh cinta lagi, tapi Allah dah hadirkan perasaan tu dlm hati sy, tak boleh nak elak
cuma skarang, kalau boleh sy taknak tunjukkan sgt rasa tu, jd mcm ni lah.. pendam rindu dalam diam huhu
doa je pada Allah, jika dia ni yang terbaik, mintak Allah permudahkan.. jika sebaliknya, minta Allah hadirkan yang lebih baik kan ...
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sy pun taknak berharap .. tapi kdg2 confuse
confuse dgn reaction dia ....
dia mcm chipsmore, kdg2 ada, kdg2 hilang ... huhuhu
slalu sy terfikir, hmm kalau dia ni taknak ada pape kan, kenapa at first place dia yg start conversation, and dia jugak yg ajak jumpa the other day ...
ke mmg lelaki mcm ni? bagi dorg ni biasa je kot.. huhuhu.. ntah lah...
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thank u awak ..
skarang lepas stiap solat, sy doakan Allah tunjukkan yg terbaik buat sy..
kalau dia mmg bukan utk sy, minta Allah padamkan perasaan yang ada ni ..
smalam around 2am, sy terjaga, pastu teringat kat dia
lepas solat sunat, perasaan kuat sgt nak text dia
i just texted him one simple word 'goodnight'
about a minute after, he replied 'eh belum tdo?'
mase tu, ya allah... rase dia ......... 
ntah la.. i'll just go with the flow
actually he told me he has a gf over there, and she is a Taiwanese.. hmmm
but recently he thinks that their relationship might not work, due to family and religious issue..
I told him, setiap problem akan ada solution, if theres will theres way rite
tpi nmpak mcm dia dah give up...
kalau boleh sy nk jadi seorang kwn untuk dia, yg dia boleh share problem and all ..
tapi bila tanpa sedar hadir perasaan ni dlm hati sy, salah ke sy?
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org2 tua kata kalo rindu pd si dia, dpt tgk bumbung umah pun jadi la kan.... aku dulu kalo rindu kat si dia, aku ajak kwn2 teman pi ziarah kubur dia je la... tp sebulan sekali je la aku pi sbb bukan dekat umah aku dgn kg dia.. doa kat dia mmg x stop.. redha kami xde jodoh... tapi x bermakna senang nak lupa gitu je... time heals the wound but the scar still remain... even husband aku skrg ni pun tau kisah aku dgn dia.. cuma aku x dpt penuhkan hajat ex-bakal MIL aku utk bawa husband dan anak2 aku ke rumah dia lagi... |
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kalo i, i akan salahkan diri sendiri..
sebab pompan ni terlalu mudah percaya, lembut hati sangat
so, sbb tu u should jgn berharap too much
nnt at the end u yang kecewa..
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makkenits replied at 21-9-2015 12:47 PM
org2 tua kata kalo rindu pd si dia, dpt tgk bumbung umah pun jadi la kan.... aku dulu kalo rindu kat ...
Yg ni my ex pernah buat bila dia rindu me.he was the best man I've ever met but day by day I think we didn't deserve each other.mungkin Allah pisahkan kami skrg sbb nak satukan kami balik or mungkin jugak nak kami perbaiki diri msg2 untuk future husband/wife yg lebih baik for one another.yela kalau kami bersatu balik skrg doesn't mean anything pun sbb keadaan me skrg,I'm not ready for a marriage yet even my intention to love someone sbb nak bwk relationship tu kepada perkahwinan bukan sekadar nak berteman ada tmpt suka duka.no,not like that.me doakan yg terbaik untuk tt n forumer kat sini |
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makkenits replied at 21-9-2015 12:47 PM
org2 tua kata kalo rindu pd si dia, dpt tgk bumbung umah pun jadi la kan.... aku dulu kalo rindu kat ...
But still your husband now yg terbaik untuk you kan? |
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Hmm kalau dia tak start dulu biarkan dia. Kekadang ada phase kita kena move on gitchew |
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Edited by mbhcsf at 21-9-2015 06:50 PM
sebab you are lonely dan you want to belong to someone
okay - so keadaan sekarang ni tak certain kan?
so - ini terpulang ye pada awak macam mana nak set your feeling tu an appropriate level and to have the right perspective of the 'situation' tapi saya SYORKAN : PROTECT yourself!!! protect and protect YOURSELF - emotionally. seorang warga Adam yg bersikap 'acuh tak acuh' tidak perlu berbuat sesuatu yg fizikal terhadap anda tetapi hanya cukup untuk si DIA menyentuh EMOSI u,
in this case , i think i cadangkan - you reset your mind with REALITY CHECK POINTS
you have to ask yourself and DIA ( ni within reasonable time frame )
a) who are you to him
b) where are we now
c) where do we go from here
d) did he after awhile mention your presence in his life to hisfriends or anyone yg he thinks significant???- dia hanya jumpa okay is there anything else yg konkrit ???? atau you bak bagi dia masa ....space to sort himself out....TAPI u jaga hati you jgn letak HARAPAN , yg susahnya wanita ni bila suka dia ada harapan walaupun sekelumit ....ni yg agak 'risky' - kalau saya belum berakad , jgn letak apa apa pun kepercayaan , protect yourself ....please protect yourself
kalau NO , NO , No and NO...well sila have the courage and maafkan dia dan angkat diri
kalau u nak bagi masa ....just JANGAN LETAKKAN APA APA HARAPAN UNTIL SOALAN di atas terjawab dan ada BUKTI PERBUATAN KONKRIT
u know...dalam dunia ni ada banyak jenis lelaki...ada yg zalim tanpa depa sedar depa zalimpada makhluk Alalh yg lain - and i seen this happened to my lady friends yg bebaik dan bagus bagus , just there are there to be unjust to others , to be a liar and they can wear many masks...
so careful DOA BEBANYAK
sebab tuuu lah saya suruh anda letak perasaan sekadarnya...jgn rasa nak letak harapan just distract yourself with something else
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kalau just kawan , any tom , dick and harry yg chat dengan you , you tak akan rindu....kan? u know the limit the feeling in deep of your qalb tu kan
kalau dah macam ni ..i gather you are in love....awak dibuai buai perasaan itu
yes it is a nice feeling but please JANGAN LUPA allah...
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nko ni pun satu. jgn layan sangat perasaan. cuba lah nko cari / buat aktiviti .. menanam ke, gi berjogging, makan angin, bersukan, memancing, apa saja aktiviti luar yg positif.. ni asyik duk sekodeng dia. cukup lah tu dan jgn kacau lagi.
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Tt tengok je lah katgoogle View atap tumah dia. Semoga hilang rindu
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 20-9-2015 11:15 PM
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