Am i making the right decision?

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Assalamualaikum forumers sekalian.

Cah ada satu masalah kalau boleh dikatakan masalah lah, harap forumers sekalian dapat membantu memberi pandangan berkenaan dengan masalah Cah.

Cah ni local law grad. Cah baru habis chambering dan skrg masih belum bekerja. Sebenarnya, lepas habis chambering on 31/5/12, esoknya 1/6 cah terus start kerja dekat office baru sbg legal assistant.  Cah rasa tension pun ada sebab tak sempat nak rehat sekejap pun sedangkan kawan2 semua banyaknya rehat dulu before start kerja baru. So, bila masuk office baru, Cah rasa tak boleh focus kerja, otak rasa tepu gila, badan penat sgtt..Memang pilihan cah sendiri untuk start awal sebab cah rasa cah tak boleh tolak offer ni sbb pada Cah agak susah nak cari kerja skrg ni. Tp bila dah x boleh fokus, Cah decided nak balik kampung, kerja kat sana. Cah tak pernah terpikir pun nak balik keja sana sebab Cah mmg suka stay KL. Cah terus bgtau Bos, Cah nak quit the next day. He said okay tp i knew he quite pissed off w/ me. Cah pun x proud with what i did. Tp Cah x boleh continue lg sebab Cah rasa nak sangat balik kampung.

So, sekarang Cah da packed semua barang2 untuk balik kampung, dah arrange semua except for looking for a job at my hometown tp Cah da tanya2 my friends semua tp belum submit resume lagi pada mana2 firm. Cuma masalahnya sekarang, i dont know whether i made the right decision or not? How to know whether this is the right choice for me? I dont want to regret it sebab it always being my dream to work in KL as there is more opportunity here and higher salary. And sometimes i really dont know what i want in life. Cah ni jenis selalu ada second thought, itu yang masalah nyer. Nanti da sampai kampung, Cah nak pegi KL balik, memang lah bila2 Cah boleh datang KL balik tp buang masa lah Cah beria2 packing, say goodbye to all my friends here...Among the reasons Cah nak balik kampung is Cah nak jaga parents Cah and to improve our relationships.

my dear forumers, what do u think?

AbukRokok

kenapa sebelum nk blik kg sementara keje dlu...xsurvey2 job kat hometown?

cah-cah

sblm ni x terpikir pulak nak kerja kat kampung, bila ada thought nak balik ni, baru la ada cah tanya kwn2 yg kerja kat kg psl kerja...ada jugak call firm2 yg berkenaan...ada yg suh datang interview tp cah nak settlekan hantar balik semua brg2 balik ke kampung baru start cari kerja baru..harap2 dipermudahkan proses pencarian kerja Cah..

jazaa

kalau dah berhenti & nak balik kg...teruskan je lah....Skrg TT kena move on...
Tak besor mana pun masalah TT ni...hati kecik kata nak balik kg nak jaga parents...so, tt buat je lah....dok kg jaga parents sbb kalau TT cari kerja lain kat KL pun, nanti masih teringat-ingat impian yang tak tertunai tu....

Kat kg pun blh cari kerja kan?...nanti kalau dah 5,6 tahun rasa tak sesuai sgt & nak tukar udara ke KL ni, boleh je....tambah lagi dah ada experience....lagi senang tt nak dapatkan kerja nanti.....

donashikun

kerja kt kg?..klu kg tu area bndar ok la. tp klu duk kg kena duk jauh dr umah xde bezanye pn..

otai_g

sory to say, masalah bdk2 hingusan.

ko patutnya teruskan keje kat firm tu unless kalo ko dr famiy kaya yg stok x keje x de hal punya. bleh hidup...

kalo nak kata letih, tu kat luar sana org yg keje buruh kontrak tu lg letih, hati2 keje main panas, x de cuti, gaji lak x seberapa.

