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Ivandrago166 posted on 23-3-2013 10:40 AM 
Hi semua,
Dia sudah balik. Tapi dia tak on handphone dia. Dia on twitter je. Saye tak sure kalau ...
that's a good start.... congrats
next step.... do an open discussion, like how are u, how was ur holidays, etc....... that should be able to get her to talk normal with u... skip the part about sorry or about ur relationship or attitude.... oncee the chatting has become more smoother then maybe u can talk about that.. most importantly get her to become ur friend again
just my opinion... may not be right
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winsonyu posted on 23-3-2013 10:46 PM
that's a good start.... congrats
next step.... do an open discussion, like how are u, how was ur ...
Ermmm okay? But dont you think the way she email me is like she's saying, "im sorry, I cant accept you or we can no longer be together again"? something like that? Btw i think she have read my email.
Last edited by Ivandrago166 on 24-3-2013 12:02 AM
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Ivandrago166 posted on 23-3-2013 11:59 PM
Ermmm okay? But dont you think the way she email me is like she's saying, "im sorry, I cant accept ...
could be, maybe, dunno...... it's how u interpret it.... 
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winsonyu posted on 24-3-2013 12:09 AM
could be, maybe, dunno...... it's how u interpret it....
Yeah thats why.. I dont know if this means she's okay about me or no more me in her life 
So what do I do now? leave her already?
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Ivandrago166 posted on 23-3-2013 11:59 PM
Ermmm okay? But dont you think the way she email me is like she's saying, "im sorry, I cant accept ...
i've read your problem....
so, have you asked her about the text "happy 23rd march, i'm sorry".
ask her... sorry? what for?
maybe by asking the question directly to her... she will tell you how she really feels.
*i am giving my opinion based on what you told us here... bcoz we don't know your real situation including the content of your email to her*
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Aiira posted on 24-3-2013 02:06 AM
i've read your problem....
so, have you asked her about the text "happy 23rd march, i'm sorry".
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You want me to ask her about it? Err Im not really sure if i should or not 
Anyway, The content of my email to her are all is like, "how are you doing? Hows your exam?" then the other part ill apologize to her sort of things.. the end of the email ill include some quotes. And when she got back, She only reply me "Happy 23rd march, Im sorry."
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Anyway, tmr its her birthday. Im thinking I wanna give her a call tonight, And talk everything about it and then lastly ill wish her a happy birthday. And btw, im sure she thinks I never remember her birthday. So yeah might be a little surprise for her. Umm just one thing, What should I say when i call her later tonight? Please help me out on this  |
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Hello? anyone can help me out here please?? tonight 12midnight Im calling her |
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Ivandrago166 posted on 24-3-2013 11:59 AM
Anyway, tmr its her birthday. Im thinking I wanna give her a call tonight, And talk everything about ...
it's her birthday n u r callg her? is that it? coz if it is, dang!
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Yeah im calling her later at 12midnight to ask about the email she sent me whether she accepted my apology or she cant accept me anymore. So if she cant accept me anymore then thats it, Im gonna leave her alone already. And yeah lastly, Wish for her birthday.
Why?? Is this a bad idea?? what you mean "dang!" ? |
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Ivandrago166 posted on 24-3-2013 09:18 PM
Yeah im calling her later at 12midnight to ask about the email she sent me whether she accepted my a ...
dang=oh dear - u say she's ur gf, n all u r going 2 do is call her?
if she's so special 2 u, then u better treat her special ... if x, just end the dance. imho, ldr dont work ... they may work 4 a while, then everything disintegrates. whats worse 4 u is that u dont hv a rship 2 start with (everything u said implied this) ... n u r geographically apart ... it doesnt bode well for a rship.
another thing that someone mentioned - was it just ur jealous nature or was there sthing that made u feel jealous? rships need work to work out ... but it doesnt need superhuman effort ... if it does ... well, count ur losses, n just let it/her go.
peace 
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missus_meow posted on 25-3-2013 10:17 AM
dang=oh dear - u say she's ur gf, n all u r going 2 do is call her?
if she's so special 2 u, th ...
She didnt pick up the call. instead, We talked on whatsapp.
I asked her about the email she sent, "Im sorry".. she told me that was for scolding me the other time. how do I treat her specially? remember, me and her are far away. Not all LDR may not work can they? some do, and some dont? haha im not sure though.
Ummm someone mentioned about me being jealous? Nope.. It was trust. Not about jealous.
Anyway we talked on whatsapp, I told her I assume we are not getting back together again right. At first, she doubt to say yes or no.. But until i asked her the 3rd time, She said yes what i said is correct. then she said, she want us to be friends like before ( with a sad face) So yeah i said okay then. So here we are again, FRIENDS.
So I guess me and her are not getting back together again right guys?  
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Post time 23-3-2013 10:46 PM
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