din88

bagus la balik jaga mak bapak kat kg.... dapat berkat & jadi anak yg sholeh.... untung2 lagi mak bapak hadiahkan ko tanah barang seekar dua

mushroomsup

hmmm dah resign pun, nak kata apa pun tak bleh dah.. TT balik kg sebab mmg nak jaga mak ayah atau kaverline je sebab malas nak terus keje skang.. bagi aku, kalo dah keje tu, keje jelah betoi2, keja kat memana mmg akan rasa down, letih, kadang2.. tapi kalau mmg TT nak jaga parents, tak perlulah rasa kesal dan teragak2 sampai bukak thread..

xanderz

erm. orang kata kalau ada rezeki tu, pasti dapat juga. so rileks2 kan diri yer. berehat tu boleh, tapi jangan lama sangat.

Aku dulu pun xdela nak rushing sangat mencari kerja.

teky

The decision is yours... da dibuat pun kan.. xper laa balik la dulu duk rehat n lepak2 ngan family.... sambil2 tuh cari la peluang kerja kat kampung halaman.. akan tetapi bile mana kampung halaman xmampu nak bayar gaji...

maka kene tt pindah mungkin negeri lain yang mampu nak bayar gaji tt...

cah-cah

Reply 4# jazaa


    tulah, pikir benda yg sama jugak...balik jelah dulu..kalau tak okay, i can always move back to KL kan, end of story... thanks yeah!

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Reply 5# donashikun


    Sungai Petani kira bandar x?

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Reply 10# teky


    Kann, dah resign da pun, tengah rehat & sesambil tu plan my career journey..starting salary kat kg is not as handsome as in KL tp i'll, InsyaAllah..cuma kena adjust sikit cara spending sy tu... thanks naa 4 the advice.

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Reply 9# xanderz


    skrg tgh positive thinking dlm proses mencari kerja...lepas rehat a few days, dah boleh fokus sikit...tak plan nak rehat lama2, rasa cm loser sikit bila menganggur lama2...sy rushing cari kerja bila tgk kawan2 dh dpt tmpt baru..huhu..thanks xanderz for ur response!

airmineral

kalo niat utk family, i'Allah dipermudahkan.

cah-cah

Thanks uolsss for ze opinion..xlama lepas balik kg, sy dapat kerja, dah 6 bulan kerja pun..Alhamdulillah..tersangatlah happy..dan most importantly, no regrets.

amirul_nazri

One of my biggest mistake in my life is when I decide to work in KL earlier those days..be oz of nk jd wargakota la sgt, now everyday I trapped in traffic chaos every working day..stressssssssssss

I wish I cam work at peacefull area, like my hometown....

Good decision cah....good

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amirul_nazri posted on 29-12-2012 05:25 PM
One of my biggest mistake in my life is when I decide to work in KL earlier those days..be oz of nk  ...

at 1st, sy pun nak kerja kt KL..urban life la sgt...my previous office dekat jln raja laut..seronok duduk KL..semuanya ada n dekat...tp dah tertulis sy akan balik kg...here i am, in sg. petani...SP skrg pun dah developed.

Amirul, i think u shouldn't consider ur decision to work in kl as a mistake..sy rasa apart from traffic jammed, everything else is not bad kan...mana2 tempat pun ada good and bad-nye.  

cah-cah

Lupa pulak pernah bukak thread kat sini, hahaha, sooo true masalah BBNU sangat...thank you korang yang bg komen...masa buka thread ni, xde kerja sgt tu yg boleh mengarang panjang..looking back, my life would be different for sure if i stay in KL. But of all thing i would like to change, this is NOT one of it.   

Cah now dh buka firm sendiri, something that might not happen if i stay in KL.  Every single path yang kita lalui contributes to who we are today. For this, i love quote from Steve Jobs, “You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever.

makbedah

Cah , just read your post! Bagus nya knowing that somehow you made it this far. I pun grad law juga lagi lah tak nak practice(I tak boleh lah life macam tu n I am not that good) and I always tell myself to always trust my instincts no matter what. Good for you to follow your instincts!